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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMelanoma surgical update ...
It really feels pretty self-absorbed to be posting this, but I was overwhelmed by the outpouring of good wishes and requests for updates I received since I first mentioned my diagnosis. After all of that, it would have seemed like kind of a dick move not to do this. So ... here we go: I had my surgery this afternoon, and while the melanoma was not in situ, it was only .5 mm deep, so that makes it a Stage 1. The doc took a chunk out of my back big enough to throw on the grill, but he seems relatively certain that by taking so much tissue the margins will come back clear, and that will be the end of it. He puts my survivability at 98% for 2 years, and 93% for 5 years. HELL, compared to other situations I've found myself in over the years, that almost qualifies as a sure thing!
Again, I know it sounds trite, but this place really is like a second family; and I am deeply appreciative for the support of my DU "relatives".
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)Glad to hear that!
el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)I'm really happy they found it that early. Good for you getting it checked out.
sinkingfeeling
(51,457 posts)11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)murray hill farm
(3,650 posts)It is much appreciated that you did chose to keep us updated and informed of the results. Good news too!
noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)i had a similar situation with breast cancer. part of the tumor was in situ, and part of it was not. surgeon cut out lots of tissue surrounding the tumor, and all the margins were clear. i *KNOW* that pathology report is going to be fine.
on edit: my tumor was stage 2 because of the size, but it's been five years now and i am still doing great.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,627 posts)I am really pleased to hear it!
A chunk big enough to GRILL???
They always want clear margins, and when they get them, all is well!
Long, healthy life to you!
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)5" by 2" looks fairly large when it's coming out of your back! (And I was yapping the whole time ... "Get it all, doc, we don't need to do this again!"
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)Fire Walk With Me
(38,893 posts)supernova
(39,345 posts)Buns_of_Fire
(17,180 posts)A relative just had a pretty-good chunk taken out of them, and now, three months later, the surgeon is giving a qualified thumbs-up. I'm hoping the same for you.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)Stage I !!! And good margins are a *very* good thing. Just keep your appointments to stay on top of this thing, ya hear!
Skittles
(153,164 posts)that is great news!!!
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)I figure that alone will be enough to make the miserable fucking thing just shrivel up and die!
Skittles
(153,164 posts)AND I AM FIERCELY LOYAL TO MY FRIENDS!!!
mountain grammy
(26,622 posts)abq e streeter
(7,658 posts)And you're obviously a tough SOB, so sounds like you have a long time left to continue being one.
yellerpup
(12,253 posts)best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery!
Warpy
(111,267 posts)since you're on top of all this stuff.
protect our future
(1,156 posts)PlanetBev
(4,104 posts)Mine was .7 mm and I felt lucky. Glad he took that big chunk, he knew what he was doing. I lost a lot of meat too, but at least I have some of peace of mind.
We need you around for a long time, so together we can continue to beat down the flying monkey Right.
LeftishBrit
(41,205 posts)Boomerproud
(7,954 posts)and obviously, keep your DU family posted. It sounds very positive and I'm very happy for you!
timdog44
(1,388 posts)Congrats and hope the margins are all clear.
And it is not self-absorbed at all. Clearly something to be concerned about and also feel good about.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)dgibby
(9,474 posts)Hoping for more good news with the biopsy results. Please keep us posted.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,330 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Glad to hear it! Take care of yourself.
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Bravo, as it were.
barbtries
(28,798 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Beat this crap!
madashelltoo
(1,698 posts)Keep on keeping' on!
WCGreen
(45,558 posts)villager
(26,001 posts)Hell, your survival odds are probably better/surer than a big swath of humanity's, over a 5 year timeframe!
Take care, 11 Bravo!
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)So happy for you. Happy healing.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)I'm happy for you that it turned out so well.
But they didn't check the margins while you were on the table? When I had basal cell on my forehead, they did MOHS surgery. They cut a patch, then run it to the lab, freeze it, check the margins, and if they're not clear they come back and cut some more until the margins ARE clear. All while I was still on the table.
They also took a skin graft from my thigh to cover the surgical wound, so I had two sites that hurt like hell just from the warmth of sunlight for about 9 months. (It was a lovely fuckin' war. ).
I got a feelin' you're gonna be around for a while...
11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)if that's because I didn't have the MOHS procedure, or some other reason. This shit was on my back, is MOHS only for facial lesions?
(And yeah, this particular 19 year old dumb ass spent WAY too much time shirtless in that little corner of the world.)
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)You can probably look up that procedure on the fuck'n google. What do I know? I was just a grunt.
I turned 21 in VN, and I got a lotta fuck'n sun there. Humping the boonies in the heat all day, and sitting on cold ambush nights in your sweated, wet jungle fatigues.
It was a lovely fuck'n war, wasn't it?
southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)He isn't ready for you yet. Now you can stop and smell the roses.
aquart
(69,014 posts)Thanks for keeping us up to date.
But oh boy, is your back gonna be sore!
NEOhiodemocrat
(912 posts)Take care and hope the report comes back that it is all clear now.
Mz Pip
(27,448 posts)Live long and prosper.
hatrack
(59,587 posts)kentuck
(111,098 posts)Those odds must sound pretty good, considering what you have gone thru? Good luck !
livetohike
(22,144 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)Unknown Beatle
(2,672 posts)Keep on keeping on, my brother in liberalism and progressivism.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)juajen
(8,515 posts)malaise
(269,021 posts)kaiden
(1,314 posts)medeak
(8,101 posts)after 9 months of cancer treatment totally understand the anxiety. It's an epidemic!
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)Thanks for updating us. I'll keep sending positive vibes your way.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)So glad it was caught early!!
We need you here!
Sissyk
(12,665 posts)Will continue to keep you in my thoughts!
Hekate
(90,704 posts)There was a young friend of the family who had a dime-sized melanoma removed from his back, and I tell you the size of the chunk that was removed with it was scary-impressive. The surgeons leave nothing to chance! The "young friend" is now over 50 and doing well. You do the same, okay?
Cheers,
Hekate
Cleita
(75,480 posts)circumstances. Get well.
Ccarmona
(1,180 posts)as they say about injured athletes, ...all of us are going day-to-day.
The Wizard
(12,545 posts)nolabear
(41,984 posts)snappyturtle
(14,656 posts)could get a bit prickly if you didn't!!
catbyte
(34,393 posts)glinda
(14,807 posts)Glad of the results today!
jerseyjack
(1,361 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)"a chunk out of my back big enough to throw on the grill"
I'm glad the news is so good!
Stinky The Clown
(67,806 posts)My partner had a melanoma removed about 10 years ago. She still goes to the doc twice a year for checkups. So far, so good.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)irisblue
(32,975 posts)tooeyeten
(1,074 posts)That you will not need any other treatment so far, is a sign you're in good shape today. It is always encouraging to hear when others share their concerns, fears, around such a scary proposition of dealing with the big C, helps everyone in my opinion and experience. Thank you for sharing what's happening with you! Best of everything and a great recovery!
cally
(21,594 posts)I'm glad you posted the good news.
Smilo
(1,944 posts)thanks for letting us know.
immoderate
(20,885 posts)--imm
underpants
(182,823 posts)I have an aunt with melanoma and my stepfather as well.
Good luck 11. This is a hard one to beat but I know you can do it.
IADEMO2004
(5,554 posts)Best wishes
kairos12
(12,862 posts)Euphoria
(448 posts)It was neat of you to let us know about this very important event in your life. Each of us matters, but it's hard to sometimes to just 'let it out'.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)ellenfl
(8,660 posts)gademocrat7
(10,658 posts)Take care!
rustydog
(9,186 posts)tblue
(16,350 posts)rabid_byter
(40 posts)wear them all year long with a hat.. i got at least 15 hats.
pacalo
(24,721 posts)Thanks for giving us a follow-up. Good news, indeed!
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)And yes, this is like a family.
ChaoticTrilby
(211 posts)Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)I didn't post in the original thread, but I did say a prayer for you.
We're not indifferent and thank you VERY much for giving us the update.
Greybnk48
(10,168 posts)I'm a cancer survivor--it will be six years in March! I hope that before you know it, you'll be saying the same thing!
WinstonSmith4740
(3,056 posts)Wonderful prognosis! Best wishes to you and yours. Pop a bottle of champagne and CELEBRATE until you do this:
ellie
(6,929 posts)Good wishes to you!
cate94
(2,811 posts)That is fantastic news! Great odds and I'm actually glad to hear it was on your back.
One of my friends has had three surgeries for melanoma on her face. The last one left a scar three or four inches across her cheek. She looks as tough as she is.
That said, better to have a big ass scar on your back. I'm happy to hear your good news. Thanks for sharing.
OldRedneck
(1,397 posts)My son had a melanoma removed from his left biceps three years ago. Size was same as yours; doc took a big chunk out of his arm. He goes back for lymph node biopsy every six months and has been clean for three years. His doc wants him to keep coming back every six months for another 2 years, then drop to annual lymph biopsies.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)Too bad everyone can't have results like that. I know several people that scummed to Melanoma. How fortunate you caught yours early!
TDale313
(7,820 posts)radhika
(1,008 posts)Granny M
(1,395 posts)Take care - I imagine that wound is going to smart quite a bit. Good job on that ass-kicking!
Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)tblue37
(65,385 posts)no_hypocrisy
(46,116 posts)Loki
(3,825 posts)My husbands good friend had melanoma surgery 15 years ago and is still cancer free. You have a a lot of positive energy flowing your way.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)calimary
(81,297 posts)You know us well! You knew we'd be worried. Glad to hear that the statistics are favorable for you! That way we'll have you in our DU family for a long time to come!
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indepat
(20,899 posts)w8liftinglady
(23,278 posts)onestepforward
(3,691 posts)I hope your back heals up quickly!
DakotaLady
(246 posts)Last edited Thu Feb 28, 2013, 02:47 AM - Edit history (1)
I was diagnosed early NOV 2012 and mid-month my early stage one melanoma was surgically removed from my back as well. One week after the surgery doctor closed the area with sutures ... many sutures. For me this was worse than the initial surgery.
I was released by the dermatology surgeon mid-month JAN 2013. Glad that it is all now part of my past history. Like you I hope it never returns.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)just take care with the sun. make sure you check for moles etc. I am so very delighted for you. Congratulations, honey.
Lugnut
(9,791 posts)Those sound like pretty good odds to boot! I'm thrilled for you.
Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)Rhiannon12866
(205,421 posts)I've been worried since I read your earlier post, so thank you for sharing your positive news with your DU family...
Maraya1969
(22,482 posts)diane in sf
(3,913 posts)grantcart
(53,061 posts)First great news
Second - this thread is a great antidote to Meta!
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)I'm really glad to hear this.
LoisB
(7,206 posts)Waltons_Mtn
(345 posts)Glad to hear we will have your cranky butt around here for years to come. If we were allowed to subscribe to individuals posts you would be one I would follow. I enjoy reading your take on many subjects. Positive thoughts towards good test results coming your way!!
dembotoz
(16,806 posts)keep and eye back there ok?????
a kennedy
(29,669 posts)malthaussen
(17,200 posts)Good news, 11Bravo.
-- Mal
babylonsister
(171,066 posts)Thanks for the update; sounds like good news to me also!!
tavalon
(27,985 posts)They do not fuck around with melanoma. Sounds great.
Frances
(8,545 posts)life long demo
(1,113 posts)Best wishes for continued improvement and peace of mind.
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)Window
(7,265 posts)Peace.
colorado_ufo
(5,734 posts)Heal quickly . . .
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)WilliamPitt
(58,179 posts)lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)thucythucy
(8,066 posts)Best wishes, and don't hesitate to keep us posted.
noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)bluesbassman
(19,374 posts)vankuria
(904 posts)Glad to hear the good news, hope you have a quick recovery! Thanks for keeping us up to date and best wishes!