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Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 07:53 PM Jan 2013

open carrying store clerks: would that have freaked anyone out?

The thread about the cable guy/pizza guy/et al coming to your house open carrying reminded me of a situation I thought I'd ask y'all about.

About 8 or 10 years ago, the gas station a mile from our house was owned and run by a family, a father-son business. We frequented the gas station, so we spoke to the father and son often. One November, there was an armed robbery while the father (mid 60's/early 70's) was on duty, and he was shot in the abdomen during the robbery. He spent I think a month in ICU, and many months after that trying to recover and rehabilitate. He eventually returned to the store to work behind the counter (with a noticeable dent in his abdomen), but when he returned, he had a gun. He openly carried, every day, all day at the store. I don't know what kind of gun it was, as I'm not gun savvy enough to differentiate, but it was a large revolver type gun, and he carried it right on his hip in a holster.

It gave me pause the first time I saw it, because it was initially a shock, but after that it didn't really bother me. I never thought twice about going into the store or patronizing the store, even with my children in tow.

I am now wondering, would you be upset and/or refuse to patronize a store where the shop owner openly carried? I never thought twice about it before now, but my curiosity has gotten the better of me.

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open carrying store clerks: would that have freaked anyone out? (Original Post) Butterbean Jan 2013 OP
If I walked into a place and saw people avebury Jan 2013 #1
Same here HockeyMom Jan 2013 #3
Okay, thanks. Just wondering. I guess if you didn't know Butterbean Jan 2013 #4
I don't think I would go there anymore. LeftofObama Jan 2013 #2
I thought about that a couple of times, too (getting caught in the crossfire) Butterbean Jan 2013 #5
And this happens... how often? PavePusher Jan 2013 #20
Nope, LeftofObama Jan 2013 #23
Huh. I'd be impressed with the desire to protect themselves (and presumeably their customers). PavePusher Jan 2013 #28
Wouldn't bother me a bit... Coyote_Tan Jan 2013 #6
May I ask where you live? I am wondering if Butterbean Jan 2013 #10
I was raised around guns... Coyote_Tan Jan 2013 #22
Several farm markets and nurseries I go to have been held up. Remmah2 Jan 2013 #7
I wouldn't have a problem with a shop owner being armed. Marrah_G Jan 2013 #8
Not at all. flvegan Jan 2013 #9
Would not bother me at all. nt greytdemocrat Jan 2013 #11
Yes. peacebird Jan 2013 #12
It wouldn't bother me in the least. nt rrneck Jan 2013 #13
Meh, to each his/her own. n/t X_Digger Jan 2013 #14
What's he going to do, rob himself? I wouldn't be concerned. OneTenthofOnePercent Jan 2013 #15
No, not as long as he had training about gun safety etc. nt Raine Jan 2013 #16
Store clerk? Not sure. Probably wouldn't bother me. RedCappedBandit Jan 2013 #17
I would leave. Most gun cultists I've known who carried were mean, callous, bigots. Hoyt Jan 2013 #18
I suspect you may have approached them... Coyote_Tan Jan 2013 #24
No reason to pull a gun, but carriers enjoy intimidation. Hoyt Jan 2013 #33
I have no problem with proprietors being armed. n/t Mugu Jan 2013 #19
No, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would understand it, esp under those circumstances. Honeycombe8 Jan 2013 #21
Would not be comfortable Comatose Sphagetti Jan 2013 #25
There was a convenience store right off I-75 close to where I lived where the clerks were armed Yo_Mama Jan 2013 #26
Not much. But, I do not belong to a "threatening" demographic. Buzz Clik Jan 2013 #27
A neighbor of ours used to open carry at the church picnic FarCenter Jan 2013 #29
WOW. Never seen that. The father and son sold the store I think 4 years ago, btw. Butterbean Jan 2013 #31
At the time, concealed carry permits were very hard to get; open carry was generally legal FarCenter Jan 2013 #32
Absolutely not. RebelOne Jan 2013 #30
Yep, it would make me think of a couple things quinnox Jan 2013 #34
I've seen a couple stores where owners open carry sarisataka Jan 2013 #35
I worked 3rd shift at a C-Store for several years NashvilleLefty Jan 2013 #36

avebury

(10,952 posts)
1. If I walked into a place and saw people
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 07:57 PM
Jan 2013

open carrying I would probably turn around and walk out. I can understand why the guy probably when back to work open carrying but I would probably still turn around and walk out and would think twice about returning again.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
3. Same here
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:01 PM
Jan 2013

but with open carry I would easily have that choice. With concealed carry, I would not know or have that choice.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
4. Okay, thanks. Just wondering. I guess if you didn't know
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:01 PM
Jan 2013

the owner and the situation that preceded him feeling the need to open carry, it would probably be kind of freaky, yeah. I imagine if I walked into just any store and saw someone open carrying it would probably give me pause. I guess with this situation, because we knew them and knew the background, it really didn't bother me much.

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
2. I don't think I would go there anymore.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:00 PM
Jan 2013

First of all what if there was an accidental discharge, and second of all if the store gets robbed while you're there you would get caught in the crossfire.

I think I would take my chances in a store where there probably aren't any guns.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
5. I thought about that a couple of times, too (getting caught in the crossfire)
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:02 PM
Jan 2013

and it did worry me a little. It's odd how the disconnect happens.

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
23. Nope,
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:54 PM
Jan 2013

No stats.

But my first thought would be, "Oh look! That guys got a gun strapped to his side. What if this place gets robbed while I'm in here? I wouldn't want to be caught in the crossfire. I don't think I want to take the chance." Then I would thank him for his time and walk to the door.

 

PavePusher

(15,374 posts)
28. Huh. I'd be impressed with the desire to protect themselves (and presumeably their customers).
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:45 PM
Jan 2013

I'd try to strike up a conversation about why they chose to do so, what training they have had or intend to get, what type of guns they decided on and why.... heck, the possibilities are nearly endless.

But I'm interested in people. YMMV.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
10. May I ask where you live? I am wondering if
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:09 PM
Jan 2013

it's regional/cultural. The area where I live now is very blue/liberal, and open carry isn't common at all. However, where I was raised and have lived most of my life before here is deep red and guns are very much a part of the scenery. It is not uncommon at all to hear gunshots in the distance when we go back home to visit, because there are so many hunters out and about (rural SC).

 

Coyote_Tan

(194 posts)
22. I was raised around guns...
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:54 PM
Jan 2013

... In a military and LEO environment out west. Healthy healthy respect for firearms that started when i had the ability to comprehend.

Currently I am active military and bounce around but most places I've been, aside from Europe, were gun friendly.

Even the Germans were thrilled to be able to shoot with me but that was novelty as much as anything.

 

Remmah2

(3,291 posts)
7. Several farm markets and nurseries I go to have been held up.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:04 PM
Jan 2013

Cash businesses can be targets for robberies. The owners don't "open carry" but a handgun or shotgun is real close by.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
8. I wouldn't have a problem with a shop owner being armed.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:07 PM
Jan 2013

If he is carrying it would generally mean that he works in a place where he feels being armed out wieghs any loss of business from customers who object.

flvegan

(64,408 posts)
9. Not at all.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:08 PM
Jan 2013

I have friends who are bailbondsmen, pawn shop owners and other professions where open carry is frequent for some employees in their storefronts.

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
15. What's he going to do, rob himself? I wouldn't be concerned.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:18 PM
Jan 2013

I would have no problem patronizing that establishment.

Many small business owners and private establishments have a shotgun handy or concealed handgun. Just because you can see it doesn't change anything for me.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
17. Store clerk? Not sure. Probably wouldn't bother me.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:39 PM
Jan 2013

Would be more bothered by other shoppers open carrying.

That said, glad I live in a state where that doesn't happen.


However, a cable guy coming to my house open carrying? Fuck no.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
21. No, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would understand it, esp under those circumstances.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 08:47 PM
Jan 2013

I think a lot of store owners have a gun behind the counter.

Comatose Sphagetti

(836 posts)
25. Would not be comfortable
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:06 PM
Jan 2013

Hell, I won't even patronize 'Texas Roadhouse' due to Texas' stance on the death penalty.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
26. There was a convenience store right off I-75 close to where I lived where the clerks were armed
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:20 PM
Jan 2013

I noticed it and then realized it was because of the location.

It didn't upset me.

There was a branch of a bank I used to do some work for in GA that was right off the highway that was robbed three times in a year. Pretty scary stuff. Location, location, location.

I'd think it was weird in another location, though.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
29. A neighbor of ours used to open carry at the church picnic
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:48 PM
Jan 2013

Concealed carry is more of a issue than open carry.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
31. WOW. Never seen that. The father and son sold the store I think 4 years ago, btw.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:51 PM
Jan 2013

The guy who runs it now doesn't open carry. I have no idea if he's got a gun. I don't go there much any more.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
32. At the time, concealed carry permits were very hard to get; open carry was generally legal
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 10:08 PM
Jan 2013

The philosophy was, apparently, that you could carry, buy others should know you are carrying.

After all, the law officers usually open carry, and that's generally not a problem, and they're not always the sharpest knives in the drawer.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
30. Absolutely not.
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 09:49 PM
Jan 2013

It would not deter me from patronized a store where the owner was openly carrying a weapon.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
34. Yep, it would make me think of a couple things
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:25 AM
Jan 2013

One, why is it necessary for them to have a weapon. Hmm, I would think, maybe this is not such a good store to go to, if they get robbed on a regular basis, and I wouldn't want to be there on the next robbery.

Two, it would make me nervous in general. I don't want to see civilians wearing a gun, I only want to see people in authority and that I know are trained to use them have one openly displayed, such as police officers, etc. It would make me think the store guy was paranoid or something was wrong with him. Or, as I said, that this is not a store I want to frequent if it is a common target of thieves.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
35. I've seen a couple stores where owners open carry
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:34 AM
Jan 2013

I usually ask if they have problems with robberies. The usual answer is- not any more

NashvilleLefty

(811 posts)
36. I worked 3rd shift at a C-Store for several years
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 01:12 AM
Jan 2013

when I was much younger. I was robbed once.

It was quite a surprise, since Metro Police were regular customers and I gave them free coffee and every other perk I could to keep them as regulars.

I'll never forget it - I was filling the beer cooler when I saw this guy be-bop up to the counter. I came out of the cooler and greeted him "Hey! how's it going?" He seemed like an extremely nice guy, as he greeted me back. I got to my spot and slammed ny hand down on the counter and asked "What can I do for you?" and flashed my best smile. He said "you can give me all your money." I laughed, because that was a common joke, and said "no, really, what can I do for you?" He replied "I said you can give me all your money". His face was serious, and I saw a movement at his belt-line. Looking down, I saw he was cocking a small pistol in his belt. I raised my hands, and pulled the cashdrawer out so he could watch as I pulled out the cash and gave it to him. He asked me about the other register, and I went over and pulled out the empty cashdrawer and showed it to him.

"it's empty, see?" He asked if I had anymore money stashed anywhere, as he was on his way out. Of course, I said no. We also had a height strip posted at the door, so I could give an accurate report of his height to the police.

Our company had very strict rules about not having more than $60 in a drawer at a time. They also had multiple signs posting that we did not have access to more than that and apologizing for not being able to break big bills (both an apology to our customers and a warning to crooks - pass us by, we're not worth it!)

Of course, I called Metro. They responded quickly (I guess all that free coffee and joking around paid off!). While they were taking my statement, they got a call that the guy had been apprehended. Seems that he had just gotten out of jail his friends decided to go joy-riding and knocked off several C-Stores.

To be honest, I was really intimidated by his gun because it wasn't very large. Afterwards, my cop friends told me that I was lucky because it was a small caliber which tended to be more deadly because they would enter and then bounce around tearing out your insides, rather than a large caliber that would have been a clean through and through.

There were more interesting things that happened in the aftermath (including my court testimony, where I was asked to look carefully at the defendant to verify my line-up testimony, and while staring into the defendant's eyes he eventually looked down and away, as if he couldn't stand the scrutiny), but I won't mention them here. I'll be happy to give more info for anyone who wishes.

But I NEVER felt the need to conceal carry or open carry any kind of weapon before or after.

Perhaps it was because of the precautions that our company had taken.

Otherwise, my company sucked. They eventually went out of business, but I suspect that the founders are sitting on a tropical beach sipping pina coladas and laughing that someone actually paid good money to buy their company (I won't mention the name, but it's initials were Hot Stop - oops!)

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