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stopbush

(24,396 posts)
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 10:38 PM Aug 2013

Update: Out Of Work 2.5 Years, UI Benefits Just Expired, BUT - Big Job Interview Tomorrow

Last edited Wed Aug 21, 2013, 12:57 AM - Edit history (1)

I've actually been out of work since January of 2011. My 4th and final Fed unemployment benefit extension just ran out last week (after the weekly benefit being cut from $450 to $368 a few months ago thanks to the sequester).

I've been interviewing with some consistency over that period, but at age 58, I'm afraid that ageism is the major hurdle that has kept me from being hired.

However, the ageism issue was handled during the phone interviews for this latest prospective position. Tomorrow, I meet for a face-to-face interview. I have a very good feeling about this one.

Looking for support anywhere I can get it. So, how about it, DU buds?

Update 8/20: The interview went great. The scheduled one hour interview turned into 2 hrs - including being treated to lunch. After lunch, was taken to meet and say hi to the CEO and that turned into an hour-plus discussion as well. Everything seemed very positive.

I have a very good feeling about this. Plus, it's a job I would really like to do.

Fingers crossed big time.

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Update: Out Of Work 2.5 Years, UI Benefits Just Expired, BUT - Big Job Interview Tomorrow (Original Post) stopbush Aug 2013 OP
YOU GOT IT, stopbush!!! elleng Aug 2013 #1
Thanks! stopbush Aug 2013 #3
Good that you've been doing volunteer work, elleng Aug 2013 #13
Good luck!! one_voice Aug 2013 #2
Best of luck. enlightenment Aug 2013 #4
Sending good vibes your way TDale313 Aug 2013 #5
Wishing you absolutely the best luck with your interview.. nenagh Aug 2013 #6
Good luck dflprincess Aug 2013 #7
Thanks for the good thoughts. stopbush Aug 2013 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Adam051188 Aug 2013 #8
Good luck! You might think about spending a little time tonight Tanuki Aug 2013 #10
Good luck! BuelahWitch Aug 2013 #11
Best of luck!! greytdemocrat Aug 2013 #12
Sending good luck and good vibes your way! nt octoberlib Aug 2013 #14
Good luck to you. TexasTowelie Aug 2013 #15
Break a leg, stopbush!! Ace that interview! Nay Aug 2013 #16
good luck, keep applying while you are waiting to hear Liberal_in_LA Aug 2013 #17
looking forward to hearing all about your new job tomorrow. best of luck. niyad Aug 2013 #18
It's an over-the-fence home run, Stopbush takes a victory lap around the bases! NBachers Aug 2013 #19
Your positive vibe just makes me feel good TxDemChem Aug 2013 #28
Fingers crossed, toes too. Good luck on your interview, stopbush! sueh Aug 2013 #20
May the outcome be in your favor! Best of luck, stopbush! nt Mnemosyne Aug 2013 #21
Good luck, man. AverageJoe90 Aug 2013 #22
The best of luck to you, stop bush! pnwmom Aug 2013 #23
(((((Vibes about the job))))) Brigid Aug 2013 #24
Best of luck from this Red sox fan to a Yankee fan (world peace!) NRaleighLiberal Aug 2013 #25
Good luck! TxDemChem Aug 2013 #26
My best vibes are on the way! Good luck... snappyturtle Aug 2013 #27
Best of luck. Knock 'em dead. Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #29
been in the same boat you are so ..good luck! madrchsod Aug 2013 #30
GO GET THEM!!!! nadinbrzezinski Aug 2013 #31
Best of luck to you! And I have a feeling... KansDem Aug 2013 #32
Fingers and toes crossed SamKnause Aug 2013 #33
Thanks to everyone for the positive thoughts! stopbush Aug 2013 #34
Good luck davidpdx Aug 2013 #35
I wish you good answers to the questions. Let us know how it goes... n/t jtuck004 Aug 2013 #36
Good luck to you... ljm2002 Aug 2013 #37
fingers crossed quinnox Aug 2013 #38
Good luck! bhikkhu Aug 2013 #39
My son went last week to a job interview. The question that surprised No Vested Interest Aug 2013 #40
Oh, boy...sending the best DU vibes for the interview today! mnhtnbb Aug 2013 #41
sending good vibes from the deep south n/t Iris Aug 2013 #42
Best of luck! Egnever Aug 2013 #43
We're pulling for you. Tell us how it went! Squinch Aug 2013 #44
claiming this job for you noiretextatique Aug 2013 #45
Positive vibes to you! shanti Aug 2013 #46
k&r. and let us know how things went. (Hope well,) nt AnotherDreamWeaver Aug 2013 #47
Prayers and good wishes to you! gopiscrap Aug 2013 #48
Best of luck! badtoworse Aug 2013 #49

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
3. Thanks!
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 10:43 PM
Aug 2013

You know, the worst part about being unemployed for so long is that you KNOW that your talent and experience are going to waste sitting on the sidelines.

I've tried to compensate for that by doing volunteer work. I mean, a LOT of volunteer work. But there's something to be said about earning a paycheck.

dflprincess

(28,076 posts)
7. Good luck
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 10:50 PM
Aug 2013

I was laid off 2-1/2 years ago. This was my 2nd layoff since 2004 and ageism played a part in the first layoff. It took me nearly a year to find a job that time.

This time I did got lucky and find a contract job after only 4 months. And about 9 months after that I found a permanent job -- I was 58 at the time. I just turned 60 and I will admit that sometimes it feels odd being so much older than the rest of the team but that really is coming more from my own feelings that the rest of the group and I keep it to myself.

I think some employers/managers are waking up to the idea that experience is a good thing and older workers tend to be reliable. In my case it probably helped that my manger's manager is close to my age.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
9. Thanks for the good thoughts.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 10:53 PM
Aug 2013

Now, I'm off to deal with one of those volunteer deals I mentioned above.

Response to stopbush (Original post)

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
10. Good luck! You might think about spending a little time tonight
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 10:54 PM
Aug 2013

writing down all the assets you will bring to the position and reasons why you are the right person for the job, and then review it just before you go into the interview. Give yourself all the compliments you richly deserve. I know it can feel very deflating to be without work when you have great skills and talents. You might also think about spending a little time visualizing yourself acing the interview and being happy and fulfilled in the new job. Good on you for spending your time productively and generously by volunteering!

TexasTowelie

(112,171 posts)
15. Good luck to you.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 11:05 PM
Aug 2013

I'm a bit younger, but worked in IT where the unemployment rate is still around 14%. I'm also contending with the fact that I have no transportation and live in a small town where there is only one local employer that has jobs in my field. I just submitted an application with that company and I'm hoping to hear back from them this week. While I'm not disabled, I'm not in physical shape to handle a job requiring a lot of activity due to medical issues that affect my balance and stamina. I doubt that I could remain on my feet if I were to shift to a lower-paying position and the local employers have plenty of better candidates that are better suited for those positions. IOW, I'm over-qualified for many of the jobs that are available through online searches and most only pay about 40% of what I previously earned.

The only asset that I have is the equity of the home of deceased father which has just been listed with a realtor, so I'm hampered to even afford the bus fare and hotel bill if I do get called for an interview out of town.

I hope that you get the job--it's depressing losing one's independence and sense of worthiness no matter one's age.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
22. Good luck, man.
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 12:01 AM
Aug 2013

Been outta work for 5 whole years myself, and I don't see much of a future outside of maybe a couple years of college.....but that'd be about it. Hope you'll have better luck.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
35. Good luck
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 01:20 AM
Aug 2013

I hope you get it. There are so many DUers right now who are still trying to get back on their feet. Clear your mind when you go in and be yourself.

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
37. Good luck to you...
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 01:36 AM
Aug 2013

...that's rough, sounds like this is coming just in time.

Get a good night's sleep and maintain your confidence. I hope it goes well for you!

bhikkhu

(10,715 posts)
39. Good luck!
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 01:58 AM
Aug 2013

Some people live to be 116, so perhaps you've got a whole 'nother half of life left to look forward to! I hope things go well!

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
40. My son went last week to a job interview. The question that surprised
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 01:58 AM
Aug 2013

him was:
"Tell me something funny".
I don't know if he's heard back as yet, though at least one of his references was called.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
45. claiming this job for you
Tue Aug 20, 2013, 04:14 PM
Aug 2013

i was in a similiar spot last year and finally found a job three months after UI was exhausted. best wishes

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