The Year Empathy Died
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/19/opinion/toxic-empathy-christianity-trump.html
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https://archive.li/DEfbQ
Theres a scene from a movie I cant get out of my head.
Its from a 2021 film called Dont Look Up, not my idea of a cinematic classic. Its a dark comedy about the end of the world, an allegory intended to skewer those who are in denial about climate change, but in this film people are in denial about a comet thats about to hit the earth.
The movie is equal parts funny and preachy, but the ending is poignant. The main characters of the film are gathered around a dinner table, eating one last meal as they face the end. Theyre trying to have a casual conversation as the table starts to rattle.
In that moment as we watch images of the beauty of earth flashing in front of us the character played by Leonardo DiCaprio interrupts the small talk with these words:
The thing of it is, we really did have everything, didnt we?
I dont want to compare the second Trump term to a comet hitting the earth (or maybe I do), but it is absolutely true that we often cant grasp what we had until we no longer have it. Tragedy and loss adjust our frame, and the disputes and arguments that once seemed so urgent can pale in comparison to new and terrible realities.
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