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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 01:08 AM Dec 2012

College student gets stalking protection order against parents

Talk about a dysfunctional family. LOL

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In an unusual case, the senior studying music theater at the University of Cincinnati College-Conservatory of Music won a stalking protection order against her mother, Julie, and father, David Ireland.

Aubrey convinced a Cincinnati judge that her parents have been harassing her. Among her complaints: that they often drove to the school, unannounced, and have accused her wrongly of promiscuity, using illegal drugs and suffering from mental problems.

The Kansas City Star attempted to reach Aubrey and her parents on Thursday. Calls and e-mails were not returned.

The Irelands reportedly admitted in court that they installed monitoring software on their daughter’s laptop and cellphone, which Aubrey likened to being like “a dog with a collar on.”

“It’s just been really embarrassing and upsetting to have my parents come to my university when I’m a grown adult and just basically slander my name and follow me around,” Aubrey said in an Oct. 9 court hearing, according to the Cincinnati Enquirer.

She told the court that she asked her parents to stop. The Irelands reportedly also told her college administrators they could take her to court for mental evaluations. David Ireland was particularly worried for his daughter “because of my family history of mental health,” noting cousins who had committed suicide, he said in court documents.


Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/2012/12/27/3984339/college-student-from-leawood-gets.html#storylink=cpy
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College student gets stalking protection order against parents (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 OP
Good for her. darkangel218 Dec 2012 #1
It's really kind of a sad story. The parents just sound over-obsessed with her. TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #2
These parents are cuckoo for cocoa nuts, liberalhistorian Dec 2012 #3
There is a lot of missing info in this story. madaboutharry Dec 2012 #4
This says it all: colorado_ufo Dec 2012 #5
Sounds like the parents should get themselves checked Confusious Dec 2012 #6
Sounds like the parents in their family historically defacto7 Dec 2012 #8
Dirty Pillows! Dirty Pillows! Warren DeMontague Dec 2012 #7
She must be very talented and a great student for exboyfil Dec 2012 #9
She seems to be a good kid and her parents need counseling Blasphemer Dec 2012 #10
crazy parents. Good for Aubrey Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #11
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
1. Good for her.
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 01:13 AM
Dec 2012

I'm glad the judge had some sense and granted her the protection order. "Monitoring software on her laptop and cell"?? Wtf...the parents need help.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
2. It's really kind of a sad story. The parents just sound over-obsessed with her.
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 01:17 AM
Dec 2012

She's 21, for chrissakes. LET GO!!!

liberalhistorian

(20,818 posts)
3. These parents are cuckoo for cocoa nuts,
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 01:20 AM
Dec 2012

and I'm very glad she was able to get the restraining order. I get the feeling that the main problems are that they don't like or approve of her course of study, and they can't handle the fact that she's no longer a little kid under their control and can make her own decisions and live her own life. The parents are the ones who need the mental health evaluations, not her.

madaboutharry

(40,212 posts)
4. There is a lot of missing info in this story.
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 01:27 AM
Dec 2012

There is something really wrong with these parents and a backstory we don't know, IMHO.

colorado_ufo

(5,734 posts)
5. This says it all:
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 03:40 AM
Dec 2012

"David Ireland was particularly worried for his daughter “because of my family history of mental health,” . . . " The problem is his and his wife's, not the daughter's.


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defacto7

(13,485 posts)
8. Sounds like the parents in their family historically
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 04:07 AM
Dec 2012

and routinely drive their kids insane. Anyone hear any helicopters?

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
9. She must be very talented and a great student for
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 04:47 AM
Dec 2012

the school to step up with a scholarship her senior year after her parents cut her off.

Blasphemer

(3,261 posts)
10. She seems to be a good kid and her parents need counseling
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 05:03 AM
Dec 2012

They raised a woman who used every available resource to protect herself from harassment. They should be proud. They can use the money they saved on her last year of school on therapy.

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