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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsKanye West takes out full page ad in the Wall Street Journal to apologize
Saying I am sorry, does not absolve you. People you hurt do not have to accept your apology. He has hurt so many with his actions and words.
Time will tell if he is being sincere.
I have always believed that his mental illness and substance abuse played a role in his behavior, along with people that wanted to take advantage of his illness. Looking at Candace and all the other grifters.
It does not excuse what he did. I straddle both sides of the fence as a mental health provider and having people I love with Bipolar disorder. Mania can be very ugly.
It is important though that he does the work to repair the harm he caused - as best as that can be done. Time will tell if he is being sincere here or not.
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As you probably know by now, Ye has made headlines over the past decade for a myriad of dastardly posts and antics. Whether he was spewing his opinion that slavery was a choice, cozying up to President Donald Trump and the MAGA crowd, promoting anti-Semitism or some other bizarre and off-putting thingits clear that the rapper who many once viewed as a breath of fresh air in the hip-hop industry had turned into nothing more than a stale odor in music and pop culture at-large.
But now, it looks as if all of that may be behind him as evidenced by a new full-page ad published in the Wall Street Journal on Monday. In it, the Through the Wire rapper formally apologized to those hes hurt for his past behavior and rhetoric over the years. Specifically, he pointed to that infamous car crash he was injured in in October 2002 as the impetus behind his ongoing mental health issues and subsequent bipolar disorder diagnosis.
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Ye said. Bipolar disorder comes with its own defense system. Denial. When youre manic, you dont think youre sick. You think everyone else is overreacting. You feel like youre seeing the world more clearly than ever, when in reality youre losing your grip entirely.
He went on to say that one of the scariest things about being manic bipolar is the fact that it persuades you to think that youre the one thats normal and that its everyone else who needs help. Ye then admitted to losing touch with reality and thusly, treating people he loved and others poorly.
I lost touch with reality. Things got worse the longer I ignored the problem. I said and did things I deeply regret. Some of the people I love the most, I treated the worst. You endured fear, confusion, humiliation, and the exhaustion of trying to love someone who was, at times, unrecognizable. Looking back, I became detached from my true self, he explained.
Then, the Gold Digger rapper touched on the subject of his anti-Semitism, swastika embracement, and admitted to the error of his ways and said that he loves Jewish people. He also then apologized to the Black community and made and concluded by acknowledging that while hes a on a path to finding a new baseline, he knows he has to earn back public trust.
To the black community which held me down through all of the highs and lows and the darkest of times. The black community is, unquestionably, the foundation of who I am. I am so sorry to have let you down. I love us, Ye wrote.
He concluded: My words as a leader in my community have real global impact and influence. In my mania, I lost complete sight of that. As I find my new baseline and new center through an effective regime of medication, therapy, exercise and clean living, I have newfound, much-needed clarity. I am pouring my energy into positive, meaningful art: music, clothing, design, and other new ideas to help the world. Im not asking for sympathy, or a free pass, though I aspire to earn your forgiveness. I write today simply to ask for your patience and understanding as I find my way home.
https://www.theroot.com/kanye-west-issues-formal-apology-to-black-community-in-2000086201
Dr. Shepper
(3,227 posts)To change. Always hoped that for my alcoholic abusive father but he died without ever apologizing or ever being sorry. I also understand not believing an abuser when they say they have changed.
newdeal2
(4,954 posts)I can never look at him the same way. He is / was a literal Nazi and proud of it. He put his ex-wife and kids through a lot of shit. He should make his apologies quietly and do the work in private to repair his reputation if he is sincere.
WSJ ad looks like a publicity stunt.
walkingman
(10,427 posts)JI7
(93,321 posts)mr715
(3,106 posts)Still, all about his story and his redemption.
It isn't about him. He's just another person with bipolar disorder. There are a lot of them.
If he wanted to genuinely apologize he could part with some of his wealth. Or be a better father.
purr-rat beauty
(1,049 posts)It doesn't give you a license to ill
He has been an absolute ass, that is who he is beyond his illness
B.See
(7,908 posts)and knowingly USES it as a license, imo.
luv2fly
(2,610 posts)In the meantime, let's ignore the insensitive, ignorant, and misguided comments that are going to appear within this thread.
:: insert long sigh here ::
B.See
(7,908 posts)And every other celebrity, entertainer, sports figure, personality and would-be 'icon' like him - who'd think to SELL OUT a people, a country, a DEMOCRACY because he/she thinks there's something to GAIN from it.
Resistance1
(141 posts)Fuck him!!
Klarkashton
(4,977 posts)Or something.
B.See
(7,908 posts)parading his near naked wife in public places has run its course. Go figure.
demmiblue
(39,367 posts)yaesu
(9,084 posts)tulipsandroses
(8,159 posts)or even better the newer 3 month or 6 month injections.
Wednesdays
(21,776 posts)If he's truly repentant, we will see some surprisingly good behavior.
I'm not going to hold my breath, though.
flvegan
(65,885 posts)themaguffin
(4,969 posts)synni
(688 posts)Those of us who are bipolar do not live in denial, as he claims. We feel guilt for the pain we cause our loved ones. We second-guess ourselves constantly, because we think we are not good enough. We don't even believe our own intuition, thinking that perhaps our gut feeling is just a mood swing...and that's how so many of us end up being victims of abusers. We keep giving people chance after chance that they don't deserve, because we doubt our own worth and intuition.
The grandiose moods of mania are fleeting. The regret we feel afterward is constant.
He made his decisions because he's just a lousy person. People like him, who hide behind their bipolar diagnosis to excuse their own horrible behavior, make people suspicious of the rest of us.
struggle4progress
(125,498 posts)Alliepoo
(2,782 posts)Thats about to be released Im thinking that hes thinking that his love of Nazis might not go over so well right now. Color me cynical.
ecstatic
(35,022 posts)I actually know a couple of people who ended up with it (late onset??). I only forgive once per person. When it becomes multiple additional episodes due to refusing to take medication, I can't stick around because not taking medication is a choice. Sorry, safety first.