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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA little something from Nick Cave
"What do we do with suffering? As far as I can see, we have two choices we either transform our suffering into something else, or we hold on to it, and eventually pass it on.
In order to transform our pain, we must acknowledge that all people suffer. By understanding that suffering is the universal unifying force, we can see people more compassionately, and this goes some way toward helping us forgive the world and ourselves. By acting compassionately, we reduce the worlds net suffering and defiantly rehabilitate the world. It is an alchemical act that transforms pain into beauty. This is good. This is beautiful.
To not transform our suffering and instead transmit our pain to others,...compounds the worlds suffering. Most sin is simply one persons suffering passed on to another. This is not good. This is not beautiful.
The utility of suffering, then, is the opportunity it affords us to become better human beings. It is the engine of our redemption."
~ Nick Cave
luvallpeeps
(1,282 posts)That was perfect.🙏🏽
demmiblue
(39,615 posts)Dear Ruben,
When I read this question, my initial thought was that the kid who wrote this has nothing to worry about, theyre going to be all right. Ruben, you are very smart, you are engaged with the world and Im not sure what your creative interests are, but you can certainly already write. Not only that, you are also reaching out for answers. At thirteen, this is all brilliant! Luckily for you, Ruben, I have some! So here goes!
Read. Read as much as possible. Read the big stuff, the challenging stuff, the confronting stuff, and read the fun stuff too. Visit galleries and look at paintings, watch movies, listen to music, go to concerts be a little vampire running around the place sucking up all the art and ideas you can. Fill yourself with the beautiful stuff of the world. Have fun. Get amazed. Get astonished. Get awed on a regular basis, so that getting awed is habitual and becomes a state of being. Fully understand your enormous value in the scheme of things because the planet needs people like you, smart young creatives full of awe, who can minister to the world with positive, mischievous energy, young people who seek spiritual enrichment and who see hatred and disconnection as the corrosive forces they are. These are manifest indicators of a human being with immense potential.
Absorb into yourself the worlds full richness and goodness and fun and genius, so that when someone tells you its not worth fighting for, you will stick up for it, protect it, run to its defence, because it is your world theyre talking about, then watch that world continue to pour itself into you in gratitude. A little smart vampire full of raging love, amazed by the world that will be you, my young friend, the earth shaking at your feet.
Love, Nick
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