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Doodley

(12,084 posts)
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:52 PM Saturday

I have an in-law family member who hero worships Charlie Kirk. He wears the T-shirt and has a Charlie Kirk sticker

on the back of his car. What would you think of him, based on this, and how would you handle this situation?

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I have an in-law family member who hero worships Charlie Kirk. He wears the T-shirt and has a Charlie Kirk sticker (Original Post) Doodley Saturday OP
Civilly. mahatmakanejeeves Saturday #1
I'd just avoid the conversation if possible underpants Saturday #2
I'd just avoid him. I'd avoid him if he was a family member dem4decades Saturday #3
By ignoring it as much as possible. There's no point in getting into it with those people. Ocelot II Saturday #4
I would think they are a likely irredeemable shitbag, and RockRaven Saturday #5
Good advice so far. Norrrm Saturday #6
I would not allow his influence around my children. Dan Saturday #7
People believe different things Melon Saturday #8
You handle ForgedCrank Saturday #9
Avoid talking about Charlie sakabatou Saturday #10
Bigotry is a negative character trait. The Wizard Saturday #11

mahatmakanejeeves

(70,882 posts)
1. Civilly.
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:55 PM
Saturday

Age? Occupation? Education level? "In-law" meaning what?

Don't bring up the subject. If he does, you don't have to agree with him. You also don't have to get in a shouting match with him.

Before giving a response, ask yourself, "Is this how I want to be remembered?"

And good afternoon.

underpants

(197,267 posts)
2. I'd just avoid the conversation if possible
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:56 PM
Saturday

You already know enough about them to know you don’t need to hear their view or opinion….mostly because it’s probably not really their own.

Ocelot II

(131,296 posts)
4. By ignoring it as much as possible. There's no point in getting into it with those people.
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:59 PM
Saturday

RockRaven

(19,775 posts)
5. I would think they are a likely irredeemable shitbag, and
Sat May 23, 2026, 02:02 PM
Saturday

I would handle it by not wasting my time interacting with them when avoidable -- the payoff for being wrong on that knee-jerk assessment is not worth the headache that would come with being correct.

That is, as you note, solely based on that one fact you have shared, however, and in a non-hypothetical situation surely more than that one isolated fact would be known so this answer is necessarily of little real world usefulness.

ForgedCrank

(3,124 posts)
9. You handle
Sat May 23, 2026, 02:37 PM
Saturday

it by keeping politics to yourself and do nothing as long as he isn't harassing you about Charlie Kirk all day. If he does, kindly let him know that you'd prefer to not talk politics or religion for the sake of civility. If he still refuses, simply stay away form him because lashing back is the same thing, don't be like that.
You won't be changing his mind and if he's treating you decent, you do the same because that's what decent people do.
As far as what I would think of him? It wouldn't matter to me because I recognize the right of others to have differing opinions and I don't hate them for it. I may secretly think they are wrong on some things, but that is irrelevant to them and not worthy of a family argument.
Anyway, that's my advice.

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