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Archae

(46,322 posts)
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:38 PM Aug 2013

What is WRONG with some people?

Fourteen year old boy, the guy is a THUG.

He already has been arrested at least once before for trying to kill someone else.

Kid takes a shot at the cops, after trying to kill someone else with a 9mm.
Cops shoot and kill the thug.
(Really, what choice did they have?)

Thug's aunt calls the thug a "baby."

A baby doesn't shoot at cops, stupid!

“He was a beautiful, loving boy. He was a baby,” said a woman who identified herself as Douse’s aunt. She rejected the police version of the killing and did not believe her nephew even had a gun.

http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2013/08/04/man-dead-following-bronx-police-involved-shooting/

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What is WRONG with some people? (Original Post) Archae Aug 2013 OP
Ugh, please delete. geek tragedy Aug 2013 #1
A thug is a thug. Archae Aug 2013 #4
The kid is dead, won't be the first, won't be the last geek tragedy Aug 2013 #6
The point is black kids are thugs and undeserving of love from their relatives. Iggo Aug 2013 #25
A parent is a parent GiaGiovanni Aug 2013 #8
Except this is an aunt. Archae Aug 2013 #10
So, an aunt is an aunt. GiaGiovanni Aug 2013 #11
So? (nt) Posteritatis Aug 2013 #14
So..?? GiaGiovanni Aug 2013 #17
Why do you believe the police version of events? BainsBane Aug 2013 #41
Families go into deep denial about this stuff... allin99 Aug 2013 #2
They love their family? Fumesucker Aug 2013 #3
Stop shooting our babies... ileus Aug 2013 #5
The article says they don't know what happened yet... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #7
Three points... Archae Aug 2013 #9
ahhh... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #12
We know for sure that he shot at the cops? GiaGiovanni Aug 2013 #15
What word would you use to describe a person who bunnies Aug 2013 #13
A "baby," apparently. Archae Aug 2013 #16
'runs' or 'is being chased' Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #19
Wrong. bunnies Aug 2013 #20
Article says chased Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #21
Youre reading it wrong. I'll spell it out. bunnies Aug 2013 #23
As long as we have another dead 'thug' Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #24
Should police have waited until pintobean Aug 2013 #26
No... Just kill 'em all - nt Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #27
Yeah. Youre right. bunnies Aug 2013 #28
Black... Has a record... DEATH! Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #29
Your reading comprehension skills suck. bunnies Aug 2013 #31
ok... i'll believe killing is always fine... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #32
Theres a damn video. bunnies Aug 2013 #34
Yeah.. Lets kill more... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #39
Your arms must be incredibly long to reach that far. bunnies Aug 2013 #42
I prefer knowing all the facts before I approve of killing 14 year olds Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #43
The pertinent facts are in. bunnies Aug 2013 #45
No change Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #49
Youre calling me a racist now? bunnies Aug 2013 #50
I have no idea if you are racist or not Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #53
Is that because only black kids are thugs in your mind? bunnies Aug 2013 #54
The op decided to use the term... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #56
And because you think all thugs are black... bunnies Aug 2013 #58
heh, 'facts'... I thought you did not need them Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #62
Im embarrassed for you. bunnies Aug 2013 #63
That is ok... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #66
Not to mention the innocent bystanders pintobean Aug 2013 #36
No kidding! bunnies Aug 2013 #40
Well, some people's reactions might differ pintobean Aug 2013 #44
You rock. bunnies Aug 2013 #46
Yes... Condeming mass murder is the same... Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #47
My point pintobean Aug 2013 #57
Without all the facts I am concerned with the dead Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #60
I don't know much about Tien1985 Aug 2013 #18
Archae, I am close to 60 yrs old and still my Mother's baby KentuckyWoman Aug 2013 #22
does calling a 14 year old a thug repeatedly make you feel tougher? La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2013 #30
Let's see, tried killing another person, was shooting at someone, and shot at cops. Archae Aug 2013 #33
I dunno, I just read about some guy the blew up his dog. Rex Aug 2013 #35
No doubt about that. Archae Aug 2013 #37
Yeah, Zimmerman comes to mind. Rex Aug 2013 #38
I try to remember this in my quest to be a more forgiving person Butterbean Aug 2013 #48
Everybody may start out as a baby...but some turn into very evil beings wercal Aug 2013 #55
I agree about the part with the croc tears, yes. Butterbean Aug 2013 #61
Sadly, I think he was already there wercal Aug 2013 #65
"babies" can kill too. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #51
excellent question noiretextatique Aug 2013 #52
Archae, what's wrong with you that you expect an aunt to call her DevonRex Aug 2013 #59
Mo gunz... 99Forever Aug 2013 #64
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
1. Ugh, please delete.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:39 PM
Aug 2013

You're wondering why the kid's aunt would call him a baby?

Also, 'thug' in this context is an icky word to use due to the racial connotation.

The system failed everyone by not locking this one up, and no one's faulting police for shooting him here.

Archae

(46,322 posts)
4. A thug is a thug.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:43 PM
Aug 2013

Zimmermann is a thug.

A white kid shooting at cops is a thug.

A black kid is too.

It makes *NO* difference what the guy looks like, wears, whatever.

If he or she shoots at a cop, the cops WILL shoot back.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
6. The kid is dead, won't be the first, won't be the last
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:44 PM
Aug 2013

kid from a tough background who gets himself killed by really awful choices.

Not sure what the point of this post is. Family members love each other even when they do terrible things.

Archae

(46,322 posts)
10. Except this is an aunt.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:55 PM
Aug 2013

Woman probably hasn't seen the guy in 10 years.
(I have aunts I haven't seen for longer.)

The woman (who was nowhere NEAR the incident, BTW,) claims all the cops are lying, guy didn't have a gun.

 

GiaGiovanni

(1,247 posts)
11. So, an aunt is an aunt.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:57 PM
Aug 2013

And you don't know how close she was to this kid. She might have been helping to raise him.

BainsBane

(53,031 posts)
41. Why do you believe the police version of events?
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:23 PM
Aug 2013

It's not like there haven't been numerous instances of police lying in these situations.

allin99

(894 posts)
2. Families go into deep denial about this stuff...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:40 PM
Aug 2013

spouses of rapists and murders who are convinced that their spouses didn't do it. It's just a brain shut down of some kind.

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
7. The article says they don't know what happened yet...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:49 PM
Aug 2013

But you have to label the kid a thug... That is fucked up.

Archae

(46,322 posts)
9. Three points...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 02:52 PM
Aug 2013

1. Guy already has a record for trying to kill with a gun.

2. Article shows photo of the guy's gun he was using in this incident.
Gun has been fired.

3. Guy refused to put gun down, and shot at cops.

"Don't know what happened?"
It OBVIOUS what happened.

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
12. ahhh...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 03:03 PM
Aug 2013

You have enough of the story to be ok with killing a 14 year old... I only have enough to think it's fucked up.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
20. Wrong.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:07 PM
Aug 2013

The kid he was shooting AT was the one being chased. If you watch the surveillance vid you can see the start of the whole thing. The guy is just standing on the corner and the shooter pulls out a gun and starts firing. The guy runs away from the shooter and the shooter takes off after him. Shooting.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
23. Youre reading it wrong. I'll spell it out.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:16 PM
Aug 2013

Police said the officers saw a male being chased by a suspect, who was carrying a 9mm semiautomatic handgun, and who then tried to shoot at the other male. Police have released surveillance video of that incident.


*the "suspect" is the 14 year old shooter

and

As CBS 2’s Dana Tyler reported, Kelly a news conference late Sunday afternoon offered his condolences to Dose’s mother, Shanise Farar. He added that police do not know why he was chasing the would-be victim and firing in the street.

“We don’t know why he was shooting,” Kelly said. “Shaaliver lives 20 blocks — no, more than that, 30 blocks – away.”


*"he" is the 14 year old shooter
 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
28. Yeah. Youre right.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:29 PM
Aug 2013

The cops should have just stood by and done nothing while the little angel ran down the street shooting at people. Gimme a friggin break.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
31. Your reading comprehension skills suck.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:42 PM
Aug 2013

Heres a tip: When your running down the street firing a gun at another person and the police tell you to drop the weapon you fucking drop the weapon. ANYBODY in that situation would get shot and ANYBODY with half a brain knows that.

The cops had no way of knowing he had a record because he wasn't identified. Do you even care about the OTHER young black man he was trying to kill?

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
32. ok... i'll believe killing is always fine...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:49 PM
Aug 2013

Even when it's admitted not all the facts are in... YAY for dead kids!

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
39. Yeah.. Lets kill more...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:05 PM
Aug 2013

Should we start with the rest of the 14 year olds with a record in NY? They are all just 'thugs' anyway... Sound good?

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
43. I prefer knowing all the facts before I approve of killing 14 year olds
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:34 PM
Aug 2013

I guess some are good with it as long as it's a 'thug'.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
45. The pertinent facts are in.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:42 PM
Aug 2013

You just refuse to see them. By the way... nice post on the "fucking crazy assed people" shooting in your neighborhood. I especially like this part:


I don't know what else to add to that... I think I'm going to take a small hiatus, I really just don't want to look at the fools posting who think their right to kill out weighs people right to live and I certainly don't feel like arguing with their stupid.


My, my. How quickly your views have changed.
 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
54. Is that because only black kids are thugs in your mind?
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:08 PM
Aug 2013

Hmmm. Thats telling.

Oh and by the way, Im not the using that word. You are.

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
56. The op decided to use the term...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:14 PM
Aug 2013

You just happen to agree it is good a black kid is dead before the facts are all in.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
58. And because you think all thugs are black...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:23 PM
Aug 2013

the term "thug" is racist. Got it. And please provide a link to where I said "its good a black kid is dead". You cant. Facts are your friends, Joe. I hope you learn to recognize them one day.

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
62. heh, 'facts'... I thought you did not need them
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:34 PM
Aug 2013

Or is that only with dead kids? You know... What you are defending here.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
40. No kidding!
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:21 PM
Aug 2013

But wait! We mustn't pass judgement yet. Im sure they'll be some mitigating circumstance that will make what the little angel did ok. All the little angel had to do was drop the damn gun and this story would have ended differently. How or why anyone would defend what this kid did is beyond me. He could have killed any number of people that night.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
44. Well, some people's reactions might differ
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:34 PM
Aug 2013

based on how close to home the shooting is taking place.
"Fucking crazy ass people"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002979928

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
47. Yes... Condeming mass murder is the same...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:53 PM
Aug 2013

As not passing judgement on a dead 'thug' while the facts are still out That people were murdered by a nut was beyond question... And somehow I managed to express myself without sounding racist or calling for more death.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
57. My point
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:19 PM
Aug 2013

You showed concern for the innocent people at the theater. In this case, you don't show any concern for the guy being shot at, the other people on the street, or people in nearby homes. You seem to think the cops should have just let him continue on his shooting rampage.

Is it racist to be concerned about the safety of the innocent people in that neighborhood?

Ohio Joe

(21,754 posts)
60. Without all the facts I am concerned with the dead
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:26 PM
Aug 2013

Not cheering that he is dead is not being unconcerned about what might have been.

Tien1985

(920 posts)
18. I don't know much about
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 03:36 PM
Aug 2013

This story in particular, and I'm certainly not defending going around shooting at people (cops obviously included).

But, it's his Aunt. Sure that's a whole lot of denial. I like to think that I wouldn't go over the deep end in denial but I would be heartbroken if this was my niece or nephew. They are babies--and to this Uncle, they will always be my babies, to some extent. I love them unconditionally.

You can't always stop loving someone because they've done something terrible.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
22. Archae, I am close to 60 yrs old and still my Mother's baby
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:14 PM
Aug 2013

The kid's aunt is crying for that sweet little boy she loves. Whether she lost him when he went into the thug life or lost him to the cops is not much different to her right now.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
30. does calling a 14 year old a thug repeatedly make you feel tougher?
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:37 PM
Aug 2013

i am not saying the cops were wrong to shoot, maybe they were perfectly justified but calling a 14 year old a thug repeatedly makes you seem like an immature internet bully

Archae

(46,322 posts)
33. Let's see, tried killing another person, was shooting at someone, and shot at cops.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:53 PM
Aug 2013

But, I guess that isn't a thug.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
35. I dunno, I just read about some guy the blew up his dog.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 04:54 PM
Aug 2013

Some really disturbed people out there.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
48. I try to remember this in my quest to be a more forgiving person
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 05:54 PM
Aug 2013

Every criminal was once someone's baby, and may still be someone's baby. Every criminal has a mother, and that criminal's mother, regardless of the parenting job she did, may love him or her very dearly. So yeah, the family can be in denial about the kid's crimes, but that child was also someone's baby.

A passage from the book A Tree Grows In Brooklyn is what originally started me thinking on this subject:

Francine stared at the old man....Dried spittle caked the corners of his mouth. He yawned. He had no teeth. She watched, fascinated and revolted, as he closed his mouth, drew his lips inward until there was no mouth, and made his chin come up to almost meet his nose....Her thoughts ran..."He was a baby once. He must have been sweet and clean and his mother kissed his little pink toes. Maybe when it thundered at night she came to his crib and fixed his blanket better and whispered that he mustn't be afraid, that mother was there. Then she picked him up and put her cheek on his head and said that he was her own sweet baby."


That particular passage struck something deep within me all those years ago, and has stayed with me. I think of it often, reminding myself that everybody everywhere was once an innocent baby, and is somebody's baby, and has somebody somewhere who loves them. Regardless of their crimes and transgressions.

wercal

(1,370 posts)
55. Everybody may start out as a baby...but some turn into very evil beings
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:13 PM
Aug 2013

Sure, these teenagers running around with illegal guns under their shirts, and shooting at other human beings are somebody's baby.

But odds are that somebody didn't take parenting very seriously, and let their baby develop into a heartless, evil, narcissistic, greedy, lump of bone and flesh that has absolutely no feelings for the feelings or pain of others.

Its tragic...and I simultaneously feel pity for these babies, along with great distrust and fear. Its not their fault they were raised like an abandoned piece of livestock...but they are very, very dangerous now.

But I take great umbrage when the parent/aunt/relative of these babies cry their crocodile tears. If they actually cared one bit about their babies, they wouldn't let them run around and participate in the killing zones that our urban areas have become.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
61. I agree about the part with the croc tears, yes.
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:32 PM
Aug 2013

I guess I'm just saying that this kid did have humanity in him, and I just am not yet willing to chalk him up as nothing more than a thug or lump of flesh just yet. It doesn't mean I think his actions were right, or that there is an excuse for them. It just means, I dunno, that I'm trying very very hard to become more forgiving of people as a whole, and this is part of that quest for me personally. I'm not trying to demean anyone's feelings regarding the matter, just trying to cast it in a different light I guess. I dunno. *shrug*

wercal

(1,370 posts)
65. Sadly, I think he was already there
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 07:04 PM
Aug 2013

I get very, very cynical when I look at the pattern of crime in my city. Every time there is a particularly vicious crime, the story is the same - the perpetrator has been in and out of the prison system since his teen years, having been given multiple second chances in the form of parole or leniency....and they continue to prey on their fellow man with absolutely no compassion...until they commit the 'big' crime - the example I think of most is a guy who fits this profile, and raped an 85 year old woman in my town.

You say you want to be more forgiving.....doesn't a person have to show contrition and want forgiveness first. If the report on this story is true, I don't think this kid was in the mood to ask anybody for forgiveness. He got away with one shooting, because he couldn't be positively identified....so what did he do? Did he count his blessings and try to straighten out his life? No - he went out and shot at more people. Again its sad, but he was well on his way to destruction...and odds are that he would have hurt somebody severely along the way.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
59. Archae, what's wrong with you that you expect an aunt to call her
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:26 PM
Aug 2013

dead 14 y/o nephew a thug just after he was killed? Families don't do that. They love unconditionally.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
64. Mo gunz...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:42 PM
Aug 2013

Mo gunz...Mo gunz...Mo gunz...


... maybe if we get enough, there won't be any thugs!

And everything will be Happy Happy Joy Joy.


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