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lapucelle

(21,051 posts)
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 12:51 PM 10 hrs ago

Graham Platner abruptly cancels campaign fundraiser at New York City gay bar

Graham Platner abruptly cancels campaign fundraiser at New York City gay bar

References to the event at Industry Bar were removed from Platner’s website after The Advocate reached out.

Graham Platner, a Democratic candidate for U.S. Senate from Maine, abruptly canceled a campaign event at a New York City gay bar this weekend shortly after The Advocate reached out to inquire about the event.

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On Friday, after learning about the Saturday event, The Advocate reached out to Platner’s team and to Industry, the gay bar listed as the event venue, regarding the decision to host the event at an LGBTQ+ bar, given the candidate’s previous anti-LGBTQ+ remarks online. Platner’s team did not provide an on-the-record response.

Last fall, The Advocate broke news that Platner had made several anti-gay comments on the social media platform Reddit. In an October 2025 interview with The Advocate, Platner apologized for making the remarks and described them as “abhorrent.”

https://www.advocate.com/politics/national/graham-platner-cancels-gay-event
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Graham Platner abruptly cancels campaign fundraiser at New York City gay bar (Original Post) lapucelle 10 hrs ago OP
See also: Maine Senate candidate Graham Platner admits using 'indefensible' antigay slurs in unearthed Reddit posts lapucelle 10 hrs ago #1
So, the recounting and comments are from yorkster 9 hrs ago #9
".. a progressive.."? Why, because.. Cha 5 hrs ago #37
Talk is cheap mcar 4 hrs ago #39
Yeah I wonder... ??? Cha 4 hrs ago #40
Yep mcar 4 hrs ago #43
This guy seems like a risky candidate Mad_Machine76 9 hrs ago #2
If that's the standard Renew Deal 9 hrs ago #3
pretending to b just a regular guy when mopinko 9 hrs ago #11
Did you know that he is an oyster man? Jose Garcia 4 hrs ago #41
He shucks.. yorkster 1 hr ago #44
"I've said/done some terrible things, but I'm not old - so vote for me!" Torchlight 9 hrs ago #4
Why would he be fundraising in NY? leftstreet 9 hrs ago #5
Because that's where the money is Renew Deal 9 hrs ago #7
Most Fundraising is in NY and California JI7 7 hrs ago #19
Repub plant IMO n/t Just_Vote_Dem 9 hrs ago #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo 9 hrs ago #8
You kids have fun, okay? Iggo 9 hrs ago #10
But endorsements. The anti-establishment establishment has spoken. betsuni 8 hrs ago #12
Anti-gay, anti-woman, anti-semitic...yet progressives are endorsing him? PeaceWave 8 hrs ago #13
You forgot the Nazi tattoo sarisataka 8 hrs ago #14
I also chose to omit his past and possibly present issues with alcohol... PeaceWave 7 hrs ago #18
Really? Planter's quote on Women in the Service.. Cha 5 hrs ago #34
"Take," THEY "take" bad corrupting wrong money; WE the righteous "accept" pure nice grassroots donations. betsuni 7 hrs ago #24
The only reason the tattoo was discovered when video appeared of him running around shirtless at a wedding reception. MichMan 4 hrs ago #38
I don't get that at all MustLoveBeagles 7 hrs ago #15
Yes...Poison Ivy sheshe2 7 hrs ago #22
Zing..good one. yorkster 6 hrs ago #28
Thank you. sheshe2 6 hrs ago #30
Make it make sense mcar 7 hrs ago #17
Post removed Post removed 7 hrs ago #20
Tell me again why people are supporting this guy? mcar 7 hrs ago #16
Ageism in the Party Aepps22 6 hrs ago #25
I am quite sure that Collins' team has the ads against him ready already mcar 6 hrs ago #26
The dudes a gaffe machine MustLoveBeagles 6 hrs ago #31
But why cancel ? If it's about his past statements JI7 7 hrs ago #21
Maybe he should run for local office to show us that he has actually changed mcar 6 hrs ago #27
Progressive? sheshe2 7 hrs ago #23
Platner on the Democratic Party: "they're going to come after me. They're going to rip my life apart." betsuni 5 hrs ago #32
Wait. What? sheshe2 5 hrs ago #33
Ohhh Poor Planter... gettng the Truth out Cha 5 hrs ago #35
Platner abruptly cancels event at NYC gay bar after renewed scrutiny on his old Reddit posts LetMyPeopleVote 6 hrs ago #29
lol fuck that guy WhiskeyGrinder 5 hrs ago #36
He really should've run for Congress first... mr715 4 hrs ago #42

lapucelle

(21,051 posts)
1. See also: Maine Senate candidate Graham Platner admits using 'indefensible' antigay slurs in unearthed Reddit posts
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 12:56 PM
10 hrs ago
Maine Senate candidate Graham Platner admits using ‘indefensible’ antigay slurs in unearthed Reddit posts

A progressive U.S. Senate candidate in Maine, who has already apologized for earlier misogynistic and racially insensitive remarks and said he did not realize that a tattoo on his chest resembled a Nazi SS emblem, is again under scrutiny, this time for anti-LGBTQ+ comments.

In an interview on Wednesday afternoon with The Advocate, Graham Platner, a 41-year-old Marine and Army veteran running in Maine’s Democratic primary, seeking to become the nominee to challenge Republican U.S. Sen. Susan Collins, confirmed that he authored a series of Reddit comments that include homophobic slurs, anti-LGBTQ+ jokes, and sexually explicit stories denigrating gay men.

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In March 2018, he recounted in explicit detail what he described as a “gay off” between Marines and British sailors in Bahrain: “Pull into Bahrain in ’07 on a MEU, a Royal Navy submarine happens to be in port at the same time. … Before we even realize what’s going on, the other weird bastard just leans down and licks the damn thing from the bottom of the ballsack all the way up to the top of the dick. Stands up, looks dead at us and yells ‘BEAT THAT!’ … I proudly withdrew our team on the grounds that one cannot play gay chicken if one is actually gay.”

In July 2018, Platner joked in another thread, “I suppose some gay fellas still prefer holes as well. Party on top bros.” A month later, in August 2018, he used a homophobic slur while arguing with another user: “Betcha not a single downvoter is a real combat vet. Feel free to back it up with facts, fags.”

https://www.advocate.com/politics/graham-platner-homophobic-posts#toggle-gdpr

yorkster

(3,814 posts)
9. So, the recounting and comments are from
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 01:31 PM
9 hrs ago

2018. Hardly 20 years ago.
Basta with this guy.

Cha

(318,824 posts)
37. ".. a progressive.."? Why, because..
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 05:43 PM
5 hrs ago

he says he is?

Didn't Fetterman say he was a "progressive", too?

Can't go on that.

Mahalo, lapucelle

mcar

(45,977 posts)
39. Talk is cheap
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 06:08 PM
4 hrs ago

At least that's what we've been told here for decades. So why are his supporters only listening to his talk that they like and ignoring the bigotry, misogyny and Nazi shite?

Cha

(318,824 posts)
40. Yeah I wonder... ???
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 06:19 PM
4 hrs ago

Actually I think I know, but better not post it out loud... I don't want to upset anyone.

Mad_Machine76

(24,950 posts)
2. This guy seems like a risky candidate
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 01:01 PM
9 hrs ago

I understand he's leading the polling, but we've been burned several times by other people we've supported/elected have turned out to be lemons.

Renew Deal

(85,096 posts)
3. If that's the standard
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 01:04 PM
9 hrs ago

Then you can also say that a lot of people were surprisingly good.

Torchlight

(6,779 posts)
4. "I've said/done some terrible things, but I'm not old - so vote for me!"
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 01:06 PM
9 hrs ago

is not the winning strategy it may seem to anyone with greater-than-a-shallow perception.

Response to lapucelle (Original post)

sarisataka

(22,650 posts)
14. You forgot the Nazi tattoo
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 02:56 PM
8 hrs ago

Apparently the only deal breaker is accepting the wrong donations.

PeaceWave

(3,299 posts)
18. I also chose to omit his past and possibly present issues with alcohol...
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 03:12 PM
7 hrs ago

The man blamed past horrible Reddit posts on being drunk at the time. And then, just a few months ago, he challenges opposing candidates to a drinking contest? WTF

Cha

(318,824 posts)
34. Really? Planter's quote on Women in the Service..
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 05:25 PM
5 hrs ago
“just take some responsibility for themselves” to avoid attacks and “act like an adult for f–cks sake.” He said people should avoid alcohol so they don’t end up in a “compromising situation” and downplayed the challenges service members face in reporting sexual assault."

Self explanatory why ".. he covered the tattoo Before he Launched his campaign.."

..he uses being "drunk" as an Excuse for the Tattoo But Tells Female Services Members they shouldn't drink or they could end up in a compromising situation."

betsuni

(29,045 posts)
24. "Take," THEY "take" bad corrupting wrong money; WE the righteous "accept" pure nice grassroots donations.
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 03:50 PM
7 hrs ago

The Way of Populism.

MichMan

(17,108 posts)
38. The only reason the tattoo was discovered when video appeared of him running around shirtless at a wedding reception.
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 06:03 PM
4 hrs ago

I've never seen any one doing that at any wedding I ever attended.

Response to PeaceWave (Reply #13)

Aepps22

(382 posts)
25. Ageism in the Party
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 04:13 PM
6 hrs ago

When Janet was recruited everyone knew her age but also knew that she was and is a very popular person in Maine. As the younger at all cost crowd got more vocal, more and more people in the party view age and potential AIPAC donations as more disqualifying than anything else. Platner is a bad candidate with so many disqualifying things in his past that Susan might want to face him more than Janet. Only thing I’ve seen Platnar do is trash the party and blame the “establishment “ for trying to “destroy” him by mentioning his past that he keeps hand waving.

mcar

(45,977 posts)
26. I am quite sure that Collins' team has the ads against him ready already
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 04:27 PM
6 hrs ago

Some people will never learn, I fear.

JI7

(93,561 posts)
21. But why cancel ? If it's about his past statements
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 03:33 PM
7 hrs ago

it would give him a chance to say he was wrong and has changed for the better.

mcar

(45,977 posts)
27. Maybe he should run for local office to show us that he has actually changed
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 04:28 PM
6 hrs ago

As I see here so often WRT elected Democrats, "talk is cheap."

betsuni

(29,045 posts)
32. Platner on the Democratic Party: "they're going to come after me. They're going to rip my life apart."
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 05:00 PM
5 hrs ago

That familiar "I've got news for the Democratic establishment. They can't stop us" vibe. Because everything's about ME!

Cha

(318,824 posts)
35. Ohhh Poor Planter... gettng the Truth out
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 05:31 PM
5 hrs ago

is "ripping him apart"?

How about what the Fascist Collins party would do?

mr715

(3,483 posts)
42. He really should've run for Congress first...
Tue Mar 24, 2026, 06:29 PM
4 hrs ago

He is a lot of contradictions which make me very nervous. But this is what primaries are for, so we shall see.

If he were to win the primary, the voters of Maine will have made their choice and my position is moot.

I think it is significant he has the endorsement of Sen. Warren, as she adds legitimacy. Which, ya know, might be lacking when you're running from a Nazi tattoo as a populist wealth distribution activist. Little bit of a muddled message there.

But message discipline can only get you so far, I imagine. Bernie Sanders himself is laser focused in re: message discipline and has yet to win nationally.

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