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31st Street Bridge

(216 posts)
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 10:32 AM 20 hrs ago

To all members of the Trans community ...

You have far more friends than enemies.
People you've never met care about you, will protect you and will show you love and forever stand by you.
Don't shrink from the hate; defy it, no matter your age.

Happy Day of Visibility, my friends.

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To all members of the Trans community ... (Original Post) 31st Street Bridge 20 hrs ago OP
Yes, thank you! Tesha 20 hrs ago #1
I despise JK Rowling!!! wolfie001 20 hrs ago #2
We see you. We hear you. We love you. Wild blueberry 20 hrs ago #3
A giant K&R MustLoveBeagles 20 hrs ago #4
+1000 k0rs 20 hrs ago #5
+1000 LoisB 20 hrs ago #6
A beautiful sentiment --- and a call to be better allies. 💕🫂🏳️‍⚧️ QueerDuck 19 hrs ago #7
Thank you for this. Ms. Toad 17 hrs ago #19
Exactly. It's exhausting trying trying to be a good ally... QueerDuck 16 hrs ago #20
Deserves many kicks. bluestarone 19 hrs ago #8
Kick and Rec berniesandersmittens 19 hrs ago #9
Unconditional support and love... bsiebs 19 hrs ago #10
Another giant K&R. WestMichRad 18 hrs ago #11
K&R Lifeafter70 18 hrs ago #12
Thank you and you too! Oneironaut 18 hrs ago #13
And another. Thank you! mountain grammy 18 hrs ago #14
Love this BaronChocula 18 hrs ago #15
What a kind and thoughtful OP! yardwork 18 hrs ago #16
Wearing transgender pride colors today at work. Aristus 18 hrs ago #17
For my grandchild, and our family - WE WILL NOT BE INVISIBLE OR SILENT! n/t TygrBright 17 hrs ago #18
I looked for a folk song "Do what you want to do, Be who you want to be" and no luck. Not what I remembered. usonian 15 hrs ago #21
The Cardigans "Step on Me" has those words, but it is about an abusive relationship, so I don't think that is the one generalbetrayus 12 hrs ago #22
Go where you wanna go lonely bird 12 hrs ago #23
Thanks. I noted it, and added my short version. usonian 11 hrs ago #28
Hall and Oates MichMan 9 hrs ago #30
31st Street Bridge, I'm sending along your thoughts to my beautiful trans granddaughter. generalbetrayus 12 hrs ago #24
HEAR, HEAR Skittles 12 hrs ago #25
K & R Permanut 11 hrs ago #26
Kick! SheltieLover 11 hrs ago #27
Hear, hear!!! Beacool 9 hrs ago #29
I'm late to the party, but I wouldn't miss this chance to express my support! ShazzieB 7 hrs ago #31

QueerDuck

(1,705 posts)
7. A beautiful sentiment --- and a call to be better allies. 💕🫂🏳️‍⚧️
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 11:41 AM
19 hrs ago

Thank you for this. Messages of solidarity are vital for marginalized communities. However, true friendship also requires us to hold our own spaces to a higher standard. We can’t truly stand by the Trans community if we continue to tolerate language, "humor," misgendering, or photoshopped imagery that relies on gender-based ridicule just because the target is a political enemy. We undermine our own advocacy when we do that, or when we fail to speak out against it.

It is disheartening when those who point out this inconsistency are gaslit or told they are "too sensitive." If we want to be the "friends" this post describes, we have to stop excusing toxic tropes when they’re convenient and start listening when people tell us that certain language (no matter who it's aimed at) causes real harm.



Ms. Toad

(38,634 posts)
19. Thank you for this.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 02:15 PM
17 hrs ago

I'm so tired of running across this crap on DU and other progressive spaces, calling it out and being cis- or straight-splained about how it is perfectly fine, as long as the target is someone we don't like - or that it is just calling out hypocrisy.

QueerDuck

(1,705 posts)
20. Exactly. It's exhausting trying trying to be a good ally...
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 02:58 PM
16 hrs ago

I can only imagine the toll of actually living that reality every day. It's deeply disheartening when various progressive spaces (the very places that should know better) end up silencing or dismissing the people who call out unfortunate double standards. It’s the "cis-splaining" and the hostility and the selective outrage that makes it so draining. It feels like some people are more interested in protecting a particular narrative than they are in protecting the actual human beings involved, or in acknowledging how hurtful it all is. I really appreciate you speaking up in support.

Oneironaut

(6,299 posts)
13. Thank you and you too!
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 12:46 PM
18 hrs ago

The fight for free expression and bodily autonomy extends to everyone. If they can control trans people, they will control everyone else next, in time.

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
17. Wearing transgender pride colors today at work.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 01:24 PM
18 hrs ago

You are loved and you are valued, transgender people everywhere...

usonian

(25,300 posts)
21. I looked for a folk song "Do what you want to do, Be who you want to be" and no luck. Not what I remembered.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 04:17 PM
15 hrs ago

Last edited Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:39 PM - Edit history (1)

You get the message anyway.

Someone might find or remember the song.

ON EDIT:

I could hear it in my head, but couldn't place it.

Thanks to lonely bird.



Close enough.

Go where you wanna go
Do what you wanna do
Be who you are.

generalbetrayus

(1,857 posts)
22. The Cardigans "Step on Me" has those words, but it is about an abusive relationship, so I don't think that is the one
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:05 PM
12 hrs ago

you are thinking about.

&list=RD0VymvRU4B9M&start_radio=1

usonian

(25,300 posts)
28. Thanks. I noted it, and added my short version.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:40 PM
11 hrs ago

Go where you wanna go
Do what you wanna do
Be who you are.

generalbetrayus

(1,857 posts)
24. 31st Street Bridge, I'm sending along your thoughts to my beautiful trans granddaughter.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:20 PM
12 hrs ago

I'm sure she will appreciate them. Thanks much!

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