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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:48 PM Apr 22

So a follow up on my new romance,

I did the most corniest thing, but not for mine and her generation, I invited her to a nice restaurant and halfway through dinner, I got down on one knee and proposed to her and she said....YES!!!

A new chapter in my life is starting and I'm giddy with happiness.
Excuse me, I've had a couple of shots of Vodka to celebrate my coming 2nd marriage.

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So a follow up on my new romance, (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 OP
I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well Deuxcents Apr 22 #1
Absolutely. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #3
Congrats! montanacowboy Apr 22 #2
We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #4
July 4th. mercuryblues Apr 23 #115
That would be appropriate and my fiance is insisting I wear my Dress Blues, MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #116
Glad I read this before ... oldsoldierfadingfast Apr 23 #125
Congratulations! LoisB Apr 22 #5
Congratulations, that is wonderful wendyb-NC Apr 22 #6
So I'm guessing you're over the blues and into the Carpenters! Congrats! marble falls Apr 22 #7
Congratulations! chowder66 Apr 22 #8
Congratulations to you both on your engagement! May joy be yours, forever! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 22 #9
Congratulations! Diamond_Dog Apr 22 #10
Congratulations, MCE! sheshe2 Apr 22 #11
Thank you sheshe2. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #13
I am so happy for you both. sheshe2 Apr 22 #17
HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while, Jack Valentino Apr 22 #12
Thank you very much. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #19
So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank niyad Apr 22 #14
Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #21
Congrats Lifeafter70 Apr 22 #26
Consider it done. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 22 #29
In uniform? Lifeafter70 Apr 22 #32
We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #36
Naw just step it up at the gym Lifeafter70 Apr 23 #46
Congratulations! Best wishes to you both. Srkdqltr Apr 22 #15
Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you Marie Marie Apr 22 #16
Hearty congratulations MCE. kairos12 Apr 22 #18
So very happy for you both! Grim Chieftain Apr 22 #20
WOW! Omaha Steve Apr 22 #22
How wonderful MCE! Congratulations! electric_blue68 Apr 22 #23
Congrats! May you both be blessed! n/t PatrickforB Apr 22 #24
Wonderful news - best wishes to you both!!! TBF Apr 22 #25
Congratulations Dan Apr 22 #27
Congratulations! Thanks so much for sharing your happy news, MCE!! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Apr 22 #28
Congratulations Sir! JMCKUSICK Apr 22 #30
Congratulations! area51 Apr 22 #31
Congratulations! yonder Apr 22 #33
Oops! Intended for MCE but congrats anyway yonder Apr 24 #133
Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨 Figarosmom Apr 23 #34
🥂 blm Apr 23 #35
Congratulations! 🥂 BlueKota Apr 23 #37
Hey MCE popsdenver Apr 23 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author betsuni Apr 23 #39
Congratulations to the both of you!!!! FemDemERA Apr 23 #40
Terrific news, MCE! summer_in_TX Apr 23 #41
Congratulations! PufPuf23 Apr 23 #42
Congrats! SheltieLover Apr 23 #43
Congratulations!! Chellee Apr 23 #44
Congratulations! Wah_Guy Apr 23 #45
Congrats we all need some good news Tree Lady Apr 23 #47
Yeah - it is nice isn't it? jfz9580m Apr 23 #83
Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday Tree Lady Apr 23 #90
I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep jfz9580m Apr 23 #95
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope Apr 23 #48
Congrats! DET Apr 23 #49
It was a whirlwind romance and we just......clicked and knew we belonged together. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #50
That's nice RussBLib Apr 23 #92
My granddaughter has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #110
Good for you....nothing like shared love!! walkingman Apr 23 #51
Congratulations, good sir! Jedi Guy Apr 23 #52
Congrats GrapesOfWrath Apr 23 #53
Congrats mr715 Apr 23 #54
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Apr 23 #55
Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment? 3catwoman3 Apr 23 #56
Congratulations! UpInArms Apr 23 #57
Congratulations! Hey Joe Apr 23 #58
Well this is delightful news! Wishing you both every happiness!!🩷🩷 KitFox Apr 23 #59
So amazing!!! hamsterjill Apr 23 #60
You can't keep a hard charging Marine down Submariner Apr 23 #61
CONGRATS MCE! BaronChocula Apr 23 #62
Happy engagement/incoming nuptials MCE! Celerity Apr 23 #63
How sweet! Best wishes to you both! Nt spooky3 Apr 23 #64
Congratulations, man! AZJonnie Apr 23 #65
Congratulations! democrank Apr 23 #66
It's so great to hear good news! redwitch Apr 23 #67
Congratulations to both of you! So happy for livetohike Apr 23 #68
Congratulations Emile Apr 23 #69
Congratulations. live love laugh Apr 23 #70
I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today. Scrivener7 Apr 23 #71
Congratulations!! PCIntern Apr 23 #72
Sweet malaise Apr 23 #73
Congratulations! Solomon Apr 23 #74
Congrats to you both. BoomaofBandM Apr 23 #75
Congratulations! orangecrush Apr 23 #76
Awesome!!!! gay texan Apr 23 #77
THAT is bravery. /nt bucolic_frolic Apr 23 #78
Love is wonderful! Congratulations and all best wishes. Passages Apr 23 #79
Holy shit - that was fast jfz9580m Apr 23 #80
She has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #112
Yay jfz9580m Apr 24 #128
Congratulations 👏🎉 MustLoveBeagles Apr 23 #81
How wonderful for both of you! CozyMystery Apr 23 #82
Well shit, there goes the neighborhood. Prairie_Seagull Apr 23 #84
Congrats, and wishing you and your fiance long and happy lives together! 70sEraVet Apr 23 #85
Mazeltov! barbtries Apr 23 #86
Praise the Lord 🙌 I am happy for you both? 1WorldHope Apr 23 #87
WOW, that is great. You have me all smiles. Best MCE, to you and your betrothed. c-rational Apr 23 #88
Betrothed? MarineCombatEngineer Apr 24 #131
Mazel tov! Grumpy Old Guy Apr 23 #89
WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you! liberalla Apr 23 #91
Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh! calimary Apr 23 #93
Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!! AverageOldGuy Apr 23 #94
As dark as the world is these days Bettie Apr 23 #96
Well I am pissed off!!!!! tavernier Apr 23 #97
Stockings with seams? 3catwoman3 Apr 23 #101
LOL, loved your post, MarineCombatEngineer Apr 23 #113
Congrats To Both Of You ProfessorGAC Apr 23 #98
Very cool Joinfortmill Apr 23 #99
Congratulations MCE! bluestarone Apr 23 #100
Very Best Wishes MarineCombatEngineer to you and your Lucky Lady!! Way to go!! George McGovern Apr 23 #102
That's Awesome News! kooth Apr 23 #103
Wow! That's wonderful! Congratulations Ilsa Apr 23 #104
Congrats! senseandsensibility Apr 23 #105
Best news I've read all day! Congratulations, and forever long may you two be happy. Efilroft Sul Apr 23 #106
Congratulations, and if it matters....... DFW Apr 23 #107
After we had been a couple for about 2 years, I proposed to my husband and he turned me down. 3catwoman3 Apr 23 #122
With us, there was more to it than that. It was my brother who invited us to our wedding. DFW Apr 24 #129
Oh my! SimplyHadEnough Apr 23 #108
Congratulations! cate94 Apr 23 #109
Great news! Best wishes to you both! LuckyCharms Apr 23 #111
Congratulations!! 58Sunliner Apr 23 #114
Yay! Love and marriage! planetc Apr 23 #117
So cool. Congrats!! n/t iluvtennis Apr 23 #118
Well congrats, MCE! OldBaldy1701E Apr 23 #119
Excellent ❤️ Much good fortune to come 🍀 Clouds Passing Apr 23 #120
You must have done something right! Permanut Apr 23 #121
Congratulations! Trueblue Texan Apr 23 #123
Hey, this is awesome! I'm so happy for you and your new partner! FakeNoose Apr 23 #124
Big congrats, MCE! Bayard Apr 23 #126
Beautiful. AloeVera Apr 23 #127
Thank you AloeVera. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 24 #132
THAT means a lot to ME. AloeVera Apr 25 #137
congratulations, and all good wishes! mike_c Apr 24 #130
Congrats again, MCE, and a happy road ahead for you both! yonder Apr 24 #134
Congratulations!! mountain grammy Apr 24 #135
You are correct on your dare I say it. MarineCombatEngineer Apr 24 #136

Deuxcents

(27,606 posts)
1. I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:55 PM
Apr 22

With this news, you know we’re gonna want to follow you thru your engagement, right?!

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
4. We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:02 PM
Apr 22

I'll let DU know when we've set a definite date.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
116. That would be appropriate and my fiance is insisting I wear my Dress Blues,
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:27 PM
Apr 23

although I'll have to have them altered to compensate for the pounds I've put on since I retired from the Corps.

125. Glad I read this before ...
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 10:24 PM
Apr 23

posting as I was going to warn you to try them on first! LOL
CONGRATULATIONS! May you both live a long, happy life together.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
13. Thank you sheshe2.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:25 PM
Apr 22

I know it was a fast romance and proposal, but when the heart speaks, one listens and we both listened.

Jack Valentino

(5,240 posts)
12. HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while,
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:21 PM
Apr 22

since the post about your upcoming 'first date'---
but seems you've been busy in the meantime!

My sincere congratulations !!!!



niyad

(133,871 posts)
14. So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:26 PM
Apr 22

you for sharing your joyous news with us!

Does your lady know that you come with a whole group of EXTREMELY nosy friends, who will want alll sorts of details?

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
21. Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:35 PM
Apr 22

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
36. We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 AM
Apr 23

Dress Blues altered to compensate for the extra pounds I've put on since retiring from the Corps.

Lifeafter70

(1,194 posts)
46. Naw just step it up at the gym
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:15 AM
Apr 23

Or evening walks with your fiancee.

Your a Marine, if you can get through boot camp you can do it. I have faith in you.

Just in case get those dress blues altered.
My favorite pics of my son are from when he was in the corps.

Thanks for chatting with me. It broke up my evening caring for my son.

Du has the best people. Wishing you and your lovely lady many years of joy and happiness.

Marie Marie

(11,484 posts)
16. Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:30 PM
Apr 22

both a long and happy marriage.

yonder

(10,311 posts)
133. Oops! Intended for MCE but congrats anyway
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 10:36 PM
Apr 24

. . . for any congratulationable (word? don't think so) events of your own!

Figarosmom

(13,161 posts)
34. Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:00 AM
Apr 23

That's also a big step. There's a lot to think about. Who's house etc. type stuff. Big wedding or small? Pulling out all the stops? How life can change in one month. Wow, wow. Wow.

popsdenver

(2,580 posts)
38. Hey MCE
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:07 AM
Apr 23

I am very happy to hear that news!!!!!!!!! Second marriages are the best!!!!!!! In many cases the first marriage, I call
a Practice Marriage.....LOL
Have a joyous life together, full of fun and endearing times!

Response to MarineCombatEngineer (Original post)

PufPuf23

(9,924 posts)
42. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:10 AM
Apr 23

Nice for your bride that you will not be on the road so much too.

Wish you years of peace and happiness.

jfz9580m

(17,712 posts)
83. Yeah - it is nice isn't it?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:36 AM
Apr 23

The last time I smiled was at GreatAuntofTriplets’ thread about one of the triplets getting into med school.

Happy for MCE.

Tree Lady

(13,384 posts)
90. Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 PM
Apr 23

First time in a long time and saw Hail Mary with Ryan Gosling cute feel good movie. Those are the kind of things we need to do.

I feel like every day we are washed in dirty mucky chemical filled stinky water, need to rinse off!

jfz9580m

(17,712 posts)
95. I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:14 PM
Apr 23

I get this, but admit to enjoying some circuses as the bread is stale and mouldy:

https://www.currentaffairs.org/news/the-banal-horror-of-jimmy-fallon

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
110. My granddaughter has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:07 PM
Apr 23

I think I'm going to finally fully retire and spend the time I have left on planet earth with my soon to be wife.

Jedi Guy

(3,496 posts)
52. Congratulations, good sir!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:33 AM
Apr 23

I wish you many years with your beloved and as much joy as your heart can stand!

mr715

(4,085 posts)
54. Congrats
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:42 AM
Apr 23

I'm very, very, very, very happy for you.

There is a lot of beauty in this world. There is a lot worth fighting for.

Had I some vodka, I'd do one with you. Just accept this one in spirit. Spirit spirits.

Congratulations.

May you have many years of happiness, and may each year be better than the last.

I'm so happy for you.


MR

3catwoman3

(29,748 posts)
56. Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:50 AM
Apr 23

I’m somewhat envious of the lightning speed of your love story. My husband and I were a couple for 4 years before he was ready to take a second chance on marriage. Understandable, as it was a nasty divorce, but it was a long wait. First time around for me.

All the best to both of you!

Submariner

(13,431 posts)
61. You can't keep a hard charging Marine down
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:09 AM
Apr 23

Congratulations and the best of luck to the both of you.

AZJonnie

(3,990 posts)
65. Congratulations, man!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 02:57 AM
Apr 23

My partner and I were engaged end of August last year in Honolulu.

2nd's for both of us as well.

livetohike

(24,400 posts)
68. Congratulations to both of you! So happy for
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 06:01 AM
Apr 23

you MCE. Wishing you many years of love and laughter .

Scrivener7

(60,043 posts)
71. I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:03 AM
Apr 23

jfz9580m

(17,712 posts)
80. Holy shit - that was fast
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:29 AM
Apr 23

Congratulations . I just thought of you today MCE. Well your granddaughter to be more precise. Hope her job is going well.

I am really happy for you .

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
112. She has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:13 PM
Apr 23

I plan to fully retire and we're going to do some traveling, I want to take her to some of the countries I was stationed in, like Italy, Vietnam, Great Britain, etc.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,796 posts)
84. Well shit, there goes the neighborhood.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:43 AM
Apr 23

One knee, oh that's a corny marine move.

Really though,

CONGRATS MCE,

liberalla

(11,214 posts)
91. WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:17 PM
Apr 23

My best and warmest wishes are heading your way!


calimary

(90,673 posts)
93. Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:27 PM
Apr 23

That’s NOT “corny”, my friend.

That’s gallant, impressive, breathtaking, and a whole lotta fabulous!!!

WELL DONE, sir. WELL DONE!!!

AverageOldGuy

(4,137 posts)
94. Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:49 PM
Apr 23

And lots of congratulations to the nice lady.

Sometimes it just the right thing to do . . . good on both of you for recognizing this is one of those times!!!

Bettie

(19,847 posts)
96. As dark as the world is these days
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:17 PM
Apr 23

You've managed to show that a little light can shine through.

Congratulations!

tavernier

(14,501 posts)
97. Well I am pissed off!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:26 PM
Apr 23

I thought you might consider an older lady, someone with roots going back to World War Two, Swing Music, chocolates and stockings on a date.

Oh well… guess I’m still single and looking.



Congratulations and save me a dance on your special day.

3catwoman3

(29,748 posts)
101. Stockings with seams?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:36 PM
Apr 23

I remember my mother, born in 1922, telling me that if young ladies didn’t have stockings with seams they would use eyebrow pencils to draw faux seams on their legs.

Getting those lines straight must have been tricky, or maybe they helped each other out.

bluestarone

(22,432 posts)
100. Congratulations MCE!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:31 PM
Apr 23

WOW! happy for you both!! If you need another reason to hug her, there are thousands here saying GIVE HER A HUG from us!!! LOL Best of luck to BOTH of you!!

kooth

(239 posts)
103. That's Awesome News!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:50 PM
Apr 23

Congratulations and much happiness to both of you! And, of course, thanks for your service!

DFW

(60,411 posts)
107. Congratulations, and if it matters.......
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 03:56 PM
Apr 23

It sounds like you got a far more enthusiastic response to your proposal than I did to mine, which was the German equivalent to "works for me."

3catwoman3

(29,748 posts)
122. After we had been a couple for about 2 years, I proposed to my husband and he turned me down.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 08:58 PM
Apr 23

2 years later, when it was his idea, he merely said, "So when would you like to get married?" High school boys do a better job asking a girl to prom!

DFW

(60,411 posts)
129. With us, there was more to it than that. It was my brother who invited us to our wedding.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 02:46 AM
Apr 24

We had been together for more than seven and a half years. My brother‘s girlfriend was from Japan, and was eager to join him in northern Virginia, where we were originally from. Getting married was the easiest solution for them, and they went through the paperwork and set a date.

When the date and place (Arlington, Virginia) were firm, he tracked me down to our Boston office and asked me if I wanted to be best man at a wedding. I said sure! and said I would ask my girlfriend in Germany if she could make it, too. My brother spontaneously said, „well if you both are gonna be there, we might as well make it a double wedding.“ Not only did that sound like a cool idea, but I thought „no arrangements!“ I said I would call her in Germany right away.

So I called my then-girlfriend, and told her that my brother and his girlfriend would be getting married in Virginia the next spring, and did she think she could make it? She said absolutely, and there was mo way she would miss it. I then told her his idea about the double wedding idea, whereupon she said, “works for me.” Don’t forget, after nearly eight years together, it’s not like we were strangers taking a big risk. The biggest laugh of the reception night came when my best man remarked, “I know many of you think by they are rushing into this.” The truth was more that some people, including my wife’s parents, were wondering if we were going to get married before or after reaching retirement age.

planetc

(8,966 posts)
117. Yay! Love and marriage!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:38 PM
Apr 23

Oh, boy, did we need some delightful news. Pictures! Don't forget the pictures!

AloeVera

(4,378 posts)
127. Beautiful.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 10:48 PM
Apr 23

Like everyone else, I am tickled at this turn of events and absolutely thrilled and happy for you MCE! Goes to show that it's true that love will find us when we are ready for it and even when we least expect it. Your heart must be so full of wonder and excitement that just thinking of it makes me smile. Thank you for sharing this wonderful news, we all needed to be reminded that in spite of everything, life is good and full of surprises still.

I wish you both many years of happiness, love and joy together!

mike_c

(37,127 posts)
130. congratulations, and all good wishes!
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 05:30 AM
Apr 24

Wonderfulness can slap you upside the head every now and then.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,171 posts)
136. You are correct on your dare I say it.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 10:55 PM
Apr 24

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She is now my fiancée and I couldn't be happier.

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