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People on Facebook... (Original Post) SHRED Jun 2013 OP
Ain't it the truth? silverweb Jun 2013 #1
Anyone who has an expectation of privacy on Facebook is dealing with a deck missing all of the face yellowcanine Jun 2013 #2
LOL SHRED Jun 2013 #3
or they should learn to read the documents they agree to iamthebandfanman Jun 2013 #46
. . . or any place on the internet including Lex Jun 2013 #4
exactly SHRED Jun 2013 #7
Tons of us were forthcoming with our names and numbers in orpupilofnature57 Jun 2013 #15
facebook, twitter and "smart" phones have confirmed what I have long suspected Skittles Jun 2013 #5
+10 SHRED Jun 2013 #8
before all that technology Skittles Jun 2013 #20
So true. bunnies Jun 2013 #21
cue the people who think I am afraid of technology Skittles Jun 2013 #23
I agree. bunnies Jun 2013 #24
and OH Skittles Jun 2013 #30
omg. bunnies Jun 2013 #37
I mentioned such a rudeness to a clerk Skittles Jun 2013 #39
totally. bunnies Jun 2013 #45
Wife's masters is in Library Science and Information Technology JanMichael Jun 2013 #59
oh do I hear Mrs. JanMichael Skittles Jun 2013 #62
Anymore checking Facebook is akin to... Blanks Jun 2013 #26
it only took email to find out an aunt is racist Skittles Jun 2013 #34
Quite a bit of that appears on my news feed as well. Blanks Jun 2013 #54
People on facebook tell the world how they wipe their butt. appleannie1 Jun 2013 #6
Well, maybe your friends do Lex Jun 2013 #9
It's hyperbole and not that far off, imo. yellowcanine Jun 2013 #16
friend management on FB Lex Jun 2013 #19
Or maybe ballardgirl Jun 2013 #43
No doubt. But it is a lazy way and shallow way to connect with people. yellowcanine Jun 2013 #56
yes, but showing how they do it is a bit over the top. TheCowsCameHome Jun 2013 #18
No, that's YouTube. AtheistCrusader Jun 2013 #49
YouTube,MyTube,Everybody'sTube,....... TheCowsCameHome Jun 2013 #51
Well, maybe not on Facebook, Jenoch Jun 2013 #25
Imagine if the gov't compiled info on people like facebook does... bunnies Jun 2013 #10
Anyone over 18 that needs to have Esoteric conversations publicly... orpupilofnature57 Jun 2013 #11
you mean like the ones that happen here? Warren DeMontague Jun 2013 #41
Just like the ones that happen here, I've heard it called. orpupilofnature57 Jun 2013 #52
No one wants to sit with me, sadly. Warren DeMontague Jun 2013 #53
I love the poop you fling !!!! orpupilofnature57 Jun 2013 #55
not really. Union Scribe Jun 2013 #12
I have many more concerns... SHRED Jun 2013 #17
I've always believed that you shouldn't post anything... Blanks Jun 2013 #27
exactly. iamthebandfanman Jun 2013 #47
yes but people have the option of joining facebook or not. boilerbabe Jun 2013 #13
people are aware of what they share on FB La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2013 #14
When people choose to go online... SHRED Jun 2013 #22
So how can two people talking expect to have a private conversation Union Scribe Jun 2013 #28
pre-paid phones...cash SHRED Jun 2013 #29
Well that's ironic. Union Scribe Jun 2013 #31
so we should all go off the grid? not use phones? not use email although its required for day La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2013 #48
+1 n/t Gormy Cuss Jun 2013 #60
A room full of Luddites? Trajan Jun 2013 #32
LOL, glad you said it. graywarrior Jun 2013 #33
Meh. Earth_First Jun 2013 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2013 #36
Welcome to DU!!!! elehhhhna Jun 2013 #38
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #40
And now you can say to them - GoneOffShore Jun 2013 #42
not exactly the same.. iamthebandfanman Jun 2013 #44
Not unlike those on talk boards - lynne Jun 2013 #50
The why they wish, and who they are wishing isn't the point orpupilofnature57 Jun 2013 #57
"People on Facebook..." presumably have voluntarily and wittingly posted their info/photos. WinkyDink Jun 2013 #58
"Wittingly" has nothing to do with it. Orrex Jun 2013 #61

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
2. Anyone who has an expectation of privacy on Facebook is dealing with a deck missing all of the face
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 04:53 PM
Jun 2013

cards.

iamthebandfanman

(8,127 posts)
46. or they should learn to read the documents they agree to
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 07:41 PM
Jun 2013

when they sign up for services over the internet.

the OP seems to missing the fact that FB is a CHOICE..
having my phone tapped and emails read is not.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
5. facebook, twitter and "smart" phones have confirmed what I have long suspected
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 04:57 PM
Jun 2013

the degree of idiocy in America is staggering

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
20. before all that technology
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:13 PM
Jun 2013

I used to date a guy 20 years ago who would tell me well over half of all Americans are f***ing idiots - now, reading their comments and seeing their hysteria over their perceived facebook friends, claiming they cannot keep up with family without it, watching people who have to check their phones 50 times during a movie, seeing people, sometimes whole families, going out to dinner and sitting there all glued to their handhelds - fuck, now I know he was correct.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
21. So true.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:16 PM
Jun 2013

I used to think people with those damn bluetooth headsets were bad. Little did I know.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
23. cue the people who think I am afraid of technology
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:22 PM
Jun 2013

no - I simply understand that technology should be part of life, not life itself

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
24. I agree.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:31 PM
Jun 2013

It drives me absolutely nuts when someone comes over for a visit & spends half the time texting or talking on the phone. It seems like basic common courtesy is quickly becoming a thing of the past. I know some people who cant go more than a few minutes without checking their facebook page. And you wouldnt believe how many things weve miss because nobody calls people to invite them to anything anymore. I think its a matter of balance & too many people are way off.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
30. and OH
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:06 PM
Jun 2013

the ones who cannot get off the phone long enough to simply ACKNOWLEDGE a clerk who is serving them? Or act like the waitress is interrupting their texting? F***!!!!!

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
37. omg.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:17 PM
Jun 2013

Dont you just want to slap them? I was behind a woman the other day who actually just stood there at the counter carrying on her phone conversation. The clerk gave her the price and she just stood there yapping away not even getting out her money. The poor clerk was just standing there looking at all of us in line like WTF? She finally cleared the yappers sale and helped the person in line behind her. This, of course, caused the yapper to throw a fit because SHE was next in line. Said something to the person on the other end of the call about the clerk being a "rude bitch". HUH? It amazes me that some people can be so completely unaware of how they actually occur in the world. I would have sworn that we were all part of some sort of hidden-camera prank. It was unreal.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
39. I mentioned such a rudeness to a clerk
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:38 PM
Jun 2013

she said it happens ALL THE TIME - and not just young folk either - this sickness cuts across ALL AGE GROUPS - it is sad and disturbing

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
45. totally.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 07:40 PM
Jun 2013

I wonder how much lower such people can sink. Ive no doubt we'll find out soon enough. *sigh

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
59. Wife's masters is in Library Science and Information Technology
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 08:12 AM
Jun 2013

she refuses to own a smart phone, does not text, nor check for messages etc. You should hear the conversations with the phone company...."no, I only want a PHONE that I may use in the car for emergencies, or calling my folks and sister when we are out of town. No. I do not need to text. No, I do not need the internet on the road, we have maps...."

It's beyond ridiculous.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
62. oh do I hear Mrs. JanMichael
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 12:38 PM
Jun 2013

at work I instant message technical conversations with people in India, China, Brazil, WHILE monitoring multiple consoles - outside of surfing for news and my forays into DU (on a laptop) to kick some ass, I have NO desire or need to be tied to a handheld - I find it RIDICULOUS

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
26. Anymore checking Facebook is akin to...
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:41 PM
Jun 2013

Seeing what kind of graphics with text the 2nd amendment folks have developed for my family to share.

Until Facebook, I had no idea that my family was obsessed with gun ownership.

I hardly check in anymore.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
34. it only took email to find out an aunt is racist
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:09 PM
Jun 2013

I had to cut her off when she would not stop sending those ridiculous rightwing propaganda bullshit emails - hey, I have some issues with Obama but if you cannot acknowledge the man is American, Christian and very intelligent then I cannot discuss his policies with you!!!

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
54. Quite a bit of that appears on my news feed as well.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 11:33 PM
Jun 2013

I've been just letting it go. One of these days I'm just gonna go off on them.

My younger brother (50 years old) is still waiting for Obama to find him a job. It's unfortunate when you get to my age and find out that your little brother is a conservative gun toting moron. I didn't even know he had any guns.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
16. It's hyperbole and not that far off, imo.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:05 PM
Jun 2013

Some people make good use of FB but there are a lot of losers there as well who don't seem to have anything better to do except to tell everyone which itch they just scratched.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
56. No doubt. But it is a lazy way and shallow way to connect with people.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 06:45 AM
Jun 2013

Volunteer for something and do some good.

 

orpupilofnature57

(15,472 posts)
11. Anyone over 18 that needs to have Esoteric conversations publicly...
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:01 PM
Jun 2013

values their Ego more than privacy .

 

orpupilofnature57

(15,472 posts)
52. Just like the ones that happen here, I've heard it called.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 09:17 PM
Jun 2013

Last edited Fri Jun 7, 2013, 10:12 PM - Edit history (1)

" The Cool kids lunch table " .

Union Scribe

(7,099 posts)
12. not really.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:01 PM
Jun 2013

Giving a company information on your own accord is not the same as the government taking it under the guise of 'da war on terra'. I don't get people who act like if you're not living in a cave off the grid that you have no expectation of privacy anywhere doing anything.

 

SHRED

(28,136 posts)
17. I have many more concerns...
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:08 PM
Jun 2013

...about the corporate private sector than I do my government...although the lines are very blurry now.

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
27. I've always believed that you shouldn't post anything...
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:47 PM
Jun 2013

On the Internet that you wouldn't want to see in the newspaper.

There shouldn't be any expectation of privacy. Even email can be shared and should be carefully worded by the author.

Only a fool would share excessively private information.

iamthebandfanman

(8,127 posts)
47. exactly.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jun 2013

you checkmark and agree to a terms of service when you sign up for anything on the internet..
its a CHOICE you make.

having your phones tapped and emails read without your knowledge is certainly not a choice.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
14. people are aware of what they share on FB
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:02 PM
Jun 2013

this does not mean they are ok with sharing their emails/phone calls/ searches

 

SHRED

(28,136 posts)
22. When people choose to go online...
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 05:18 PM
Jun 2013

...or use a cell phone and then expect privacy then they simply aren't thinking those decisions through very well in my opinion.

Union Scribe

(7,099 posts)
28. So how can two people talking expect to have a private conversation
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:00 PM
Jun 2013

from your point of view? Do they have to be in the same room, under a blanket, whispering? Everything else is fair game?

Union Scribe

(7,099 posts)
31. Well that's ironic.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:08 PM
Jun 2013

So we should act like people with something to hide to avoid the intrusion of an agency trying to surveil people who have things to hide. That's like saying if I don't want to be on cameras everywhere I should wear a ski mask. Why should it be the problem of innocent people to have to hide from overreach?

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
48. so we should all go off the grid? not use phones? not use email although its required for day
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 07:59 PM
Jun 2013

to day existence?

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
32. A room full of Luddites?
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:09 PM
Jun 2013

You should still be able to expect privacy for those things you DON'T post online for the world to see ...

Using Facebook, Twitter and the like forces us to be careful about what information is exposed, but doing so should NOT imply that we have waived the right to maintain certain information private and away from prying eyes ...

Saying that the mere use of those social websites forces us to expect complete exposure off all of our secrets ... well ... that is a ridiculous assertion ...

Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
35. Meh.
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 06:11 PM
Jun 2013

They've already got me pegged based on my arrest record.

Ill gladly bitch publicly and realize that its merely additional fodder for the FEMA camp re-education vacation...

Response to SHRED (Original post)

Response to elehhhhna (Reply #38)

iamthebandfanman

(8,127 posts)
44. not exactly the same..
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 07:39 PM
Jun 2013

seeing as everyone on facebook checkmarked AN AGREEMENT to have the service...
I don't remember signing up for my phone tap ..

lynne

(3,118 posts)
50. Not unlike those on talk boards -
Fri Jun 7, 2013, 08:04 PM
Jun 2013

- expressing the same concern. Don't expect privacy here, either.

One huge difference, those on FB have control on what postings, pics, comments others on the internet are able to see via privacy controls. There is no such option here. Of course, both places can be accessed by authorities should they wish.

 

orpupilofnature57

(15,472 posts)
57. The why they wish, and who they are wishing isn't the point
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 08:04 AM
Jun 2013

it's the fact that Drones, omnipotent surveillance capabilities, and carte blanche authority without accountability, are the apparatus of a police state. Obviously people being able to discuss and criticize the functions of our government, in forum situations, shows that we are a free and democratic society, still we don't know who or what will govern us in twenty years .

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
58. "People on Facebook..." presumably have voluntarily and wittingly posted their info/photos.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 08:06 AM
Jun 2013

I didn't ask for a party line when I signed with Verizon.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
61. "Wittingly" has nothing to do with it.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 09:47 AM
Jun 2013

If you're the person who has read every last word of their Terms of Service, then you'd probably be the first one in history to do so.

It would not surprise me to learn that Verizon's ToS include something along the lines of "user data shall be subject to reasonable review," which is about all they'd need in order to hand your entire call history to the NSA.

I recently had occasion to ask around two dozen people in my office if they'd read every word of their contracts w/ their cell providers. None had done so--myself included--and most hadn't read a word of their agreements outside of the net total fee per month.

Very little is done "wittingly" in our society, especially when it comes to reading 15 pages of 6-point-font legalese.

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