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jsr

(7,712 posts)
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:35 AM Jan 2013

Michael Nodianos 'is a really good kid from a really good family,' lawyer says

http://www.cnn.com/2013/01/07/justice/ohio-steubenville-alleged-rape-case/

Teen in Ohio video 'ashamed and embarrassed,' lawyer says
By CNN Staff

Steubenville, Ohio (CNN) -- One of the teens who recorded himself mocking the girl at the center of an Ohio rape case "did a really dumb thing and regrets it" but did not commit any crime, his lawyer said Monday.

The attorney, Dennis McNamara, said there was "no excuse or justification" for the jokes Michael Nodianos made, "and with some sober reflection, he is ashamed and embarrassed to hear them himself."

"Michael is a really good kid from a really good family who did a really dumb thing and regrets it," he said. "Beyond that, he has no involvement in the criminal case or in any of the underlying activity that led to the filing of the criminal charges."

McNamara said his client graduated from Steubenville High in 2012. He had perfect attendance, played on the school's baseball team and won an academic scholarship to Ohio State University.


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Michael Nodianos 'is a really good kid from a really good family,' lawyer says (Original Post) jsr Jan 2013 OP
Perfect attendance must count for something here damn it! HangOnKids Jan 2013 #1
Yeah, give him one of these: jsr Jan 2013 #2
The lawyer is a liar... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #3
I'm not up on all the details leftynyc Jan 2013 #17
wouldn't have raised a son who lacks any semblance of morality. lapislzi Jan 2013 #25
The mother went to the family of the girl and told them they shouldn't pursue the case... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #33
Yikes leftynyc Jan 2013 #45
Don't forget the woman is the county prosecutor LiberalFighter Jan 2013 #54
I think it's the mom of a different boy who is the prosecutor. A Little Weird Jan 2013 #57
Not his mother, it was the mother of Keenan. Tempest Jan 2013 #58
^AMEN ro that, Kalidurga! ^ n/t Mimosa Jan 2013 #24
and he would have helped the girl as soon as she was in trouble.... TeamPooka Jan 2013 #31
I'm shocked - A lawyer portrayed their client in the best possible light ?! n/t PoliticAverse Jan 2013 #4
He may be doing his job...but lapislzi Jan 2013 #35
I'm a little ambivalent about this guy being thrown to the wolves... LAGC Jan 2013 #5
If he didn't know about the rape leftynyc Jan 2013 #18
Huh? gollygee Jan 2013 #19
No no no no no lapislzi Jan 2013 #26
"you don't sleep through a wang in the butthole" frylock Jan 2013 #40
There is video out there of this kid going on for over 12 minutes Raine1967 Jan 2013 #41
He knew , and thought it was very funny it seems from the video No hesitation about that lunasun Jan 2013 #50
Witnessing rape Texasgal Jan 2013 #56
He may have raped her as well Tempest Jan 2013 #59
+10000000000 redqueen Jan 2013 #68
Nodianos: "A wang in the butthole and she wasn't moving. There's usually a reaction to that." redqueen Jan 2013 #67
More white boys getting let go scot free sally5050 Jan 2013 #6
Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #7
Yeah whatever. proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #8
What the heck does his "good family" have to do with it exboyfil Jan 2013 #9
Silly goose HeiressofBickworth Jan 2013 #10
It would have been nice if one of the "journalists" exboyfil Jan 2013 #11
It's a small town euphemism for the local privileged families. Odin2005 Jan 2013 #22
Exactly! MAD Dave Jan 2013 #60
Alcohol leads to poor judgment and stupid decisions, but, Quantess Jan 2013 #12
It is just plain evil exboyfil Jan 2013 #20
I don't know about legal punishment, but he deserves to be booted out of college. reformist2 Jan 2013 #13
He is no longer a student at Ohio State, Chiyo-chichi Jan 2013 #29
It's his mouthpiece, he's paid to say nice things about his client. hobbit709 Jan 2013 #14
Understood. Raine1967 Jan 2013 #42
"With sober reflection" gollygee Jan 2013 #15
Well Hell! Let's plaster a fucking gold star on his forehead lunatica Jan 2013 #16
That is what the defenders of all privileged rapists say. Odin2005 Jan 2013 #21
Uh, okay, Mr. Lawyer Sir. Whatever you say. City Lights Jan 2013 #23
"a really good kid from a really good family" Customary translation: Jackpine Radical Jan 2013 #27
Ding ding ding we have a winner. n/t lapislzi Jan 2013 #28
Family worked in steel mill not rich n/t doc03 Jan 2013 #51
all of that may in fact be true... mike_c Jan 2013 #30
You do drunk what you don't have the nerve to do sober. The mindset does not change. appleannie1 Jan 2013 #32
Good is as good does. End of story. WinkyDink Jan 2013 #34
I raised three kids by myself to adulthood. Ikonoklast Jan 2013 #36
Good. He should be ashamed and embarrassed. ellie Jan 2013 #37
He should be ashamed of himself. southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #38
"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them." I'll take Butterbean Jan 2013 #39
Sorry Mike in the Facebook era there's no such thing as a take back. Initech Jan 2013 #43
If he is a good kid, then do the right damn thing: Raine1967 Jan 2013 #44
Everyone else? Spiffy99 Jan 2013 #46
No, he isn't and neither is his family. smirkymonkey Jan 2013 #47
I think being drunk lets "the real you" out. The person inside with barriers drop. Evoman Jan 2013 #48
"A really dumb thing"???? LisaLynne Jan 2013 #49
Wrong. Good kids don't do what he did. historylovr Jan 2013 #52
Unbelievable. Those tweets are shameful. Catherine Vincent Jan 2013 #53
Indeed they are. In fact, I'd go a bit farther...... AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #64
I don't know if he actually witnessed the rape or is he doc03 Jan 2013 #55
He was NOT a student at OSU at the time Tempest Jan 2013 #61
Yeah, he regrets it all right. radicalliberal Jan 2013 #62
I imagine his attitude more like this DogPawsBiscuitsNGrav Jan 2013 #63
He's a good boy! Let's take a look at a picture of one of his old wholesome haunts . . . radicalliberal Jan 2013 #65
Here's an interesting comment provided by one PatronOfTheDay at www.rawstory.com . . . radicalliberal Jan 2013 #66
He should volunteer for public service Ilsa Jan 2013 #69

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
3. The lawyer is a liar...
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:48 AM
Jan 2013

If he was a good kid he wouldn't have done what he did. If he came from a good family his mother wouldn't have done what she did.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
17. I'm not up on all the details
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 08:51 AM
Jan 2013

How is his mother involved? And I agree with your premise - none of these cretins are good kids.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
25. wouldn't have raised a son who lacks any semblance of morality.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:23 PM
Jan 2013

You don't learn respect for other human beings in a vacuum, nor its opposite. Shame.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
33. The mother went to the family of the girl and told them they shouldn't pursue the case...
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:06 PM
Jan 2013

She went there under false pretenses as well and did this as a concern troll. She told them a lot of things would come out about their daughter that the charges would be difficult to prove etc... She is a horrible person.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
45. Yikes
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 04:42 PM
Jan 2013

Can charges be brought against her? Intimidating a witness? Good thing it wasn't my mom she visited - mine would have put her head through a wall.

LiberalFighter

(51,005 posts)
54. Don't forget the woman is the county prosecutor
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:00 PM
Jan 2013

and isn't she also connected with the school in some capacity?

She abused her power.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
57. I think it's the mom of a different boy who is the prosecutor.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:14 PM
Jan 2013

I hadn't heard anything about this boy's parents prior to this thread. But I got so disgusted with the whole thing that I have had to step away from it for awhile.

Tempest

(14,591 posts)
58. Not his mother, it was the mother of Keenan.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:48 PM
Jan 2013

And she is the prosecutor. But she did attempt to get the parents not to press charges.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
35. He may be doing his job...but
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:12 PM
Jan 2013

I am entitled not to believe him. The same way I don't believe Congress, or the cops, or the media.

And I can evaluate the character of this young man based on his own admissions. I don't need a lawyer to tell me what to think.

LAGC

(5,330 posts)
5. I'm a little ambivalent about this guy being thrown to the wolves...
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:53 AM
Jan 2013

The ones who actually participated in the alleged rape, of course...

But teenagers say some really dumb things, especially when they are drunk and are only trying to entertain friends. I can't imagine how much of it was really tongue-in-cheek. ("She's dead." ... "They pissed on her." etc.)

He may have honestly not known a sexual violation had occurred, but was just talking smack making fun of her passing out from drinking too much.

I'm sure the truth will come out at trial regardless...

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
19. Huh?
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 08:55 AM
Jan 2013

"You don't sleep through a wang in the butthole." He obviously was aware of her being anally raped.

And "Song of the night is definitely Rape Me by Nirvana."

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
26. No no no no no
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:26 PM
Jan 2013

Take the time to read through the files on Local Leaks and the Atlantic Wire. Although the young man can hide behind the cloak of plausible deniability, he was involved. He knew what was going on.

Drunkenness is not an excuse, nor is it a mitigating circumstance.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
40. "you don't sleep through a wang in the butthole"
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:42 PM
Jan 2013

how does that jibe with your comment: He may have honestly not known a sexual violation had occurred, but was just talking smack making fun of her passing out from drinking too much.

this mutherfucker knew.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
41. There is video out there of this kid going on for over 12 minutes
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:51 PM
Jan 2013

on how Jane doe was dead and raped. Have you by chance seen that video? I have, it was absolutely horrible. It was disgusting -- it advocated violence. He knew -- he said it himself.

That isn't smack talk -- that is a sociopatholgical behavior imo.

He knew something happened. Something horrendous. He needs to come forward and name names -- NOW. For myself, anything less is just an accomplice to crime against a human being.

Texasgal

(17,046 posts)
56. Witnessing rape
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:01 PM
Jan 2013

and making fun of it is disgusting and ILLEGAL! A crime was committed and he was part of it by not calling the police or turning these assholes in.

How would you feel if it was your Daughter, Mother, Sister?

Still ambivalent?

It's NOT dumb. It's a fucking CRIME.

Tempest

(14,591 posts)
59. He may have raped her as well
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:49 PM
Jan 2013

Not all the boys involved were charged.

And at the very least he broke the law by not reporting the crime.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
68. +10000000000
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 09:00 AM
Jan 2013

Interesting that the person who stood up for this piece of shit never returned to answer any of the responses to his sickening post.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
67. Nodianos: "A wang in the butthole and she wasn't moving. There's usually a reaction to that."
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 08:59 AM
Jan 2013

You're confident saying you give this subhuman piece of shit the benefit of the doubt, that he really didn't see that happen, and just made it all up?

Even after two human beings informed him about what a massive waste of oxygen he was being, by treating the situation as a big joke?

Yeah, interesting.

 

sally5050

(151 posts)
6. More white boys getting let go scot free
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:54 AM
Jan 2013

for committing heinous criminal acts (he's easily an accessory to rape).
§ 23.01 General Principles
[A] Common law – One is an accomplice in the commission of an offense if he intentionally assists another to engage in the conduct that constitutes the crime. Accomplice activity may include aiding, abetting, encouraging, soliciting, advising, and procuring the commission of the offense.

[1] Types of Assistance – An accomplice is a person who, with the requisite mens rea, assists the primary party in committing an offense. Generally speaking, there are three basic types of assistance:

1.) assistance by physical conduct (e.g., furnishing an instrumentality to commit an offense, "casing" the scene in advance, locking the door to keep an assault victim from escaping, or driving a "getaway" car from the scene of the crime);
2.) assistance by psychological influence (e.g., incitement, solicitation, or encouragement); and
3.) assistance by omission (if there exists a duty to act). A person is not an accomplice simply because he knowingly fails to prevent the commission of an offense, but such failure to act may serve as a critical factor in determining that he assisted by psychological influence.

Color me surprised when he walks away without a scratch.. sickening that women are still victims in a largely white male violent raping society. This boy is neither good nor deserving of a free pass from the justice system but that's exactly what he will get.

go fuck yourself Nodidamus.. up the ass and then send us the video on twitter.

Response to jsr (Original post)

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
8. Yeah whatever.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:01 AM
Jan 2013

Cause all boys go to parties, get drunk, watch their friends rape girls and joke about it.

Just a right of passage.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
9. What the heck does his "good family" have to do with it
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:19 AM
Jan 2013

If he was from the wrong side of the tracks, then he would be judged differently????

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
10. Silly goose
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:46 AM
Jan 2013

don't you know that the poor are always judged differently than the rich. It's all about the money, as I've frequently said. As we all know, there are two different scales of justice. The one with the most loot gets the lightest tap of judgment.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
11. It would have been nice if one of the "journalists"
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 03:00 AM
Jan 2013

had asked the question though. I am kind of hoping my daughter may ask those questions someday as a documentary filmmaker.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
22. It's a small town euphemism for the local privileged families.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:14 PM
Jan 2013

Either because they are rich, or because they have a lot of prestige because of family members being on the football team.

I grew up in a little rural town and there were certain families that could get away with ANYTHING.

MAD Dave

(204 posts)
60. Exactly!
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:50 PM
Jan 2013

These fucking clowns are part of the controlling families in Steubenville. Every small town had them and most of these families have a history of committing some type of crime (assault, DUI, vandalism) and it being swept under the rug. The men responsible for the sexual assault have been groomed to fit into these roles and did exactly what they were trained to do.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
12. Alcohol leads to poor judgment and stupid decisions, but,
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 08:21 AM
Jan 2013

however, alcohol does not cause you think differently than when you are sober.

I fully understand the "instant asshole, just add alcohol" factor...except... people do not stray far from their morals even when drunk. Anger rises to the surface, beople become silly, but alcohol doesn't give you anything that wasn't already there beneath the surface.

He wasn't smoking PCP, was he. I don't buy his excuse.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
20. It is just plain evil
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 12:57 PM
Jan 2013

The more I think about it, the more evil it becomes even in the best light (no involvement). I would hope that a family member of mine, after hearing this story, would say lets call the cops and try to protect this girl. I don't care how drunk or stupid I ever was in my life, I could never imagine joking about this let alone not trying to do something about it while it was happening.

These people are evil.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
15. "With sober reflection"
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 08:39 AM
Jan 2013

Last edited Tue Jan 8, 2013, 10:07 AM - Edit history (1)

means 'When faced with the fact that he might have consequences."

I think he could use some more "sober reflection." In jail, if he's old enough. He might have been an accessory or something, even if he didn't personally rape her. If there is any crime at all involved (and I don't know the legalities), he needs to face some consequences.

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
23. Uh, okay, Mr. Lawyer Sir. Whatever you say.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:15 PM
Jan 2013


Mr. Lawyer Sir, you're going to need another case of Febreeze to remove the stink from your client. I can still smell the rotting heap of trash from here.

mike_c

(36,281 posts)
30. all of that may in fact be true...
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:35 PM
Jan 2013

...but it doesn't change the circumstance that there are justifiable consequences when we do "really dumb things." Shame and embarrassment are only the beginning, and --I suspect-- only because he got caught.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
36. I raised three kids by myself to adulthood.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:15 PM
Jan 2013

None of them grew up to be a monster.

My family must be waaaaaay better than 'Good'.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
39. "The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them." I'll take
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:42 PM
Jan 2013

that advice instead, thanks.

Initech

(100,090 posts)
43. Sorry Mike in the Facebook era there's no such thing as a take back.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:56 PM
Jan 2013

We're not looking the other way on this one.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
44. If he is a good kid, then do the right damn thing:
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:57 PM
Jan 2013

Come forward and name names of all those involved with the torture and kidnapping of a young woman.

What amazes me at this point, between all the lawyers and Sheriff and Coaches etc is that NO ONE is naming names.

HEre is a clue: Want to redeemed?

DO SOMETHING FOR THE VICTIM, Fess up and start telling people who was involved with EVERYTHING that led up to this post and the culture it was born of.

I get the lawyer is just doing his job, but the lawyer would be doing a bigger favor to his client by not being obstructionist about the entire awful situation.

Evoman

(8,040 posts)
48. I think being drunk lets "the real you" out. The person inside with barriers drop.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 09:23 PM
Jan 2013

If I was drunk and in his position, I would have started crying and feeling real bad for the girl. I probably would have drunkenly called everyone to see if she was alright. I doubt I would have attacked the perpetrators (I'm a REALLY nice drunk), but I may have.

This fucker is a sociopath. Drunk or sober, he isn't a good fucking kid. You lose the right to that description when you rape someone or make fun of their rape and don't report it.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
49. "A really dumb thing"????
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 09:41 PM
Jan 2013

That understatement is disgusting. He did an unthinkable, unconscionable thing. He showed the world what he really is.

historylovr

(1,557 posts)
52. Wrong. Good kids don't do what he did.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 09:54 PM
Jan 2013

There's a lot of things this guy is, but "good" isn't one of them.

doc03

(35,359 posts)
55. I don't know if he actually witnessed the rape or is he
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:00 PM
Jan 2013

just repeating what someone else told him. If he was there being older and a student at Ohio State and he sees 16 year old kids raping the girl he should have known better and stopped them.

Tempest

(14,591 posts)
61. He was NOT a student at OSU at the time
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 10:51 PM
Jan 2013

And he was there.

The rape occurred in August before classes started.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
62. Yeah, he regrets it all right.
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 03:17 AM
Jan 2013

He regrets being exposed as a completely despicable jerk. Evil people always regret being publicly exposed.

Hey, maybe he can catch up with his buddy in California!

His attorney is scum, too!

Pity any rape victim who "gets in the way" of a football program.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
66. Here's an interesting comment provided by one PatronOfTheDay at www.rawstory.com . . .
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 08:28 AM
Jan 2013
Oh, come on, folks...I believe he is truly sorry.
He's a truly sorry excuse for a human being.






Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
69. He should volunteer for public service
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 12:46 PM
Jan 2013

if he is truly ashamed and repentant. He needs to offer up some unpleasant form of penance, even picking up trash, instead of paying some lying douchebag lawyer to take the public heat for him.

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