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If You Are Broke, Hungry, Sick Or Poor YOUR LOCAL CHURCH WILL PROVIDE! (Original Post) TheMastersNemesis Aug 2013 OP
My old frig broke down in 2005 and I contacted a local church program that was supposed to help. Mnemosyne Aug 2013 #1
Sounds weird they need your ss number SummerSnow Aug 2013 #2
They gave me no explanation either. The lady was upset when I refused. I wondered if they were Mnemosyne Aug 2013 #3
Sounds like it to me. SummerSnow Aug 2013 #5
So much for churches helping on their own. nt Mnemosyne Aug 2013 #9
You wanted a luxury item Politicalboi Aug 2013 #26
I am a greedy heretic. The week of food poisoning proved it's a luxury item. Mnemosyne Aug 2013 #34
Haha. jwirr Aug 2013 #4
I know that my own church does so, to the liberalhistorian Aug 2013 #6
Many of the churches who do this have a money problem and struggle Cleita Aug 2013 #7
One of the homeless shelters downtown is particularly ugly about this NuclearDem Aug 2013 #8
They will only help you if you let them brainwash you. kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #10
An old man once told me.. Frosty1 Aug 2013 #17
. hunter Aug 2013 #11
Thank You for posting this! Frosty1 Aug 2013 #15
That's what social services at our community churches look like. hunter Aug 2013 #20
My church does it once a week TrogL Aug 2013 #12
Lots of churches do; it's just an inefficient way to approach the problem Recursion Aug 2013 #13
I miss G4A Puzzledtraveller Aug 2013 #14
Hillary 45 will win in 2016 and 2020. Michelle Obama will be elected in 2024 and 2028... madinmaryland Aug 2013 #27
HAHA!! Puzzledtraveller Aug 2013 #32
It is a bandaid approach to systemic problems. Lars39 Aug 2013 #16
If that were true we would have no homeless. rhett o rick Aug 2013 #18
If they think that is even remotely true LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #19
Yeah, all you need to do is read Angela's Ashes or see the movie. You'll see how much the church stevenleser Aug 2013 #21
We were just helped by the Church Tree-Hugger Aug 2013 #22
Yep, you can see this first hand in the desperate faces of the destitute Zorra Aug 2013 #23
Churches do a LOT more than most realize joeglow3 Aug 2013 #24
We need all of the safety nets we can create. NCTraveler Aug 2013 #25
Even the most well-meaning, generous churches don't have the resources The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2013 #28
I haven't heard that in years. factsarenotfair Aug 2013 #29
No private charity or church will EVER have the money or resources government has duffyduff Aug 2013 #30
Some will, some won't xmas74 Aug 2013 #31
my mother was our churches bookkeeper and was on the financial committee madrchsod Aug 2013 #33
A good friend relied on his church to help out after a divorce dbackjon Aug 2013 #35

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
1. My old frig broke down in 2005 and I contacted a local church program that was supposed to help.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 09:07 AM
Aug 2013

They wanted my SS#, which I refused to give, and then offered me a discount on another frig. that would cost $150. I did not have it. My mother ended up buying me another used one for $100.

Why the hell did they need my SS# to give me a frig?

I was not impressed.

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
3. They gave me no explanation either. The lady was upset when I refused. I wondered if they were
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 09:11 AM
Aug 2013

receiving some funding from the gov.

Seriously wrong.

liberalhistorian

(20,814 posts)
6. I know that my own church does so, to the
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 10:11 AM
Aug 2013

best of its ability, and the members, elders and leaders try their best to meet the needs of our rural community however much we can, regardless of whether they're church members or even churchgoers or not. We have a "benevolence" fund that we take collections for each month and then use for the needs of people in the community, and agencies that help people in need. But we aren't made of money and we can't do it all. No church, however willing, can meet all the needs of a community.

And those are the key words, however willing. Because, while there are many churches/temples/mosques, etc., that are quite willing to do whatever they can for people, and for those who may not even be members or religious, there are plenty of others who are not interested in such a thing, who think their only purpose is to build up riches for themselves. Or they're too judgmental in their "help", or demand that people attend services or listen to sermons before receiving help, etc., etc. That is why relying solely on churches and faith-based assistance will never completely work in this society, or any other, for that matter. It never has and it never will.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
7. Many of the churches who do this have a money problem and struggle
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 10:21 AM
Aug 2013

to provide for the needy. The churches who do have the money, instead try to put people on drug programs, and won't spend a penny on the necessities people need because of the old bootstrap and teaching someone to fish platitudes. I had an argument with the pastor of one of those fundy mega churches recently. I told him, not all poverty was due to drugs and alcohol, that the drugs and alcohol were symptoms of the real problem of people slipping through the cracks in our society making them homeless, poor and despondent over their condition. Many, who have mental or physical disabilities will need assistance all their lives and accusing them of drug and alcohol use is simply avoiding the real issue, the need for government social programs and the taxation of the wealthy to pay for them.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
8. One of the homeless shelters downtown is particularly ugly about this
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 10:26 AM
Aug 2013

They'll give a homeless person a bed for a while, on the condition they attend church services there.

Muslims do that on the other side of the world and we call them madrasas. We do it here, and it's charity.

Frosty1

(1,823 posts)
17. An old man once told me..
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 11:14 AM
Aug 2013

If you want help go to a prostitute or a poor person, you will get more help from them than from a church.

This guy was a 12 year old orphan who was cast out onto the streets during the great depression.

hunter

(38,304 posts)
20. That's what social services at our community churches look like.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 01:11 PM
Aug 2013

It's very sad.

If the U.S.A. had adequate social safety nets, the situation wouldn't be so horrible.

For a fraction of what our military and prison systems cost we could provide safe shelter, good food, and appropriate medical care to anyone who needs it, for as long as they need it.

What we've got now is the worst possible system. We throw petty non violent criminals into the prison system and turn them into hardened criminals. We cycle people with minor mental health and addiction issues into "emergency" services, patch them up, and then throw them back out onto the mean streets repeatedly until their minds and bodies fail catastrophically.

The problem is bigger than any charity can deal with, religious or not.

TrogL

(32,818 posts)
12. My church does it once a week
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 10:39 AM
Aug 2013

We have a once weekly meal and can arrange access to social services. That's all we can afford as a small church and we're doing more than most of the larger churches on the area

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
13. Lots of churches do; it's just an inefficient way to approach the problem
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 10:42 AM
Aug 2013

Private charity will always play a role in our safety net (and that's a good thing), but they're not going to be good at meeting widespread and systemic problems.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
18. If that were true we would have no homeless.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 11:16 AM
Aug 2013

I volunteer at a local foodbank and the local churches (small ones) do a lot of helping. But they are getting their resources from people that are not capable of donating large amounts.

Support your local foodbank with cash, food, and/or time donations.

LostOne4Ever

(9,286 posts)
19. If they think that is even remotely true
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 11:26 AM
Aug 2013

Then they are more delusional than I thought.

And I think they are all schizophrenic sociopaths with god complexes as it is!!!

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
21. Yeah, all you need to do is read Angela's Ashes or see the movie. You'll see how much the church
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 01:12 PM
Aug 2013

will help.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
22. We were just helped by the Church
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 01:19 PM
Aug 2013

We contacted the St. Vincent de Paul society of our local Catholic church. They were able to give us $390.00 towards our rent last month. They were very apologetic because they couldn't give more. They are stretched very thin currently. St. Vincent de Paul is no strings attached. No prayers or service attendance required. They also sat and brainstormed with us regarding expenses, finding jobs, etc. They have been in contact to provide links to job postings.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
23. Yep, you can see this first hand in the desperate faces of the destitute
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 01:23 PM
Aug 2013

in Third World countries where there is inadequate or no safety net.

Just look into the eyes of any skeletal blind woman as she begs for monedas on the street sometime.

Then the truth of just how wonderful not having a safety net and depending on churches would be for America.

 

joeglow3

(6,228 posts)
24. Churches do a LOT more than most realize
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 02:01 PM
Aug 2013

5 or 6 years ago, the local paper did a story on real estate in the run down part of town. Basically, a new house build in these neighborhoods was immediately worth 90% of the cost. Thus, why would anyone in their right mind build a house with a 10% built in loss on day one?

Given this challenge, we are reliant of government/charities building new houses to stop the neighborhoods from going further downhill (or, hopefully, increase the value of the nighborhood). These are not actual numbers (I can't remember the exact numbers), but they summarized who build houses over the last 10 years and it was around -

10-20 Habit for Humanity
5-10 HUD
well over 100 - Catholic Charities.

We obviously need a mix of public and private charities, but many churches do a lot of no strings attached charity work. I am the Treasurer in our church's Men's Club and we donate about 20-25% of what we make in a year (about $30,000) to individuals outside of the parish/school, with no regard to their religious views (or lack thereof).

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
25. We need all of the safety nets we can create.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 02:11 PM
Aug 2013

Government, church, and other groups are very important in society.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,615 posts)
28. Even the most well-meaning, generous churches don't have the resources
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 02:19 PM
Aug 2013

to help everybody in their congregation. Suppose a parishioner with no health insurance needed surgery and would likely die without it, so he asks his church for help (because the GOPers say that's what you ought to do). Major surgery and associated costs will often set you back $100K or more; that's the annual budget of a lot of smaller churches. So how are they supposed to take care of everybody and still keep their doors open? More bake sales and rummage sales?

 

duffyduff

(3,251 posts)
30. No private charity or church will EVER have the money or resources government has
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 02:25 PM
Aug 2013

to help the millions who are destitute.

These libertarian assholes are full of shit, as always.

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
33. my mother was our churches bookkeeper and was on the financial committee
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 02:59 PM
Aug 2013

we are a moderate methodist church that goes back to the early 1800`s. during the 70`s and 80`s the operating budget was around 60,000 a year. the building fund was around the same. running a medium size church built in the late 1800`s is a struggle.

what really pissed my mother off was the tv preachers that took money from all the local churches that could have used the money to provide more services for those in need. to many forget the universal truths

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
35. A good friend relied on his church to help out after a divorce
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:07 PM
Aug 2013

Provided a roof over his head.


Of course, when he was at work, the pastor went through his belonging and threw out anything that was ungodly, like books, cd's, etc.

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