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Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:42 PM Jul 2013

Has your family heard you scream in pain?

This was a question asked by the attorneys to the family members who identified their relative's voice on the tape.

I was thinking....my family heard the sound of my voice screaming in pain when I was a child and young teen (don't ask), but not for decades. Do our voices change that much? I think I'd recognize my brother's voice anywhere, even if it's a scream (I've heard screams from him, tho not from pain). I'd have trouble recognizing a whisper, though.

I THINK I'd recognize my sisters' voices, or most of them, because our voices are VERY similar. So I think they'd recognize mine.

My mother has passed away. Not sure if my Dad would recognize my voice, since he didn't raise us.

Would YOUR family recognize your scream on a tape?

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Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
3. I love roller coasters, but I'm a big chicken.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:47 PM
Jul 2013

They know what screams of abject fear from me sound like.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
2. Yeah, mine would.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:46 PM
Jul 2013

My ankle is funky and has a nasty habit of dislocating. I have to force it back in place quickly -- and painfully -- so I close a door and push. Nasty, nasty surge of pain that is gone the second that ankle is back in place.

Yeah, they know what it sounds like.

raptor_rider

(1,014 posts)
4. Oh yes.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jul 2013

They have heard me in pain. Natural child birth.

I can hear my kids voices in crowed places. I can hear mom, from many kids, however I can always tell my children's voices. It's ingrained into the brain.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
5. a mom knows the sounds of her child.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013

laughing, crying ,screaming, whatever.

It's built in. I could recognize my kids voice in a crowd of loud kids.

Kber

(5,043 posts)
12. The only person I sometimes confuse with my son is my nephew
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:21 PM
Jul 2013

The similarity is really something and has been since birth. They are only weeks apart in age and the whole family can't tell them apart.

They look nothing alike, tho.

Hekate

(90,690 posts)
6. I know my dog's bark. I knew my infants' cries. I would know my family members'...
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:53 PM
Jul 2013

... voices, no matter what. Once on the way home from playing with a friend, I heard my younger brother scream from several houses away and I knew exactly who it was -- he was 7 and had just sliced his arm open.

I would know.

H2O Man

(73,537 posts)
7. No.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 07:58 PM
Jul 2013

I deal with pain differently that most people.

I would, however, recognize any one of my children (all now teens to late 20s).

 

rdharma

(6,057 posts)
13. I say "@#$/%&()!(^!#$!!!" when I'm in pain.
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:27 PM
Jul 2013

I say "Oh, @#$/%&()!(^!#$!!!" when something scary bad is about to happen.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
10. No, but my assistant got an earful recently when a patient of mine sank a claw into
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:09 PM
Jul 2013

a nerve in the back of my hand.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
11. I had a child fall and get hurt among other children but out of my line of sight
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:11 PM
Jul 2013

and I IMMEDIATELY knew it was her and that it was serious.

 

giftedgirl77

(4,713 posts)
14. yes,
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:36 PM
Jul 2013

but the deeper point is a mother knows her children, I think it's a natural instinct. I can pick my kids out of a crowd & can also tell the difference between genuine pain &the over dramatic I'm trying to get my older bro in trouble sounds. I've also heard my children scared to death & am pretty confident that I could pick that out as well.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
15. I'm a screamer
Fri Jul 5, 2013, 08:40 PM
Jul 2013

My husband and son can hear me screaming from vast distances on our farm.... the reason is rattlesnakes! I've walked into three so far this year. One was coiled up and so fast asleep, he didn't even rattle and my foot was inches from treading on him. He forgot to say, "Don't tread on me".

Yes, they'd recognize my ear-piercing screams on tape.

Hekate

(90,690 posts)
17. I thought Trayvon's mother was a very dignified woman on the stand
Sat Jul 6, 2013, 01:45 AM
Jul 2013

She is a bereaved mother, for Gods' sake, and I am sure hearing her son on tape like that was a knife through her heart. She knew.

 

Pelican

(1,156 posts)
18. She may certainly believe it but an honest juror should accept...
Sat Jul 6, 2013, 02:01 AM
Jul 2013

... that she wouldn't say anything else.

HipChick

(25,485 posts)
19. I fell into a sinkhole...not one of my family recognized my screams..
Sat Jul 6, 2013, 02:03 AM
Jul 2013

I think they thought I was an alleycat..it was dark at night, took them hours to find me..

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