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PCIntern

(27,397 posts)
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 04:41 AM 17 hrs ago

I awakened early, smiling grimly to myself...

Last edited Sun Jun 15, 2025, 08:38 AM - Edit history (1)

The incident of the lack of attendance of the parade in Washington reminded me of something which happened many years ago.

One Sunday afternoon, in the heat of August, I received a phone call from a gentleman whom I barely knew who had never called me in his life. After the initial pleasantries, he asked me if I knew of a certain dentist who had died. I replied that I had, and yes, I did know him as a fellow faculty member and former professor of mine. The gentleman went on to state that the funeral was going to be held at my synagogue in the suburbs, and that he was coordinating the event.

I was puzzled. I asked him why it was being moved from the decedents synagogue in Center City Philadelphia to the Main Line and I was told that they were expecting a crowd of well over 1000 and that the Center City synagogues could not accommodate such a crowd. I had to control myself and asked seriously why anyone would think that in the middle of August, a vacation month, 1000 people would show up for a memorial service for this guy. My newfound friend replied that this man was so prominent, so famous, and so well regarded and loved by so many that there would be this enormous, unprecedented outpouring of respect and grief for his loss, so he had been told.

I thought to myself: a bigger, bloviating, self-important, loudmouth bastard who was arbitrarily mean, vindictive, and phony-erudite had not existed in my sphere ever, and it was kind of a relief that he was gone, because periodically he would show up at continuing education seminars, and pontificate endlessly about why the speaker was completely wrong about a subject of which he or she were a recognized expert and grossly and pathetically misinformed. In addition, he once had the temerity of literally poking my chest rather violently with his finger when he was upset with something I had said about somebody which everyone knew to be true, and I told him that technically that was assault and was he going to try for battery? We were not on speaking terms after that.

Of course, I didn’t mention any of this and asked what the reason was for the call. The fellow congregant asked me then if I would help coordinate since I would certainly be coming to the event. My response was, I had no intention of coming to this event, that this was a manifestation of this guy’s egocentrism, that even after his death, that this many people would care or wish to pay homage and good luck in your endeavor, it’s been nice talking to you, goodbye.

I think fewer than 200 people showed up for the memorial service and they didn’t need the parking attendants, the God-knows how many programs which were printed up, and it must’ve been frightening to sit in that enormous sanctuary with 1400 or 1500 empty seats and listen to endless half-truths about what a great man this guy was. Of course, they could’ve moved it to a smaller chapel in the same synagogue, but that would’ve been “disrespectful to his memory”… I can hear the conversation in my head right now.

For anyone to have mass adulation, he or she must need have given positives to individuals, to the community, and to history, whether that history of world or national importance or that of the local community . For all the votes that Trump (claims to have) received, what he actually brings to the table is a vindication of racism, greed, egocentrism, arrogance, and lest we never forget, “dating“ beautiful women, among other “”attributes”. The vast number of people are not going to drive 500 miles or more to pay homage to that, even if they passively agree with the “philosophy“. That is why the parade attendance was so low, and that he will have to get the White House mess to replenish the Heinz ketchup for Monday.

And that’s the way it is….Sunday, 4:38 in the morning.

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I awakened early, smiling grimly to myself... (Original Post) PCIntern 17 hrs ago OP
Post removed Post removed 17 hrs ago #1
Well, subtlety isn't for everyone. PCIntern 17 hrs ago #2
Enjoyed this post. It's true. johnnyfins 17 hrs ago #3
Thank you and exactly, re: the materiel... PCIntern 16 hrs ago #4
I guess we will find out. Some sleuth johnnyfins 15 hrs ago #9
A very interesting story Easterncedar 16 hrs ago #5
Once again. Duncanpup 16 hrs ago #6
There are funerals where every word spoken is a lie. madaboutharry 16 hrs ago #7
yes, sounds like the classic narcissist Skittles 16 hrs ago #8
Expect some lashing out on Troth Senchel johnnyfins 15 hrs ago #10
I have to add this Skittles 4 hrs ago #14
This is a harbinger of his own funeral- low attendance; nobody cares; and a wife who'd rather be elsewhere. NBachers 14 hrs ago #11
They're gonna require a 24/7 guard in perpetuity. PCIntern 10 hrs ago #13
I'm going to TACOs going away party. I want to be sure he's in the box and that he stays in the box ... marble falls 12 hrs ago #12

Response to PCIntern (Original post)

johnnyfins

(2,251 posts)
3. Enjoyed this post. It's true.
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 05:05 AM
17 hrs ago

TSF can't expect adulation when all he puts out into the world is negative, phony, crap.

While I am glad to see that his birthday parade didn't live up to the hype, I will be even happier when I see videos of all of that materiel heading back to Texas. I'm still not convinced that it is.

PCIntern

(27,397 posts)
4. Thank you and exactly, re: the materiel...
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 05:11 AM
16 hrs ago

I would be willing to bet that there has been some discussion as to whether they should ring the city with the tanks to warn the “dissidents”.

johnnyfins

(2,251 posts)
9. I guess we will find out. Some sleuth
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 06:39 AM
15 hrs ago

will post pics if all this hardware is sitting in a railyard on standbay, a week from now.

madaboutharry

(41,961 posts)
7. There are funerals where every word spoken is a lie.
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 05:45 AM
16 hrs ago

We have all been to at least one like that. It would be so refreshing if people could just be honest when it came to the dead.
I want to go to a funeral where someone is brave enough to get up and say “ He was a rotten son-of-a- bitch and a big cheapskate!”

Skittles

(164,941 posts)
8. yes, sounds like the classic narcissist
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 05:50 AM
16 hrs ago

the entire world revolves around them - I'm not sure they can even understand the reality of what people really think of them

Trump goes off when things don't go well - who knows who will be his next target - Greenland maybe? I still cannot believe how many stupid assholes voted for that fascist ass clown.

johnnyfins

(2,251 posts)
10. Expect some lashing out on Troth Senchel
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 06:43 AM
15 hrs ago

within 48hrs. The crowd size thing REALLY bothers him.

2 things.

1) Melania looked like she was trying not to laugh.

2) Wtf was with the Ghoul(Kristi Noem) and the giant black aviators? The tough girl cosplay is ridiculous...

Skittles

(164,941 posts)
14. I have to add this
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 05:51 PM
4 hrs ago

FUCK Melania, she is as disgusting as Trump, completely WORTHLESS

Kristi is yet another narcissist - her thing is she REALLY WANTS TO BE ON TV....she is pathetic beyond belief

NBachers

(18,612 posts)
11. This is a harbinger of his own funeral- low attendance; nobody cares; and a wife who'd rather be elsewhere.
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 07:42 AM
14 hrs ago

PCIntern

(27,397 posts)
13. They're gonna require a 24/7 guard in perpetuity.
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 11:40 AM
10 hrs ago

Tho perhaps it’ll be at the First Tee of Bedminster

marble falls

(66,043 posts)
12. I'm going to TACOs going away party. I want to be sure he's in the box and that he stays in the box ...
Sun Jun 15, 2025, 09:07 AM
12 hrs ago

... But I am with you. I am not going to attend anyone's memorial that I don't already have a memorial for in my mind. I leave the hypocrisy to others.

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