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Notice anything "Unamerican" about this pic ? (Original Post) Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 OP
Sure do. CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2013 #1
Not only that 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #3
good eye. "Hand-on-heart-gate" ! Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #4
Does anyone know why Mrs. Obama rolled her eyes at Boehner? (nt) question everything Jan 2013 #20
apparently it was in response BainsBane Jan 2013 #22
He made a rude comment about her not letting President Obama have a cigarettes AND Jamastiene Jan 2013 #43
Really? krispos42 Jan 2013 #68
I don't see it that way; he tapped her, elleng Jan 2013 #78
It was an unwanted tapping. I wouldn't tap people when I made a joke unless JDPriestly Jan 2013 #81
I strongly disagree. elleng Jan 2013 #82
No. Light touchings are not always appropriate. They are appropriate only if JDPriestly Jan 2013 #91
I agree. I personally think that Boehner was trying to be friendly and have some Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #103
yes, I think he just tapped her 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #93
What do they own a tanning bed in their home? They are both orange. glowing Jan 2013 #84
I think she's Secret Service leveymg Jan 2013 #101
Spouse of The Orange Man Cirque du So-What Jan 2013 #2
Yep. I haven't done it in years and won't until both Iraq and Afghanistan are over. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #6
That's fine for anyone who doesn't wanna Cirque du So-What Jan 2013 #10
you think that's why they had the orange flowers? subtle slam? Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #7
I don't know Cirque du So-What Jan 2013 #14
the only expectation RudynJack Jan 2013 #31
That's for the 47% Cirque du So-What Jan 2013 #48
I have to respond RudynJack Jan 2013 #53
Thank you Cirque du So-What Jan 2013 #55
I don't know... Sekhmets Daughter Jan 2013 #5
I'd never heard of hand over heart for the national anthem BanzaiBonnie Jan 2013 #16
I've also noticed people xxqqqzme Jan 2013 #52
As I recall, it was fabricated to harass a Dem politician who supposedly didn't do that. MH1 Jan 2013 #58
You recall mostly correctly. GoCubsGo Jan 2013 #60
I never heard of hands over hearts during the anthem.. a la izquierda Jan 2013 #21
I was born in 1970. All I can go by is the Brewers games I went to as a kid where they ScreamingMeemie Jan 2013 #24
I was 17 in 1970, UncleYoder Jan 2013 #46
That's what I remember from growing up. xmas74 Jan 2013 #73
***People, you may have "never heard of it," but it's in the Flag code. So no, it's not some ScreamingMeemie Jan 2013 #25
To clarify, it's silly anthem etiquette... Sekhmets Daughter Jan 2013 #49
I think it's utter BS truebluegreen Jan 2013 #32
Once upon a time, this was the proper way Mariana Jan 2013 #74
That was before my time... Sekhmets Daughter Jan 2013 #98
Almost every photo of Mr. Boner looks like she was either distracted lunatica Jan 2013 #8
She may be embarrassed to be Politicalboi Jan 2013 #26
"Patriotism is the most foolish of passions and the passion of fools." Schopenhauer Tierra_y_Libertad Jan 2013 #9
Schumer staring at Beyonce's ass is un-American? nt Dreamer Tatum Jan 2013 #11
and the smirky look on his face. n/t mzteris Jan 2013 #15
no he isn't - at least not in this pic SmileyRose Jan 2013 #39
Sorry...dude is scoping the cheeks. nt Dreamer Tatum Jan 2013 #41
speak of getting caught staring Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #45
IMAGINE Michelle Obama had done that. JaneyVee Jan 2013 #12
exactly sad-cafe Jan 2013 #18
Her husband did. GoCubsGo Jan 2013 #61
They're still having conniptions over it, to this day. nt. Mariana Jan 2013 #76
no, I don't quinnox Jan 2013 #13
Nope! hootinholler Jan 2013 #17
Who doesn't want to wear the RIBBON? alcibiades_mystery Jan 2013 #19
lol 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #95
Right there! Iggo Jan 2013 #97
This video says everything you need to say about all this patriotic crap. rgbecker Jan 2013 #99
She probably doesn't know any better. Greybnk48 Jan 2013 #23
Mrs. Boner not putting her hand over her heart. Why does she hate America? Aristus Jan 2013 #27
Dog-whistling to Right-wing domestic terrorists & secessionists. nt patrice Jan 2013 #28
One of the POTUS's daughters was dressed by Tinky Winky? dairydog91 Jan 2013 #29
Yes..Mrs Boner ,John's twin brother in drag. But they are so busy worrying about Beyonce SummerSnow Jan 2013 #30
Boner's not wearing a flag pin on his lapel. WHY DOES HE HATE AMERICA? 11 Bravo Jan 2013 #33
You're right...no on his suit either. Wow - this is just a horrible turn of events. haha Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #102
no La Lioness Priyanka Jan 2013 #34
I don't know, but the Orange Guy is darker than the Black Man DollarBillHines Jan 2013 #35
No, I don't. RedCappedBandit Jan 2013 #36
The person second from the left? treestar Jan 2013 #37
Boehner? haha. I just noticed Harry Reid sneaking in on the pic - man Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #44
I never put my hand over heart. bigwillq Jan 2013 #38
OT but just curious ... Denninmi Jan 2013 #40
Yes. That is Marian Robinson. ScreamingMeemie Jan 2013 #42
Thank you. Denninmi Jan 2013 #47
Comrade Boehner, where is your flag pin? moondust Jan 2013 #50
Yep, that, and also Boner looks like he's attending a funeral. n/t RKP5637 Jan 2013 #51
Oooh I know, I know.... The president isn't white! jberryhill Jan 2013 #54
Bet You Didn't Know This was the Original Salute to the Flag - The Bellamy Salute dballance Jan 2013 #56
You're kidding. Was that post-Hitler ? Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #59
That Particular pic is Early 40's - Pre full WWII dballance Jan 2013 #63
The author of the Pledge, Francis Bellamy, was a MINISTER. MADem Jan 2013 #83
Yep, Didn't Happen Until the 50's When We Also Started Putting "In God We Trust" on Paper Money dballance Jan 2013 #86
A socialist minister. Oh and he originally wanted it to be "liberty, equality, and justice for all" NYC Liberal Jan 2013 #90
Well, they've been trying to pass an Equal Rights Amendment for almost that long...! MADem Jan 2013 #92
Why does Mrs B. hate America? Renew Deal Jan 2013 #57
Does Harry Reid still have his hat on? eom mrmpa Jan 2013 #62
In 2007 - rules for conduct during the National anthem changed mia Jan 2013 #64
Interesting. 2007...wonder what made them change it? Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #66
Uh...there are no "codes" for civilians, sorry. Don't care what that website posits. WinkyDink Jan 2013 #71
werd... octothorpe Jan 2013 #80
The Code is there for civilians as well as uniformed personnel--you're free to ignore it, it doesn't MADem Jan 2013 #88
"Active duty" was not my point, now was it? WinkyDink Jan 2013 #96
It's been that way since 1923, as part of the Flag Code. ScreamingMeemie Jan 2013 #79
I think the change is "B"--because in the military, you hear that tune and it's automatic. MADem Jan 2013 #85
Mrs. boner did not look happy or smile once the whole day in any TeamPooka Jan 2013 #65
From the little I know about her - thought she was apolitical - common, everyday Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #67
It must be an awful strain to be out in public Mariana Jan 2013 #75
there is that TeamPooka Jan 2013 #89
Shaming people for not saluting the national anthem mattclearing Jan 2013 #69
It is not actually tradition to put one's hand over one's heart for the SSB. So no, NOT unAmerican. WinkyDink Jan 2013 #70
sorry...should have added a sarcasm smilies. I won't do it until both wars are over. nt Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2013 #72
Not really... octothorpe Jan 2013 #77
Boener is looking at the Knowles Trascoli Jan 2013 #87
Is lip-syncing un-American? Otherwise, no. (nt) OneTenthofOnePercent Jan 2013 #94
For those wondering why this is notable, it was made so in 2007 Orangepeel Jan 2013 #100
 

2pooped2pop

(5,420 posts)
3. Not only that
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jan 2013

the man next to her Boehner is the wrong color. It's RED white and blue, not ORANGE white and blue. Jeese.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
22. apparently it was in response
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:33 PM
Jan 2013

to a crack Boehner made about Michelle's not letting the President have a cigarette.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
43. He made a rude comment about her not letting President Obama have a cigarettes AND
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 04:43 PM
Jan 2013

he was pawing at her arm. If you watch the video that is floating around on the net, you can see where he pawed at her arm while she was trying to eat. After that, she had to practically protect herself from him while she attempted to finish eating. He was being really obnoxious toward her.

elleng

(130,956 posts)
78. I don't see it that way; he tapped her,
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:53 AM
Jan 2013

as I often do when talking to people.

It was about a JOKE he made.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
81. It was an unwanted tapping. I wouldn't tap people when I made a joke unless
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:12 AM
Jan 2013

I knew them very well and knew they wouldn't mind. It's not a good idea. I don't like it if people touch me when I haven't given my OK. May be because I am smaller than a lot of people. Makes me feel very uncomfortable. I think it is a sign of disrespect to Michelle Obama on John Boehner's part. It is especially inappropriate for a man to do that to a woman.

elleng

(130,956 posts)
82. I strongly disagree.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:22 AM
Jan 2013

They were seated beside eachother, at a collegial social event, and jokes and light 'touchings' are perfectly appropriate, regardless of gender.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
91. No. Light touchings are not always appropriate. They are appropriate only if
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:57 AM
Jan 2013

there is a feeling of familiarity and trust between the two individuals involved.

There certainly is no feeling of familiarity and trust between John Boehner and Michelle Obama. And that is very clear from the video if you have seen the whole thing.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
103. I agree. I personally think that Boehner was trying to be friendly and have some
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:45 PM
Jan 2013

fun. But, you can tell Michelle wants no part of it and has no respect for him. So his attempt fell flat.

But for most people who like each other this would be no big deal whatsoever.

 

2pooped2pop

(5,420 posts)
93. yes, I think he just tapped her
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 09:06 AM
Jan 2013

but he supposedly was asking for a cigarette, then when Obama said he didn't have one, The Boner said "because someone won't let you" and tapped Michelle.

Or something close to that.

I will always believe her eyes rolled involuntarily due to the large amount of alcohol fumes coming from behind her, causing her eyes to sting.

But that's just me.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
101. I think she's Secret Service
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 10:37 AM
Jan 2013

Same thing with the guy behind Obama's right shoulder. Trained to keep their hands at waist level?

Cirque du So-What

(25,941 posts)
2. Spouse of The Orange Man
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jan 2013

with hands folded instead of over her heart like every patriotic American is supposed to do? Dude behind Michelle's mother is posed similarly.

Cirque du So-What

(25,941 posts)
10. That's fine for anyone who doesn't wanna
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 02:24 PM
Jan 2013

but her husband is a leader in the party of Über-Patriotism, yunno. If it'd been anyone on the Democratic side, it'd be in heavy rotation throughout the RW blogosphere.

RudynJack

(1,044 posts)
31. the only expectation
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jan 2013

for the anthem is to stand respectfully. There's no obligation to put your hand over your heart.

The pledge is different.

Cirque du So-What

(25,941 posts)
48. That's for the 47%
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 06:05 PM
Jan 2013

For the Über-Patriotic goopers, it's not nearly enough to just stand there. BTW, I don't see a flag lapel pin on that coat! Alert the media!

Cirque du So-What

(25,941 posts)
55. Thank you
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 06:42 PM
Jan 2013

As the corporate media demonstrate on a daily basis, my username should never go out of style.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
5. I don't know...
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 02:20 PM
Jan 2013

When I was kid we only put our hands over our hearts for the Pledge of Allegiance. I think the whole 'hand-over-heart thing is silly and has damned little to do with patriotism.

BanzaiBonnie

(3,621 posts)
16. I'd never heard of hand over heart for the national anthem
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:12 PM
Jan 2013

until the last few years. I'd never seen anyone do it before that. I htink it's utter bullshit.

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
52. I've also noticed people
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 06:27 PM
Jan 2013

do the hand over the heart for 'God bless America' at baseball games. I refuse to even stand for insipid piece of crap.

MH1

(17,600 posts)
58. As I recall, it was fabricated to harass a Dem politician who supposedly didn't do that.
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 07:09 PM
Jan 2013

All of a sudden everyone was like, yeah hand over heart for National Anthem!!!1!

while some of us were more like, huh, never was that way before?

seriously, I believe it is a fascinating example of mass manipulation as a political ploy, from around about 2003 or 2004 if I am not mistaken.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
60. You recall mostly correctly.
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 08:04 PM
Jan 2013

That Dem was President Obama some time in 2008 or 2009, and the righties made a HUGE stink of it. Just like they throw a tantrum whenever he decides to spend Christmas in Hawaii, or take any sort of vacation with his family. Damn disgusting hypocrites.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
21. I never heard of hands over hearts during the anthem..
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:31 PM
Jan 2013

Until my RWNJ sister in Law berated for saying I'd never heard of such a thing. She then called me a commie.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
24. I was born in 1970. All I can go by is the Brewers games I went to as a kid where they
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:40 PM
Jan 2013

played the National Anthem. Players put their hats over the hearts, as did fans in the stands. If you didn't have a hat, you put your hand over your heart.

It's not really a big deal, however I don't think it's silly.

 

UncleYoder

(233 posts)
46. I was 17 in 1970,
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 04:47 PM
Jan 2013

it was a big fucking deal. We refused to stand for the anthem, refused to say the pledge and made damn sure everybody knew why. We had 50,000+ reasons not to.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
73. That's what I remember from growing up.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:29 AM
Jan 2013

I'm just a few years younger than you and the same was said. (All athletic events at all levels, not just Brewers games.)

I just thought it was something everyone did unless you were in the military. If in the military you stood at attention, with your hands at your side.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
25. ***People, you may have "never heard of it," but it's in the Flag code. So no, it's not some
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:43 PM
Jan 2013

new thing made up by Republicans...

http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2012/02/national-anthem-etiquette-what-to-do-at-a-sporting-event-or-political-rally/

snip-
The Independence Hall Association says the Flag Code, adopted first in 1923, requires those who are not members of the Armed Forces or veterans to face the flag and stand with a hand over their heart. Men in these crowds are told to remove hats or other headwear with their right hands and place them over their left shoulders. eHow.com — a less formal guide — also recommends dropping your nachos and putting out your cigarette.

-snip

(props to eHow, that's hilarious)

 

truebluegreen

(9,033 posts)
32. I think it's utter BS
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jan 2013

for the Pledge of Allegiance too--what is up with the indoctrination of children anyway?

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
74. Once upon a time, this was the proper way
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:40 AM
Jan 2013

to stand to recite the Pledge of Allegiance. My father remembers doing this:

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Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
98. That was before my time...
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 10:05 AM
Jan 2013

But prior to WW II there was great admiration for Mussolini, and then Hitler, in this country. I think this salute was resurrected by Mussolini, although we tend to think of Hitler whenever we see it. It goes back to the days of the Roman Empire....

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
8. Almost every photo of Mr. Boner looks like she was either distracted
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 02:23 PM
Jan 2013

or so detached from her surroundings that she looked bored.

Maybe it's just that look of denial of reality that so many Republican wives have. She probably didn't even register the song, or even that someone was singing.

SmileyRose

(4,854 posts)
39. no he isn't - at least not in this pic
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 04:33 PM
Jan 2013

he's looking over his readers ..... too high for butt ogling.

But it would be UNAMERICAN for anyone in America who has the chance to not at least take a quick peek. Male or female.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
40. OT but just curious ...
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 04:37 PM
Jan 2013

Who is the lady behind the President in the camel coat and coral scarf? Is that Michelle' mother?

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
63. That Particular pic is Early 40's - Pre full WWII
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 08:21 PM
Jan 2013

I'm sure the rise of Hitler and Nazism is what caused it to change. Not exactly sure when but I'd bet during WWII at the latest of course.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
83. The author of the Pledge, Francis Bellamy, was a MINISTER.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:26 AM
Jan 2013

And even he didn't put any God in his original version!

"I pledge allegiance to my Flag and to* the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all"


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francis_Bellamy

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
86. Yep, Didn't Happen Until the 50's When We Also Started Putting "In God We Trust" on Paper Money
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:31 AM
Jan 2013

It was in response to those godless commies. Seriously, it was one of those stupid symbolic bunches of crap our congress seems to be able to pass rather than passing meaningful legislation. Not much has changed.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
90. A socialist minister. Oh and he originally wanted it to be "liberty, equality, and justice for all"
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:21 AM
Jan 2013

but removed "equality" because he was told it would be too controversial.

And in 2013, over 100 years later, it sadly would be just as "controversial" to put equality in there.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
92. Well, they've been trying to pass an Equal Rights Amendment for almost that long...!
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 04:00 AM
Jan 2013

I wonder if I'll live to see it. I hope so.

mia

(8,361 posts)
64. In 2007 - rules for conduct during the National anthem changed
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 08:34 PM
Jan 2013

Didn't know this until I just looked it up.

http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/36/301

36 USC § 301 - National anthem

(a) Designation.— The composition consisting of the words and music known as the Star-Spangled Banner is the national anthem.

(b) Conduct During Playing.— During a rendition of the national anthem—
(1)when the flag is displayed—
(A)individuals in uniform should give the military salute at the first note of the anthem and maintain that position until the last note;

(B)members of the Armed Forces and veterans who are present but not in uniform may render the military salute in the manner provided for individuals in uniform; and

(C)all other persons present should face the flag and stand at attention with their right hand over the heart, and men not in uniform, if applicable, should remove their headdress with their right hand and hold it at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart; and

(2)when the flag is not displayed, all present should face toward the music and act in the same manner they would if the flag were displayed.

octothorpe

(962 posts)
80. werd...
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:56 AM
Jan 2013

That's something I'd refuse out of principle. I don't have a problem with doing it (I usually don't myself, but I have in the past), but don't try to force me to. It's similar to burning the flag. I have no desire to burn the flag, but don't tell me I can't. Kinda goes against what the US is supposed to stand for.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
88. The Code is there for civilians as well as uniformed personnel--you're free to ignore it, it doesn't
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:34 AM
Jan 2013

have the force of law. If you're on active duty, though, I wouldn't advise ignoring it--that could be construed as conduct unbecoming.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
85. I think the change is "B"--because in the military, you hear that tune and it's automatic.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 01:30 AM
Jan 2013

It used to be that we were not supposed to "salute" out of uni--but now, because people did it without thinking, they're letting us do it. It's something that is drilled into one at an early stage; it becomes second nature.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
67. From the little I know about her - thought she was apolitical - common, everyday
Sat Jan 26, 2013, 10:04 PM
Jan 2013

person from Ohio. So, being so mad that Obama won is probably not it. HMMM

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
75. It must be an awful strain to be out in public
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:48 AM
Jan 2013

with a husband who's likely to get as sloppily and slurringly drunk as Boner gets. Imagine spending the day wondering if he's going to puke on your shoes in front of the cameras.

octothorpe

(962 posts)
77. Not really...
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 12:53 AM
Jan 2013

I never put my hand over my heart during the national anthem. Although, I know they'd be all over a democrat if they did the same thing as she's doing.

Btw, is Schumer checking out her ass? teeehee

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