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riversedge

(80,125 posts)
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:07 PM 4 hrs ago

A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️

This creep might think twice before he harasses another woman!!--maybe!!

A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️


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A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️ (Original Post) riversedge 4 hrs ago OP
Good on her! 3catwoman3 4 hrs ago #1
Think? BidenRocks 3 hrs ago #52
Sadly true. niyad 1 hr ago #96
Well, yes, there is that. 3catwoman3 1 hr ago #97
Good LetMyPeopleVote 4 hrs ago #2
Sorry, but from a legal standpoint, that's got to be excessive use of force. PeaceWave 4 hrs ago #3
Nah...and he won't report it anyhow. MineralMan 4 hrs ago #7
He was immobilized after the kick to his crotch. The knee to his head was overkill. PeaceWave 4 hrs ago #9
How was she to know that? I would have been scared to death that he would attack again in that closed space. AnotherMother4Peace 4 hrs ago #15
He never raised his head again after the kick to the crotch. He clearly was no longer a threat. PeaceWave 3 hrs ago #32
What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat? Torchlight 3 hrs ago #34
Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim BidenRocks 3 hrs ago #60
I included an excerpt from the post I responded to Torchlight 2 hrs ago #61
Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew niyad 2 hrs ago #92
Bet you that those who are trying to give the assaulter protection are not female. efhmc 1 hr ago #102
Definitely. MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #115
Don't think he'll be pressing charges, but if he does, my money is on her. Joinfortmill 4 hrs ago #17
Maybe a little overkill is what he needed. GaYellowDawg 4 hrs ago #18
I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of niyad 3 hrs ago #27
Absolutely! SheltieLover 3 hrs ago #49
What would Krusty Gnome have done?? BattleRow 2 hrs ago #66
Pulled out her gun? niyad 1 hr ago #98
Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe Ilsa 2 hrs ago #71
I am deeply honoured, thank you. My first reaction was unprintable. niyad 2 hrs ago #87
+1 leftstreet 1 hr ago #108
+2 Permanut 56 min ago #118
The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator. MineralMan 2 hrs ago #69
I agree liberalgunwilltravel 1 hr ago #95
Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in. MineralMan 1 hr ago #101
She made it quite clear after the 1st kacekwl 2 hrs ago #80
Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin synni 2 hrs ago #88
No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted ms liberty 40 min ago #120
Not from my viewpoint Sanity Claws 4 hrs ago #10
The legal standard for self-defense allows individuals to use "reasonable, proportional force." PeaceWave 4 hrs ago #14
You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear' Torchlight 3 hrs ago #20
The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO. CrispyQ 3 hrs ago #29
....... bluestarone 3 hrs ago #38
And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack. MineralMan 2 hrs ago #74
Your concern for the sexual predator is noted. chia 45 min ago #119
Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner Torchlight 4 hrs ago #11
He put hands on her mcar 3 hrs ago #22
He wasn't going to stop The Blue Flower 3 hrs ago #26
He put his hands on her TWICE Seinan Sensei 3 hrs ago #45
Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached irisblue 3 hrs ago #23
Even if in a place with a "duty to flee" IbogaProject 3 hrs ago #25
Not excessive at all Soul_of_Wit 3 hrs ago #30
If that was done to my Daughter or my Wife Seinan Sensei 3 hrs ago #50
Nope. She's got it on video. He was warned. thought crime 3 hrs ago #33
LOL don't you ever watch scary movies? leftstreet 3 hrs ago #40
Yeah. You're right. Too bad she wasn't wearing a stiletto, right? PeaceWave 3 hrs ago #43
Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf leftstreet 3 hrs ago #48
Self-defense, not aggression. niyad 3 hrs ago #51
This is the problem. Self defense isn't a free pass for unlimited aggression. PeaceWave 3 hrs ago #57
What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins? Torchlight 3 hrs ago #59
see post 27 niyad 2 hrs ago #82
It's not a free pass for anything. Aristus 1 hr ago #93
Unlimited aggression? MontanaMama 1 hr ago #99
The problem is MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #117
Ah, correct! leftstreet 3 hrs ago #58
And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS niyad 1 hr ago #109
Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen leftstreet 1 hr ago #110
Absolutely! SheltieLover 2 hrs ago #67
Stiletto to the eyes face would be an effective response. irisblue 2 hrs ago #84
There isn't a jury on this planet that would convict her. cloudbase 3 hrs ago #42
He was lucky she didn't pull out a pistol. Nt spooky3 2 hrs ago #70
It absolutely is not obamanut2012 3 hrs ago #53
If she were a man... Dear_Prudence 3 hrs ago #54
Killing him would have been excessive use of force Random Boomer 3 hrs ago #56
And I hope she reported him to the police. Nt spooky3 2 hrs ago #72
He put his hands on her. She had no idea what was next. Irish_Dem 2 hrs ago #62
What legal standpoint? fujiyamasan 2 hrs ago #65
She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her. LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #68
"If she had killed him for it, she would have been justified." - Sorry, but no, she would not have been justified. PeaceWave 2 hrs ago #75
You're very wrong. LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #77
No. I'm right and no amount of being upset at me (for raising the point) or the legal system (for being what it is)... PeaceWave 2 hrs ago #86
I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset" Torchlight 2 hrs ago #90
Oh, I'm not upset at all. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #100
"Excessive" would have been another two or three kicks to his nuts. GoCubsGo 2 hrs ago #76
Nope. MontanaMama 2 hrs ago #91
She should've shouted "but the DOW is over fifty thousand" Shambala 1 hr ago #114
Hope she left some lasting damage dalton99a 4 hrs ago #4
And That's How You Do It! MineralMan 4 hrs ago #5
She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women. MLAA 4 hrs ago #6
The fact that we are seeing the video... Soul_of_Wit 3 hrs ago #36
I'm pretty sure a lot of elevators have security cameras in them. MineralMan 2 hrs ago #78
That was the perfect place to put my last heart. 1WorldHope 4 hrs ago #8
K&R! Torchlight 4 hrs ago #12
Good for her! SheltieLover 4 hrs ago #13
Whoa, don't know if this is real, but I'm gonna use her moves! Joinfortmill 4 hrs ago #16
He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means. Ping Tung 4 hrs ago #19
From 2016, apparently woman is a Beijing TV host and actress. betsuni 3 hrs ago #21
I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness. irisblue 3 hrs ago #24
A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am niyad 3 hrs ago #39
Holy shit that was pretty badass! fujiyamasan 3 hrs ago #28
Bravo! You go, girl! Vinca 3 hrs ago #31
BRAVA!!! niyad 3 hrs ago #37
I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video niyad 3 hrs ago #35
Excessive force, Maj. Dude 3 hrs ago #41
Well done! UpInArms 3 hrs ago #44
This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to: flvegan 3 hrs ago #46
What more do we know about this? I think it looks like... QueerDuck 3 hrs ago #47
There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube dickthegrouch 3 hrs ago #55
She was in danger with no ability to flee until the door opened Ritabert 2 hrs ago #63
And THAT, my dears, is how it is DONE!!!!! hamsterjill 2 hrs ago #64
I celebrate her quick reactions--and good aim! hlthe2b 2 hrs ago #73
Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize. Srkdqltr 2 hrs ago #79
Possibly fake video Tasmanian Devil 2 hrs ago #81
Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car. MineralMan 1 hr ago #104
Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels" Liberal In Texas 1 hr ago #107
So.... MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #113
Well done. It falls into the same category then as that bear in the forest question... PeaceWave 1 hr ago #116
This looks so fake Chicagogrl1 2 hrs ago #83
I can't believe that the guy thought that would work. mjvpi 2 hrs ago #85
He got what's coming to him. bluescribbler 2 hrs ago #89
She did a fine job. Swede 1 hr ago #94
should have kicked him once more when he was down moonshinegnomie 1 hr ago #103
It looks rehearsed. Omnipresent 1 hr ago #105
"She allowed him...." MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #111
Convince me this isn't staged misanthrope 1 hr ago #106
Staged or scripted Tasmanian Devil 1 hr ago #112
I don't care if it's staged or not. Dem_in_Nebr. 13 min ago #121

3catwoman3

(28,960 posts)
1. Good on her!
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:11 PM
4 hrs ago

Maybe he'll think twice before trying that crap again.

Why do men (obviously not all) think it is OK to do this?

3catwoman3

(28,960 posts)
97. Well, yes, there is that.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:42 PM
1 hr ago

I sometimes wonder if there was not some behavioral control gene that was on the part of the Y chromosome that looks like it broke off and that why the chromosome is smaller. The male of the species seems, generally speaking, to get into so much more trouble than women.

Torchlight

(6,568 posts)
34. What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat?
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:09 PM
3 hrs ago
He never raised his head again after the kick to the crotch. He clearly was no longer a threat.

BidenRocks

(2,982 posts)
60. Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:38 PM
3 hrs ago

to show more restraint than ICE?

This threat is over when he is dead!

Sorry, he could get up looking to kill.

Victims are just that. If they lose their mind, fine.

They don't operate under ANY ROE.

If only E. Jean did that to chump!

niyad

(130,695 posts)
92. Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:38 PM
2 hrs ago

that you were quoting because I am still seething about the entire post from which you quoted.

niyad

(130,695 posts)
27. I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:00 PM
3 hrs ago

acquaintance, given your posted strict and narrow "legal"standards of what a woman is alllowed to do when she is being assaulted. Your posted repeated lack of care and concern for the safety and well-being of the intended victim in that video are duly noted, as is your clearly-evidenced concern for the assaulter. In case you did not notice, even after she struck him, he kept coming at her. She did not know if he was armed, what he was capable of doing, what he intended.

GOOD FOR HER!!! Since our laws are so fucking patriarchal, and rapists and rape protectors are now blatantly in charge, it seems like the only way we can protect ourselves is to be able to beat the crap out of anyone intent on harm. Apologists be damned.

Ilsa

(64,066 posts)
71. Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:06 PM
2 hrs ago

someone will do better in the next 74 years, but I doubt it.

He didn't simply harass her, he assaulted her by trying to grab her breast.

I wish someone had shown "El Jefe" in the WH who was boss 60 years ago.

MineralMan

(150,920 posts)
69. The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:03 PM
2 hrs ago

I don't much care if she gave him a little more to think about. She left unharmed. When you're being attacked by someone who is bigger and stronger than you are, take the extra step to give you more time to escape.

I'm not a fighter. However, my father gave me some advice when I was a teenager. He said, "If some stranger physically attacks you, assume he's trying to kill you. Immobilize and stop him as quickly and effectively as you can. Then get the hell away from him."

I don't know who taught you about situations like she was in. She did the right thing for her safety. He'll survive.

liberalgunwilltravel

(1,136 posts)
95. I agree
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:41 PM
1 hr ago

And if she had a firearm with a 10-shot capacity and shot him 10 times, when asked by police why she shot him 10 times, the correct answer is, "I only had 10 bullets."

The bottom line is, he started it. She finished it. And in finishing it the way she did, she may have prevented other women from the same type of attack.

MineralMan

(150,920 posts)
101. Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:49 PM
1 hr ago

In the real world, some strange man physically groping you in an elevator is a very dangerous assault if you are a woman. You have no idea what his intentions might be. Women, in general, are at a physical disadvantage in situations like that. Fortunately, she has apparently had some training in self defense. She used it to prevent any further assault and then exited the elevator ASAP.

She immobilized him and went one step further to make sure he could not attack her again. Perfectly justified in the circumstances. She escapes unharmed and he gets an object lesson through learning that not all women are helpless and weak. Perhaps, as you suggest, he will learn from this. I doubt it, though. Instead, he'll probably use more immediate force the next time.

I'm surprised that anyone is attempting to blame her for her actions. Screw that!

kacekwl

(9,011 posts)
80. She made it quite clear after the 1st
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:18 PM
2 hrs ago

assault so to try again the gloves come off and being in a closed space nothing is overkill until that door opens and you're gone.

synni

(717 posts)
88. Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:33 PM
2 hrs ago

Unless she is very physically fit and trained in martial arts, she is simply not capable of incapacitating a man with a single kick. The fact that he was still standing indicates that he was still a threat. The only way she would know that he was no longer a threat would be if he hit the floor. She left as soon as he did.

ms liberty

(11,088 posts)
120. No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:58 PM
40 min ago

Smack him hard in the face, kick him in the crotch and a quick, sharp knee to the head.
You disable and injure the attacker as much as possible in order to give yourself a chance to escape.
That woman was being sexualky assaulted in a small enclosed space. There was no being nice. There was survival or assault. She did exactly what she needed to do.

Sanity Claws

(22,369 posts)
10. Not from my viewpoint
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:20 PM
4 hrs ago

She was still stuck in a closed space with him and had to disable him. She left as soon as the door opened.

Torchlight

(6,568 posts)
20. You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear'
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:39 PM
3 hrs ago

And that she had zero opportunity to retreat.

The legal standard for self-defense allows individuals to use "reasonable, proportional force."

CrispyQ

(40,830 posts)
29. The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:04 PM
3 hrs ago

That's what I'd argue as an attorney, & as a juror, I'd buy it, even if the judge said not to. Just sayin'. It was clear what his intent was & that he wasn't going to take her NO.

MineralMan

(150,920 posts)
74. And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:07 PM
2 hrs ago

You're sounding a little strange about this situation. Why do you hold that woman who got groped in an elevator to such a standard?

Torchlight

(6,568 posts)
11. Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:24 PM
4 hrs ago

Last edited Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:17 PM - Edit history (1)

Consequences are a tough thing for a lot of people to stand up to... he certainly couldn't.


Sorry, but from a legal standpoint, that's got to be excessive use of force.

The Blue Flower

(6,420 posts)
26. He wasn't going to stop
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:57 PM
3 hrs ago

He just wasn't going to get the point. Good for her. Leaving him incapacitated on the floor was her only recourse.

irisblue

(37,131 posts)
23. Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:52 PM
3 hrs ago

IbogaProject

(5,715 posts)
25. Even if in a place with a "duty to flee"
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:56 PM
3 hrs ago

She was trapped with him and we don't know what he said during any of it.

Soul_of_Wit

(50 posts)
30. Not excessive at all
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:04 PM
3 hrs ago

He laid hands on her. They were in a confined space. If he was still capable of moving, then he deserved every blow. She retreated when she was able to do so. Defending oneself is a winner with juries almost every time.

leftstreet

(39,620 posts)
40. LOL don't you ever watch scary movies?
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:19 PM
3 hrs ago

Audiences will tell you how often they yell at the heroine on the screen,

"No, no, don't just hit him and run away! He'll get back up!! Finish the fucker off"


leftstreet

(39,620 posts)
48. Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:25 PM
3 hrs ago

Debating a responsible level of aggression from a woman trapped in an elevator with a man who's put his hands on her

I mean

Torchlight

(6,568 posts)
59. What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins?
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:38 PM
3 hrs ago

How is that defined, and does this apply to all circumstances or simply this one?




This is the problem. Self defense doesn't permit you to then become an aggressor.

Aristus

(71,910 posts)
93. It's not a free pass for anything.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:39 PM
1 hr ago

But as long as a women is in an enclosed space with an aggressor, anything and everything is permissible for her to ensure her own safety. If a guy doesn't want to sustain massive bodily injury from a woman defending herself, he can make the rather easy choice to leave her alone, and not attack her.

I really thought it was less complicated than you are insisting on making it.

MontanaMama

(24,671 posts)
99. Unlimited aggression?
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:43 PM
1 hr ago

She absolutely had to disable him to the point where he didn't come back at her. If he had been able to do that, she might be dead. But thanks for mansplaining how she should have gone easy on this degenerate. Good grief.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,328 posts)
117. The problem is
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:31 PM
1 hr ago
male entitlement.

Women are not playthings for men to do with whatever they want.

If he had shown some basic decency and respect and kept his filthy hands to himself, he wouldn't have gotten his ass beat.

Simple.

leftstreet

(39,620 posts)
58. Ah, correct!
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:38 PM
3 hrs ago

An important distinction, thank you.

Although clearly some people see aggression rather than self-defense and can instantly change the narrative.

(You're so sharp!)

niyad

(130,695 posts)
109. And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:03 PM
1 hr ago

women have to contend with in defending ourselves in this culture of rapists, rapist protectors, and general woman-haters.

Tomorrow is V-Day, Ending Violence Against Women and Girls.One Billion Rising is a worldwide group trying to end this culture of woman-hating. One Billion stands for the ONE IN THREE FEMALES WORLDWIDE who will be the victim of sexual assault/violence. One female every two minutes is sexually assaulted in this country.

leftstreet

(39,620 posts)
110. Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:09 PM
1 hr ago

As you well know

Since so many people will keep breathing it without seeing it, your diligence and willingness to constantly expose it here is beyond valuable



Dear_Prudence

(1,127 posts)
54. If she were a man...
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:33 PM
3 hrs ago

How would a man have reacted if another man stalked him, menaced him, and laid hands on him in an enclosed space? I believe the perp would have had a broken nose in addition to the injuries the woman inflicted. Walk a mile in HER shoes...

Random Boomer

(4,394 posts)
56. Killing him would have been excessive use of force
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:34 PM
3 hrs ago

Resoundingly disabling him (in the moment) was quite appropriate.

He approached her first and did not accept her rebuff. He then approached again and ESCALATED into assault by putting his hand on her in an enclosed space.

She neutralized him, but left him still alive. Sounds just about right to me.

fujiyamasan

(1,451 posts)
65. What legal standpoint?
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:47 PM
2 hrs ago

Apparently this wasn’t even in the US.

This kind of weird shit could happen anywhere in the world to women. What I like is she didn’t stand around taking it.

LuckyCharms

(22,224 posts)
68. She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:00 PM
2 hrs ago

If she had killed him for it, she would have been justified.

I've told my wife that if she is ever in a situation like that where she can't get away, her goal is not to hurt the perpetrator, her goal is to kill him. With that mindset, her goal is to fight like she is fighting for her life, and she is not to stop until the person is unconscious. If he dies during that process, so be it. You want her to stop her self-defense when she is unsure if he could reach into his waistband at pull out a gun?

Her goal is to eliminate the threat to her. How is that woman supposed to know that the man is not armed with a gun or a knife?

He's lucky she didn't kill him.

You are expecting her to make a split second decision not to try to kill him when she is literally trapped? Unable to run? No help at all possible? She presumably is not an armed officer of the law. She's a WOMAN TRAPPED IN A CLOSED BOX WITH A MAN WHO PHYSICALLY ASSAULTED HER.

Can you see a jury convicting her?

I can't.




PeaceWave

(2,868 posts)
75. "If she had killed him for it, she would have been justified." - Sorry, but no, she would not have been justified.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:07 PM
2 hrs ago

I get the passion around the subject. But, folks need to understand that there is such a thing as taking a response too far.

PeaceWave

(2,868 posts)
86. No. I'm right and no amount of being upset at me (for raising the point) or the legal system (for being what it is)...
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:30 PM
2 hrs ago

will change that fact. Nothing in this video warranted anyone taking anyone else's life. Now, how much physical harm short of death was warranted is subject to debate and is a roll of the dice that anyone put in a similar situation must make. The standard though - at least here in the U.S. - is that the forced used to defend yourself must be proportionate, as determined by a reasonable person.

Torchlight

(6,568 posts)
90. I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset"
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:36 PM
2 hrs ago
No. I'm right and no amount of being upset at me...

LuckyCharms

(22,224 posts)
100. Oh, I'm not upset at all.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:44 PM
1 hr ago

The goal is to eliminate a perceived threat.

The first and best option is to put distance between yourself and the threat.

That is not possible in an elevator, is it? Where are you going to run to in an elevator? To the other corner?

Are you going to scream for help in an elevator, when seconds matter?

How are you certain that a person who you are TRAPPED IN AN ELEVATOR WITH, WHO TRIED TO GRAB YOUR BREAST AND TOUCHED YOU TWICE, is not trying to kill you?

Even if this was staged, my point is that the woman had a split second to make a decision.

She stopped when she was able to escape. If the door was not able to be opened, she should have continued until he was dead, or old cold with certainty.

What if that elevator had another 40 floors to travel until the door was able to be opened? Still think she went too far?

MontanaMama

(24,671 posts)
91. Nope.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:37 PM
2 hrs ago

If she hadn't disabled him, he wouldn't have stopped his assault and then where would she be? Regardless, she gets blamed for doing too much or not doing enough. He's fortunate to be alive.

MLAA

(19,692 posts)
6. She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:16 PM
4 hrs ago

Soul_of_Wit

(50 posts)
36. The fact that we are seeing the video...
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:10 PM
3 hrs ago

...makes it likely that the incident was reported (or was seen live by security.)

Ping Tung

(4,262 posts)
19. He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:38 PM
4 hrs ago

He didn't understand it the first time he grabbed her.

irisblue

(37,131 posts)
24. I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 12:56 PM
3 hrs ago

From google

Situational awareness (SA) is the ability to perceive, understand, and predict environmental elements and events to make informed safety decisions. It involves monitoring surroundings to identify, analyze, and react to potential risks or hazards before they occur. Key components include perception (gathering data), comprehension (understanding meaning), and projection (anticipating future states).

niyad

(130,695 posts)
39. A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:14 PM
3 hrs ago

out and about. And I explained about SA. She had never heard of the concept. To my relief, she stopped using her headphones on her daily runs.

niyad

(130,695 posts)
35. I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:09 PM
3 hrs ago

Last edited Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:22 PM - Edit history (1)

having been), or real, but fucking assaulters need to understand that it is just possible that their intended victim just might be capable of kicking the crap out of them.

AND WE SHOULD BE TEACHING ALL FEMALES FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD ON TO BE ABLE TO DO EXACTLY THAT. At least, until the woman-haters in charge go back to physically limiting girls and women, as they have done for centuries.

Maj. Dude

(40 posts)
41. Excessive force,
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:19 PM
3 hrs ago

Could be said/used if she had CCW Permit and fired at him while he was doubled over tending to his hurt (testicles) feelings.
And she got out of there limiting her time with the creep.
I'd buy her her favorite beverage and laugh with her if she felt so inclined after a situation like that.
It would her choice of course, because that's the way I was raised.

flvegan

(66,016 posts)
46. This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to:
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:24 PM
3 hrs ago

1. be always aware
2. take up some form of defensive/offensive training, to then;
3. defend oneself by any means necessary, and;
4. finish your opponent and then escape as necessary

That said, if the video isn't/wasn't staged, that was quite the ass kicking. Flawless victory!

dickthegrouch

(4,413 posts)
55. There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 01:33 PM
3 hrs ago

Where a woman being assaulted in the crowded tube car, grabbed the man's hand, rapidly raised it high in the air and asked at the top of her lungs "To whom does this belong?"

Not possible in this situation, but a possibility for more public places. I am all for people de-escalating when they can, and defending themselves when they need to.

Srkdqltr

(9,568 posts)
79. Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:12 PM
2 hrs ago

Women need to know they should not put up with stuff like this.
Men should know there will be consequences.
None of this is cute or kidding. She did the absolutely right thing.

Tasmanian Devil

(85 posts)
81. Possibly fake video
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:24 PM
2 hrs ago

I am not an expert at fake videos, so I asked Gemini. You can obviously choose to believe or not, but remember just how much AI slop is taking over the Internet.

https://gemini.google.com

Any thoughts on if this video is faked?


And it responded that it was likely computer generated.

The video you're asking about is actually a high-quality **CGI (Computer-Generated Imagery) render**, not a real-life recording.

Here are the key reasons why it’s considered "faked" or, more accurately, digital art:

1. Visual "Perfection" : The lighting, shadows, and textures in the video are often slightly too smooth or consistent compared to real-world physics. Digital artists frequently use software like Unreal Engine 5 or Blender to create these hyper-realistic scenes, which can easily fool the eye on small smartphone screens.

2. Unnatural Camera Movement: If you look closely at the "handheld" camera shake, it often feels procedural—like a digital filter applied to a steady shot rather than the organic weight and momentum of a person holding a real camera.

3. Anomalies in Fine Detail: In these types of viral "is it real?" clips, you can often spot minor glitches (artifacts) where objects intersect, or where the reflections on surfaces don't perfectly match the surrounding environment.

4. The Source: This specific video has been widely circulated by accounts that specialize in showcasing "vibe" or "dreamcore" CGI environments. These artists create these short loops specifically to trigger a "liminal space" feeling or to test how realistic their rendering engines can get.

Verdict: It is a **digital creation**. While it's an impressive technical feat of 3D modeling and rendering, it does not exist in the physical world.

MineralMan

(150,920 posts)
104. Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:58 PM
1 hr ago

Look up next time you're in an elevator in a public building. There's a security camera up there, and it records continuously.

Gemini is just a freaking AI talking machine. It actually knows nothing. Again, look up next time you're in an elevator. And smile, you're on video.

Liberal In Texas

(16,115 posts)
107. Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels"
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:00 PM
1 hr ago

or on TikTok. It's amateur TV production. By claiming it's real video they can get more clicks and more people passing it on. Like here.

PeaceWave

(2,868 posts)
116. Well done. It falls into the same category then as that bear in the forest question...
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:27 PM
1 hr ago

Simply something intended to stir up animus between the genders as we head into the primaries.

Omnipresent

(7,357 posts)
105. It looks rehearsed.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:59 PM
1 hr ago

She kept her back to him twice.
It’s safer to keep your back to an elevator wall, to see where anyone is. She allowed him to creep up behind her twice.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,328 posts)
111. "She allowed him...."
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:19 PM
1 hr ago

Sure.

If she had done as you suggested, she'd have been trapped in the back corner.

Staying close to the elevator doors was smart.

misanthrope

(9,436 posts)
106. Convince me this isn't staged
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:00 PM
1 hr ago

Every move she used on him looks like those used in staged fighting for audiences and cameras.

Tasmanian Devil

(85 posts)
112. Staged or scripted
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:19 PM
1 hr ago

The action looked comic-book level fake to me. My wager would be that Gemini is correct and this is computer generated. I thought it looked a lot like something I'd expect in a video game. But who knows, clickbait is everywhere.

Dem_in_Nebr.

(340 posts)
121. I don't care if it's staged or not.
Fri Feb 13, 2026, 04:25 PM
13 min ago

Bottom line, women: this is how it's done.

I don't know whether call Ladies or Women.

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