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sinkingfeeling

(51,457 posts)
Tue Feb 19, 2013, 04:41 PM Feb 2013

Police: Man raped woman he met on Christian dating website

http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/19/us/california-dating-site-rape/index.html?hpt=hp_t2

(CNN) -- A California man is accused of raping a woman he met on a Christian dating website -- and police fear there may be other victims.

Sean Banks, 37, met the victim on the matchmaking website Christianmingle.com, where he went by the user name "Raritiy," La Mesa Police said in a statement.

ChristianMingle touts a safety section that includes a warning to avoid contact with members who cannot take "no" for an answer.

Banks was arrested February 11 and has been booked on two rape charges in the incident as well as one count of residential burglary, police said.
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Police: Man raped woman he met on Christian dating website (Original Post) sinkingfeeling Feb 2013 OP
Cue the GOP for opinion on whether this was a 'legitimate rape' or not. nt onehandle Feb 2013 #1
It'll be interesting to see what turns out to be the salient point in this story nt el_bryanto Feb 2013 #2
I could be wrong but Drale Feb 2013 #3
My daughter met her boyfriend on a dating website. murielm99 Feb 2013 #4
I guess this is the man god wanted to be her rapist? n/t Ian David Feb 2013 #5
I hope it was legitimate jollyreaper2112 Feb 2013 #6

Drale

(7,932 posts)
3. I could be wrong but
Tue Feb 19, 2013, 04:46 PM
Feb 2013

I would think many people would be on Christian Mingle thinking they were surrounded by "Christians" and they let their guard down. I met my girlfriend and love of my life on Plenty of Fish.com and I can tell you for every 1 normal girl I would say there were 2 to 3 crazy ones who I would never turn my back on. My point is that you have to be on your guard and until you get to know someone in real life, don't trust anyone on the internet.

murielm99

(30,742 posts)
4. My daughter met her boyfriend on a dating website.
Tue Feb 19, 2013, 04:56 PM
Feb 2013

He is great. We have had him here for family events. He is normal!

It was her first try at online matchmaking. I guess it is the luck of the draw, sometimes.

It is wonderful that you have found the love of your life.

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