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The Roux Comes First

(2,424 posts)
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:49 AM Saturday

Is It Just Me Aging and Getting Increasingly Grumpy

Or does anyone else feel smitten by laziness on the part of posters here, failing to proof their posts for wrong words, missing words, and other sloppiness?

I.e., common courtesy!

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Is It Just Me Aging and Getting Increasingly Grumpy (Original Post) The Roux Comes First Saturday OP
I think the former. Also, are you sure you want to use the word "smitten" here? Scrivener7 Saturday #1
Now I'm really confused Lifeafter70 Saturday #5
Show me someone who can't spell or write a lucid post and I'll show you a smoke show. Xavier Breath Saturday #12
Points Taken! The Roux Comes First Saturday #17
Being smitten means being deeply in love, infatuated, or overwhelmingly captivated by someone or something. Celerity 3 hrs ago #37
On fairness, auto correct is raising hell with displacedvermoter Saturday #2
Like I meant to write "In fairness" and it came out displacedvermoter Saturday #6
Same Here ProfessorGAC Saturday #24
Depends on the day Bettie Saturday #3
Message auto-removed Name removed Saturday #4
"On behalf of" is also puzzling in that phrase. Maybe the whole post is satire? enough Saturday #9
Message auto-removed Name removed Saturday #10
Word police Wifes husband Saturday #7
Meh, could be worse. Xavier Breath Saturday #15
Or worse than that.... Celerity 2 hrs ago #38
Have you read the Hill or Politico? mr715 Saturday #8
As I get older, my spelling accuracy is floating away... Swede Saturday #11
I'm getting less judgmental in my old age. Emile Saturday #13
Or you put up a disclaimer ... like my sig line. MiHale Saturday #14
Choose your battles and suffer the consequences. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Saturday #16
Is it laziness? orthoclad Saturday #18
I Hear You Loud and Clear The Roux Comes First Saturday #20
I think a "blank post rule" would orthoclad Saturday #21
I can deal with spelling and grammar issues fujiyamasan 8 hrs ago #35
The typos don't bother me like the opaque titles GenThePerservering Saturday #19
Yeah. Clickbait. orthoclad Saturday #22
And, "TURN ON (whatever channel) RIGHT FUCKING NOW!!!" Wednesdays Saturday #23
CALL YOUR CONGRESSCRITTER, RIGHT FUCKING NOW!! madinmaryland Saturday #28
And the hyperbole. Disaffected Saturday #25
A lot of times I try to cram my entire post into the subject line, if it's short. LOL Beartracks Saturday #29
Not exactly smitten, more annoyed. nt Disaffected Saturday #26
It's the internet, sharing ideas quickly, shit happens. dem4decades Saturday #27
Does neatness count? H2O Man Saturday #30
Spill chick helps but it's not perfect. Norrrm Saturday #31
I'm on the dysgraphia spectrum. multigraincracker Saturday #32
Quilty as charged MustLoveBeagles Saturday #33
Just you, I think canetoad Saturday #34
It isn't just you. Chemical Bill 5 hrs ago #36

Scrivener7

(60,304 posts)
1. I think the former. Also, are you sure you want to use the word "smitten" here?
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:53 AM
Saturday

"Bothered" or "annoyed" or, depending on your personality, "irrationally enraged" maybe, but did someone really smite you with their bad grammar or spelling or punctuation? If so, a video of the smiting would be appreciated.

Lifeafter70

(1,263 posts)
5. Now I'm really confused
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 12:21 PM
Saturday

I thought the op was just overwhelming attracted to those of us who fail at proof reading. 😉

Celerity

(55,287 posts)
37. Being smitten means being deeply in love, infatuated, or overwhelmingly captivated by someone or something.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 03:52 AM
3 hrs ago

I am quite certain that is not the word the OP was looking for to describe their vexation.

displacedvermoter

(5,222 posts)
2. On fairness, auto correct is raising hell with
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:54 AM
Saturday

sending things. I find myself having to go back and edit because auto correct made me write something I didn't intend.

displacedvermoter

(5,222 posts)
6. Like I meant to write "In fairness" and it came out
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 12:22 PM
Saturday

"On fairness", which sounds like a philosophical treatise or Papal Encyclical...

ProfessorGAC

(77,638 posts)
24. Same Here
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 03:05 PM
Saturday

And to compound matters, typos I've made get imbedded into the logic and it calls for words that are actual typos and replaces the correct word.
I'm thinking about shutting off autocorrect.

Bettie

(19,983 posts)
3. Depends on the day
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:54 AM
Saturday

I tend to use proper grammar and spelling, unless I am posting from my phone....then, all bets are off.

I avoid having to do it from my phone because of this.

It's also why I edit so many of my posts, because I will miss a typo and end up having to go back and fix it.

But as long as I can understand what the poster was getting at, the autocorrect in my head works fine!

Response to The Roux Comes First (Original post)

Response to enough (Reply #9)

mr715

(4,788 posts)
8. Have you read the Hill or Politico?
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 12:26 PM
Saturday

The number of typos are grammatical errors are through the roof.

Swede

(40,479 posts)
11. As I get older, my spelling accuracy is floating away...
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 12:36 PM
Saturday

And I don't care, also because I am getting older.

MiHale

(13,274 posts)
14. Or you put up a disclaimer ... like my sig line.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 12:41 PM
Saturday

Who am I to mock a typo, when I have created so many myself, they are my legacy.....N_E_1 for Tennis.

A quote from the former…me.

orthoclad

(5,027 posts)
18. Is it laziness?
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 02:02 PM
Saturday

It seems that more and more posts are what I call "blank" posts, which consist of nothing but a link to some other site. This disturbs me, because so many of those links are to out-and-out evil sites like google (including googletube), meta, or x. Almost as bad are the links to unknown potentially spyware-laden sites.

The internet is home to Bond villains, thieves, and other bad actors these days.

I wish posters would take the trouble to write a sentence or a paragraph describing what the link is about, before we either
- monetize Musk, Zuckerberg, Brin or some other vampire oligarch
- expose ourselves to possible spyware bad actors.

It has something to do with informed consent, ya know.

Sometimes I feel generous and ascribe this to the proliferation of snark phones with their tiny screens, hard to type on. Other times I think it's a sign of advancing illiteracy .

If the poster can't take a minute to type a description or summary, I certainly can't waste my time watching/listening to ad-filled videos or clicking on iffy links. This "laziness" seems very rude to me. It's saying that MY time is not important compared to the poster's time.

orthoclad

(5,027 posts)
21. I think a "blank post rule" would
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 02:42 PM
Saturday

vastly improve the dialog here. And would stop empowering bad actors like Musk.

fujiyamasan

(2,152 posts)
35. I can deal with spelling and grammar issues
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 10:52 PM
8 hrs ago

But context free links really annoy me.

Are you seriously so lazy you can’t make the case why we should watch some random person’s video? Usually it’s a video.

I skip most videos anyways.

GenThePerservering

(4,038 posts)
19. The typos don't bother me like the opaque titles
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 02:09 PM
Saturday

'Question'
'So...'
'And so it begins'

Etc etc

Cute, but uninformative. Not everyone has time to open.every.post.

orthoclad

(5,027 posts)
22. Yeah. Clickbait.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 02:46 PM
Saturday

I was taught that expository writing should be clear. Or at least attempt clarity.

madinmaryland

(65,816 posts)
28. CALL YOUR CONGRESSCRITTER, RIGHT FUCKING NOW!!
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 03:24 PM
Saturday

Why do u want me to do that? Also, he’s a repubican and he wont listen to me. Even though we went. To college together.

multigraincracker

(38,289 posts)
32. I'm on the dysgraphia spectrum.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 04:27 PM
Saturday

Had an Anthropology professor explain it to me. Even though I was a psychology major, never heard about in those classes.
She explained to me that is the message is conveyed by the author to the reader the grammar is correct.
No one, not even me can read my handwriting. My mother was an English teacher and had me practice writing and spelling forever. Finally gave up.
For your and my sanity, just let go of it.

MustLoveBeagles

(18,206 posts)
33. Quilty as charged
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 04:50 PM
Saturday

Though I do catch them fairly often, I'm not perfect. I'm sure some have slipped by me. I'm sorry. I'll try to do better.

canetoad

(21,195 posts)
34. Just you, I think
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 08:22 PM
Saturday

People make typos, have arthritic hands and bad eyes.

On edit: *typographical errors.

Chemical Bill

(3,245 posts)
36. It isn't just you.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 01:34 AM
5 hrs ago

I also have trouble when people refuse to link to a source for assertions they make.

Mostly though, I'm getting older and grumpy.

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