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Dress code? (Original Post) ashling Jan 2013 OP
EXACTLY!! SkyDaddy7 Jan 2013 #1
K&R n/t JoeyT Jan 2013 #2
As a man, yes that offends me... Flying Squirrel Jan 2013 #3
problem is SOME ARE incapable of control that's why it happens in the 1st place and as a leftyohiolib Jan 2013 #4
Some choose not to excercise self control. N/t whopis01 Jan 2013 #8
well put SemperEadem Jan 2013 #5
Kick! Heidi Jan 2013 #6
Hear, hear! K&R! nt Mnemosyne Jan 2013 #7
OK, go to Riyadh, put on a Bikini, and enter a mosque. FarCenter Jan 2013 #9
That's a whole 'nother kettle of fish ashling Jan 2013 #10
 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
3. As a man, yes that offends me...
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 07:21 AM
Jan 2013

But as the father of a 17 year old young lady, it causes more than mild offense, the precise feeling is OUTRAGE.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
4. problem is SOME ARE incapable of control that's why it happens in the 1st place and as a
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 07:28 AM
Jan 2013

father with an 11 y.o. daughter. i would rather warn her about her habits and ways of dressing around guys instead of consoling her about a rape. yea it shouldnt be neccessary and guys should take no for no but they dont. we live with animals in this society some murder, some rape, some commit fraud so bad they almost destroy a nation. so while in principle women should be able to behave and dress anyway they want to, to some men it's an invitation. it is offensive but it's better than rape.

SemperEadem

(8,053 posts)
5. well put
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 07:33 AM
Jan 2013

when a woman is being called a bitch, slut or a whore because she dressed a certain way, or was out at a particular place, or she acted a certain way, those words are the mechanism to strip the humanity away in order to justify treating that woman like an object to be used and discarded... after all, if she isn't a human but a thing, then she doesn't have to be treated like a human.

ashling

(25,771 posts)
10. That's a whole 'nother kettle of fish
Thu Jan 10, 2013, 03:09 AM
Jan 2013

besides, I'd look pretty silly in a bikini,

being a pot bellied old man and stuff.

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