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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 07:10 AM Dec 2012

Trading Sex for a "F--cking Happy Meal?" Mom Can't Get Food Stamps After Drug Offense,

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Trading Sex for a "F--cking Happy Meal?" Mom Can't Get Food Stamps After Drug Offense, Resorts to Prostitution to Feed her Kids



Carla walked into my office with despair in her eyes. I was surprised. Carla has been doing well in her four months out of prison; she got off drugs, regained custody of her kids, and even enrolled in a local community college.

Without much prodding she admitted to me that she had retuned to prostitution: “I am putting myself at risk for HIV to get my kids a f---ing happy meal.”

Despite looking high and low for a job, Carla explained, she was still unemployed. Most entry-level jobs felt out of reach with her drug record, but what’s worse, even the state wasn’t willing to throw her a temporary life preserver.

You see, Carla is from one of the 32 states in the country that ban anyone convicted of a drug felony from collecting food stamps. With the release of the Global Burden of Disease Study last week, it bears looking at how we are perpetuating burdens among the most vulnerable Americans with our outdated laws.
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Trading Sex for a "F--cking Happy Meal?" Mom Can't Get Food Stamps After Drug Offense, (Original Post) xchrom Dec 2012 OP
kr. so you can't get work, can't get food. such a safety net. her kids will eventually be taken HiPointDem Dec 2012 #1
horrifying eShirl Dec 2012 #2
k & r! nt wildbilln864 Dec 2012 #3
Yeah, but you have to look at the flip side. Rich people still need to get richer. valerief Dec 2012 #4
Social Darwinism another_liberal Dec 2012 #5
The wealth addicted in this country will stomp on anything and everything to get their drug. Initech Dec 2012 #25
I'm sure none of those rich people ever do illegal drugs. nt freedom fighter jh Dec 2012 #8
It's not illegal if you're rich. nt valerief Dec 2012 #11
The "dead-beat Dads" bill does the same thing ewagner Dec 2012 #6
Don't forget that some have their drivers license suspended blueamy66 Dec 2012 #15
Plus if the mother is on welfare hootinholler Dec 2012 #18
I am a County Board Supervisor... ewagner Dec 2012 #19
Another war casualty The Wizard Dec 2012 #7
She wouldn't have that problem if she had just killed someone with a gun Fumesucker Dec 2012 #9
Guns are good, Drugs are bad. /sarcasm RC Dec 2012 #13
Makes me want to cry Whovian Dec 2012 #10
What kind of third world country is this kind of horror happening in? - Oh Wait. AnnieK401 Dec 2012 #12
Funny that this has been how it is for ... 99Forever Dec 2012 #14
We really need to purge the last vestiges of Reaganism from our country. Zorra Dec 2012 #16
I thought only the offender was banned, not dependents sammytko Dec 2012 #17
The lack of food will motivate her to be a better person. woo me with science Dec 2012 #20
Felons don't need to eat? thesquanderer Dec 2012 #21
We know someone in a similar situation DavidDvorkin Dec 2012 #22
It is ... it's a deeply flawed system designed to make those disadvantaged even RKP5637 Dec 2012 #29
she is just really really horney.... seabeyond Dec 2012 #23
She's obviously *empowered* by her sexuality. MadrasT Dec 2012 #31
me, too. seabeyond Dec 2012 #32
This is a warped country. marmar Dec 2012 #24
I've heard Obama say that we are the envy of the World. SammyWinstonJack Dec 2012 #34
But ain't America just a fucken great place! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2012 #26
I told everyone from the very first time i heard about this proposal that it was the CHILDREN who Ghost in the Machine Dec 2012 #27
TPTB want all felons dead, apparently. Because that's what kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #28
How to create a permanant underclass, by The US Congress. Available now. geckosfeet Dec 2012 #30
Maybe the Maya really did predict the end of the world 'cause this sounds like it. Kennah Dec 2012 #33
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
1. kr. so you can't get work, can't get food. such a safety net. her kids will eventually be taken
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 07:47 AM
Dec 2012

from her, one way or another. likely adding to her sense of failure and dismotivation.

i'd use drugs too, with things stacked against me like that. i'm not sure what people are supposed to do. their only hope is to get lucky with an employer willing to overlook her record. pretty much eliminates corporate employers.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
4. Yeah, but you have to look at the flip side. Rich people still need to get richer.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 09:40 AM
Dec 2012

In America, we know which side tips the scales. So Carla *must* do without.

Initech

(100,080 posts)
25. The wealth addicted in this country will stomp on anything and everything to get their drug.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:32 PM
Dec 2012

And just like any other addict they can't get enough.

ewagner

(18,964 posts)
6. The "dead-beat Dads" bill does the same thing
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:00 AM
Dec 2012

It criminalizes failure to pay...puts them in jail..gives them a police record...makes them unemployable and the cycle goes on.

It's disgusting

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
15. Don't forget that some have their drivers license suspended
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:31 AM
Dec 2012

therefore making it harder to get to a job.

Too many stupid laws in this country...

hootinholler

(26,449 posts)
18. Plus if the mother is on welfare
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 11:39 AM
Dec 2012

The child support is taken to offset the aid paid by the state, even if it is more than the aid. The problem is that other forms of assistance require welfare to qualify. My sister was trapped in this position while going to school via pell grants as a single mom.

ewagner

(18,964 posts)
19. I am a County Board Supervisor...
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 12:14 PM
Dec 2012

I have brought this up time and again in committee and time and again, I have been ignored.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
9. She wouldn't have that problem if she had just killed someone with a gun
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:03 AM
Dec 2012

It's only drug convictions that disallow help.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
13. Guns are good, Drugs are bad. /sarcasm
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:16 AM
Dec 2012

All the other countries have come up with workable solutions for the underprivileged. But we, with our "Not invented here" refuse to do the obvious, because... Well it wasn't our idea. Low gun crimes, Universal Health care, to name two biggies.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
14. Funny that this has been how it is for ...
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:18 AM
Dec 2012

.. a very long time, yet it seems to come as a surprise to many people.

American has become a heartless shithole, run by the new royalty.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
16. We really need to purge the last vestiges of Reaganism from our country.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:36 AM
Dec 2012

Poor Carla and her kids.

sammytko

(2,480 posts)
17. I thought only the offender was banned, not dependents
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 11:14 AM
Dec 2012

The kids are still allowed their stipend, but probably have to be handled by someone else.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
20. The lack of food will motivate her to be a better person.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 12:16 PM
Dec 2012

I guess it works for children, too, or they wouldn't be doing it.

thesquanderer

(11,989 posts)
21. Felons don't need to eat?
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 09:26 PM
Dec 2012

They give you food in prison. How they can they deny you the ability to get it once you get out? Basic human needs should have nothing to do with your past. And supposedly, this is after you've paid your debt to society, besides!

DavidDvorkin

(19,479 posts)
22. We know someone in a similar situation
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 09:45 PM
Dec 2012

My wife and I were talking about her tonight.

It strikes me that the system is designed to destroy people, not rehabilitate them.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
29. It is ... it's a deeply flawed system designed to make those disadvantaged even
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:46 PM
Dec 2012

more disadvantaged. And worse, the system works to make even more people disadvantaged. Fall through the cracks and one is in the trash heap, and the plow is working to push even more people through the cracks.

And also some wonder why so many elderly drink so much or are on drugs. There's a delight in USA, Incorporated, my country right or wrong, in seeing people fail, I think. It's the capitalistic way. Money first, greed first and enjoy watching others fail because for some it feels so good.


 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
23. she is just really really horney....
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 09:48 PM
Dec 2012

really. that is what i am told. it is all cool. right?

ya.....

i am being really snotty. i am all on this womans side... for those that dont know.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
31. She's obviously *empowered* by her sexuality.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 11:05 PM
Dec 2012


(That sarcasm thingy isn't dripping nearly enough.)

It's her free choice, right? That's what we're told right here on DU.



We live in a fucked up world and this stuff depressed the crap out of me.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
32. me, too.
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 11:19 PM
Dec 2012




it is why i am reduced tho this.... images. cause the life i live and what i read on du come no where close.



Ghost in the Machine

(14,912 posts)
27. I told everyone from the very first time i heard about this proposal that it was the CHILDREN who
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:38 PM
Dec 2012

would suffer the most from this bullshit. It needs to be ruled unconstitutional by the Supreme Court...

Stop the madness NOW!

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
28. TPTB want all felons dead, apparently. Because that's what
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 10:43 PM
Dec 2012

fate awaits them if, AFTER PAYING THEIR DEBT TO SOCIETY, they still are not able to find a job, keep a roof over their head and food on their table, etc etc.

Why don't we just admit what we want for felons - we want them all to receive the death penalty.

Kennah

(14,273 posts)
33. Maybe the Maya really did predict the end of the world 'cause this sounds like it.
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 04:38 AM
Dec 2012

It is almost as though we have instituted laws against "Mortal Sins".

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