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sellitman

(11,708 posts)
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:05 PM Nov 2024

I was just with my very Liberal family for Thanksgiving in Massachusetts.

5 of us. I'm the oldest. I have two brothers and two sisters.

None of us could discuss politics.

I'm wondering if we all have PTSD?

I feel like the whole sane population of the US does.



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I was just with my very Liberal family for Thanksgiving in Massachusetts. (Original Post) sellitman Nov 2024 OP
Same here, all libs, not much political talk, everything but. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #1
Same here WiVoter Nov 2024 #9
Talking about how to make our communities stronger right now is vital. There's no better time to organize. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2024 #2
Absolutely. Seeing it locally, and weekly. bucolic_frolic Nov 2024 #3
Yes Cirsium Nov 2024 #22
Although I am truly shell-shocked... Trueblue Texan Nov 2024 #28
Yes. It's why MSNBCs ratings tanked right after the election. CrispyQ Nov 2024 #4
I think a lot of the US has PTSD BigmanPigman Nov 2024 #13
I agree Cirsium Nov 2024 #23
I'm certain you're right. soldierant Nov 2024 #29
I have not heard much from my friends Meowmee Nov 2024 #5
We were with 12, none even close to being a MAGAt. Abolishinist Nov 2024 #6
Just had a family dinner out Nictuku Nov 2024 #8
My latest insight is about facts. SleeplessinSoCal Nov 2024 #7
K&R spanone Nov 2024 #10
Put on the movie "Dave". It gives me hope. LT Barclay Nov 2024 #11
Same. YodaMom2 Nov 2024 #12
i think so. barbtries Nov 2024 #14
I was at Thanksgiving with three other families Prairie Gates Nov 2024 #15
Rule in the house when it comes to meals sakabatou Nov 2024 #16
We all are on the same page. sellitman Nov 2024 #17
Why ruin a beautiful meal? stollen Nov 2024 #18
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2024 #19
MAGA-vellian? Thanks for the heads-up! JoseBalow Nov 2024 #21
I missed it 😂 NT Tickle Dec 2024 #34
Class action lawsuit for 9 years of abusive actions. Sad part is, he was just warming up. He wants to destroy us. n/t Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #20
This is a big deal KT2000 Nov 2024 #24
Yes, I agree sellitman Dec 2024 #35
Had all four of our kids and a few grown grandkids, all democrats 70sEraVet Nov 2024 #25
People that care, are taking a break. Been on DU from, I guess, early on. OAITW r.2.0 Nov 2024 #26
I definitely have PTSD. Different Drummer Nov 2024 #27
Yes, PTSD, post election wendyb-NC Dec 2024 #30
It was pretty much the same at our Thanksgiving. GoodRaisin Dec 2024 #31
Same with my very liberal family in Texas. (nt) Paladin Dec 2024 #32
I think it will take around spring or summer next year JI7 Dec 2024 #33

Clouds Passing

(5,393 posts)
1. Same here, all libs, not much political talk, everything but.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:12 PM
Nov 2024

Delicious food, beautiful table, excellent company, It was delightfully pleasant and fun

WhiskeyGrinder

(25,286 posts)
2. Talking about how to make our communities stronger right now is vital. There's no better time to organize.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:16 PM
Nov 2024

Trueblue Texan

(3,467 posts)
28. Although I am truly shell-shocked...
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:53 PM
Nov 2024

…I did accept the position of secretary for the county Dem party. I don’t even know how to begin to breathe political air again, even after being a lifelong dem. Stepping blindly into the future…at least that’s how it feels as this world now seems completely foreign to me.

soldierant

(8,728 posts)
29. I'm certain you're right.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 10:21 PM
Nov 2024

Armed combat is not necessary to give someone PTSD. Of course with unarmed combat the symtoms are different - which is a good thing. There is never a time when it would be good for the country for a bunch of liberals to shoot themselves.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
5. I have not heard much from my friends
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:27 PM
Nov 2024

Usual emails from one, but he doesn’t always reply right away and he’s a lot older. And an email from another just sent the borowitz explanation of how psycho could win again or something like that. I have not heard back from her thoughts. But she’s not really good at replying to emails so I have to call her. Otherwise it’s just me and my brother and we have talked about various things and my cats of course who I talk to, but I’m trying to keep them calm because me being upset does not help them.

Abolishinist

(2,641 posts)
6. We were with 12, none even close to being a MAGAt.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:50 PM
Nov 2024

Interesting, I never thought about it until you brought this up, but except for one comment by yours truly, politics was never brought up!

We were all enjoying the moment, why downgrade it with such.

So except for moi, COOL!

Nictuku

(4,280 posts)
8. Just had a family dinner out
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:09 AM
Nov 2024

Kind of a rare thing. Not for Thanksgiving, but for my mom's (our Matriarch) Birthday. We are all basically Liberals.

Me, Mom and my Cousin talk politics all the time, but at this dinner with his 2 boys (and their girlfriends)... we all abstained from politics.

For me it was kind of weird. I have this sarcastic inside voice constantly going on about (doom gloom TSF, etc) that I had to make sure didn't come out. It would ruin things for everyone else, who seemed to be having a marvelous time.

Edit to add: That sure does make me look at myself.... maybe I am making myself miserable with all these politics. I feel weary of it all.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,176 posts)
7. My latest insight is about facts.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:53 PM
Nov 2024

When Vance said "no fact checking" during his debate, we learned that debates are meaningless. And that goes for discussion. BS is no way to run the world.

YodaMom2

(94 posts)
12. Same.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:31 AM
Nov 2024

Two very progressive siblings, plus nieces and nephews, and conservative but T***p-hating parents. We agreed up front that politics would not be discussed. The closest we came to a political discussion was comparing the severity of our insomnia since election night.

barbtries

(30,580 posts)
14. i think so.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:06 AM
Nov 2024

have for some time. on the right, i think it's mass sociopathy. We're a sick nation and I blame, primarily, republicans.

Prairie Gates

(5,645 posts)
15. I was at Thanksgiving with three other families
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:09 AM
Nov 2024

Not a single person there had watched a minute of news since November 6. We were all talking about our other activities: reading novels, watching shows and documentaries, various exercises and hobbies, travel.

People are fucking done with it.

sellitman

(11,708 posts)
17. We all are on the same page.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:28 PM
Nov 2024

There were 14 adults and young adults all of voting age.

We are all politically minded. This was the first Thanksgiving where no one wanted to " go there".

Response to sellitman (Original post)

JoseBalow

(7,897 posts)
21. MAGA-vellian? Thanks for the heads-up!
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:31 PM
Nov 2024

Would you like to pre-order your pizza now, or wait until later?

Evolve Dammit

(20,997 posts)
20. Class action lawsuit for 9 years of abusive actions. Sad part is, he was just warming up. He wants to destroy us. n/t
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:25 PM
Nov 2024

KT2000

(21,612 posts)
24. This is a big deal
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:08 PM
Nov 2024

and we are dealing with a shift within ourselves. How could half the population of this country have such different values? I don't know about you, but I thought we all shared basic values. Now we know that so many think so differently - and with such hate.

70sEraVet

(4,679 posts)
25. Had all four of our kids and a few grown grandkids, all democrats
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:34 PM
Nov 2024

All HATE Trump.
I told my wife before they all came, that I wanted to get all of the Harris/Walz signs, as well as the Biden/Harris signs out of the shed and put the around the dining room. We could make believe, in just that room, that Kamala won the election!
Wife said no.

OAITW r.2.0

(30,464 posts)
26. People that care, are taking a break. Been on DU from, I guess, early on.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:47 PM
Nov 2024

Losing to Bush/Cheney sucked and blew up the ME. Project for a New American Century:.

Now it's Project 2025. Will this be the future? IDFK.

wendyb-NC

(4,402 posts)
30. Yes, PTSD, post election
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 12:04 AM
Dec 2024

I don't dwell on the loss on November 5th, and can take news only in short increments and not every day.

GoodRaisin

(10,323 posts)
31. It was pretty much the same at our Thanksgiving.
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 04:23 AM
Dec 2024

We’re all liberals and all still in a state of shock I guess. I know none of us want to talk about Trump. We’ve had our fill of him.

JI7

(92,309 posts)
33. I think it will take around spring or summer next year
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 07:07 AM
Dec 2024

before we can really start to discuss things again.

I think it's also best to focus on ourselves and doing what you need to make life easier for you.

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