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Amerigo Vespucci

(30,885 posts)
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 07:31 PM Feb 2012

Rev. Al tweets about Bobby Brown's hasty retreat from the Whitney Houston funeral

Last edited Sat Feb 18, 2012, 11:43 PM - Edit history (1)

Brown was told he could bring two people. He brought nine. He was told the additional people wouldn't be seated. He was also told that Whitney's family wouldn't let him sit next to his daughter. So he left, without attending the services.



http://twitter.com/#!/TheRevAl/status/170935486976753664



Reverend Al Sharpton
@TheRevAl

I am at Whitney's funeral. I spoke with Bobby Brown trying to calm him down and not distract from the services. Today is about Whitney!
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Rev. Al tweets about Bobby Brown's hasty retreat from the Whitney Houston funeral (Original Post) Amerigo Vespucci Feb 2012 OP
I have seen this kind of thing happen at services and it is just awful. CTyankee Feb 2012 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author Tx4obama Feb 2012 #3
man they need to let that man and his daughter be. okieinpain Feb 2012 #2
Well I was reading in the tabliods that the family is worried her father is trying to get ahold of southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #5
She's 19 years old, no child by any means. I agree she needs a close watch..n/t monmouth Feb 2012 #8
She might be of legal age but she still is young. southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #12
BS malaise Feb 2012 #18
She hasn't been living with him. To tell you if I were the grandmother and see the condition she is southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #20
My guess is that Whitney got more than adequate financial and estate planning advice. no_hypocrisy Feb 2012 #25
I hope your right. I feel so sad for her. I tell you to lose your mother is the worse thing in the southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #26
Ding ding we have a winner malaise Feb 2012 #11
And unless it was at his daughter's request rocktivity Feb 2012 #31
before she divorced it Mira Feb 2012 #33
He should have done whatever he was asked to do Tennessee Gal Feb 2012 #4
I agree with you. southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #21
That's not the whole story, they asked him to change seats THREE times Tx4obama Feb 2012 #6
Thanks for posting... Amerigo Vespucci Feb 2012 #30
Also, Jesse Jackson To Don Lemon: Family ‘Could Have Accommodated [Bobby Brown] Better’ Tx4obama Feb 2012 #7
I'm not a Bobby Brown fan, but men usually get a raw deal in family/custody issues. nt aaaaaa5a Feb 2012 #9
Whitney's family has no right to prevent Bobby Brown from sitting malaise Feb 2012 #10
Good post. emilyg Feb 2012 #15
Agree. eom GP6971 Feb 2012 #19
No one comes out the winner. But her family did try to help her. You can only do so much. Whitney southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #22
Whitney was taking drugs long before she met Bobby HipChick Feb 2012 #34
I love Whitney Houston. I don't care who gave it to her. All I know a beautiful voice has been southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #36
Unless not seeing Bobby was his daughter's idea, you're absolutely right. rocktivity Feb 2012 #32
Apparently the entourage was all family including malaise Feb 2012 #35
The guy is selfish... LoveMeLoveYou Feb 2012 #13
This is the exact reason we didn't even have a funeral for my mother in law. YellowRubberDuckie Feb 2012 #14
My ex husband told an out and out LIE at his sister's funeral about their step mother. It was CTyankee Feb 2012 #16
Without personally knowing the people involved, I get his rep as the bad guy UTUSN Feb 2012 #17
I will give it to him. He seems to have straighten himself out. But Whitney would never have been southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #23
His being there and leaving was his "Prerogative" n/t NoodleyAppendage Feb 2012 #24
they should have let him sit with his daughter and he shouldn't have brought all those people JI7 Feb 2012 #27
I agree with you richmwill Feb 2012 #28
At least 3 of the people in his "entourage" were his children Alenne Feb 2012 #29

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
1. I have seen this kind of thing happen at services and it is just awful.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 07:38 PM
Feb 2012

Don't people understand it's "not about them"? My ex husband did it to his sister's memorial service and a friend's husband did it at her service. I want to say "what is it about these MEN?" but I don't want to slam an entire group of people. Just my own experience, I guess...whatever...

Response to CTyankee (Reply #1)

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
5. Well I was reading in the tabliods that the family is worried her father is trying to get ahold of
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 07:51 PM
Feb 2012

her money that she will inherit. They are only looking after the child. Right now her ex should be worrying about getting her along with the rest of the family into rehab. Grandma is working on it. They are trying to give her alittle breathing room.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
20. She hasn't been living with him. To tell you if I were the grandmother and see the condition she is
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:09 PM
Feb 2012

in I think I would want her to get help that she really needs. I do think she should of saw his daughter. But who knows like you said she is 19 and maybe she didn't want to see him. Who knows. She was very very close with her mother and her mothers family.

no_hypocrisy

(46,117 posts)
25. My guess is that Whitney got more than adequate financial and estate planning advice.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:27 PM
Feb 2012

She likely had a Will or a Trust ready for her death. An Executor or a Trustee would be supervising the money for Bobbi Kristina until she's 25 or whatever age Whitney decided to allow her daughter free access to her assets. Bobby Brown isn't getting anywhere near the money until that time.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
26. I hope your right. I feel so sad for her. I tell you to lose your mother is the worse thing in the
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:33 PM
Feb 2012

world. She was close to her momma. Honestly I know there isn't a day that goes by I still don't think of my momma. She has been dead well over 10 yrs.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
31. And unless it was at his daughter's request
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 12:38 AM
Feb 2012

The family had no business stopping him from seeing her.


rocktivity

Tennessee Gal

(6,160 posts)
4. He should have done whatever he was asked to do
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 07:49 PM
Feb 2012

and kept his mouth shut out of respect for Whitney and their daughter.

Just my opinion.

Amerigo Vespucci

(30,885 posts)
30. Thanks for posting...
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 11:45 PM
Feb 2012

...that information definitely wasn't available at the time of my original post.

malaise

(269,024 posts)
10. Whitney's family has no right to prevent Bobby Brown from sitting
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 08:14 PM
Feb 2012

with his daughter.
Whitney's relatives are no saints - they are way more responsible for her problems than her ex-husband.

By the way he had no right to take nine people to the funeral.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
22. No one comes out the winner. But her family did try to help her. You can only do so much. Whitney
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:13 PM
Feb 2012

was 48 and she made her own mind up. Her mistake was marrying Bobby Brown in the first place. He got her on the road to drugs. However, he seems to have gotten on the right track. I can understand Whitney's family is trying to protect the girls interest. Remember WE ALL don't really know them like their family now all the players.

HipChick

(25,485 posts)
34. Whitney was taking drugs long before she met Bobby
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 01:14 AM
Feb 2012

Her uncle gave her cocaine at 10.....all of her brothers have addiction problems...yet everyone is blaming Bobby...
 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
36. I love Whitney Houston. I don't care who gave it to her. All I know a beautiful voice has been
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 10:49 AM
Feb 2012

silenced and nothing is going to bring her back. I really know nothing about her personal history and if that is true it is very sad.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
32. Unless not seeing Bobby was his daughter's idea, you're absolutely right.
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 12:40 AM
Feb 2012

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At age 18, she's old enough to decide that for herself.

And I'm not crazy about him being allowed to have only two guests when he had at least three children who grew up with his and Whitney's daughter.


rocktivity

malaise

(269,024 posts)
35. Apparently the entourage was all family including
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 08:29 AM
Feb 2012

his other children who are after all Whitney's daughter's siblings.
Nothing amuses me more than so called Christians keeping up their wars - even when death interrupts the hate fest.

If his daughter didn't want to see him then I understand why Whitney needed all those pills. She may have poisoned her daughter re her father more than she poisoned herself with the drugs.

YellowRubberDuckie

(19,736 posts)
14. This is the exact reason we didn't even have a funeral for my mother in law.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 08:27 PM
Feb 2012

At her father's wake, her niece got up and told stories that weren't even TRUE just so it was all "Look at Darcy" hour. That side of the family is just ridiculous. And Bobby Brown should be ashamed of himself.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
16. My ex husband told an out and out LIE at his sister's funeral about their step mother. It was
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 08:45 PM
Feb 2012

horrible. I was so embarrassed. I was also outraged. But I could do nothing at that point.

The step mother has been dead for about 9 years and there was no one around for a pushback but me (and perhaps another member of the family who was too prostrate with grief to do much). I was outraged. I told my kids it was an outrage, but they wanted to just smooth it all over in the interest of family peace.

OK. Great. A woman had been slimed in a memorial service and it was all about "family peace."

UTUSN

(70,700 posts)
17. Without personally knowing the people involved, I get his rep as the bad guy
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 08:46 PM
Feb 2012

I also get that Ms HOUSTON was an adult who technically was responsible for her own choices, especially in the recent time after they divorced.

Aside from that, I heard the whole service in the background and it was all moving, funny, musically beautiful, and classy, and at least one FACET of her personality that came across along with all the "good" ones was that she was "pretty and liked to party," something that is said about a local media personality who has developed a solid career over the years.

So if he goes off the deep(er) end, "pushed" as Nancy GRACE would say, is he going to be eulogized the way she was?!1 All I'm saying is that I saw a few episodes of their passes-for-reality show and it looked like they loved each other and were both doing stuff of their own free will that they were liking to do.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
23. I will give it to him. He seems to have straighten himself out. But Whitney would never have been
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:17 PM
Feb 2012

that way if it weren't for the bad boy Bobby Brown. But in the end they divorced and no one to blame but herself if she died of drugs. But we still don't know that. I have a feeling she didn't. A beautiful voice has died.

richmwill

(1,326 posts)
28. I agree with you
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 10:08 PM
Feb 2012

Furthermore, if he was asked to move three times, I'd get the hint and leave. Especially after not being allowed to sit next to my daughter. I find no fault with him if he left for that reason. If he left because his seven uninvited guests weren't seated, then that's him being an ass.

Alenne

(1,931 posts)
29. At least 3 of the people in his "entourage" were his children
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 10:15 PM
Feb 2012

I think they should have let his children in because Whitney was their stepmother. We don't know the relationship between Whitney and his kids. They may be mourning her death also. It all could have been handled better.

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