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(81,877 posts)
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:07 PM Jun 2013

104 men pictured in 'wall of shame' after they were arrested for soliciting prostitutes



The district attorney in upscale Nassau County, New York, has unleashed civil strife by posting the names and pictures of 104 men arrested in a prostitution sting over the last six weeks.


'Operation Flush the Johns' on Long Island nabbed young men and old men, lawyers, doctors, engineers, teachers, college professors and students.

All of them set up dates to meet with prostitutes at local a hotel using the classified ads site backpage.com.

District Attorney Kathleen Rice said police started a sting operation in April after receiving numerous complaints about prostitution at hotels across the county.
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Nassau divorce lawyer Bryan L. Salamone says he has had four women come to him seeking divorces because their husbands were charged with soliciting prostitutes.
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2335372/Operation-Flush-Johns-Nassau-County-DA-posts-pictures-104-arrested-prostitution-sting.html
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104 men pictured in 'wall of shame' after they were arrested for soliciting prostitutes (Original Post) Renew Deal Jun 2013 OP
Wouldn't legalizing and taxing prostitution be easier than entrapment? villager Jun 2013 #1
Agree 100%. marmar Jun 2013 #2
definitely lame54 Jun 2013 #4
entrapment ? hhahahahha JI7 Jun 2013 #5
Yeah, but that wouldn't get as much publicity as ridiculous stunts like this. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #10
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Good luck with that MattBaggins Jun 2013 #96
Don't forget regulating and protecting safety. backscatter712 Jun 2013 #13
That would make way too much sense. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #22
And outside of boutique brothels how exactly do you imagine this is going to work? Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #223
If they were unionized Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #239
If anyone else said that I would assume it was sarcasm. But I know better... Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #251
Yeah, 'cause that's exactly how it would work. Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #252
Well how would it work for street prostitution? Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #258
You are making too much sense. GreenStormCloud Jun 2013 #47
We're in agreement here, GSC (!) villager Jun 2013 #49
But that would be safe, sane and reasonable LadyHawkAZ Jun 2013 #52
Unprotected: How Legalizing Prostitution Has Failed redqueen Jun 2013 #60
why do they go to poor countries to find women JI7 Jun 2013 #84
In some countries, like Cambodia ChazII Jun 2013 #100
because weathly and educated women don't want to turn $20 tricks? dlwickham Jun 2013 #126
$20?? blueamy66 Jun 2013 #217
We aren't supposed to care about them, only the privileged few who actually want to rent out redqueen Jun 2013 #165
but but but MattBaggins Jun 2013 #98
so the keep-it-illegal crowd thinks that that's the puppies & unicorns "solution" to a thousands-of- villager Jun 2013 #134
Compromise MattBaggins Jun 2013 #136
Well, if it's legal, do the married men have an expectation of privacy? villager Jun 2013 #141
Do women have a reasonable expectation that the state MattBaggins Jun 2013 #143
Many here seem to love state interference in private lives. Unless you're proposing making villager Jun 2013 #147
It is not a straw man MattBaggins Jun 2013 #170
As much straw as the Scarecrow. Not the state's job to snoop on people having affairs villager Jun 2013 #204
Your injecting personal ideas of morality into what is a health and safety problem. Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #232
Incorrect MattBaggins Jun 2013 #234
you used "...adultery" that is a moral & societal construct Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #245
You decided for me my definition of adultery? MattBaggins Jun 2013 #249
You just defined adultery yourself. Again it's a moral & societal construct. Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #256
Of course it is MattBaggins Jun 2013 #257
Please explain how shifting 100% of the risk from gangsters to trafficked women... Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #220
The sad thing is how obvious it is how little attention people actually pay to the places where it's redqueen Jun 2013 #167
Then again, because it's legal, places like Amsterdam are able to offer more protections villager Jun 2013 #132
The Scandinavian model is best, IMO. redqueen Jun 2013 #169
A tacky tourist attraction isn't a great basis for sweeping policies Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #225
Then we need to do a better job Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #241
Entrapment does not mean what you think it means. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #63
If you legalize it MattBaggins Jun 2013 #92
I would hope so. Fawke Em Jun 2013 #105
Not unless you plan on reopening the conjugal "rights" can... TheMadMonk Jun 2013 #202
That makes too much sense and pisses the preachers off Warpy Jun 2013 #111
and some want to try to convince me that there are women who really do want JI7 Jun 2013 #3
Heh ismnotwasm Jun 2013 #8
Unbelievable, isn't it? Sheldon Cooper Jun 2013 #14
Too true! October Jun 2013 #157
Actually, making it legal (and regulated as it typically goes) does make it significantly cleaner EOTE Jun 2013 #237
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*snort* ismnotwasm Jun 2013 #29
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More likely they're professional men with a certain amount of success Warpy Jun 2013 #146
That certainly happens. Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #148
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Everybody calls the morality police these days. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #30
to try to support legalization and try to make it as if it's JI7 Jun 2013 #32
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what does it matter,there are random assholes trying to convince people that Zimmerman is innocent JI7 Jun 2013 #42
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To be fair, LadyHawkAZ Jun 2013 #102
Yes. These are women who have nothing else to fall on. They're at the bottom. Honeycombe8 Jun 2013 #118
There are and I've known them. Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #242
they are all men JI7 Jun 2013 #6
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Bald is a fashion statement ismnotwasm Jun 2013 #19
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The St. Paul Minnesota Police Department Jenoch Jun 2013 #7
The only thing shameful here is the wall of shame itself Uzair Jun 2013 #9
I know a man that hasn't paid for sex Renew Deal Jun 2013 #15
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LOL... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #27
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Full disclosure: NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #31
1964 annabanana Jun 2013 #35
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Yeah, I've heard that song. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #45
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Is that Jerry of The Grateful Dead fame? NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #51
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+1000 Sherman A1 Jun 2013 #38
I think you're misinterpreting the comment... brooklynite Jun 2013 #152
I don't think I know any who have mythology Jun 2013 #163
So association with a prostitute Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #244
That says more about you and your circle of friends than it does about anything else. N/T GreenStormCloud Jun 2013 #50
Uh, what? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2013 #64
"I don't know a single man who hasn't paid for sex at one time or another" shawn703 Jun 2013 #66
"I don't know a single men who hasn't paid for sex at one time or another." geek tragedy Jun 2013 #69
You know one now. MineralMan Jun 2013 #75
By "paid for sex" do you include having to put up with her incessent chatter afterwards? Bucky Jun 2013 #82
Why should they get rid of police blotters for that crime MattBaggins Jun 2013 #103
Fair question. Prostitutes don't enjoy that luxury, for the exact same transaction. freshwest Jun 2013 #145
But do DAs go to the trouble of collecting their photos... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #173
Are you Tien1985 Jun 2013 #144
I'm a man who has never paid for sex. Nice to meet you! RedCappedBandit Jun 2013 #188
Give me a call when you're in vegas. The Mrs. & I will take you out for drinks and then you will Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #201
I have never paid for sex. ZombieHorde Jun 2013 #208
I don't know what sort of company you keep, Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #231
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Exactly. It's not an endorsement, just a more sensible allocation of society's resources villager Jun 2013 #16
The only problem is that I know of no place where prostituion is hedgehog Jun 2013 #68
shows it is usually the poor and those lacking resources who are brought into this JI7 Jun 2013 #76
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Unfortunately, Warren, I don't think the drug war... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #138
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I hope you're right. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #142
What's really disgusting is that the DA couldn't even wait until he got convictions. backscatter712 Jun 2013 #17
The DA is a woman Renew Deal Jun 2013 #20
I stand corrected. n/t backscatter712 Jun 2013 #116
You think Kathleen Rice gives a shit? name not needed Jun 2013 #87
Wow, that is disgusting. Major Hogwash Jun 2013 #104
Police blotters are not illegal MattBaggins Jun 2013 #107
Why should I care if two consenting adults want to engage in this kind of activity Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #18
one reason to care, maybe two Whisp Jun 2013 #33
"We don't know if all of these encounters are 'consenting', do we?" Thread winner Number23 Jun 2013 #36
If it's not consensual then it's rape Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #55
Freedom is the absense of coercion, not just being unimpeded by authority. Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #229
Something I Think People Should Keep In Mind erpowers Jun 2013 #34
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Thank you...that's exactly my point! davidn3600 Jun 2013 #58
and this is more often the case than looking to fiction like "pretty woman" JI7 Jun 2013 #44
Then arrest the pimps.... davidn3600 Jun 2013 #53
There is not an endless supply of johns. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #62
Just like we can win the drug war by teaching kids just to say no to drugs? davidn3600 Jun 2013 #70
There is a BIG difference between using drugs and using women's bodies. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #83
exactly, why equate women who are human beings with things JI7 Jun 2013 #85
The viewpoint is from that of the man, not of the woman he exploits. nt geek tragedy Jun 2013 #88
Prostitution has been around since the dawn of civilization. Im sorry...but we won't stop it. davidn3600 Jun 2013 #90
So have murder, child molestation, poverty, and exploitation. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #101
Touché. Thank you for your common sense. n/t ChazII Jun 2013 #117
"murder, child molestation, poverty, and exploitation" -- don't involve consent Yavin4 Jun 2013 #176
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One could argue they do. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #235
You aren't supposed to think about the women and their lives MattBaggins Jun 2013 #109
These photographs help those women immensely jberryhill Jun 2013 #186
Not a looker in the bunch... Number23 Jun 2013 #37
They are innocent until proven guilty. n/t Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #56
Why do you keep posting this? And what on earth does it have to do with what I posted? Number23 Jun 2013 #150
If prostitutes can be arrested for having sex...why not the men? Auntie Bush Jun 2013 #54
But there were no prostitutes here. NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #72
Same with Drug Dealers and Drug Users. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #73
I'm sure there are tons of women who would fuck every single one of these geek tragedy Jun 2013 #59
Yes, the streets are so much safer. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #74
Cutting down on the demand for prostitution is a good thing for society nt geek tragedy Jun 2013 #77
That's what Anslinger, Nixon, etc. said about drugs. backscatter712 Jun 2013 #113
this is the type of logic used by Romney and sweatshops in China JI7 Jun 2013 #79
They are innocent until proven guilty. n/t Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #95
Hence the wives filing for divorce. LanternWaste Jun 2013 #243
They are innocent until proven guilty. n/t Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #93
Phew. We will simply not be safe on the streets until the men answering fake ads on backpage.com Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #61
Those should be mug shots of bankers and corporate CEOs and a certain ex-POTUS and ex-Veep Auggie Jun 2013 #65
I absolutely disagree with this Skittles Jun 2013 #67
+1 Auggie Jun 2013 #86
+1000 LadyHawkAZ Jun 2013 #91
Home run! NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #121
+1 In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #255
I'm always intrigued by the factions that come out on this topic CincyDem Jun 2013 #71
Most of them will plead guilty... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #114
Why don't they do this to shoplifters or traffic scofflaws? MrSlayer Jun 2013 #78
They do this to every one MattBaggins Jun 2013 #112
I never see a rogues gallery like this for other "crimes". MrSlayer Jun 2013 #124
I have seen this for drug busts, drunk driving MattBaggins Jun 2013 #131
I don't agree with any of that. MrSlayer Jun 2013 #154
"So yeah, it's better that their wives be left in the dark about it." MattBaggins Jun 2013 #156
Whatever dude. MrSlayer Jun 2013 #159
Oh please MattBaggins Jun 2013 #160
Again. Black and white. MrSlayer Jun 2013 #164
I'm sure everyone was as concerned about the poor, poor victims of To Catch a Predator. nt redqueen Jun 2013 #171
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Ah, the adultery police. What a wonderful use of taxpayer dollars. name not needed Jun 2013 #193
I'm pretty sure that sex with prostitutes and lying to one's wife is a pretty good indicator LanternWaste Jun 2013 #254
Does this look like a record of "what police were doing last night"? Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2013 #149
I don't like police blotters at all. Any of them MattBaggins Jun 2013 #151
Those with traffic citations left to go into warrant are posted in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. LanternWaste Jun 2013 #253
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #80
Good to see the Nassau County PD still doing absolutely nothing with that budget of theirs. name not needed Jun 2013 #81
No entrapment in any of the cases: geek tragedy Jun 2013 #89
And they will be back on the streets doing it again tomorrow davidn3600 Jun 2013 #94
Demand reduction is only part of the solution. geek tragedy Jun 2013 #99
Good. duffyduff Jun 2013 #97
I think consenting adults should be allowed to have sex Douglas Carpenter Jun 2013 #106
They are. But it's illegal to sell it in most states. nt Honeycombe8 Jun 2013 #119
consenting adults they should be allowed to have sex under whatever conditions are mutually Douglas Carpenter Jun 2013 #123
Even where it's legal, it's heavily regulated because it poses a risk to the public at large. Honeycombe8 Jun 2013 #135
I think the greater good would be served by having it legal and regulated Douglas Carpenter Jun 2013 #158
They haven't been convicted. ForgoTheConsequence Jun 2013 #110
Same thing happens to the prostitutes justiceischeap Jun 2013 #127
Its wrong in both cases. ForgoTheConsequence Jun 2013 #129
Yuk. Disgusting little dirty men. Good they're finally going after the ones who use the services Honeycombe8 Jun 2013 #115
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You would think the older ones... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #130
LOL! nt Honeycombe8 Jun 2013 #137
I bet their heads got small real fast Whisp Jun 2013 #194
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Do you some of you really want Law Enforcement entrapping you to commit a crime? Yavin4 Jun 2013 #120
Stupid morality laws. Just legalize prostitution LittleBlue Jun 2013 #125
There are prostitutes in theocracies Yavin4 Jun 2013 #133
Think again LadyHawkAZ Jun 2013 #162
If I were to cherry-pick some police blotters... NaturalHigh Jun 2013 #128
The only way to protect men, women, and children from being exploited by prostitution is to legalize Yavin4 Jun 2013 #139
Except where it has been made legal, that is far from the case. redqueen Jun 2013 #172
If that is an accurate report, then Germany needs to tighten its regulations Yavin4 Jun 2013 #175
Not just Germany. redqueen Jun 2013 #177
Your article is being refuted by other sources Yavin4 Jun 2013 #180
Funny how the sex industry is the one multi-billion dollar global industry redqueen Jun 2013 #181
Prohibition criminalizes consensual behavior Yavin4 Jun 2013 #182
That's not true at all. Where I live it's legal and regulated and there's no stigma... Violet_Crumble Jun 2013 #238
how exactly do you propose regulating street prostitution? Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #226
Street prostitution would violate regulations Yavin4 Jun 2013 #236
So how is that different than status quo? Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #250
Wall of Shame SamKnause Jun 2013 #153
"Upscale Nassau County" ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #155
lol Renew Deal Jun 2013 #166
Thank GAWD for the government!! tabasco Jun 2013 #161
"a" prostitute?! n/t Skip Intro Jun 2013 #168
It would be better to show the photographs of the Pimps Rosa Luxemburg Jun 2013 #174
The men who pay desperate women to rent out their bodies aren't exploiting them? redqueen Jun 2013 #178
why should i give a shit as to who has sex with whom? arely staircase Jun 2013 #179
because there is exploitation involved as mentioned above, why do they usually go to poor places to JI7 Jun 2013 #183
a good argument for taking it out of the black market undeground, no? arely staircase Jun 2013 #184
but why still go to poor women without other options ? JI7 Jun 2013 #185
rich men have the money to hire more educated/independant "working girls" arely staircase Jun 2013 #187
she wasn't educated, she was trying to get into the music business JI7 Jun 2013 #189
so am i arely staircase Jun 2013 #190
she didn't get into the music industry so not sure what options you are talking about JI7 Jun 2013 #191
neither did i arely staircase Jun 2013 #192
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Proof that poverty doesn't exist in America BainsBane Jun 2013 #203
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I was told there would be no math BainsBane Jun 2013 #207
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Think it through BainsBane Jun 2013 #212
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but these things don't exist in an ideal world BainsBane Jun 2013 #214
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possibly BainsBane Jun 2013 #216
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These guys don't go to prison BainsBane Jun 2013 #222
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I see it as way to try to invoke social sanction BainsBane Jun 2013 #228
wealth is the mirror face of poverty; the more of one, the more of the other, & the greater HiPointDem Jun 2013 #206
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She got a harsh sentence; her pimp got twenty days...didn't seem fair to me, that. MADem Jun 2013 #233
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I propose defacto7 Jun 2013 #209
They weren't Prostitutes rightsideout Jun 2013 #218
Other than sex, what does your trailer in the desert have in common with skid row? Sen. Walter Sobchak Jun 2013 #227
Fucking stupid. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #219
America the melting pot--that looks like the men's room at the UN!!!! MADem Jun 2013 #230
I think this is great. Sheldon Cooper Jun 2013 #240
With few exceptions why would any of these men care, and why is it anyone else's business? Demo_Chris Jun 2013 #246
I think this is just stupid. HappyMe Jun 2013 #247
 

villager

(26,001 posts)
1. Wouldn't legalizing and taxing prostitution be easier than entrapment?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:08 PM
Jun 2013

Between the sex entrapment and the ridiculous pot busts, it seems our police have very little to do to occupy themselves between citizen beatings...

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
10. Yeah, but that wouldn't get as much publicity as ridiculous stunts like this.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:19 PM
Jun 2013

In my home county, our local sheriff's department actually lured a couple of prostitutes from out of state to a truck stop and then arrested them a few years ago. I don't know how it turned out, but I don't see how that could be anything but entrapment. The sheriff was roundly ridiculed because he seemed more concerned about luring in prostitutes that fighting actual crimes. He didn't run for re-election last year because the general consensus was that he was a jackass and didn't have a chance of winning.

My other problem with this "wall of shame" is that, judging by the disclaimer, most of these men haven't been convicted of anything yet. Aren't we supposed to wait until after the trial (or guilty plea or whatever) before we start publicly shaming people for the deadly serious crime of visiting prostitutes?

Back to your other point, though, yeah I agree. Legalize it, regulate it, tax it. Pretty much the same way I feel about drugs.

Now I prepare myself for the usual evisceration that comes with the suggestion that patronizing a prostitute should be anything less than a capital offense.

Response to NaturalHigh (Reply #10)

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
13. Don't forget regulating and protecting safety.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:22 PM
Jun 2013

When something's illegal, the women involved have no protection whatsoever from johns with STDs, pimps that beat the shit out of them, all the other dangers.

When you legalize, you can then regulate. Ensure that the women involved are paid fair wages, they get to use protection, they get protected from abusive johns and abusive bosses. You can require everyone involved to get tested (prostitutes and johns), to slow the spread of HIV and other STDs.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
22. That would make way too much sense.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:30 PM
Jun 2013

Crime might go down and police budgets get cut if we were to try something so radical. Same with the "war on drugs." If people could just go into a store and buy pot, how would we be able to arrest them and throw them in prison for a few years?

People who think we're ever going to rid the world of prostitution or recreational drug use need to go live in the land of unicorns, elves, and leprechauns.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
223. And outside of boutique brothels how exactly do you imagine this is going to work?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:45 AM
Jun 2013

Do you think those "opportunities" are going to be made available to drug addict street walkers?

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
239. If they were unionized
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:22 AM
Jun 2013

the union could offer up rehab programs as one of the benefits, along with health, dental, and eye care, not to mention protection.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
251. If anyone else said that I would assume it was sarcasm. But I know better...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:41 PM
Jun 2013

So in your world there would be a shop steward tapping on car windows on skid row checking for condoms?

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
258. Well how would it work for street prostitution?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 06:17 PM
Jun 2013

Because even when prostitution is legal, nobody has come up with an answer for that.

GreenStormCloud

(12,072 posts)
47. You are making too much sense.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:19 PM
Jun 2013

Our politicians aren't allowed to do thaty. They have to be guardians of our moral purity.

FWIW - I have never used the services of a prostitute. When married I have been faithful. When single there has been plenty of free sex available.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
52. But that would be safe, sane and reasonable
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:23 PM
Jun 2013

Dead bodies and jail time make for better evening news. Also, you can't get any moralizing traction out of safe, legal, disease-free consenting workers. You have to make sure they get sick, beaten and killed as much as possible before you can pad your moral ego with concern.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
60. Unprotected: How Legalizing Prostitution Has Failed
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:32 PM
Jun 2013
When Germany legalized prostitution just over a decade ago, politicians hoped that it would create better conditions and more autonomy for sex workers. It hasn't worked out that way, though. Exploitation and human trafficking remain significant problems. By SPIEGEL Staff

...

Before the new law, prostitution itself was not punished, but it was considered immoral. The authorities tolerated brothels, euphemistically referring to them as "commercial room rental." Today, just over 11 years after prostitution was upgraded under the 2001 law, there are between 3,000 and 3,500 red-light establishments, according to estimates by the industry association Erotik Gewerbe Deutschland (UEGD). The Ver.di public services union estimates that prostitution accounts for about €14.5 billion in annual revenues.

...

German law enforcement officers working in red-light districts complain that they are hardly able to gain access to brothels anymore. Germany has become a "center for the sexual exploitation of young women from Eastern Europe, as well as a sphere of activity for organized crime groups from around the world," says Manfred Paulus, a retired chief detective from the southern city of Ulm. He used to work as a vice detective and now warns women in Bulgaria and Belarus against being lured to Germany.

...

Despite stories like these, politicians in Berlin feel no significant pressure to do anything. This is partly because, in the debate over prostitution, an ideologically correct position carries more weight than the deplorable realities. For example, when the Hamburg University of Applied Sciences held a conference on prostitution in Germany a year ago, an attendee said that prostitution, "as a recognized sex trade, is undergoing a process of emancipation and professionalization.

...

The Netherlands chose the path of legal deregulation two years before Germany. Both the Dutch justice minister and the police concede that there have been no palpable improvements for prostitutes since then. They are generally in poorer health than before, and increasing numbers are addicted to drugs. The police estimate that 50 to 90 percent of prostitutes do not practice the profession voluntarily.

...

http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/human-trafficking-persists-despite-legality-of-prostitution-in-germany-a-902533.html

JI7

(89,276 posts)
84. why do they go to poor countries to find women
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:50 PM
Jun 2013

why not get women from places where there is more wealthy and women are more equal and educated and have more opportunities ?

ChazII

(6,206 posts)
100. In some countries, like Cambodia
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:09 PM
Jun 2013

for example, the parents sell their daughters to brothels because they can't afford to keep their children.

edited to add

http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/dispatches/2011/05/a_brief_tour_of_the_cambodian_sex_industry.html

The sex and apparel sectors draw from the same labor pool: young, poorly educated women from the impoverished countryside who send part of their earnings home to support their families.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
165. We aren't supposed to care about them, only the privileged few who actually want to rent out
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:02 PM
Jun 2013

their bodies deserve consideration.

The rest? Collateral damage, I suppose.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
134. so the keep-it-illegal crowd thinks that that's the puppies & unicorns "solution" to a thousands-of-
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:03 PM
Jun 2013

years-old institution?

Whether we like it or not, it happens. The question is: What's the best way for a society to react to it?

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
141. Well, if it's legal, do the married men have an expectation of privacy?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:11 PM
Jun 2013

I mean, should there have been a third party watchdog group when my ex-wife was having her affair?

It was eventually found out, and she lost a marriage over it. But I'm not sure -- speaking from experience here -- that a "third party group," especially given the ages of our sons at the time, would've helped anything.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
143. Do women have a reasonable expectation that the state
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:17 PM
Jun 2013

will not be complicit and actually assist and regulate adultery being committed against them?

Should the state really be involved in protecting and codifying adultery?

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
147. Many here seem to love state interference in private lives. Unless you're proposing making
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:27 PM
Jun 2013

...adultery illegal, then we can let that particular straw man rest.

The question is, should the thousands-of-years-old practice of prostitution be legal? That doesn't mean one has to "like" it. One can simply recognize where the best allocation of society's resources lay, or do not.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
170. It is not a straw man
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:11 PM
Jun 2013

Adultery should not be "illegal" and not a criminal offense. It should however, still have legal ramifications and the state should not be helping it nor covering it up.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
204. As much straw as the Scarecrow. Not the state's job to snoop on people having affairs
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:02 AM
Jun 2013

As sad as that is -- and remember, I have personal experience being on the receiving end of such betrayal -- it's not the government's concern.

Keeping it as grounds for divorce, sure.

You are free to join a private group -- a la those blockading health clinics, etc., to impose their own moral standards -- that stands outside these hypothetical future legal cathouses, regaling the men (you haven't mentioned anything about women having affairs, however), snapping their pictures, or whatever it is your inner moral cop drives you to do.

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
245. you used "...adultery" that is a moral & societal construct
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jun 2013

Usually at the expense of women in fact.

"...Adultery (also called philandery, anglicised from Latin adulterium) is sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than their spouse or spouses. Religious and legal interpretations of what constitutes adultery vary widely.

The term adultery has an Abrahamic origin, though the concept predates Judaism and is found in many other societies. The definition and consequences vary between religions, cultures, and legal jurisdictions, but the concept is similar in Islam, Christianity and Judaism.

Historically, adultery has been considered to be a serious offense by many cultures. Even in jurisdictions where adultery is not itself a criminal offense, it may still have legal consequences, particularly in divorce cases. For example, where there is fault-based family law, it almost always constitutes grounds for divorce; depending on jurisdiction, it may be a factor to consider in a property settlement, the custody of children, the denial of alimony, etc. Moreover, adultery can affect the social status of those involved, and result in social ostracism in some parts of the world.

In countries where adultery is illegal, the punishments range from fines to the death penalty. In the 21st century, criminal laws against adultery have become very controversial, with international organizations calling for their abolition, especially in the light of several high profile stoning cases that have recently occurred in certain countries. Opponents of these laws cite the fact that adultery laws are a major contributor to discrimination and violence against women, as they are enforced selectively mostly against women; that they prevent women from reporting rape and sexual violence; and that they maintain social norms which justify violent crimes committed against women by husbands, families and communities. The head of the U.N. expert body charged with identifying ways to eliminate laws that discriminate against women or are discriminatory to them in terms of implementation or impact, Kamala Chandrakiran, has stated that: "Adultery must not be classified as a criminal offence at all". A joint statement by the United Nations Working Group on discrimination against women in law and in practice states that:

"Adultery as a criminal offence violates women’s human rights".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery


MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
249. You decided for me my definition of adultery?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:48 PM
Jun 2013

I do not support criminal prosecution of adultery nor any sense of of public morality of it. What I do recognize is the marriage contract and it's well established expectation of fidelity. Adultery is and ought to be a grounds for divorce. That is where the State has to be involved and therefore can not be complicit in it's cover up or hiding it from either spouse.

I am not concerned at all about criminal adultery laws.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
257. Of course it is
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:56 PM
Jun 2013

Everything is a moral and societal construct.

1. Is not cheating on a spouse an expectation of marriage?
2. If a spouse cheats on the other spouse is that grounds for an at fault divorce?

Yes and yes.

Hence it becomes an issue for the State.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
220. Please explain how shifting 100% of the risk from gangsters to trafficked women...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:38 AM
Jun 2013

is a satisfactory outcome.

All legalization does is significantly shift enforcement from throwing gangsters in prison to substantially an immigration issue, with the targets being the trafficked women rather than the criminals to employ them.

And that doesn't even begin to address street prostitution, or the "car trade" as it is referred to in Europe where the most vulnerable victims of the sex trade are found and is a world unto itself untouched by whatever "legalization" is supposed to imply.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
167. The sad thing is how obvious it is how little attention people actually pay to the places where it's
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:03 PM
Jun 2013

legal.

Meanwhile, the people who actually do pay attention are trying to get some attention for the girls and women who are the most in need of attention and help.

Unsurprisingly, the multi billion dollar business and its fervent supporters have no trouble attracting more attention. Oh, and the fervent customers and their defenders, of course. Those who buy sex are extremely seldom subjected to any scrutiny at all.

On that note (warning, graphic): http://the-invisible-men.tumblr.com/

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
132. Then again, because it's legal, places like Amsterdam are able to offer more protections
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:01 PM
Jun 2013

...starting this summer:

"Has Amsterdam had enough of its breezy reputation? It may be famous for its in-your-face window prostitution, but the city has just voted to place tighter controls on its brothels. From this summer onwards, Amsterdam’s legal age for prostitution will rise from 18 to 21, and brothels will be forced to remain closed between four and nine in the morning. Prostitutes will have to pass language tests and have shorter shifts, while brothel keepers will be obliged to produce business plans demonstrating how they will protect their workers’ health and safety..."

http://www.theatlanticcities.com/politics/2013/03/amsterdams-latest-quest-tame-legalized-prostitution/5072/

This same article does point to some of the contradictions that will always be there, but until society itself has a sea change on roles of men, women, sexuality, Eros, et al, is it really better to keep it illegal?

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
169. The Scandinavian model is best, IMO.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:08 PM
Jun 2013

But there are billions of dollars to be made, so I doubt Amsterdam will bother to do anything but trim around the edges.

Thus delaying such a sea change re: women being seen as the sex class/sex objects/their bodies as commodities for rent.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
225. A tacky tourist attraction isn't a great basis for sweeping policies
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:55 AM
Jun 2013

Do you think street walking drug addict might find employment in one of those fine establishments? If not, how is legalization protecting them as they wander the docklands?

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
241. Then we need to do a better job
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:41 AM
Jun 2013

than Germany did. These women need protection from a myriad of threats. Why not start with unionization? It gets them fair income, heath/dental/eye care PLUS it could offer rehab programs AND, educational resources for those who want to get out of the business. I've known many prostitutes, both professionally and personally (no, it's not what you think -- I used to teach parolees) and the vast majority DO want to get out of the business. They're only in it because it's the only way they know how to make money. They're either supporting their families, supporting their habit or both. Why not use unionization as a starting point at offering them alternatives? At least it gets them protection while they're trying to get out of the life.

You're not going to get society at-large to support something like this. It's too much fun to play judgmental asshole. The churches MIGHT do it but you'd get all the invisible man in the sky crap to go along with it which can be even more damaging (I could do a dissertation on that one).

Do I wish that every woman could find a way to support herself without having to resort to prostitution? Of course. But we have to deal with the reality and the reality is that it IS the world's oldest profession. There will always be buyers and there will always be sellers. Why not protect both?

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
63. Entrapment does not mean what you think it means.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:33 PM
Jun 2013

Those men weren't on backpage looking for mid-century furniture.

Warpy

(111,359 posts)
111. That makes too much sense and pisses the preachers off
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:20 PM
Jun 2013

so I can't see it being done here for a very long time.

It would also be nice to confine it to red light districts so johns would know where to go and wouldn't harass other women walking and minding their own business, which is not prostitution.

The whole idea of a "victimless crime" is incompatible with any sort of free society. While we still have nanny laws written by moralizers and preachers, we are nowhere near being free.

JI7

(89,276 posts)
3. and some want to try to convince me that there are women who really do want
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:11 PM
Jun 2013

to fuck those guys for money even if they had other options.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
8. Heh
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:18 PM
Jun 2013

The whole thing is irritating.



The arrested men range in age from 17 to 79. The average age is 40. Most, 79, came from Nassau County and 25 traveled from out of town.
Most are professionals. Several lawyers were arrested. The suspects also include two doctors, two dentists, two engineers, two college professors, two college students, a teacher, a stockbroker and a car salesman.

Salamone says in his experience, busy professionals who aren't getting enough attention from their wives are more likely to look for extra-marital sex from prostitutes than from a mistress.
'These are people who don’t have the time to go out to court a woman or an affair. They can just hook up very easily and be done,' Salamone says. 'They don’t have to do three dinenr dates and two nights out and explain that to their families.'

But, he cautioned, wives often profit handsomely if that affair results in divorce.
'Equitable distribution of assets does not mean equal distribution. The wife doesn’t split everything 5/50, especially if she can prove special circumstances such as a humiliating arrest around the time of a bar mitzvah or graduation,' he said.


So it's the wife's fault, and she's going after the money. And WTF bar mitzvah or graduation? Is that a common time for men to excuse themselves? "Oh hey, uh, be right back, don't wait up"



October

(3,363 posts)
157. Too true!
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:23 PM
Jun 2013

What about the STD's these "Johns" bring home to their wives?

Making it legal doesn't make it cleaner/safer.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
237. Actually, making it legal (and regulated as it typically goes) does make it significantly cleaner
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:01 AM
Jun 2013

and safer. How many "Johns" use condoms during illegal encounters? In regulated markets, it's typically required. As are regular tests for STDs. So yes, making it legal typically makes prostitution much cleaner and safer.

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Warpy

(111,359 posts)
146. More likely they're professional men with a certain amount of success
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:24 PM
Jun 2013

that has translated into a sense of entitlement to have all their whims satisfied, so if they want something kinky and/or painful and dangerous that the wife vetoes, they'll find a pro to scratch that particular itch.

Oddly, I have no problem with this and I wonder why anyone would. A good sex worker is selling more than just orifices for a quickie.

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JI7

(89,276 posts)
42. what does it matter,there are random assholes trying to convince people that Zimmerman is innocent
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:14 PM
Jun 2013

that Bush was a great president . people try to convince people of things all the time regardless of who the person is and whether they have any power.

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LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
102. To be fair,
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:10 PM
Jun 2013

I have tried to convince people of that more than a few times, because I've seen and lived the results of what they support. I've come to the conclusion, though, that it's pointless to argue with True Believers™, especially those that try to convince me I don't even exist.

Sex workers are beginning to speak up worldwide. Eventually things will have to change from the top down, with legislation preceding acceptance, because if we wait for people to grow some common sense or learn to read statistics, things will go on as they are for much longer than necessary and workers will just keep turning up dead.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
118. Yes. These are women who have nothing else to fall on. They're at the bottom.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:41 PM
Jun 2013

They have fallen through the cracks. No one WANTS to be a prostitute.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
242. There are and I've known them.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:51 AM
Jun 2013

Now whether they were lying to me or lying to themselves I'm not going to judge, but they were pretty damned convincing. They worked a few hours a week, went on some INCREDIBLE get-aways and lived in some pretty nice digs.

Having said that, my experience has been that the vast majority of them DO want to get out and I threw out a proposal somewhere upthread on how that could be achieved.

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Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
7. The St. Paul Minnesota Police Department
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:18 PM
Jun 2013

has been posting names and photos of both prostitutes and johns on their website for at least 15 years.

 

Uzair

(241 posts)
9. The only thing shameful here is the wall of shame itself
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:19 PM
Jun 2013

Seriously, grow the fuck up people. This is so stupid. Legalize prostitution and stop with this idiocy. I don't know a single man who hasn't paid for sex at one time or another. Anybody who says otherwise is lying, kind of like how some people are still so childish as to claim they "never masturbate" or "don't watch porn".

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NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
31. Full disclosure:
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:45 PM
Jun 2013

I don't know a single Peter, Paul, and Mary song. I'm sure my wife does, though. What is an appropriate time for one of their tunes?

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NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
45. Yeah, I've heard that song.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:18 PM
Jun 2013

I didn't know that was Peter, Paul, and Mary. Not exactly my taste in music. Maybe if Joan Jett sang it...

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mythology

(9,527 posts)
163. I don't think I know any who have
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:52 PM
Jun 2013

Personally I'd be way too creeped out to go to a prostitute, which may be a reason why I don't know any guys who have frequented prostitutes.

I think prostitution should be illegal. Not being I think having sex with lots of people for money is icky (although I do), but because of the confluence of human trafficking with prostitution. Germany which has legalized prostitution has found that conditions for prostitutes got worse after legalization. And based on a paper I linked below, this is consistent across countries.

Additionally there is the notion that a woman can come from a poor country (generally eastern European) and they will find a man to fall in love with them to get them out of desperate situations back at home. Personally I blame Julia Roberts and that awful movie Pretty Woman.

Are there instances of people happily becoming prostitutes with no coercion and can get out without any issues? I'm sure there are. But the entire business is dirty and a recipe for human trafficking.

http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/human-trafficking-persists-despite-legality-of-prostitution-in-germany-a-902533.html

http://www2.lse.ac.uk/geographyAndEnvironment/whosWho/profiles/neumayer/pdf/Article-for-World-Development-_prostitution_-anonymous-REVISED.pdf

shawn703

(2,702 posts)
66. "I don't know a single man who hasn't paid for sex at one time or another"
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:35 PM
Jun 2013

I'm a man who has never paid for sex. Nice to meet you.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
69. "I don't know a single men who hasn't paid for sex at one time or another."
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:37 PM
Jun 2013

Then you need to hang around a better class of men.


MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
103. Why should they get rid of police blotters for that crime
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:11 PM
Jun 2013

Are John's a special group that shouldn't have their names in the police blotter?

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
173. But do DAs go to the trouble of collecting their photos...
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:24 PM
Jun 2013

and presenting them at big press conferences? Would that be as popular on this board as the "flush the johns" campaign seems to be? Wouldn't that be labeled as "slut-shaming"?

Tien1985

(920 posts)
144. Are you
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:18 PM
Jun 2013

Being sarcastic? Comparing masturbating to hiring a prostitute?

If the prostitute is named, the johns should also be named. If its not the usual thing to release the name of a perp then they shouldn't be. If it were so ubiquitous that every single man has done it, why would anyone care that they were shown?

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
188. I'm a man who has never paid for sex. Nice to meet you!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:36 AM
Jun 2013

But yeah, the wall is incredibly shameful itself and these people should grow up.

Not to mention they haven't even been convicted. WTF.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
201. Give me a call when you're in vegas. The Mrs. & I will take you out for drinks and then you will
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:48 AM
Jun 2013

know a man that has never paid for sex, although I do masturbate and have been known to watch porn. OTOH, I can introduce you to several prostitutes that are quite open minded in case you're curious.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
208. I have never paid for sex.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:24 AM
Jun 2013

Only one of my male friends has paid for sex, that I know of. I wouldn't even know where to go to pay for sex in my town.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
231. I don't know what sort of company you keep,
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:18 AM
Jun 2013

But I suspect a significant majority of men couldn't possibly get past the "ick factor".

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hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
68. The only problem is that I know of no place where prostituion is
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:36 PM
Jun 2013

legal and only consenting adults are involved. If legalizing it and regulating sit solved the problem, why does this happen?

"Some 10,000 foreign women in Germany are forced into prostitution. German law threatens them with deportation. That only plays into the hands of pimps and human traffickers, say women's rights organizations. "

http://www.dw.de/germany-lags-behind-in-protection-of-forced-prostitutes/a-16837388

Around 75 percent of the 5,000 to 8,000 prostitutes working in the city are from abroad, and many are believed to have been trafficked. Holland legalized prostitution in 2000 as a way of stopping exploitation, but evidence suggests that more women than ever are being forced into brothels against their will. A study from the London School of Economics published this winter found that in countries where selling sex was decriminalized, human trafficking has increased. While the number of women entering prostitution voluntarily grows under legalization, demand grows yet further, creating a shortfall filled by women trafficked and run by pimps.

http://www.theatlanticcities.com/politics/2013/03/amsterdams-latest-quest-tame-legalized-prostitution/5072/

JI7

(89,276 posts)
76. shows it is usually the poor and those lacking resources who are brought into this
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:44 PM
Jun 2013

why don't more german women decide to do it ?

Response to hedgehog (Reply #68)

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
138. Unfortunately, Warren, I don't think the drug war...
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:06 PM
Jun 2013

is likely to end any time soon either. We have to keep those prison cells filled!

Response to NaturalHigh (Reply #138)

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
17. What's really disgusting is that the DA couldn't even wait until he got convictions.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:26 PM
Jun 2013

Oh no, you get the Wall of Shame just for being arrested. Never mind that the cops could have fucked up and arrested the wrong guy. We have due process and trials to put in checks and balances & verify that people busted for crimes actually did the crimes before punishing them.

But this fuckstain couldn't wait for that.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
104. Wow, that is disgusting.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:11 PM
Jun 2013

But, now that the DA has "convicted" them in the newspaper, how will this affect those men for the rest of their lives?

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
18. Why should I care if two consenting adults want to engage in this kind of activity
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:26 PM
Jun 2013

What a waste of taxpayer money.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
33. one reason to care, maybe two
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:51 PM
Jun 2013

How many graveyards of Johns are there out there, compared to the bodies of the discarded human beings because they are prostitutes? Are there whackos out there killing Johns because they know society doesn't give a damn shit about them and the law doesn't seem to either?

We don't know if all of these encounters are 'consenting', do we?
 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
55. If it's not consensual then it's rape
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:25 PM
Jun 2013

Which would still be illegal if prostitution was made legal. And of course murder is murder.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
229. Freedom is the absense of coercion, not just being unimpeded by authority.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:09 AM
Jun 2013

Is a prostitute motivated by poverty, addiction or criminal elements really a "consenting adult" ?

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
34. Something I Think People Should Keep In Mind
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 06:56 PM
Jun 2013

There seems to be a number of people who claim arresting these men is a waste of time and resources. I think some people should keep in mind that some women do not want to be prostitutes. Some women who end up as prostitutes are runaways who leave home, get hooked up with a pimp, and then are forced into prostitution. Some other women are foreign nationals who came here for a better life, but became prostitutes partly to pay off family debt that was acquired to bring them to the United States. So, sex between a man and a prostitute is not always between two consenting adults. The woman may not say no, but she may not be in a position to say no.

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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
53. Then arrest the pimps....
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:23 PM
Jun 2013

The problem is that our system is trying to attack the problem in the wrong way.

It's the same thing with the drug war and why we are losing that. We arrest drug users thinking we can reduce the demand and put the dealers and traffickers out of business in that way. Here, we arrest the johns thinking we can put the pimps out of business.

This strategy DOES NOT WORK!!! Period. It has been tried for decades and it has failed for decades! This strategy is not helping those women! Arrest all the johns you want, the pimps and sex traffickers are still out there and there is an endless supply of johns.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
62. There is not an endless supply of johns.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:32 PM
Jun 2013

And that source of demand can be decreased by teaching men to respect women.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
70. Just like we can win the drug war by teaching kids just to say no to drugs?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:38 PM
Jun 2013

Nice idea....but doesn't work.

Im not being difficult here on purpose, it's just reality. Can't win this by reducing demand. We've been at this strategy for 20-30 years and all we've done is fill up our jails (largest and most expensive prison population in the world) and make the problem worse.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
83. There is a BIG difference between using drugs and using women's bodies.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jun 2013

And, yes demand can be influenced by social policy. Men who are raised to respect women engage in this crap to a far lesser degree than those with lesser upbringings.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
101. So have murder, child molestation, poverty, and exploitation.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:10 PM
Jun 2013

One doesn't see people calling for us to just bow to those realities.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
176. "murder, child molestation, poverty, and exploitation" -- don't involve consent
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:32 PM
Jun 2013

Major difference don't you think?

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geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
235. One could argue they do.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:13 AM
Jun 2013

I would reject those arguments for the same reason I reject it here--the appearance of consent is illusory.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
109. You aren't supposed to think about the women and their lives
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:18 PM
Jun 2013

These guys have all watched Pretty Woman are now experts on prostitution.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
72. But there were no prostitutes here.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:39 PM
Jun 2013

Just police pretending to be prostitutes. Massive waste of resources.

For the record, though, I don't think either party should be arrested. When all the axe murderers, terrorists, armed robbers, burglars, and scam artists are in jail, then the cops might actually have the resources to waste on this sort of nonsense.

Do they also run stings to catch actual prostitutes in this county? If so, do they publish their pictures?

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
59. I'm sure there are tons of women who would fuck every single one of these
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:31 PM
Jun 2013

charming devils over a 1-week period even if they had no other choice to feed themselves.

Johns are pigs, without exceptions. These fuckers deserve what they're getting.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
113. That's what Anslinger, Nixon, etc. said about drugs.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:24 PM
Jun 2013

How long has our country been kicking down doors, locking people up? How much has that reduced drug abuse?

Legalize and regulate.

JI7

(89,276 posts)
79. this is the type of logic used by Romney and sweatshops in China
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:46 PM
Jun 2013

oh, look there are so many of them lining up for the job. they have to lock it up because so many want to get in..............

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
61. Phew. We will simply not be safe on the streets until the men answering fake ads on backpage.com
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:32 PM
Jun 2013

have been rounded up and had their pictures posted. Way to go DA!

Skittles

(153,202 posts)
67. I absolutely disagree with this
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:35 PM
Jun 2013

I just don't care what consenting adults do, no matter how sordid it may be. How about publicly shaming Americans who offshore their money and our jobs?????

CincyDem

(6,390 posts)
71. I'm always intrigued by the factions that come out on this topic
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:38 PM
Jun 2013

As democrats, I'm always surprised by the fact that we support innocent until proven guilty on one hand but there's a large group of us that thing this is fair and just. This seems to be the only topic I know of where many democrats act like republicans with the mantra "well if they were arrested, they must be guilty".

We're sitting around talking about the police have botched this and that on various cases. I think all of us can think of more than one case where we say "I think the cops screwed that up". We were just treated to a video of cops banging some handcuffed woman's head on the counter.

When it comes to this topic, however, I'm always surprised by how quickly so many people seem to jump to the conclusion that the cops are 100% right in 104 separate cases. No entrapment. Everything by the book and, in these cases, an arrest is as good as a conviction.

I get that paying women, especially underage and trapped women to do something they don't want to do is wrong. But I'm not ready to buy that our men in blue (and their DA partner) are so perfect that they hit the mark 104 out of 104 times.

We talk about the death penalty and say "It's wrong if only ONE of those on death row is there by mistake". Yep. I agree. And for many guys, this is the equivalent of death row and it surprise me that there are so many here who make the "greater good" argument about the few innocent being caught up with the many guilty.

Usually, we're the group fighting for the rights of minorities here. Unless someone's got the inside scoop that in fact 100% of these guys are guilty. If that's the case, we should save money on trials, eh?


NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
114. Most of them will plead guilty...
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:37 PM
Jun 2013

to avoid the expense and embarrassment of a trial. They'll pay a fine, which will then go to fund more foolishness like this. Round and round we go.

Oh, and yes, they will be pariahs because of some people's prudish notions regarding sex.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
78. Why don't they do this to shoplifters or traffic scofflaws?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:45 PM
Jun 2013

I think this is a terrible thing to do to somebody. It isn't anyone's business what happens between consenting adults. Prostitution, the workd's oldest profession, should be legal and regulated as should drugs and other adult recreational activities. But even if it isn't, advertising it to all and sundry, ruining people's lives is a bullshit, asshole thing to do.

Not cool.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
112. They do this to every one
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:22 PM
Jun 2013

Police Blotters don't care if you have been convicted. They are a record of what the police were doing last night.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
124. I never see a rogues gallery like this for other "crimes".
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:46 PM
Jun 2013

I see this sort of thing all too often. Published in newspapers, on websites and the like.

I just think it's wrong to intentionally wreck people's lives like this.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
131. I have seen this for drug busts, drunk driving
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:00 PM
Jun 2013

we have TV shows dedicated to it via bait car and other such crappy shows.

Bait Car and Cops are OK because we get to laugh at poor minorities but do it to whites and professionals and than it's time for the smelling salts.

What wrecked lives should we be worried about? The poor souls who wives found out? Should we be complicit in keeping their wives in the dark?

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
154. I don't agree with any of that.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:15 PM
Jun 2013

We did away with the public stock a long time ago. Even the show where they catch the pedos is deplorable. I don't have a problem with stinging those scumbags, they're potentially dangerous and definitely sick people, but I don't think it should be televised.

I know some family guys that occasionally enlist the services of prostitutes. Whether it's because their spouse is too ill, too tired or simply not interested, those dudes are just trying to get what they need physically. They genuinely love their wives and they do everything else right. They spend time, take care of the kids, work hard, all that and I don't think it would be right for them and their families to be publicly humiliated because of something like this. They just don't know what else to do. They don't want to pressure their wives or force them to do things because they love them. And who wants to have sex with someone that isn't interested? A lot of people think the answer is masturbation but that gets old real quick. It is no substitute for actual human contact. I just don't see anything wrong with having your physical needs taken care of when every other aspect of your life is perfect with your family.

So yeah, it's better that their wives be left in the dark about it. All their finding out will do is harm otherwise fine relationships.

Obviously, this isn't the way it is in every case but I suspect it's that way in many.

I just don't agree with public shaming over harmless vices.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
156. "So yeah, it's better that their wives be left in the dark about it."
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:21 PM
Jun 2013

All I can say is wow.

The state should be complicit in helping a man hide adultery from his wife.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
159. Whatever dude.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:28 PM
Jun 2013

You can go sit on your high horse and bask in your smug self righteousness.

Publicly shaming people like this is wrong. Destroying people's lives is wrong.

And what of those that are innocent? Is it just fine to shame them as well?

The black and white thinking you display here is more in line with our friends on the other side.

Have a good evening.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
160. Oh please
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:33 PM
Jun 2013

Destroying the lives of men who cheat vs lying to wives and covering it up?

I guess you just weight the one the one side as important and I choose the other.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
164. Again. Black and white.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:59 PM
Jun 2013

It's as if you didn't read a damn word I wrote about the situations people are in. You just have your one way or the other and zero nuance.

The guys should either suffer through a relationship without physicality or they should give up the wives and family they love just to have the occasional necessary physical release. It can't be any other way with you.

Again, have a good evening. There is no point in prolonging this conversation.

Response to redqueen (Reply #171)

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
254. I'm pretty sure that sex with prostitutes and lying to one's wife is a pretty good indicator
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:50 PM
Jun 2013

"All their finding out will do is harm otherwise fine relationships...."

I'm pretty sure that sex with prostitutes and lying to one's wife is a pretty good indicator those fine marriages are not really that fine.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,344 posts)
149. Does this look like a record of "what police were doing last night"?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:46 PM
Jun 2013

You seem like a reasonable person. Would you, if asked to sit on a defamation (or whatever the tort might be) suit jury, side with the state/defendant that this was merely a police blotter?



Really? Try to apply the "reasonable man" standard that would be at issue in a civil trial and tell me how you would vote if you were on a jury for some poor slob caught up in this net but later found to be innocent or a victim of a mistake.

Police blotter indeed. This is a full on circus shaming of people not yet convicted.

MattBaggins

(7,905 posts)
151. I don't like police blotters at all. Any of them
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:53 PM
Jun 2013

But I would not give a special exemption for these guys. I also believe that such "walls" would and do stand legal tests.

People have their names and often pictures listed in papers, and on TV and the internet daily who are innocent. No one had a problem with what Chris Hanson did and it was deemed legal. This would pass as well.

If brothels were legal and people were photographing the patrons I would not shed a tear if they passed them on the wives. Not a single tear.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
253. Those with traffic citations left to go into warrant are posted in the Dallas-Fort Worth area.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:48 PM
Jun 2013

"Why don't they do this to shoplifters or traffic scofflaws?"
Those with traffic citations left to go into warrant are posted in the Dallas-Fort Worth, TX area.

Response to Renew Deal (Original post)

name not needed

(11,660 posts)
81. Good to see the Nassau County PD still doing absolutely nothing with that budget of theirs.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:47 PM
Jun 2013

Maybe they should take the money they spend on shit like this and use it to train their officers not to gun down college students.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
89. No entrapment in any of the cases:
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 07:56 PM
Jun 2013

Each man arrived at the hotel after agreeing to meet online with an undercover officer posing as a hooker in the escorts section of backpage.com.

When the would-be john handed over cash in exchange for sex, officers swooped in and promptly arrested the offender.

Each interaction was recorded by hidden cameras and microphones planted in the hotel room.

Rice said she released the composite 'wall of shame' because she wanted to put the men who buy prostitutes in Nassau county on notice.
 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
94. And they will be back on the streets doing it again tomorrow
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:00 PM
Jun 2013

Meanwhile not a single woman was helped.

But the justice system will get their funding...and the cops will get their overtime pay.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
99. Demand reduction is only part of the solution.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:08 PM
Jun 2013

The other necessary part is helping the women transition out of that wretched industry.

Deter the exploiters, liberate the exploited.



Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
123. consenting adults they should be allowed to have sex under whatever conditions are mutually
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:44 PM
Jun 2013

agreed upon - as long as they don't scare the horses.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
135. Even where it's legal, it's heavily regulated because it poses a risk to the public at large.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:06 PM
Jun 2013

Associated with prostitution are criminals, mob criminals, STDs. That's just the way things are. So it's heavily regulated to make it safer. That also helps protect the women.

I don't care whether it's legal or not, I suppose. It's just such a scummy thing to do...I'd never go out with someone who buys sloppy thousands.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
158. I think the greater good would be served by having it legal and regulated
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:25 PM
Jun 2013

It's not like all men have done it as someone suggested. But a lot more have than most people realize. I am more or less neutral about peoples' private sex lives. I figure it is essentially none of my business.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,869 posts)
110. They haven't been convicted.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:19 PM
Jun 2013

This is bullshit. They're implying they're guilty and punishing them with them having been found guilty? Doesn't seem right.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
127. Same thing happens to the prostitutes
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:55 PM
Jun 2013

Their names are printed/made public. Why shouldn't the johns? No arrestee is convicted when their name is printed in a police blotter. With prostitution there is no crime with only one individual.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
115. Yuk. Disgusting little dirty men. Good they're finally going after the ones who use the services
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:39 PM
Jun 2013

and not just the prostitutes.

Response to Honeycombe8 (Reply #115)

Response to Whisp (Reply #194)

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
120. Do you some of you really want Law Enforcement entrapping you to commit a crime?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:42 PM
Jun 2013

Should the police be allowed to post ads for buying cocaine or weed and then arrest you when you show up?

If you do think that is okay, then what other crimes should the police bait you into committing and then arrest you once you commit it.

Think about this very carefully. There will be times in your life where you are weak or in a compromised state, and won't be able to resist such a bait.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
125. Stupid morality laws. Just legalize prostitution
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:49 PM
Jun 2013

Prostitutes gonna prostitute and johns gonna john no matter what laws you make.

The only places who are successful in battling prostitution are probably the theocracies and police states of the Mid East.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
133. There are prostitutes in theocracies
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:03 PM
Jun 2013

You just have to be a member of the ruling elite to get away with it. See Dubai.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
128. If I were to cherry-pick some police blotters...
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 08:56 PM
Jun 2013

for women arrested for prostitution, call it "hooking the hookers," and post it online, would that be as popular here as this "wall of shame" seems to be? Somehow I doubt it.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
139. The only way to protect men, women, and children from being exploited by prostitution is to legalize
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 09:07 PM
Jun 2013

and regulate it. Doing so will create legit businesses that operate in the open. See Pahrump, NV. No exploitation. No trafficking. No one being harmed.

If trafficking still happens, then you just tighten the regulations. You are not going to stop nor prevent it from happening no matter how many "Johns" you arrest.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
172. Except where it has been made legal, that is far from the case.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:19 PM
Jun 2013

This has been tried in several countries. It doesn't work.

...

In 2007 Carolyn Maloney, a Democratic Congresswoman from New York and founder of the Human Trafficking Caucus in the United States Congress, wrote about the consequences of the legalization of prostitution in and around the gambling mecca of Las Vegas. "Once upon a time," she wrote, "there was the naive belief that legalized prostitution would improve life for prostitutes, eliminate prostitution in areas where it remained illegal and remove organized crime from the business. Like all fairy tales, this turns out to be sheer fantasy."

German law enforcement officers working in red-light districts complain that they are hardly able to gain access to brothels anymore. Germany has become a "center for the sexual exploitation of young women from Eastern Europe, as well as a sphere of activity for organized crime groups from around the world," says Manfred Paulus, a retired chief detective from the southern city of Ulm. He used to work as a vice detective and now warns women in Bulgaria and Belarus against being lured to Germany.

Statistically speaking, Germany has almost no problem with prostitution and human trafficking. According to the Federal Criminal Police Office (BKA), there were 636 reported cases of "human trafficking for the purpose of sexual exploitation" in 2011, or almost a third less than 10 years earlier. Thirteen of the victims were under 14, and another 77 were under 18.

...

http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/human-trafficking-persists-despite-legality-of-prostitution-in-germany-a-902533.html

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
175. If that is an accurate report, then Germany needs to tighten its regulations
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:30 PM
Jun 2013

What you posted was an example of poor regulations and improper law enforcement.

Also, where are the other examples of where "it does not work"? What about the Pahrump, NV example? You seem to ignore that one.

Finally, explain how does making it illegal improve on what happened in your story? If prostitution remained illegal, wouldn't what happened in this story continue to happen?

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
177. Not just Germany.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:40 PM
Jun 2013

I have read tons of material about this issue, and the writing on the wall is clear. Everyone is free to do their own research if the issue of human trafficking is one they care about.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
181. Funny how the sex industry is the one multi-billion dollar global industry
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:51 PM
Jun 2013

whose champions liberals will for whatever reason turn to for expert insights.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
182. Prohibition criminalizes consensual behavior
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:54 PM
Jun 2013

and does absolutely nothing to protect victims. Posting sensationalists stories does not prove your point. You might as well post a refer madness video.

Violet_Crumble

(35,977 posts)
238. That's not true at all. Where I live it's legal and regulated and there's no stigma...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:05 AM
Jun 2013

Are you opposed to prostitution being legalised in the US?

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
226. how exactly do you propose regulating street prostitution?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:59 AM
Jun 2013

You are melding two completely unrelated worlds, which other than the sex acts don't really have anything in common.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
236. Street prostitution would violate regulations
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:39 AM
Jun 2013

You won't buy marijuana on the street corners in Washington and Colorado.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
250. So how is that different than status quo?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:27 PM
Jun 2013

Since you're really only addressing an intangibly small portion of the sex trade.

SamKnause

(13,110 posts)
153. Wall of Shame
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:07 PM
Jun 2013

Prostitution should be legal and strictly regulated.

Health and safety should be the issues at hand.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
155. "Upscale Nassau County" ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 10:16 PM
Jun 2013

Clearly, the Daily Mail has never seen the parking lot of a Hicksville 7/11.



Need we invoke the spectre of Joey Buttafuoco...

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
166. lol
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:03 PM
Jun 2013

I thought "upscale" was funny. Relative to the rest of the planet, but Nassau is big and much of it is working class.

Rosa Luxemburg

(28,627 posts)
174. It would be better to show the photographs of the Pimps
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:25 PM
Jun 2013

the men who are exploiting these women for profit and treating them like dirt.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
178. The men who pay desperate women to rent out their bodies aren't exploiting them?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:42 PM
Jun 2013

(Yes, a small minority are not desperate, and actually want to rent themselves out. The vast majority do not.)

If you care to, have a look at the way these customers talk about these women.

Warning: graphic.

http://the-invisible-men.tumblr.com/

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
179. why should i give a shit as to who has sex with whom?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:44 PM
Jun 2013

if everyone was an adult I don't care as long as it was consensual, even if money exchanged hands.

"I don't understand why prostitution is illegal. Selling is legal, fucking is legal. So, why isn't it legal to sell fucking?" - Carlin.

JI7

(89,276 posts)
183. because there is exploitation involved as mentioned above, why do they usually go to poor places to
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:03 AM
Jun 2013

find women to work as prostitutes ?

why not go places where women are better off, are more equal and educated and have other options besides being a prostitute ?

JI7

(89,276 posts)
185. but why still go to poor women without other options ?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:09 AM
Jun 2013

why not try to get women who are more equal , educated and have other options to consider prostitution ?

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
187. rich men have the money to hire more educated/independant "working girls"
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:22 AM
Jun 2013

the one that Elliot Spitzer got in trouble with didn't seem to be so poor or optionless..

JI7

(89,276 posts)
189. she wasn't educated, she was trying to get into the music business
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:39 AM
Jun 2013

and they got paid to keep everything a secret and make sure they don't get caught. and these are still a small number .

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
190. so am i
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:43 AM
Jun 2013

trying to get into the music business. if I where a very attractive 20=something instead of a not so much 40 something I would have the options she has.

Response to JI7 (Reply #183)

Response to BainsBane (Reply #203)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
207. I was told there would be no math
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:18 AM
Jun 2013

She didn't say all. She said usually. One example doesn't disprove usually.

Response to BainsBane (Reply #207)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
212. Think it through
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:46 AM
Jun 2013

There are more poor people than wealthy in America. Obviously the high end prostitutes are a minority. Having grown up in one of those poor neighborhoods, I can tell you than men prowl such areas and hit on girls who are not prostitutes. I myself was regularly propositioned starting at age 10. The notion that prostitution is a victimless crime is false on many levels. I really would have preferred to do without that. Imagine how you would feel if that happened to your daughter on a regular basis.

I find it fascinating the outcry about arresting Johns when no one cares about arresting prostitutes. The Johns are the ones propositioning little girls, and they are responsible for the crime.

J17 is indeed a woman.

Response to BainsBane (Reply #212)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
214. but these things don't exist in an ideal world
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:09 AM
Jun 2013

You referenced another example you found online, while I spoke from my own experience. What I described was a common occurrence in my neighborhood, and I expect it's still the case there and it countless neighborhoods throughout the nation.
I developed early and looked older than my age, but I seriously doubt anyone could have mistaken me for 18 when I was 10. There was certainly nothing provocative in my dress that would have indicated I was a sex worker. I wore tee shirts and jeans.

Prostitution doesn't exist in an ideal world or as a theoretical concept. It affects the daily lives of real people. Many prostitutes are underage, in their teens. The fact is a lot of men like to have sex with young girls. So where sex workers walk the streets, men harass young girls.

Response to BainsBane (Reply #214)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
216. possibly
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:17 AM
Jun 2013

I'm not against legalization and regulation per se, as long as they took if off the streets into legal brothels where, unlike in Nevada, workers rights were protected. As long as it is illegal, Johns deserve to be arrested.

How are they going to target men hitting on young girls? They use undercover cops as prostitutes. None are age 10 or anywhere close to it.


If I were to pick something to decriminalize, it would be drugs. The war on drugs eats up far more resources and is responsible for a huge percentage of the prison population.

Response to BainsBane (Reply #216)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
222. These guys don't go to prison
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:41 AM
Jun 2013

They might stay overnight in jail and get a fine. Putting their pictures up is a way to try to shame them publicly to discourage people from engaging prostitutes.

Response to BainsBane (Reply #222)

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
228. I see it as way to try to invoke social sanction
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:08 AM
Jun 2013

as occurred in past generations when people knew most of their local community. That has broken down as people move more due to economic dislocation. So without that sense of community standards, shame doesn't work for most. Perhaps if someone has some standing in the community--a city official, pastor, prominent businessman, etc.--he might feel shame. And of course a guy isn't going to like his wife seeing what he's been up to. That's probably the biggest factor.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
206. wealth is the mirror face of poverty; the more of one, the more of the other, & the greater
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:17 AM
Jun 2013

the divide in society (the greater the inequality), the more prostitution, high end and low end.

Response to HiPointDem (Reply #206)

MADem

(135,425 posts)
233. She got a harsh sentence; her pimp got twenty days...didn't seem fair to me, that.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:33 AM
Jun 2013
http://guardianlv.com/2013/05/alexis-wright-convicted-of-prostitution-conspiracy-tax-evasion/

Zumba instructor and prostitute Alexis Wright has been convicted in an Alfred, Maine courtroom of prostitution, conspiracy, tax evasion, and theft by deception.

Wright used her Zumba training facility as a front to run a prostitution ring. She has been sentenced to ten months in jail. She will also have to repay $57,280 for accepting welfare funds of more than $40,000. It is believed that she netted more than $150,000 from prostitution....


....Her business partner, Mark Strong, 57, was convicted of twelve counts of promoting prostitution, and one count of conspiracy to commit prostitution. He was sentenced to twenty days in jail, and forced to pay a $3,000 fine. His sentence was reduced by five days because of good behavior.

Response to MADem (Reply #233)

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
209. I propose
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:29 AM
Jun 2013

The United States Department of Prostitution and Public Wanking

The USDPPW

That should take care of things! All well organized, taxed, protections for all, and to all a good night.

rightsideout

(978 posts)
218. They weren't Prostitutes
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:28 AM
Jun 2013

They were undercover cops. This is entrapment. A waste of time and money and serves no useful purpose.

OK, I'll agree a sting operation slows down prostitution in trouble areas but a few months down the road it will just start again. Human behavior won't change. Prostitutes that get arrested just go through the booking process, which they are used to, and are back out on the streets. If they are addicted to drugs they need the money. The Johns probably get a good scare and probably don't do it again or are at least more careful about the transaction process.

Just make prostitution legal and tax it. Two counties in Nevada make it legal. It's regulated there. I noticed the article about it not working in Germany. But I haven't heard many issues with it being a problem where it is legal in Nevada.



 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
227. Other than sex, what does your trailer in the desert have in common with skid row?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:07 AM
Jun 2013

You can ostensibly regulate a brothel as a business, but do you actually think that pimps will be interested in all that overhead, or that the substance abusing would actually be employed by one?

It is a libertarian fantasy.

Behind the Aegis

(53,994 posts)
219. Fucking stupid.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:32 AM
Jun 2013

So much for "presumed innocent until proven guilty." Oh, there it is, in itty bitty letters.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
230. America the melting pot--that looks like the men's room at the UN!!!!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:14 AM
Jun 2013

I notice most of the fellows aren't smiling--they look rather glum. The only guy with a cheerful visage is the one at the end, the rest look like they've been sent to the principal's office.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
240. I think this is great.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:22 AM
Jun 2013

And all the weeping and wailing over how unfair it is to these poor dear men is just the icing on the cake.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
246. With few exceptions why would any of these men care, and why is it anyone else's business?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:41 AM
Jun 2013

If these people prefer to pay for sex how is that anyone else's business? Who, other than some theist, feels that this is even shameful?

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
247. I think this is just stupid.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:56 AM
Jun 2013

Why is it anybody's damn business who pays for sex. If they are going to do this, then how about a Wall of Shame for shoplifters. Having their pictures out there would at least be useful to retailers.

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