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hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 04:57 PM Aug 2013

Just to be fair - I think these women are spending a ridiculous amount of money on purses:

Jennifer Anniston

http://www.purseblog.com/celebrities/jennifer-aniston-carries-a-tom-ford-bag-on-the-set-of-her-new-movie.html

Miranda Kerr

http://www.pursepage.com/handbags/celebrity-purses/

Jessica Alba, Miranda, Kate Beckinsale, Reese Witherspoon, Kate Bosworth, Nina Dobrev, Elizabeth,

http://www.fabsugar.com/Celebrity-Handbags-Pictures-Shopping-25029724?slide=14&image_nid=25029735

I can see someone spending up to about $250 for a purse they plan on using for 5 or 10 years - just as I can see spending that money on a well made pair of shoes meant to last that long!

What's really sad is the number of people making money trying to tell the rest of us that owning such expensive items should be our goal in life!

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Just to be fair - I think these women are spending a ridiculous amount of money on purses: (Original Post) hedgehog Aug 2013 OP
any woman who considers spending thousands of dollars on a friggin' purse should be slapped silly quinnox Aug 2013 #1
What about all the guys who by Maseratis? Jay Lenos car collection? KittyWampus Aug 2013 #37
what?? Synchronicity, did you say Maseratis? My friend and I were talking about them yesterday quinnox Aug 2013 #39
I agree. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #2
Excellent example! hedgehog Aug 2013 #3
FLOTUS wears both types of clothing , what does it matter ? i spend more JI7 Aug 2013 #9
Thats your choice, and we have the right to disagree with this type of choices. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #13
Buy a knockoff and sponsor a homeless shelter tblue Aug 2013 #4
most of the very very high end bags don't have conspcuous labels JI7 Aug 2013 #6
I can't advocate buying a knockoff Bay Boy Aug 2013 #7
who told you owning that should be a goal in life ? for many 250 dollars on a bag is a luxury JI7 Aug 2013 #5
I dunno. I spend money on stuff I don't need. Throd Aug 2013 #8
.... DainBramaged Aug 2013 #10
If thats what they want to spend mstinamotorcity2 Aug 2013 #11
It's their money. HappyMe Aug 2013 #12
They can indeed spend it how they want darkangel218 Aug 2013 #15
People spend money on stupid HappyMe Aug 2013 #16
Umm.. 36,000 on a bag? darkangel218 Aug 2013 #17
Ummm.. everybody spends money HappyMe Aug 2013 #20
Its a huge difference between what one can do with $10 dollars and $36,000 darkangel218 Aug 2013 #23
Millions wasted on some pieces of clothes or leather darkangel218 Aug 2013 #19
but it's not always about lack of money in some places, with people like Oprah JI7 Aug 2013 #21
Just like the CEOs who receive millions undeservedly darkangel218 Aug 2013 #25
no, they aren't paying enough taxes, but oprah is not like the ceos who get millions JI7 Aug 2013 #27
My point is I and many others disagree with this kind of silly spending. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #28
i don't care for it, but i sometimes buy those overpriced cupcakes JI7 Aug 2013 #32
Yes i do. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #34
i don't care for fashion but there is nothing wrong with it in itself, there is a problem with JI7 Aug 2013 #38
How the hell do you know that any HappyMe Aug 2013 #22
Let me tell you something about Oprah in particular. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #24
that's often about politics of the nations, north koreans went hungry and starved to death JI7 Aug 2013 #29
Yah, because aid would be denied in NK. How about the countries who welcome it?? darkangel218 Aug 2013 #30
and oprah does with the schools she build for girls in africa JI7 Aug 2013 #35
Yah. and she could have built couple of other schools for that money. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #46
and you could be volunteering instead of posting online JI7 Aug 2013 #48
Compared to what i make, i have donated A LOT of money and volunteer hours darkangel218 Aug 2013 #49
the purpose of a purse.. SummerSnow Aug 2013 #14
never threw up in my purse notadmblnd Aug 2013 #36
I threw up in my purse when I was pregnant SummerSnow Aug 2013 #45
I just don't understand the need for 'conspicuous consumption' Siwsan Aug 2013 #18
poor self-esteem, stoked by the very purveyors of such overpriced nonsense. unblock Aug 2013 #33
personally, i think a bag shouldn't cost more than its contents unblock Aug 2013 #26
Im a female, and you Sir are right on! darkangel218 Aug 2013 #31
The older I get, the stupider rich people seem. Meritocracy, my ***! reformist2 Aug 2013 #40
It's their money. They can spend it how they wish. bigwillq Aug 2013 #41
Actually, it is if they brag about what they bought. We have every right to laugh at them. reformist2 Aug 2013 #43
You're free to laugh bigwillq Aug 2013 #44
Ditto. I agree. But even if I had the money, I would not pay $38,000 for a purse. n/t RebelOne Aug 2013 #52
we're much better at criticizing those who make more than we ourselves do, and even better at ration LanternWaste Aug 2013 #42
So being virtuous requires subsidizing outsourced sweatshop labor? BainsBane Aug 2013 #47
One of my best clients is a bag designer... Walk away Aug 2013 #50
I buy vintage! dorkzilla Aug 2013 #51
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
1. any woman who considers spending thousands of dollars on a friggin' purse should be slapped silly
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 04:59 PM
Aug 2013
maybe that will knock some sense into 'em. (I'm joking, folks)
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
39. what?? Synchronicity, did you say Maseratis? My friend and I were talking about them yesterday
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:05 PM
Aug 2013

Personally, they are the car I would buy if I hit the lotto or a bag of gold landed on my head. They are beautiful cars. And guess what, they don't cost a ridiculous amount of money like other high end exotics such as Ferrari or Lamborghini, which can go for 500,000 and higher. You can get a Maserati for 126,000.

Here is a picture of the model I like:

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
2. I agree.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:03 PM
Aug 2013

Its so freaking silly...

This money could be used for a good cause. For someone who is starving. Not making some jerk designer even richer!

Look at FLOTUS, most of the time, she is wearing pretty, but not expensive clothes. Purses or dresses don't make someone. You make the clothes, not viceversa.


Gah.. all this "fashion/designer name" is absolute crap!!

JI7

(89,247 posts)
9. FLOTUS wears both types of clothing , what does it matter ? i spend more
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:13 PM
Aug 2013

money than i need on many things which could go to the poor or be more useful and helping in other ways.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
13. Thats your choice, and we have the right to disagree with this type of choices.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:15 PM
Aug 2013

FLOTUS does wear some expensive ones at times, but most of the time she does not, even though she could afford them.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
4. Buy a knockoff and sponsor a homeless shelter
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:06 PM
Aug 2013

Or just go ahead and flush it down the toilet. Like a fool. I never wear conspicuous designer labels. I'd be embarrassed to appear that vain and shallow.

Bay Boy

(1,689 posts)
7. I can't advocate buying a knockoff
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:11 PM
Aug 2013

that is stealing.

I do wonder how many $35,000 purses are sold every year though.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
5. who told you owning that should be a goal in life ? for many 250 dollars on a bag is a luxury
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:08 PM
Aug 2013

but many women who arne't wealthy like those celebs do buy many bags that are in the hundreds and lower thousands price range.

even if i was wealthy like those celebs i wouldn't spend 38 thousand or probably even a few hundred dollars on a bag just because i don't have much interest in bags.

i would spend more on other things i don't need though. i might actually buy those wayyy overpriced jeans and a bunch of other crap .

but mostly i would travel and i would buy first class tickets to make the flying part more comfortable. i would spend a lot of money on food.

Throd

(7,208 posts)
8. I dunno. I spend money on stuff I don't need.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:13 PM
Aug 2013

I think a 38K handbag is excessive, but Oprah can do what she wants with her money.

mstinamotorcity2

(1,451 posts)
11. If thats what they want to spend
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:14 PM
Aug 2013

their money on then so be it. Designers become famous to sell their items with their signature touch on them. Some of it is ridiculous to the average person. But isn't every fashion designer's dream to be famous and have the whole world buying and wearing their designs.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
20. Ummm.. everybody spends money
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:23 PM
Aug 2013

on stupid things. I'm not only talking about an expensive purse. Some people would say that spending $10 on lottery scratch off tickets is stupid and wasteful.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
23. Its a huge difference between what one can do with $10 dollars and $36,000
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:26 PM
Aug 2013

I just couldn't see it in my heart to do that.

To each their own I guess.

No wonder more people aren't outraged when companies pay their CEOs millions and the average worker cant afford heat.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
19. Millions wasted on some pieces of clothes or leather
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:22 PM
Aug 2013

While millions of people are dying of malnutrition.

No, I will never think that is okay. Because it isn't.

$36,000 could have fed a village in Africa for a whole year. Or even longer.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
21. but it's not always about lack of money in some places, with people like Oprah
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:25 PM
Aug 2013

they could continue buying these expensive things and still pay higher taxes which would make society better for all.

oprah does give a lot of charity.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
25. Just like the CEOs who receive millions undeservedly
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:39 PM
Aug 2013

No big deal, they pay taxes on it. Who cares about the poor and starving, right??

Let me tell you something, J17 This world is not going to change, until people begin to care.

Until then, we are all doomed.

Because the next homeless, hungry person might be you. Or me.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
27. no, they aren't paying enough taxes, but oprah is not like the ceos who get millions
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:44 PM
Aug 2013

after failure . we know how oprah got wealthy.

but she isn't one of those who is preventing taxes from being raised on the wealthy.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
28. My point is I and many others disagree with this kind of silly spending.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:46 PM
Aug 2013

Fashion is nothing but a monster created by the 1%.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
32. i don't care for it, but i sometimes buy those overpriced cupcakes
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:49 PM
Aug 2013

or overpriced drinks and other food. i spend more than i need on some beauty/bath items like shampoo, lotion etc.

oprah has millions of dollars. she gives a lot to charity. but so what if she wants to buy some expensive bag ? you tihnk it's better if she spend it on some cheap item made in a sweatshop ?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
34. Yes i do.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:53 PM
Aug 2013

Because if the FASHION craze didn't exist, sweat shop trying to imitate designers wouldn't exist either!

If I had her millions I would put my actions where my mouth was.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
38. i don't care for fashion but there is nothing wrong with it in itself, there is a problem with
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:59 PM
Aug 2013

sweatshops. even without the fashion industry people still need to wear clothes and buy other things.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
22. How the hell do you know that any
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:25 PM
Aug 2013

of those people don't make substantial contributions to charitable causes?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
24. Let me tell you something about Oprah in particular.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:33 PM
Aug 2013

I received an offer for a free O magazine, and as someone who apreaciated her greatly, I accepted it. The offer was to call and cancel within 30 days if you don't want a subscription.
Of course I did cancel, I couldn't afford it as a full time student. Had confirmation # and everything.
Sure enough next month I receive another magazine and a week later an invoice.
I spent hours trying to get hold of someone who was able to straighten things out.

And even if this didn't happen, I would still think the same. There are still hungry children in the world. How can anyone in good consciousness spend so much money on a label???

JI7

(89,247 posts)
29. that's often about politics of the nations, north koreans went hungry and starved to death
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:46 PM
Aug 2013

because of the piece of shit ruling over there, not because some wealthy celebs bought some expensive bag or other high priced item.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
30. Yah, because aid would be denied in NK. How about the countries who welcome it??
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:48 PM
Aug 2013

Don't tell me that if someone would want to donate $36k they couldn't, because of the way the country was ruled.

LOL!!

JI7

(89,247 posts)
48. and you could be volunteering instead of posting online
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:26 PM
Aug 2013

do you watch sports or go to the movies ? why not use the time and money instead to help out poor people ?

this is just silly.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
49. Compared to what i make, i have donated A LOT of money and volunteer hours
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:35 PM
Aug 2013

Towards the homeless shelters here where I live.

I can no more, since I'm in school fill time atm. But once I finish, I will resume.

Life is too short to be dedicated to selfishness and turning a blind eye to those in need. We only have that much time to help them.

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
14. the purpose of a purse..
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:16 PM
Aug 2013

1. carry your wallet

2. carry your cellphone


3. carry your cosmetics /feminine products


4. clobber a would be criminal



5. throw up in it

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
36. never threw up in my purse
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:57 PM
Aug 2013

I have used it for wallet

cosmetics

personal hygiene products

lunch

spare shoes

and as a garbage can.

Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
18. I just don't understand the need for 'conspicuous consumption'
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:20 PM
Aug 2013

I work with women who spend hundreds and hundreds on shoes, bags, clothes and hair, drive cars with every conceivable gadget. And they live from paycheck to paycheck and have some pretty significant debt. I've never quite figured out who they are trying to impress, or what the hell they are going to do, down the road.

I may not be stylish, but I'm financially solvent and should be able to retire when I want to, instead of when I have to.


unblock

(52,196 posts)
33. poor self-esteem, stoked by the very purveyors of such overpriced nonsense.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:49 PM
Aug 2013

the salesperson for gucci bags will compliment a customer on her cartier jewelery, and the cartier salesperson will compliment a customer on her gucci bag.

some customers just live for those compliments, even from strangers; or rather, people who are briefly chummy with you only because you're paying them huge amounts of money.


me, i can smell a sales pitch a mile away. i shove my puny little money clip deeper into my pocket, turn, and run.

unblock

(52,196 posts)
26. personally, i think a bag shouldn't cost more than its contents
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 05:43 PM
Aug 2013

but then, i'm male, so what do i know....

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
41. It's their money. They can spend it how they wish.
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:07 PM
Aug 2013

It's none of our business what they do with their money.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
44. You're free to laugh
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:17 PM
Aug 2013

I just don't get why folks focus on what other people do with their money.

It's kind of a contradiction.

We, as DEMs, don't want others to tell us what to do with our bodies or in our bedrooms, but yet we're always the first ones to be concerned about what folks do with their money.

Why?

No one really should be concerned with what others do with their money, be it $10 or $40,000.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
42. we're much better at criticizing those who make more than we ourselves do, and even better at ration
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:08 PM
Aug 2013

I imagine the wife of a subsistence farmer in Rwanda feels the very same about my recent purchase of a new lap top computer, or the new bookshelves I bought and assembled, and with the same critique of my useless extravagance which was the equivalent of seven months of work by her and husband...

I'd guess we're much better at criticizing those who make more than we ourselves do, and even better at rationalizing our own excesses...

BainsBane

(53,031 posts)
47. So being virtuous requires subsidizing outsourced sweatshop labor?
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:24 PM
Aug 2013

Because your cut off for a purse means that is exactly where they are going to come from. Buying something made in the US or Europe by craftsmen making a living wage is disgusting, but subsidizing a global system of low wage sweatshop production is virtuous?

What about limits on expenses for electronics, computer games, etc . .. Or is that kind of consumption okay because you choose to spend your money that way? Is it just women who don't have a right to spend the money they earn?


This moral outrage stuff is hypocritical. This whole poutrage is about people wagging their fingers at others while reflecting not one iota on their own consumption or role in the economy or what it is they are even advocating. Some people don't share your desire to subsidize near slave wages in places like China and Bangladesh--modes of consumption that actually produce poverty.

Walk away

(9,494 posts)
50. One of my best clients is a bag designer...
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 06:58 PM
Aug 2013

She charges a fortune for her bags. She is generous to charity and her employees. She pays me well for the services I provide for her.
I hope she keeps selling to whoever want her bags and for as much money as she can get. She isn't hurting anyone and she makes a natural product while providing jobs for many happy people.
I think it's sort of sad that folks hate people who spend and make money. They aren't taking anything from you. You are being robbed blind by big banks and people who make and sell nothing tangible or even remotely useful.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
51. I buy vintage!
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 08:09 PM
Aug 2013

$50 buys me a vintage coach bag, hand stitched and made in the good old USA. I have about 10 of them, one which was a gift, and one I bought for a whopping $1 at a rummage sale. I also have a good deal of American, English and French handbags from the 1950's. My go-to bag is a 5 year old Baggalini, made from recycled plastic bottles.

And I think I'm stylin'!

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