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BeneteauBum

(469 posts)
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:44 PM 15 hrs ago

I'm being overwhelmed

I donated generously to Kamala in 2024 and more recently to Mark Kelly during his attack by Hegseth. Now, it seems that every institution looking for support has my number, address, and e-address.

I receive a dozen emails/text messages daily looking for monetary support from different coalitions to combat this administration. In addition, alternative news media is relentless……they can’t get along without me. Also, candidates whom I’m not aware of from other states send their requests for support. Finally, there is the good cause platitudes.

I think what’s even more annoying is the mail I receive almost daily from various Democratic ideologues. I don't mind sending in replies to surveys, however, when I think of the cost of these types of mass mail outs, I just shake my head.

I’m just a boomer on a modest pension. I know I can ignore or block all of this. I just think there is a lot of money not being spent in judicious manner from the progressive party.

Peace ☮️

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I'm being overwhelmed (Original Post) BeneteauBum 15 hrs ago OP
As they say, no good deed goes unpunished. cloudbase 15 hrs ago #1
Ive began to unsubscribe..one after another.. replying End2End to texts BlueWaveNeverEnd 15 hrs ago #2
Same! Beyond annoying... Wuddles440 14 hrs ago #10
I hear you buzzycrumbhunger 15 hrs ago #3
I think the overwhelming, chronic begging backfires Skittles 15 hrs ago #4
It never stops. mr715 15 hrs ago #5
"Sand Hook Promise" was emailing me a few times a day!! so much that I suspected it was a scam BlueWaveNeverEnd 13 hrs ago #17
I was a Harris supporter FHRRK1 15 hrs ago #6
Here's what I think... 2naSalit 15 hrs ago #7
When we have a candidate to run against the orange creature BeneteauBum 14 hrs ago #9
I donated once before, never again. All it took was one time, and it then took me years to finally get rid of all of SWBTATTReg 14 hrs ago #8
Same same for both dems and reps. Even worse is automatic repeat donations unless you decline. Norrrm 13 hrs ago #11
I've taken to marking all of them as spam. hedda_foil 13 hrs ago #12
I gave Rebl2 13 hrs ago #13
Same here... debsy 13 hrs ago #14
Have you tried unsubscribing? It works! ❤️ littlemissmartypants 13 hrs ago #15
Yes BeneteauBum 12 hrs ago #28
Well, it does take persistence, but I finally worked on it until... littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #33
Oh, I'm fine BeneteauBum 8 hrs ago #34
Message auto-removed Name removed 13 hrs ago #16
Interior Secretary Deb Haaland is running for governor here.. Escape 13 hrs ago #18
I set up a routine that automatically responds with STOP ecstatic 13 hrs ago #19
I'm getting 5-6 solicitations a day from politicians, to health issues, to native american organizations, and beyond. patphil 13 hrs ago #20
Fundraising is a necessity. I never begrudge them asking for support. AnotherMother4Peace 12 hrs ago #21
It is necessary BeneteauBum 12 hrs ago #31
Yeah, I sent money to the ACLU three weeks ago, Ilsa 12 hrs ago #22
We don't have publicly funded campaigns, so campaigns are forced to do this. SunSeeker 12 hrs ago #23
I've learned to hit 'Unsubscribe' without guilt and just pick my spots... johnnyplankton 12 hrs ago #24
OVERWHELMED...... drumpfsucks 12 hrs ago #25
Ignore them or block them for now fujiyamasan 12 hrs ago #26
When I start getting daily emails they get blocked and permanently junked. Martin68 12 hrs ago #27
New email. New phone and register the Tetrachloride 12 hrs ago #29
Same I got a bunch of mail today and the emails ugh!!!! kimbutgar 12 hrs ago #30
A good way to donate is through Qutzupalotl 9 hrs ago #32
But if PACs spend money on their campaigns they're accused of being corrupt, "taking" money from billionaires betsuni 8 hrs ago #35

cloudbase

(6,269 posts)
1. As they say, no good deed goes unpunished.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:48 PM
15 hrs ago

It happened to me as well. I finally had enough and started marking every fund raising text and email as spam. It took a while, but I no longer receive any.

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,180 posts)
2. Ive began to unsubscribe..one after another.. replying End2End to texts
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:52 PM
15 hrs ago

I was getting 15 texts a day!! Insane

Wuddles440

(2,090 posts)
10. Same! Beyond annoying...
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 07:50 PM
14 hrs ago

and it just makes me more resistant to ever donating to these groups.

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,925 posts)
3. I hear you
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:55 PM
15 hrs ago

I’m determined not to sign any more petitions. In the last couple weeks, I’ve been getting TONS of come-ons to donate to something or other (hello—I’m POOR!), and now they’re starting to come as messages via my PHONE NUMBER, as well! I NEVER include my number on petitions, so what the hell? They’re coming from politicians, from every possible cause, and from people I can’t even figure out who they represent because there are so damned many of them.

Apparently, everything must be monetized now, and there is no such thing as privacy. Big money in creating a “cause,” it would seem.

I’m more than a little pissed.

Skittles

(171,638 posts)
4. I think the overwhelming, chronic begging backfires
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:56 PM
15 hrs ago

I know in my case it has caused me to donate less.

mr715

(3,523 posts)
5. It never stops.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 06:59 PM
15 hrs ago

Constant fundraising texts.

No matter how many times I unsubscribe, I just keep getting them.

I think it is a big problem that our fundraising apparatus needs to address. Not everyone can fundraise like Obama. Not every message needs to be "I'm so, so sorry but this is urgent! Send $5 today"

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,180 posts)
17. "Sand Hook Promise" was emailing me a few times a day!! so much that I suspected it was a scam
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:05 PM
13 hrs ago

FHRRK1

(17 posts)
6. I was a Harris supporter
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 07:01 PM
15 hrs ago

Going back to the 2020 Primaries. By Sept. 2024 election I became annoyed, due to the daily barrage of emails asking for $.

Now, I don’t think anyone who donated didn’t vote for her. But if she runs in 2028, she won’t start at the top of my list. I can think of five potential Dems that would be my choice over her.

Huge mistake by her campaign IMO.

2naSalit

(102,664 posts)
7. Here's what I think...
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 07:09 PM
15 hrs ago

Since everyone's info is in the hands of unknown entities, I am not willing to blame the original contact. I suspect that there is some kind of hack that sends a multiple of any that you may have welcomed at some point. Especially if it's a political donation thing.

The objective is to cause you to be annoyed at those you donated to so that you'll not only be disinclined to do so again, you'll sour on the candidate as well when they have no control over the number of contacts you receive.

BeneteauBum

(469 posts)
9. When we have a candidate to run against the orange creature
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 07:36 PM
14 hrs ago

I’ll donate again. The midterms will just have to take care of themselves. At the moment, this ignorant creature is doing everything to alienate the population. A blue wave will make the last two years of its reign even more frustrating…..perhaps resulting in a premature its ouster.

Peace ☮️

SWBTATTReg

(26,253 posts)
8. I donated once before, never again. All it took was one time, and it then took me years to finally get rid of all of
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 07:19 PM
14 hrs ago

the following junk emails and stuff, asking for yet more donations. I'll never donate again to a cause. Never.

Norrrm

(4,975 posts)
11. Same same for both dems and reps. Even worse is automatic repeat donations unless you decline.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 08:37 PM
13 hrs ago

The decline option is somewhat hidden.

Some have an automatic cut going to the initial collectors of the donation.

I saw one that had two cuts taken out as it finally forwarded to the politician/cause.

hedda_foil

(16,985 posts)
12. I've taken to marking all of them as spam.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 08:44 PM
13 hrs ago

If I want to donate to a candidate or the party, I'll do it without the incessant texts.

Rebl2

(17,705 posts)
13. I gave
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 08:51 PM
13 hrs ago

up a few years ago and unsubscribe to many of them. I still get a few, but they don’t fill up my email inbox anymore.

debsy

(929 posts)
14. Same here...
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:01 PM
13 hrs ago

Fortunately, iPhones can put messages from unknowns in a separate bucket that is easily disposed of. I just can’t afford to give to the hundreds of causes that have bombarded me over the past year!

littlemissmartypants

(33,422 posts)
33. Well, it does take persistence, but I finally worked on it until...
Fri Mar 27, 2026, 01:22 AM
8 hrs ago

I finished my list, and my email is a breeze and not a quagmire anymore.

You should be able to stop those texts immediately with a single click. It does take more effort and persistence for the email, though.

Stay encouraged, BeneteauBum. ❤️

BeneteauBum

(469 posts)
34. Oh, I'm fine
Fri Mar 27, 2026, 01:43 AM
8 hrs ago

Had to rant about the paper being wasted…..received more ‘please donate’ today in my mailbox.

Peace ☮️

Response to BeneteauBum (Original post)

Escape

(463 posts)
18. Interior Secretary Deb Haaland is running for governor here..
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:06 PM
13 hrs ago

in New Mexico. She is leading by about 40% in the primary and will easily be our next governor.

But....my wife and I went to a Democratic get together months ago, gave her people our contact info, and we get texts from them every day begging for $15.

Seriously, probably 7 or 8 texts each week for both of us.

I wonder if the candidates even know that their campaign staffs are hounding supporters for money.

I look forward to Secretary Haaland becoming our next governor, but my wife and I have had to block her texts on our devices.

ecstatic

(35,074 posts)
19. I set up a routine that automatically responds with STOP
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:10 PM
13 hrs ago

to any message with certain key words. It works beautifully. Next, I turned on spam protection in Google Messages. Between the spam protection and my automatic responses, things are much much easier for me now.

The only group on my safe list is the Georgia Democrats because I still want to get invites to big events.

My key words that trigger an automatic "STOP" response:

democratic, Congress, Elon musk, Democrats, maga, governor, Senate, trump, supreme Court, Gaza, actblue.com, republican, election, campaign, republicans, Biden


If you set this up, 99% of your political spam will be resolved.

patphil

(9,043 posts)
20. I'm getting 5-6 solicitations a day from politicians, to health issues, to native american organizations, and beyond.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:14 PM
13 hrs ago

I'm retired on a fixed income and can't help these people. I contribute to a few causes on a regular basis. I give to my regional food bank, planned parenthood, red cross, national organization for women, and a couple others.
The rest I give to my local landfill.
I bet I get several hundred pounds of junk solicitations each year. What a waste!

This just the actual physical mail, I also get about a dozen e-mail solicitations a day. They go in the electronic trash; I don't even open them.

BeneteauBum

(469 posts)
31. It is necessary
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 10:13 PM
12 hrs ago

Just the volume of physical mail astounds me. I wonder if there is data generated on the efficacy of these types of mail outs. Is the cost of postage, material, and printing worth the reciprocal value?

Peace ☮️

Ilsa

(64,345 posts)
22. Yeah, I sent money to the ACLU three weeks ago,
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:27 PM
12 hrs ago

and today they called trying to talk me into becoming a "guardian" member with a monthly contribution.

I stopped a bunch of texts, but I still get 10-15 per day. It's exhausting, and stopping the texts is only partially helpful.

SunSeeker

(58,257 posts)
23. We don't have publicly funded campaigns, so campaigns are forced to do this.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:31 PM
12 hrs ago

They don't like it any more than you do, but money is necessary to win.

Just type "Stop" or delete the text.

drumpfsucks

(56 posts)
25. OVERWHELMED......
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:39 PM
12 hrs ago

I gave generously last year to many DEM politicians and/causes....

This year I decided to be VERY PICKY.... So far, I have NOT donated AT ALL.

I really feel that My "INFO" gets run up a flagpole for ALL TO USE.

Inundated from far away States....

Sorry guys, but I am deleting ALL requests.

fujiyamasan

(1,671 posts)
26. Ignore them or block them for now
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:41 PM
12 hrs ago

Return if you feel financially secure or if you feel your money is better spent.

Don’t feel guilty and look out for yourself. I have the same concerns as you. I think there are too many people grifting off the party. Too many so called “consultants” providing absolutely no value.

Martin68

(27,682 posts)
27. When I start getting daily emails they get blocked and permanently junked.
Thu Mar 26, 2026, 09:43 PM
12 hrs ago

First, I unsubscribe if they are too persistent.

Qutzupalotl

(15,815 posts)
32. A good way to donate is through
Fri Mar 27, 2026, 01:04 AM
9 hrs ago
https://oath.vote — they don’t spam you or sell your info to other groups. Wealthy folks like former DUer brooklynite use it. They can spread their money around without getting inundated, but we working stiffs can use it too.

betsuni

(29,055 posts)
35. But if PACs spend money on their campaigns they're accused of being corrupt, "taking" money from billionaires
Fri Mar 27, 2026, 01:50 AM
8 hrs ago

and oligarchs and why they "don't fight.". A BS purity test to discourage support of Democrats.

Of course this gives the advantage to Republicans with unlimited funding.

And of course, blame Democrats, not the BS accusers. Everyone needs to push back when Democrats are slandered.

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