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Dennis Died in Nam. His mom learned it on network nightly news when his camp was overrun.
I lost uncles and cousins in WWII and Korea.
David came home from Iraq, but has never been the same.
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hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)My cousin was Louis Allen.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,620 posts)But the brother-in-law of my son-in-law died in Iraq of a road-side bomb.
All the rest of my family that saw any action came home...
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)My cousin was killed in June of 2005
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)Old Codger
(4,205 posts)My father in WWII.....
kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)Revolutionary War. Damned Brits. But I don't hold a grudge. We still won, and his daughter, born after he died, grew up and married well enough.
I am lucky that he's the only one I know of to have died in war. My dad served a year in Nam flying reconnaissance for the USAF. He had one very close call with a MiG that he spoke of.
Arcanetrance
(2,670 posts)vt_native
(484 posts)died when a Japanese submarine sank the U.S.S. Cooper off of Leyte Gulf in the Phillipines.
snacker
(3,619 posts)It was during the Vietnam War, but an accident in the South China Sea.
"...on that fateful morning, June 3, 1969 when USS Frank E. Evans (DD 754) collided with the Australian Aircraft Carrier HMAS Melbourne (R21) and was cut in half. The forward section of USS Frank E. Evans (DD 754) sank in 1100 fathoms of water within two minutes. Seventy-four lives were lost."
http://www.ussfee.org/the74.html
It happened two days before my high school graduation.
Lugnut
(9,791 posts)He was a 30 year old newlywed.
http://projects.militarytimes.com/valor/army-sgt-1st-class-paul-d-karpowich/573046
shanti
(21,675 posts)he died at hai phong in 1968. he was 21.
Bay Boy
(1,689 posts)during the Civil War count?
SummerSnow
(12,608 posts)But I read letters he wrote to my mom asking her if I was walking yet.
neverforget
(9,436 posts)SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)If not personally, collectively.
All we are asking is ...............give peace a chance.
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)Uncle captured at the Guantlet in North Korea, died soon after in POW camp.
Brother, not in Nam but later from complications of agent orange.
Many dear friends in Vietnam.
I'm worried for my Grandson right now. He's on the Ike and will likely be involved in Iran or Syria.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)malokvale77
(4,879 posts)nt
SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)He left six weeks after his baby girl was born. She will be almost a year old before he is home.
My granddaughter is also in the Army.
So I know your fears.
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)Just makes me so weary at times.
Omaha Steve
(99,635 posts)No idea if she will be going to a hot spot.
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)He is buried in the Philippines.
My cousin came back from VN, but subsequently committed suicide.
Tikki
(14,557 posts)Tikki
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)redwitch
(14,944 posts)Shot down over Guadalcanal. Friendly fire.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,695 posts)I am fortunate in that I haven't lost any close relatives in any recent wars.
broiles
(1,367 posts)OnionPatch
(6,169 posts)It was 1966 and I was in second grade. He lived next door to us and was almost like a brother to my siblings and me. He only had a few weeks to go when he stepped on a landmine.
longship
(40,416 posts)In Japanese waters. Nobody knows how the Kete was lost. It may have been a mine.
Carl Brooks, RIP.
ornotna
(10,801 posts)Had a great uncle who died in Elmira during the Civil War. My great grandfather fought on the Union side, collected a Civil War pension and lived to the ripe old age of 95.
Brother Buzz
(36,434 posts)He was a newly minted Ensign serving on the USS Meredith. He survived the sinking, not the sharks.
polly7
(20,582 posts)another uncle in WW2. One of those in the first world war lied about his age to join up and was there a total of three days before they were taken captive, he died in a German prisoner of war camp.
meow2u3
(24,764 posts)He was captured by the Nazis, who turned around and murdered him, along with his fellow POWs.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)They came back from Nam physically, never the same emotionally.
It cost them a lot.
Dragonbreathp9d
(2,542 posts)Don't know if that counts but he still harbors problems related to PTSD that were never resolved. Flashes of anger, on again off again alcoholism (not bad but still there). I often wonder what type of man he'd be today were it not for that horrid war, whether we would have a better relationship.
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)It's not my goal to steal the show here, but as a platoon leader in Iraq I lost 5 of the guys that served directly under me when I lost a Bradley Fighting Vehicle. All said, in an 18 month period, 7 guys that I knew on a very personal level died in war. I knew many others, but they were mostly casual acquaintances. 9 Guys in my company were killed and 16 guys in my battalion were killed in my 13 month deployment.
I doubt it was just me, but anytime I run into someone or talk to someone that I served with I find out that someone else that I knew was killed. "Hey, I haven't talked to you in so long! How are things going? Did you hear about so and so? No? Well, they died...". I don't know how many people and casual acquaintances I've heard about that way.
What a waste.