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villager

(26,001 posts)
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:00 PM Aug 2013

"Old Time" DUer PurityofEssence has passed

For you other old time DUers, a note that PurityofEssence has passed.

He was in his middle years, and leaves a loving wife -- and three kids (two teens, one toddler) behind.

We were college pals, during the 70's-to-80's cusp, and had both wound up in L.A. in search of work. We found it in various forms, and hung out quite a bit in our younger days. As life took its course -- work getting busier, marriage (his sustaining, mine eventually ending), kids, etc., we didn't get to see each other nearly as much.

But we always stayed in touch, even if there were stretches of time between phone calls, or get-togethers. We always liked to talk politics, and it was PoE who first told me about a start-up discussion site called "Democratic Underground" that I might like, in terms of finding some "fellow travelers" in those early months/years after the Bush Coup.

I don't believe he made the transition from DU2 to DU3 -- he was getting fed up with the conservative drift of Democratic politics, and how woefully inadequate it was given the enormity of issues we actually face, socially, economically, environmentally, etc.

I will miss the long, emphatic discussions (sometimes when he'd call, I'd put on an ear bud, and we'd chat while I took a long walk around the neighborhood).

I had been thinking it was time to get back in touch with him anyway, when I heard from mutual college friends that he was in the hospital, took a turn for the worse, wound up off life support, and as of the other night, finally crossed over.

Rest easy, Fred. And wherever you are now, keep the bastards honest.

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"Old Time" DUer PurityofEssence has passed (Original Post) villager Aug 2013 OP
may Peace be with his family and friends. xchrom Aug 2013 #1
(((*))) bunnies Aug 2013 #2
I am sorry to hear this... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #3
My thoughts and prayer's for him and his family. n/t 1awake Aug 2013 #4
Devastating News! One of my favorite DUer's ever! :-( devilgrrl Aug 2013 #5
Yeah, I always wished he posted more. That incisor-like wit was how he talked, too. villager Aug 2013 #12
My thoughts are with his famiy Kelvin Mace Aug 2013 #6
He was a good soul Ichingcarpenter Aug 2013 #7
Peace to Fred and his family. Sissyk Aug 2013 #8
I am very sorry to hear this...peace to him and you and his family... joeybee12 Aug 2013 #9
I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and his family. cali Aug 2013 #10
Rip Fred...I remember nadinbrzezinski Aug 2013 #11
Sorry to hear this. Rex Aug 2013 #13
R.I.P. PurityofEssence PowerToThePeople Aug 2013 #14
... Lucinda Aug 2013 #15
my condolences to you shireen Aug 2013 #16
He was one of my favorites, one of the very best DU had to offer. n/t QC Aug 2013 #17
Rest in peace! :( Demo_Chris Aug 2013 #18
r.i.p. Blue_Tires Aug 2013 #19
the name rings a bell - rest easy, indeed. Losses to our DU family always hurt. NRaleighLiberal Aug 2013 #20
I am very sorry about the loss of your friend. femmocrat Aug 2013 #21
Too young. aikoaiko Aug 2013 #22
Absolutely too young. villager Aug 2013 #32
Defnitely too young. avaistheone1 Aug 2013 #61
Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies, Villager. Octafish Aug 2013 #23
He really did, Octafish. villager Aug 2013 #34
Ah, damn. WilliamPitt Aug 2013 #24
Another from the old school moving on.... MADem Aug 2013 #25
... leftstreet Aug 2013 #26
My condolences, villager graywarrior Aug 2013 #27
RIP PoE. Solly Mack Aug 2013 #28
He was brilliant. I am so sad to hear this. Maven Aug 2013 #29
RIP, PurityofEssence noiretextatique Aug 2013 #30
Rest in peace. shenmue Aug 2013 #31
((PurityofEssence)) blm Aug 2013 #33
Thank you, villager... OneGrassRoot Aug 2013 #35
My condolences and deepest sympathies.. Unknown Beatle Aug 2013 #36
wow. thank you for the update. I traded correspondence with him Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #37
He worked in reality shows, indie films, assistant directed, helped produce video games and anime... villager Aug 2013 #41
yes....my few notes back and forth were enlightening. I am sorry for your loss. Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #59
He was a lovely writer and very thoughful contributer to DU. We were lucky to have him with us. chimpymustgo Aug 2013 #108
So sorry to hear that. He was an incredible poster. KoKo Aug 2013 #38
Aw damn progressoid Aug 2013 #39
I am so sorry to hear this! LeftishBrit Aug 2013 #40
My condolences to Fred's Family and Friends. May he rest in peace. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2013 #42
K&R G_j Aug 2013 #43
I remember him well, JitterbugPerfume Aug 2013 #44
Such sad news,villager. Lars39 Aug 2013 #45
sorry to hear that. hobbit709 Aug 2013 #46
RIP - nt Ohio Joe Aug 2013 #47
So sorry to hear that.. kentuck Aug 2013 #48
sorry to hear that JI7 Aug 2013 #49
RIP. nt DesertFlower Aug 2013 #50
I'm so sorry to hear this, too. MrMickeysMom Aug 2013 #51
Sympathies and prayers to the family 47of74 Aug 2013 #52
Swift passage, brother. ladyVet Aug 2013 #53
Condolences to his family, and peace to Dear Fred. nt Ilsa Aug 2013 #54
May he rest in peace. nt Andy823 Aug 2013 #55
Sleep well, Purity Hydra Aug 2013 #56
PurityofEssence RIP. Lint Head Aug 2013 #57
I'm so sorry villager cal04 Aug 2013 #58
I'm sorry to hear this Art_from_Ark Aug 2013 #60
(((((((PurityofEssence))))))) WillyT Aug 2013 #62
I remember him brucefan Aug 2013 #63
Safe passage to alsame Aug 2013 #64
I remember him from the old days. My heart goes out to his family and friends. myrna minx Aug 2013 #65
Sad news Marrah_G Aug 2013 #66
condolences to his family and friends madrchsod Aug 2013 #67
How sad KT2000 Aug 2013 #68
Thank you for this beautiful story and tribute. mountain grammy Aug 2013 #69
He heard you, villager theHandpuppet Aug 2013 #70
Rest easy. blackspade Aug 2013 #71
Very sorry to hear that burnodo Aug 2013 #72
Sorry to hear you lost a long time friend. life long demo Aug 2013 #73
I am very sorry to hear about that. n/t duffyduff Aug 2013 #74
Deepest sympathy to his family and friends malaise Aug 2013 #75
Oh no! :( Starry Messenger Aug 2013 #76
I hope that his family will find love and peace.......I'm so sorry. PDJane Aug 2013 #77
Wow! I remember PoE. Le Taz Hot Aug 2013 #78
Well, you are welcome, Le Taz (and everyone, the kind words). Needless to say, it's a post I never.. villager Aug 2013 #98
I enjoyed many of his posts, particularly those concerning Edwards. spooky3 Aug 2013 #79
Sorry to say Enthusiast Aug 2013 #80
I remember him. I'm so sorry for your & his family's loss... Hekate Aug 2013 #81
It's been a while but I remember PoE denbot Aug 2013 #82
Oh no... Harmony Blue Aug 2013 #83
Sorry for your and DU's loss RainDog Aug 2013 #84
Cross Gently POE. Cooley Hurd Aug 2013 #85
rest in peace dbackjon Aug 2013 #86
I am so sorry to hear about this derby378 Aug 2013 #87
Here's to PurityofEssence Melinda Aug 2013 #88
He was too young lunatica Aug 2013 #89
So very sorry for your loss, and ours. n/t Bossy Monkey Aug 2013 #90
I remember him. Always like the reference to Col. Jack Ripper in his handle. navarth Aug 2013 #91
Exactly. Always thought that was a terrific DU handle, myself villager Aug 2013 #99
"Ice cream, Mandrake? CHILDREN'S ice cream?" nt navarth Aug 2013 #133
A beautiful tribute to a friend emsimon33 Aug 2013 #92
RIP PoE. Condolences to his family & friends.... Little Star Aug 2013 #93
RIP bigwillq Aug 2013 #94
RIP jpak Aug 2013 #95
Very Sorry To Hear That, Sir The Magistrate Aug 2013 #96
k&r... spanone Aug 2013 #97
Very thoughtful of you to post this. dipsydoodle Aug 2013 #100
RIP Purity of Essence! It's always so sad to lose another DUer. Auntie Bush Aug 2013 #101
I am so sorry to hear this. hrmjustin Aug 2013 #102
We will keep up the good fight for him AgingAmerican Aug 2013 #103
Damn...he was sharp as a tack, too. I am sorry to hear this. nt msanthrope Aug 2013 #104
Vaya con Dios, friend. nt Buns_of_Fire Aug 2013 #105
Damn. I'm sorry to hear this. Sorry to lose him! calimary Aug 2013 #106
I'm so sorry to hear this. tblue Aug 2013 #107
RIP "Old timer" you were one of my tutors and an inspiration to this former republican! Rebellious Republican Aug 2013 #109
I'm very sorry for your loss, villager, and his family's. n/t pnwmom Aug 2013 #110
I am so sorry to hear this. LWolf Aug 2013 #111
RIP PoE salin Aug 2013 #112
Sorry to hear it. Too young. I hope his family finds peace and comfort. TwilightGardener Aug 2013 #113
I remember him well. Boomerproud Aug 2013 #114
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. Beacool Aug 2013 #115
rip Liberal_in_LA Aug 2013 #116
Sigh... :-( TheKentuckian Aug 2013 #117
Rest in Peace. So young. madinmaryland Aug 2013 #118
My Condolences mstinamotorcity2 Aug 2013 #119
One of my favorites, RIP Autumn Aug 2013 #120
Condolences to you and his family. Norrin Radd Aug 2013 #121
Here is a great post of his from 2009. madfloridian Aug 2013 #122
That is a great post, and so "Fred" in voice and tone! villager Aug 2013 #123
I remembered it cause I agreed so much with it. madfloridian Aug 2013 #130
That is a small tidbit Harmony Blue Aug 2013 #144
Very sad to hear this. ucrdem Aug 2013 #124
I remember him and his posts. His DU name is among the best of all time. underpants Aug 2013 #125
RIP gopiscrap Aug 2013 #126
I remember him and his posts. laundry_queen Aug 2013 #127
RIP, PurityofEssence. OnyxCollie Aug 2013 #128
Damn. Iggo Aug 2013 #129
That's so sad to hear. Wednesdays Aug 2013 #131
Condolences and Peace to his family and friends....n/t Vadem Aug 2013 #132
Sorry to hear this. AverageJoe90 Aug 2013 #134
I am so sorry. May his family and friends have peace and hope. roguevalley Aug 2013 #135
So, so sorry to read this! JNelson6563 Aug 2013 #136
. Paulie Aug 2013 #137
RIP nt Zorra Aug 2013 #138
RIP my DU friend. Arctic Dave Aug 2013 #139
RIP. Article 42. joshcryer Aug 2013 #140
My heart goes out to the family and friends. skeewee08 Aug 2013 #141
Sorry for your loss RitchieRich Aug 2013 #142
My condolences to his family & friends. CrispyQ Aug 2013 #143
May he rest in peace... KansDem Aug 2013 #145
the problem ..... ewagner Aug 2013 #146
So sorry to hear another of ours has crossed. Rest easy. nolabear Aug 2013 #147
Thanks for the notice. bvar22 Aug 2013 #148
Very sorry to read this news ... slipslidingaway Aug 2013 #149

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,517 posts)
3. I am sorry to hear this...
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:03 PM
Aug 2013

I did not know him at all well, but I recall him.

My condolences to you, and to his family and friends...

devilgrrl

(21,318 posts)
5. Devastating News! One of my favorite DUer's ever! :-(
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:04 PM
Aug 2013

My heart goes out to his family and friends, especially you Villager!

Rest in Peace PurityofEssence

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
12. Yeah, I always wished he posted more. That incisor-like wit was how he talked, too.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:06 PM
Aug 2013

Always loved seeing it in print.

Sometimes, we'd be in the same thread, under our noms de guerre, and we'd wind up getting in touch "off line" to further the discussion...

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
23. Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies, Villager.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:21 PM
Aug 2013

PurityOfEssence helped make DU a great place. The guy knew what is at stake.

Love and Strength to his family and friends. Peace On Earth to All.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
25. Another from the old school moving on....
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:21 PM
Aug 2013

I remember him from the old board. I hope his family can handle the grief--that's awfully young to go; and with children so young.

Maven

(10,533 posts)
29. He was brilliant. I am so sad to hear this.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:30 PM
Aug 2013

I always loved reading his posts. They had eloquence, wit and warmth. This is a big loss for DU.

My condolences to you on the loss of your friend.

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
35. Thank you, villager...
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:37 PM
Aug 2013

My condolences on the loss of your friend.




My thoughts are with his loved ones who remain behind.




Godspeed to PurityofEssence on the next phase of his journey......






 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
37. wow. thank you for the update. I traded correspondence with him
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:40 PM
Aug 2013

and found out he was a fairly successful producer of reality shows in Hollywood.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
41. He worked in reality shows, indie films, assistant directed, helped produce video games and anime...
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:54 PM
Aug 2013

Quite the renaissance man, was Fred.

With a great grasp of history, as well. He was especially conversant with military history.

chimpymustgo

(12,774 posts)
108. He was a lovely writer and very thoughful contributer to DU. We were lucky to have him with us.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 07:21 PM
Aug 2013

Thank you villager, for sharing the sad news. Condolences to you, and to his family.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
38. So sorry to hear that. He was an incredible poster.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 02:44 PM
Aug 2013

I would save his posts to read over again, because they were so insightful.

Condolences to his family and to you.

Lars39

(26,106 posts)
45. Such sad news,villager.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 03:17 PM
Aug 2013

My deepest condolences to you and other friends and family.
He will be greatly missed.He meant a lot to a lot of DUers

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
51. I'm so sorry to hear this, too.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 03:27 PM
Aug 2013

I have no memory, but yours, which was so warm to hear, and I'm so sorry for this loss to DU... Too many through the years that I didn't connect with. I had hoped DU3 would have married DU2, as I'm fond of saying...

RIP PurityoEssence (light) ...

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
67. condolences to his family and friends
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:07 PM
Aug 2013

i do remember him from the old du.

another good man gone to soon....

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
68. How sad
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:10 PM
Aug 2013

at such a young age too. I do remember his posts.
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. Peace to his family and loved ones.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
70. He heard you, villager
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:17 PM
Aug 2013

Beautiful tribute.

Sincere condolences to his family and what must be his many friends.

life long demo

(1,113 posts)
73. Sorry to hear you lost a long time friend.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:20 PM
Aug 2013

Reminds me of a friend I have, we talk maybe once or twice a year now. Been friends since early 70's, but it's like you just pick up from where you left off. I think I'll call her.

Prayers and hugs to you and to Fred's family.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
76. Oh no! :(
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:28 PM
Aug 2013

I was just thinking of his posts the other day and wondering about him. Very sad news.

Thank for you that wonderful tribute to your friend. Peace to the friends and family of PoE. A loss to everyone.

:hugs:

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
78. Wow! I remember PoE.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:38 PM
Aug 2013

Deepest condolences to his friends and family. Thank you for notifying DU, villager.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
98. Well, you are welcome, Le Taz (and everyone, the kind words). Needless to say, it's a post I never..
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 06:47 PM
Aug 2013

...anticipated writing, back when he was letting me know about new/little-known DU.

Or certainly, were I to imagine writing it, not for another handful of decades...

spooky3

(34,403 posts)
79. I enjoyed many of his posts, particularly those concerning Edwards.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 04:38 PM
Aug 2013

May he RIP and condolences to you on your loss.

Melinda

(5,465 posts)
88. Here's to PurityofEssence
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 05:37 PM
Aug 2013

A good man, a faithful friend, a beloved and respected DUer.... A toast to you, Fred - we'll long remember sharing this time and space with you. You'll not be forgotten. Peace and love everlasting.. your DU family raises a glass in your honor.

- Melinda

navarth

(5,927 posts)
91. I remember him. Always like the reference to Col. Jack Ripper in his handle.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 06:21 PM
Aug 2013

cross gently, bro. you will be missed.

calimary

(81,107 posts)
106. Damn. I'm sorry to hear this. Sorry to lose him!
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 07:13 PM
Aug 2013

I was wondering what had happened to him - hadn't seen posts from him in awhile.

We've lost quite a few great ones.

Thanks for letting us know, villager. Safe passage, PurityofEssence, wherever you are.

salin

(48,955 posts)
112. RIP PoE
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 07:30 PM
Aug 2013

Greatly appreciated our exchanges. May peace be with those who love you, and bring them comfort.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
115. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 08:17 PM
Aug 2013

My condolences and prayers to Fred's family.

May he rest in peace.

mstinamotorcity2

(1,451 posts)
119. My Condolences
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 08:33 PM
Aug 2013

to the Family. Will keep a faith based signal going for them. He will be truly missed!!! Peace unto him from MsTinamotorcity.

underpants

(182,603 posts)
125. I remember him and his posts. His DU name is among the best of all time.
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 09:58 PM
Aug 2013

Thank you Fred.

and thank you villager for letting us know.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
134. Sorry to hear this.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 01:06 AM
Aug 2013

Seems like a real cool guy. R.I.P. Fred. Hope you're having fun in the afterlife...or another world....or whatever the case might be.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
136. So, so sorry to read this!
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 01:24 AM
Aug 2013

I really enjoyed his posts, thought he was awesome! A class act.

Sincere condolences to his family & friends! Thank you for sharing this news with us.



Julie

ewagner

(18,964 posts)
146. the problem .....
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 01:01 PM
Aug 2013

...with being "one of the few"...is that we keep becoming increasingly fewer"...stole that line from "The Longest Day"...but it seems appropriate for us DU "old timers"....

RIP Friend.

slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
149. Very sorry to read this news ...
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 11:14 PM
Aug 2013

condolences to his family and friends and may the good memories ease the pain in the coming months.



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