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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAaaah SHIT! I just got my biopsy results. It's melanoma.
About a half an hour ago I got the call from my dermatologist's office. The prognosis isn't too bad, in fact, it's pretty good, and I'll have surgery on Wednesday. Besides, I've already kicked cancer's candy ass once, way back in '97; and I'm ready to do it again.
We caught it early, and it appears to be not overly invasive; but having heard the "C" word once already, I'll admit that hearing it again was a gut punch. After hugging my wife, and telling my sons how much I love them, I may have to be twice as obnoxious for a couple of days, just to convince myself that I'm too fucking tough to be sick. (If so, I apologize in advance.)
Delphinus
(11,831 posts)May you find all you need to recover from this bout too. You're here with friends, just remember that.
mike_c
(36,281 posts)Hang tough.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Godspeeed, man.
apnu
(8,758 posts)Now that's how its done.
Kingofalldems
(38,458 posts)Good luck Wednesday.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)And take the hell good care of yourself, we're all behind you!
Hulk
(6,699 posts)Wish you the very best. You have the right attitude, and you'll take care of business.
Solly Mack
(90,771 posts)Octafish
(55,745 posts)The old castellan, was firmly convinced that Beethoven was not quite right in his mind; he would often run, bareheaded, without a hat, around in the great park of the castle hours on end, even if it were raining with lightning and thunder. On other occasions, he would sit for whole days shut up in his room without seeing anybody and not speaking a word. But the most insane behaviour occurred when the French occupied Grätz after the battle of Austerlitz (1806). The prince had aroused the hopes of the French general of meeting the celebrated composer and to hear him play on the piano-forte. To this end, a great musical soiree was arranged at the castle and the composer was to play his latest compositions. Beethoven, however, refused although the Prince repeatedly and earnestly requested him to do so. Nevertheless, the Prince sill hoped to persuade the obstinate musician, and invited the French general and other distinguished guests. On the appointed evening Beethoven was nowhere to be seen. Finally the news came that the artist had secretly left the castle and fled on foot to the town of Grätz in the cold winter night - only a letter to the Prince had been found in his room. In it he explained that he could not play to enemies of his country and added "Prince! what you are,you are by circumstance and by birth. What I am, I am through myself. Of Princes there have been and will be thousands. Of Beethovens there is only one.."
http://www.lvbeethoven.co.uk/page10.html
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)It ain't tough enough to take you down
OldDem2012
(3,526 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)Glad to hear you got it early, that can make all the difference in the world.
GreenStormCloud
(12,072 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)Warpy
(111,270 posts)and if it has, it's chemo time. However, it's still one of the more curable ones if it's caught early.
In the meantime, don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. You have no reason to believe it spread. You have been on top of this stuff because you've already had a scare.
It still sucks and you get to complain about it, though.
Pachamama
(16,887 posts)If the indications are that it has spread to the lymphnodes (depending on the margins excised) they may do a sentinel lymph node biopsy. As you get into the more advanced stages of Melanoma (i'm a Stage 2 survivor) then depending on their concern that it may have spread into lymph nodes they remove all lymph nodes near the melanoma are of origin and then begin immunotherapy with the use of interferon and possibly radiation. Later more advanced stages (4 & 5) will use actual chemotherapy combined with immunotherapy (called Biochemotherapy).
I know you meant well Warpy, but I think its important to give accurate information. Chemotherapy is not used until the very advanced stages and Melanoma is different from other cancers in that its response is to immunotherapy, thus its primary use. I had Stage 2, treated by some of top doctors at UCSF's Melanoma clinic. There was surgical removal of the melanoma with wide margins, sentinel lymph node biopsy (avoided lymph node dissection - full removal) and then had adjuvant therapy (immunotherapy) with interferon.
I asked Bravo in an earlier reply where its located....that is important....in my case it was on my lower leg....far from lymphnodes. 75% of all Melanoma occurs on womens limbs, particularly lower legs below knee. Men tend to have it on their head and torso. Its interestingly where the sexes are not equal....thus a stage 1 on the torso can actually be worse than stage 3 on lower leg.
The good news is that the care and treatment and developments regarding melanoma have become very advanced and the survivalbility better than ever. I have a friend who has mucousal melanoma in his nasal passage....49 yrs old....he's just completed radiation and immunotherapy and he's doing well all things considered...but mucousal is the melanoma of melanomas....and usually not caught till very advanced...
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)and good luck on Wednesday. I am really sorry about the diagnosis and will be thinking of you in the days ahead...
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)kentuck
(111,102 posts)My Brother was diagnosed with a melanoma about 10 years ago and it was fairly deep as melanomas go. He has been lucky in that it has not returned.
Hang in there.
Cha
(297,290 posts)LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)I wish you the best on Wednesday.
AndyA
(16,993 posts)Glad you caught it early. Be healthy and live long!
villager
(26,001 posts)Hang in there, 11 Bravo, and all healing wishes!
ProSense
(116,464 posts)My prayers are with you.
pacalo
(24,721 posts)She was cancer-free for 10 years following her mastectomy. At 81 yrs. old, she passed away in November of something totally unrelated.
southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)qualities a person should have when getting bad news. My father-in-law was that way. Always playing jokes on us and sending us off to do his chores like buying cloths and bringing them home only to hear him get mad because we got something he didn't like. While we are gone he would get one of his fishing rubber little pets and tie a string around it and when we would get back and start opening the screen door he pulls on the string and the little pet starts to move and we start screaming and jumping. He loved it and we were relieved it was fake. My mother kept him going for a very long long time. God rest his soul. He died of old age.
hlthe2b
(102,291 posts)(as you say)....
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Best wishes, and may you be far to ornery for it to beat you!!
countryjake
(8,554 posts)good vibes for smooth surgery and strength in a swift recovery!
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)And take care of yourself. Families make it worth fighting even if you get tired.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)KoKo
(84,711 posts)colorado_ufo
(5,734 posts)Good job, catching this thing quickly. White light from us all!
Mz Pip
(27,450 posts)May you enjoy a speedy and full recovery.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)angstlessk
(11,862 posts)Cancer but it has not spread...and can be cut out completely..and NO other treatment is necessary .. that is good news!
City Lights
(25,171 posts)Best of luck to you.
TDale313
(7,820 posts)Kick its ass again!
kairos12
(12,862 posts)aikoaiko
(34,170 posts)cliffordu
(30,994 posts)You've been through worse and we both know it.
You can be as obnoxious as you need.
Let your freak flag fly.
c
Robb
(39,665 posts)Boot to it's ass, man. Pulling for you.
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)I know of several people who have had the surgery for melanoma and are doing just fine. The same is going to happen for you, as well. Keep the UP attitude and know that DUrs have got your back.
samsingh
(17,599 posts)Lone_Star_Dem
(28,158 posts)Give it a punch or two for me while you're at it. It and I still have a score to settle.
I'll be thinking of you and looking forward to your full recovery.
malaise
(269,049 posts)and get back to good health
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)our guard, what did you notice that gave you the indication it needed to be looked at? Or, was it a routine exam and the doctor found something? I have some skin issues and constantly look out for unusual spots etc. The web is full of photos but one wonders how accurate the web is sometimes. I could have some mole on me right now that I'm ignoring. It's good when you can hear from someone first hand.
I'm pulling for you. It took my mother.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,330 posts)Every little bit of info helps.
A former co-worker had a friend who had melanoma. Her friend described it as sort of "dirt smudge". A couple years later my co-worker friend noticed a "dirt smudge" on her leg. She probably would have blown it off if not for the description her friend gave.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)I had no idea anything was going on, and the lesion was in the middle of my back ... in other words, I never would have seen it. The dermatologist said she wanted to biopsy it just to be safe. I'm glad she did.
Sorry I can't provide more substantive help, but it was just a routine check-up. I would advise regular skin checks, because the doc will be able to spot things you can't see (like a mole right in the middle of your back)!
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)juajen
(8,515 posts)I will pray to every God I know and do not know that you will be fine. Frankly, I believe you already are.
kcass1954
(1,819 posts)I'm really glad to hear that it was caught early.
barbtries
(28,798 posts)best to you for a full and speedy recovery.
DinahMoeHum
(21,794 posts)pulling for you.
noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)as another member of the club no one wants to join, my heart goes out to you. as does my strength and support
kelliekat44
(7,759 posts)cal04
(41,505 posts)11 Bravo
tblue37
(65,403 posts)He had three lesions removed from his face, and he gets checkups to make sure he is still cancer free, but it has never come back.
I hope your outcome is equally good.
.
Granny M
(1,395 posts)Glad the prognosis is looking good. Sounds like you're a strong and stubborn fighter, so here's to kicking cancer's candy ass again. Please let us know how you are getting on, as soon as you're up to it.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)cancer a few times -- of course she'd rather have not, but oddly enough, she said the second time around wasn't so scary.
to you and your family.
You'll kick butt once again.
Pachamama
(16,887 posts)Mine was located on my lower leg....went through immniotherapy which uses interferon to help the immune system battle the cancer in the lymphatic system.
Where is yours 11 Bravo? Have they told you what stage? Sounds like from your optimism and catching early that its In Situ....
You will know more after Wednesdays surgery....dont be surprised at how much gets dug out - they have to make sure there are clear and wide margins.....
spooky3
(34,457 posts)mac56
(17,569 posts)Give it hell.
protect our future
(1,156 posts)and anything else I can think of that can help get you well--all coming your way from me.
greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)My dad had that too and beat it...
warrprayer
(4,734 posts)is the will to live.
You got that all over.
Keep fightin'!!!!
Rosa Luxemburg
(28,627 posts)my husband is a 10 year survivor! Medical techniques are much better these days so you should be OK!
yourout
(7,530 posts)said. "It's Cancer". Not "abnormal cells", Not "melanoma"........just "It's Cancer".
After picking her up off the floor I should have replaced her with him.
The story ends well though as after having an unpleasant excision she has been cancer free for 30+ years.
jerseyjack
(1,361 posts)WillyT
(72,631 posts)& Rec !!!
LoisB
(7,206 posts)with you.
Loki
(3,825 posts)Sending you powerful healing thoughts. That big "C" ain't got nothing on you.
hatrack
(59,587 posts)Here's hoping that all goes well, and we'll be thinking of you!
senseandsensibility
(17,063 posts)and that can only be a plus. Good luck, and I'm happy that you found it early!
gademocrat7
(10,659 posts)Take care.
WCGreen
(45,558 posts)Stay stronge.
Gorp
(716 posts)He took the pop-up button from a ButterBall chicken to one session and when he came out of the tube he told the attendants that he must be done. He's got a sick sense of humor.
I'm glad they caught it early. I used to get sun poisoning several times a summer as a kid. I didn't even know what "sun screen" was at the time. Every mole or weird spot on my skin makes me worry but so far my GP has said nothing warrants a biopsy. I know it's just a matter of time.
I wish you the best of luck and apparently I'm not the only one on DU to do that. Try to keep your "kick ass" attitude in place. Sometimes that's the most powerful force you can have in place.
Keep us posted.
kworkman
(19 posts)Hell Dude, once you've had the 11B everything else don't mean nuttin'. You're in my thoughts.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,002 posts)Rozlee
(2,529 posts)11B's are as tough as diamonds and infinitely more valuable.
From a 66 Hotel.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Kick its butt for us, okay?
sarge43
(28,941 posts)We're still here; we're still kicking ass
Holding you in the light. Keep us posted.
roseBudd
(8,718 posts)I lost 50% of my graft, it sloughed off, and had to heal by secondary intention.
Will you be getting Moh's?
Also cut out any aspirin, ibuprofen ASAP. I had hematoma, they cut me the same day the biopsy came back and I had taken ibuprofen the night before.
denbot
(9,900 posts)Peace to you and yours.
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)So I appreciate the seriousness. Early, of course, is good.
After you kick ass again keep up those three/four times a year mole checks ( Seems like a rip-off; he always biopsies things that turn out to be nothing, but wtf am I gonna do?)
Vibes.
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)have this thing that we do. We made the deal 15 years ago, on the evening that I was diagnosed for the first time, and we called it "FUCK CANCER"! So ... while this probably falls under the heading of TMI, I'm going to step away from the computer now. (And since I'm an old fart, I will almost certainly fall fast asleep soon after.) I'll be back tomorrow, but again I have to thank my second family ... DU.
Good night all.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Sending you some healing vibes and hoping for the best.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)Melanoma was my cancer, too, way back in 1988.
PEACE!
emsimon33
(3,128 posts)R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Positive vibes.
Arctic Dave
(13,812 posts)nolabear
(41,986 posts)MotherPetrie
(3,145 posts)sad-cafe
(1,277 posts)and quick too
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)So great that you caught it early. Please keep us updated.
Peace,
LTH
Unknown Beatle
(2,672 posts)Never give up and keep fighting.
Godspeed, 11B
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Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)You've got the right attitude. Kick cancer's butt.
kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)in management of melanoma - I think there is a therapeutic vaccine that is a revolutionary breakthrough.
The only reason I know anything about this is because I am one of those weird people with multiple halo nevi and I read decades ago about how people with them have circulating antibodies to melanoma. I just KNEW that would someday play out into a vaccine-based therapy for melanoma, and it did. I've often mused about how we weirdos maybe helped to save lives by providing a crucial clue.
So - they'll probably get it all with surgery - and on the off chance they don't, it's no longer guaranteed to kill.
Skittles
(153,169 posts)yes INDEED
and remember, we are always here for you
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)Hope you are able to get and stay cancer free!
no_hypocrisy
(46,119 posts)My dermatologist caught a Stage I melanoma about 6 years ago. I had a surgeon remove the surrounding tissue and it was clean. I hope that you're as fortunate.
I know visit my dermatologist 2-3 times a year for global examinations. When my doctor hovers over a spot and says, "That really should come out . . . . ", I practically shout "What are you waiting for?????"
If you get regular check ups, there's a good chance if any new cancer is found, it be very early and treatable.
Good luck to you!
SmileyRose
(4,854 posts)Vibes
ellenfl
(8,660 posts)i've had basal and squamous cell. you'll be fine. constant vigilance is the watchword, but you know that. i'll send good vibes your way on wednesday. i'm in south florida. which direction should i send them?
MannyGoldstein
(34,589 posts)Good luck!
hue
(4,949 posts)Daemonaquila
(1,712 posts)Kick it's butt!
Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)You can do it again.
ancianita
(36,066 posts)Lefta Dissenter
(6,622 posts)I'm sorry you're going through this. It must be scary as shit.
But hey, with your strength and with all of DU standing behind you, you're going to kick this thing from here to Timbuktu.
spanone
(135,844 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)Sissyk
(12,665 posts)You are in my thoughts. I'm sure you will get through it just fine. Keep your friends and family close as a positive support system.
Bozita
(26,955 posts)pacalo
(24,721 posts)Glad you caught it early. *phew*
As Pro Sense commented above, stay positive & stress-free. Attitude is everything, doctors say.
JI7
(89,251 posts)Stinky The Clown
(67,808 posts)Take can, man.
mzmolly
(50,996 posts)Sending positive healing thoughts/prayers your way.
ManiacJoe
(10,136 posts)Love the fighting attitude!
Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)You have to, we need you here!
alfredo
(60,074 posts)I'm watching some places on my skin, and have been for a few years.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)Never, ever, go out into the sun again without protection although this is one of those fun things you most likely set up in Vietnam, most of us set up Melanoma when we are teenagers to young adults but don't get bit until much later.
I'm sure there are a few more tests to be done but let them cut it all off with big margins. What matters is not how you look but how you breath as in continuing to .
I'm with you. Good thoughts your way.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Glad they caught it, glad you were keeping your eyes open for it. Good luck.
Blecht
(3,803 posts)They're good at this sort of thing these days. Good luck to you.
Not a Fan
(98 posts)I'm so sorry - that's terrible news. I hope you have an easy time of it and are able to put this all behind you soon.
Medical studies show that cancer patients with higher blood serum levels of Vitamin D3 consistently have better outcomes. This includes melanoma patients. In fact it's known that melanoma patients probably have high enough levels and will do well.
Vitamin D3 and Cancer:
http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/health-conditions/cancer/
Vitamin D and cancer: a review of molecular mechanisms.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22168439
Blinded by the Light
http://graemethomasonline.com/blinded-by-the-light/
RedCappedBandit
(5,514 posts)Jasana
(490 posts)I'm wishing you the best of luck 11 Bravo. You'll kick it's ass again.
dballance
(5,756 posts)I wish you well as do so many of your family and friends do. Rely upon them and accept help when you need it. Don't be ashamed to need help and ask for it. That whole idea that we should just "suck it up and deal with it" meme is so wrong.
Show your vulnerable side to the people who care for you and want to help you make it through this difficult time. Once you do then you will have the strength and courage to help others. Help the other people who don't wish to be seen as humanly defective or weak, and, therefore vulnerable. Help them get beyond that narcissism and help them get to the point where they can work on saving themselves and others.
Saving yourself will include times of being very selfish. That's okay. Don't chide or berate yourself for that.
I wish you well.
eridani
(51,907 posts)mgardener
(1,817 posts)I am so sorry you have to go through this.
Please let us know how you are doing.
We will be thinking of you.
I have had 9 basal cell skin cancers and I know at some point, I will be getting the same call.
cate94
(2,811 posts)Kick its ass!!!
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)a kennedy
(29,672 posts)Prayers, and good vibes.
Hubert Flottz
(37,726 posts)Wishing you the best of luck with your recovery. You've got to keep on truckin and go on and lash out, if it makes you feel better. If it takes obnoxious let 'er rip, just get well with all alacrity.
With our friend 11 Bravo around,
DU's news has a much better sound,
So get well purdy quick,
It's no fun being sick,
May your good health in future abound.
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)SalmonChantedEvening
(31,952 posts)To you, and your family.
malthaussen
(17,202 posts)Just say "fuck it" and drive on.
-- Mal
sinkingfeeling
(51,457 posts)Recursion
(56,582 posts)It has no fucking idea what's about to hit it.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)rusty fender
(3,428 posts)Liberalynn
(7,549 posts)Good luck.
tblue
(16,350 posts)You caught it early! The silver lining is you will live and love a little more profoundly. I had a C scare recently too. It's made me see my life and family and even myself differently. to you, sweetheart. This is just a blip. Life goes on, only better.
Rex
(65,616 posts)You will prevail again. Of this I have no doubt.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)are way too tough to be sick! You rock, 11 Bang-Bang! And you are going to get this surgery over with and keep on rockin'!
Beacool
(30,250 posts)It must be very tough to hear the "C" word again, but like you said, it's not overly invasive and you're tough. I'm sure that you will lick it once again.
I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Orsino
(37,428 posts)Best wishes to you and yours.
murielm99
(30,745 posts)MFM. Now we have two.
You are too tough to be sick. Fer sure.
Moostache
(9,895 posts)As a fellow one-time survivor, I know that the diagnosis is a serious gut punch. I am hoping to never hear it again in my lifetime, so I feel for you to have to go heads up with the disease again. Good luck and my thoughts are with you for your fight!
calimary
(81,306 posts)Keep us posted, okay? 'Cause we're gonna worry.
usregimechange
(18,373 posts)bottomofthehill
(8,333 posts)TygrBright
(20,760 posts)We gotcher back.
determinedly,
Bright
Kadie
(15,369 posts)sending positive vibes your way!
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)A bottle of bourbon, a belt sander, and you'll be good to go.
Melanoma picked on the wrong guy to fuck with.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)the prognosis is really very good. It's when it goes on and on, unchecked, that you have to be concerned.
Blue Owl
(50,407 posts)n/t
PlanetBev
(4,104 posts)You're going to be just fine. You sound much stronger than I did. Just the word Melanoma sent me in to a tailspin of non-stop terror. In December of 2005, I was diagnosed with what they nick-named "left-sided Melanoma". The sun beats in the driver's side of the car through the window and 37 years of driving in Los Angeles, I got nailed.
Went through two surgeries, one in the dermatologists office (insurance company assholes trying to save money) and then six weeks later in the hospital by a surgeon. They found cells too close to the margins after the first procedure, so they had to do it again. The onocolgy surgeon was pissed off because they didn't send me to him first. End up costing the insurance company much more $$ because they tried to take the easy way out. Serves 'em right.
Well, that was 7 years ago, and I'm doing great. Got me a nasy scar, but who cares? They caught it early and that's all that matters.
Sending you a big
Planetbev
Aviation Pro
(12,172 posts)...I caught mine in 2006 and was staged at 3, fortunately, my derma doc got me to the best surgeon in Volusia county and he excised it and a couple of sentinel lymph nodes in time. I was days away from it invading me, but the team kick that motherfucker of a disease to the curb and I've remained C-free since then.
Fuck cancer and everything about it.
WilliamPitt
(58,179 posts)Kick its ass.
whistler162
(11,155 posts)over the decades. Both teachers and both spent summers out doors at summer camp. Both are still going, fairly strong, at 83.
IADEMO2004
(5,555 posts)Mine was on my thigh 6 years ago. Best wishes.