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11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 05:49 PM Feb 2013

Melanoma surgical update ...

It really feels pretty self-absorbed to be posting this, but I was overwhelmed by the outpouring of good wishes and requests for updates I received since I first mentioned my diagnosis. After all of that, it would have seemed like kind of a dick move not to do this. So ... here we go: I had my surgery this afternoon, and while the melanoma was not in situ, it was only .5 mm deep, so that makes it a Stage 1. The doc took a chunk out of my back big enough to throw on the grill, but he seems relatively certain that by taking so much tissue the margins will come back clear, and that will be the end of it. He puts my survivability at 98% for 2 years, and 93% for 5 years. HELL, compared to other situations I've found myself in over the years, that almost qualifies as a sure thing!

Again, I know it sounds trite, but this place really is like a second family; and I am deeply appreciative for the support of my DU "relatives".


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Melanoma surgical update ... (Original Post) 11 Bravo Feb 2013 OP
Sounds like good news. Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #1
Congrats - that sounds very painful, but good that it turned out ok. nt el_bryanto Feb 2013 #2
Nice to hear sharp_stick Feb 2013 #3
Congrats! Glad he could get it all. sinkingfeeling Feb 2013 #4
Well, I'll find out for sure when we get the path report, but he is confident and so am I! 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #5
Hey, good on ya. Those percentages sound good to me. freshwest Feb 2013 #7
Thank you for the update too! murray hill farm Feb 2013 #49
clear margins is excellent noiretextatique Feb 2013 #136
What great news, my dear 11 Bravo! CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2013 #6
My dear California Peggy ... OK, it would have made a small steak, but ... 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #23
What a wonderful prognosis! May you have a speedy recovery. myrna minx Feb 2013 #8
Best luck! Fire Walk With Me Feb 2013 #9
Complete healing to you, 11 Bravo supernova Feb 2013 #10
Excellent news! Buns_of_Fire Feb 2013 #11
Excellent odds, 11 Bravo. Lars39 Feb 2013 #12
YEE HAW!!! Skittles Feb 2013 #13
Hell, I just told cancer that my friend Skittles has it scheduled for an ASS KICKING! 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #27
THAT'S RIGHT Skittles Feb 2013 #41
Good news, thanks. Thank science! mountain grammy Feb 2013 #14
Sounds like good news. Very glad to hear it abq e streeter Feb 2013 #15
Glad you are well taken care of... yellerpup Feb 2013 #16
That's about what I thought would happen Warpy Feb 2013 #17
What happy news! protect our future Feb 2013 #18
Yeah, you're in good shape, Bravo PlanetBev Feb 2013 #19
Best wishes; that sounds very positive! LeftishBrit Feb 2013 #20
Best wishes to you Boomerproud Feb 2013 #21
Sounds like good news. timdog44 Feb 2013 #22
Great news! K&R stevenleser Feb 2013 #24
So glad to hear this! dgibby Feb 2013 #25
Congrats! Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2013 #26
Fanfuckingtastic! graywarrior Feb 2013 #28
Excellent news! Chorophyll Feb 2013 #29
Thats great, man. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #30
i'm happy the news is so good! barbtries Feb 2013 #31
Good luck, Bravo LittleBlue Feb 2013 #32
Fabulous! madashelltoo Feb 2013 #33
Great News! WCGreen Feb 2013 #34
Terrific news! villager Feb 2013 #35
Super! Rest well tonight...you've earned it! eom Frustratedlady Feb 2013 #36
Outstanding news! City Lights Feb 2013 #37
Shit, brother, you worried us for THAT? :) pinboy3niner Feb 2013 #38
Hell, I'm a drama queen! They didn't check the margins while I was on the table. Not sure ... 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #48
Hey, do I look like a fuck'n doctor to you? pinboy3niner Feb 2013 #60
Way to go. Thanks for the update. That was pretty fast. God was on your side. southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #39
I love good news. aquart Feb 2013 #40
So glad to hear the good news NEOhiodemocrat Feb 2013 #42
Very good news! Mz Pip Feb 2013 #43
Sorry to hear about the size of what goes on the grill, but seriously OUTSTANDING news! hatrack Feb 2013 #44
Kick for 11 Bravo kentuck Feb 2013 #45
That's good news! livetohike Feb 2013 #46
I am so happy to hear this good news!!!! Thank You!!!!!!M LiberalLoner Feb 2013 #47
Very good news! Unknown Beatle Feb 2013 #50
{{11bravo}}! To your health! WinkyDink Feb 2013 #51
Sounds like a good preliminary result. I am so very glad. juajen Feb 2013 #52
Excellent news malaise Feb 2013 #53
Yay, 11 Bravo! kaiden Feb 2013 #54
hang in..the worst is over medeak Feb 2013 #55
That sounds like SUCH good news! Le Taz Hot Feb 2013 #56
such wonderful news, 11Bravo! BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #57
Excellent, 11 Bravo! Sissyk Feb 2013 #58
Congratulations! What a relief that is for you and your family Hekate Feb 2013 #59
Good that things are going well for you considering the Cleita Feb 2013 #61
It's not an Original Thought but Ccarmona Feb 2013 #62
Welcome back (NT) The Wizard Feb 2013 #63
Hell Bravo, we can use all the good news we can get. Hooray! nolabear Feb 2013 #64
Oh happy days....such GOOD news! Thanks for keep your 'family' updated! Things snappyturtle Feb 2013 #65
Sounds very good! Please keep us informed. We are a family. catbyte Feb 2013 #66
graviola or guanabana...maybe you need to take this... glinda Feb 2013 #67
Great news. jerseyjack Feb 2013 #68
.. Liberal_in_LA Feb 2013 #69
he seems to have left your sense of humor intact renate Feb 2013 #70
That's great news. Really great. Stinky The Clown Feb 2013 #71
Good news! Cali_Democrat Feb 2013 #72
happy news! irisblue Feb 2013 #73
Sounds good! tooeyeten Feb 2013 #74
Very good news cally Feb 2013 #75
Brilliant news Smilo Feb 2013 #76
I am glad to hear that! immoderate Feb 2013 #77
Wow I am sorry that I didn't know you were going through this underpants Feb 2013 #78
Great news. Buy a Powerball ticket too, you are on a roll. IADEMO2004 Feb 2013 #79
Great news kairos12 Feb 2013 #80
very good to hear and thanks for updating us Euphoria Feb 2013 #81
I am so happy for you and your family, looks like you will be A-OKAY!!!!!! secondwind Feb 2013 #82
happy to hear this. thanks for letting us know! eom ellenfl Feb 2013 #83
Great news! gademocrat7 Feb 2013 #84
Good luck rustydog Feb 2013 #85
Oh, honey bunch. tblue Feb 2013 #86
What happy news! i been there too.. i bought lots of long sleeve t-shirts.. rabid_byter Feb 2013 #87
Really good to hear, Bravo! pacalo Feb 2013 #88
Good nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #89
Good to hear. ChaoticTrilby Feb 2013 #90
Well, that's a relief Yo_Mama Feb 2013 #91
Sounds really positive! Wonderful news! Greybnk48 Feb 2013 #92
Congratulations! WinstonSmith4740 Feb 2013 #93
Awesome! ellie Feb 2013 #94
That is great! cate94 Feb 2013 #95
You're in good shape OldRedneck Feb 2013 #96
Congratulations on your great prognosis. Auntie Bush Feb 2013 #97
Such great news! TDale313 Feb 2013 #98
Great, great news. Thanks for letting us know.....n/t radhika Feb 2013 #99
Gad to hear the surgery went well. Granny M Feb 2013 #100
Wonderful news. Now, outlive us all and kick ass along the way! Marie Marie Feb 2013 #101
I am glad that your prognosis is so good! nt tblue37 Feb 2013 #102
Very happy for you and your prognosis. no_hypocrisy Feb 2013 #103
Wonderful news! Loki Feb 2013 #104
Congratulations! uppityperson Feb 2013 #105
Thank you for the update, 11 Bravo!!! calimary Feb 2013 #106
Best wishes for the very best outcome indepat Feb 2013 #107
I'm relieved for you...be gentle with yourself..heal well. w8liftinglady Feb 2013 #108
Wonderful news! onestepforward Feb 2013 #109
Me too ... DakotaLady Feb 2013 #110
my dear 11 bravo, that is exciting news. Stage one is totally doable roguevalley Feb 2013 #111
Thank goodness for great news! Lugnut Feb 2013 #112
Wonderful news! nt Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #113
Such wonderful news! Thanks for letting us know... Rhiannon12866 Feb 2013 #114
So glad to hear this. Congrats on your good news! Maraya1969 Feb 2013 #115
My father had a similar melanoma when he was 49, he's 88 now. diane in sf Feb 2013 #116
Two things grantcart Feb 2013 #117
This is good news! HappyMe Feb 2013 #118
Good news! Glad to hear it. LoisB Feb 2013 #119
Good news indeed. Waltons_Mtn Feb 2013 #120
great news but remember constant vigilance dembotoz Feb 2013 #121
Wonderful news...... a kennedy Feb 2013 #122
I guess you could say your surgeon's got your back... malthaussen Feb 2013 #123
Bravo, 11 Bravo! babylonsister Feb 2013 #124
I tried to warn you about the whole tavalon Feb 2013 #125
Good luck! Frances Feb 2013 #126
Congratulations! life long demo Feb 2013 #127
Good luck! GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #128
Wonderful news! Happy for you! Window Feb 2013 #129
Good news! colorado_ufo Feb 2013 #130
Fantastic news.. Bravo !! n/t SoCalDem Feb 2013 #131
Kick its ass, brother. WilliamPitt Feb 2013 #132
So glad to hear the news is good lillypaddle Feb 2013 #133
That qualifies as very good news indeed! thucythucy Feb 2013 #134
Excellent news!!!!!!!!! noiretextatique Feb 2013 #135
Thanks for the update and best to you moving forward! bluesbassman Feb 2013 #137
Great! vankuria Feb 2013 #138

murray hill farm

(3,650 posts)
49. Thank you for the update too!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:19 PM
Feb 2013

It is much appreciated that you did chose to keep us updated and informed of the results. Good news too!

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
136. clear margins is excellent
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 05:03 PM
Feb 2013

i had a similar situation with breast cancer. part of the tumor was in situ, and part of it was not. surgeon cut out lots of tissue surrounding the tumor, and all the margins were clear. i *KNOW* that pathology report is going to be fine.
on edit: my tumor was stage 2 because of the size, but it's been five years now and i am still doing great.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,627 posts)
6. What great news, my dear 11 Bravo!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 05:56 PM
Feb 2013

I am really pleased to hear it!

A chunk big enough to GRILL???

They always want clear margins, and when they get them, all is well!

Long, healthy life to you!


11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
23. My dear California Peggy ... OK, it would have made a small steak, but ...
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:35 PM
Feb 2013

5" by 2" looks fairly large when it's coming out of your back! (And I was yapping the whole time ... "Get it all, doc, we don't need to do this again!&quot

Buns_of_Fire

(17,180 posts)
11. Excellent news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:14 PM
Feb 2013

A relative just had a pretty-good chunk taken out of them, and now, three months later, the surgeon is giving a qualified thumbs-up. I'm hoping the same for you.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
12. Excellent odds, 11 Bravo.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:18 PM
Feb 2013

Stage I !!! And good margins are a *very* good thing. Just keep your appointments to stay on top of this thing, ya hear!

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
27. Hell, I just told cancer that my friend Skittles has it scheduled for an ASS KICKING!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:41 PM
Feb 2013

I figure that alone will be enough to make the miserable fucking thing just shrivel up and die!

abq e streeter

(7,658 posts)
15. Sounds like good news. Very glad to hear it
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:23 PM
Feb 2013

And you're obviously a tough SOB, so sounds like you have a long time left to continue being one.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
19. Yeah, you're in good shape, Bravo
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:29 PM
Feb 2013

Mine was .7 mm and I felt lucky. Glad he took that big chunk, he knew what he was doing. I lost a lot of meat too, but at least I have some of peace of mind.

We need you around for a long time, so together we can continue to beat down the flying monkey Right.

Boomerproud

(7,954 posts)
21. Best wishes to you
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:33 PM
Feb 2013

and obviously, keep your DU family posted. It sounds very positive and I'm very happy for you!

timdog44

(1,388 posts)
22. Sounds like good news.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:35 PM
Feb 2013

Congrats and hope the margins are all clear.

And it is not self-absorbed at all. Clearly something to be concerned about and also feel good about.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
35. Terrific news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:47 PM
Feb 2013

Hell, your survival odds are probably better/surer than a big swath of humanity's, over a 5 year timeframe!

Take care, 11 Bravo!

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
38. Shit, brother, you worried us for THAT? :)
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:54 PM
Feb 2013

I'm happy for you that it turned out so well.

But they didn't check the margins while you were on the table? When I had basal cell on my forehead, they did MOHS surgery. They cut a patch, then run it to the lab, freeze it, check the margins, and if they're not clear they come back and cut some more until the margins ARE clear. All while I was still on the table.

They also took a skin graft from my thigh to cover the surgical wound, so I had two sites that hurt like hell just from the warmth of sunlight for about 9 months. (It was a lovely fuckin' war. ).

I got a feelin' you're gonna be around for a while...


11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
48. Hell, I'm a drama queen! They didn't check the margins while I was on the table. Not sure ...
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:17 PM
Feb 2013

if that's because I didn't have the MOHS procedure, or some other reason. This shit was on my back, is MOHS only for facial lesions?

(And yeah, this particular 19 year old dumb ass spent WAY too much time shirtless in that little corner of the world.)

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
60. Hey, do I look like a fuck'n doctor to you?
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:44 PM
Feb 2013

You can probably look up that procedure on the fuck'n google. What do I know? I was just a grunt.

I turned 21 in VN, and I got a lotta fuck'n sun there. Humping the boonies in the heat all day, and sitting on cold ambush nights in your sweated, wet jungle fatigues.

It was a lovely fuck'n war, wasn't it?

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
39. Way to go. Thanks for the update. That was pretty fast. God was on your side.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 06:55 PM
Feb 2013

He isn't ready for you yet. Now you can stop and smell the roses.

hatrack

(59,587 posts)
44. Sorry to hear about the size of what goes on the grill, but seriously OUTSTANDING news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:09 PM
Feb 2013
to decades of remission!

kentuck

(111,098 posts)
45. Kick for 11 Bravo
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:10 PM
Feb 2013

Those odds must sound pretty good, considering what you have gone thru? Good luck !

livetohike

(22,144 posts)
46. That's good news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:11 PM
Feb 2013
I've had several suspicious moles removed requiring 20+ stitches, so I can imagine what this surgery required. Thank you for the update and make sure you make every check up appointment as required .

medeak

(8,101 posts)
55. hang in..the worst is over
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:25 PM
Feb 2013

after 9 months of cancer treatment totally understand the anxiety. It's an epidemic!

Hekate

(90,704 posts)
59. Congratulations! What a relief that is for you and your family
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:39 PM
Feb 2013

There was a young friend of the family who had a dime-sized melanoma removed from his back, and I tell you the size of the chunk that was removed with it was scary-impressive. The surgeons leave nothing to chance! The "young friend" is now over 50 and doing well. You do the same, okay?

Cheers,

Hekate

 

Ccarmona

(1,180 posts)
62. It's not an Original Thought but
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:50 PM
Feb 2013

as they say about injured athletes, ...all of us are going day-to-day.

snappyturtle

(14,656 posts)
65. Oh happy days....such GOOD news! Thanks for keep your 'family' updated! Things
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 07:56 PM
Feb 2013

could get a bit prickly if you didn't!!

renate

(13,776 posts)
70. he seems to have left your sense of humor intact
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 08:21 PM
Feb 2013

"a chunk out of my back big enough to throw on the grill"

I'm glad the news is so good!

Stinky The Clown

(67,806 posts)
71. That's great news. Really great.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 08:21 PM
Feb 2013

My partner had a melanoma removed about 10 years ago. She still goes to the doc twice a year for checkups. So far, so good.

tooeyeten

(1,074 posts)
74. Sounds good!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 08:37 PM
Feb 2013

That you will not need any other treatment so far, is a sign you're in good shape today. It is always encouraging to hear when others share their concerns, fears, around such a scary proposition of dealing with the big C, helps everyone in my opinion and experience. Thank you for sharing what's happening with you! Best of everything and a great recovery!

underpants

(182,823 posts)
78. Wow I am sorry that I didn't know you were going through this
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 08:47 PM
Feb 2013

I have an aunt with melanoma and my stepfather as well.

Good luck 11. This is a hard one to beat but I know you can do it.

Euphoria

(448 posts)
81. very good to hear and thanks for updating us
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 08:50 PM
Feb 2013

It was neat of you to let us know about this very important event in your life. Each of us matters, but it's hard to sometimes to just 'let it out'.

 

rabid_byter

(40 posts)
87. What happy news! i been there too.. i bought lots of long sleeve t-shirts..
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 09:17 PM
Feb 2013

wear them all year long with a hat.. i got at least 15 hats.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
91. Well, that's a relief
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 09:41 PM
Feb 2013

I didn't post in the original thread, but I did say a prayer for you.

We're not indifferent and thank you VERY much for giving us the update.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
92. Sounds really positive! Wonderful news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 09:48 PM
Feb 2013

I'm a cancer survivor--it will be six years in March! I hope that before you know it, you'll be saying the same thing!

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
93. Congratulations!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 10:01 PM
Feb 2013

Wonderful prognosis! Best wishes to you and yours. Pop a bottle of champagne and CELEBRATE until you do this:

cate94

(2,811 posts)
95. That is great!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 10:07 PM
Feb 2013

That is fantastic news! Great odds and I'm actually glad to hear it was on your back.

One of my friends has had three surgeries for melanoma on her face. The last one left a scar three or four inches across her cheek. She looks as tough as she is.

That said, better to have a big ass scar on your back. I'm happy to hear your good news. Thanks for sharing.

 

OldRedneck

(1,397 posts)
96. You're in good shape
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 10:35 PM
Feb 2013

My son had a melanoma removed from his left biceps three years ago. Size was same as yours; doc took a big chunk out of his arm. He goes back for lymph node biopsy every six months and has been clean for three years. His doc wants him to keep coming back every six months for another 2 years, then drop to annual lymph biopsies.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
97. Congratulations on your great prognosis.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 10:40 PM
Feb 2013

Too bad everyone can't have results like that. I know several people that scummed to Melanoma. How fortunate you caught yours early!

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
100. Gad to hear the surgery went well.
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 11:04 PM
Feb 2013

Take care - I imagine that wound is going to smart quite a bit. Good job on that ass-kicking!

Loki

(3,825 posts)
104. Wonderful news!
Wed Feb 27, 2013, 11:36 PM
Feb 2013

My husbands good friend had melanoma surgery 15 years ago and is still cancer free. You have a a lot of positive energy flowing your way.

calimary

(81,297 posts)
106. Thank you for the update, 11 Bravo!!!
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 12:10 AM
Feb 2013

You know us well! You knew we'd be worried. Glad to hear that the statistics are favorable for you! That way we'll have you in our DU family for a long time to come!

:

DakotaLady

(246 posts)
110. Me too ...
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 01:42 AM
Feb 2013

Last edited Thu Feb 28, 2013, 02:47 AM - Edit history (1)

I was diagnosed early NOV 2012 and mid-month my early stage one melanoma was surgically removed from my back as well. One week after the surgery doctor closed the area with sutures ... many sutures. For me this was worse than the initial surgery.

I was released by the dermatology surgeon mid-month JAN 2013. Glad that it is all now part of my past history. Like you I hope it never returns.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
111. my dear 11 bravo, that is exciting news. Stage one is totally doable
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 01:55 AM
Feb 2013

just take care with the sun. make sure you check for moles etc. I am so very delighted for you. Congratulations, honey.

Rhiannon12866

(205,421 posts)
114. Such wonderful news! Thanks for letting us know...
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 04:16 AM
Feb 2013

I've been worried since I read your earlier post, so thank you for sharing your positive news with your DU family...

Waltons_Mtn

(345 posts)
120. Good news indeed.
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 09:24 AM
Feb 2013

Glad to hear we will have your cranky butt around here for years to come. If we were allowed to subscribe to individuals posts you would be one I would follow. I enjoy reading your take on many subjects. Positive thoughts towards good test results coming your way!!

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
135. Excellent news!!!!!!!!!
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 04:57 PM
Feb 2013
i am so happy for you as scary as the C word is, my experience with it was similar to yours. i've actually been sicker from the flu than i was from cancer.

vankuria

(904 posts)
138. Great!
Thu Feb 28, 2013, 05:41 PM
Feb 2013

Glad to hear the good news, hope you have a quick recovery! Thanks for keeping us up to date and best wishes!

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