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California Teen Leaves School, Moves in With Former Teacher (Original Post) INdemo Mar 2012 OP
18 is legal to do what they want.. snooper2 Mar 2012 #1
she wasn't 18 when shanti Mar 2012 #7
so unless law enforcement can find or prove something it's a non-case snooper2 Mar 2012 #8
I wonder how he'd feel about his high school age daughter hooking up with her teacher. Liberal_in_LA Mar 2012 #2
Classic case of grooming. nt Snake Alchemist Mar 2012 #3
Pathetic. Fawke Em Mar 2012 #4
paging Jerry Springer Enrique Mar 2012 #5
Unfortunately there is nothing the mother can do Marrah_G Mar 2012 #6
The teacher's a creep. MineralMan Mar 2012 #9
Didn't Newt do this? HockeyMom Mar 2012 #10
One of these days she will wake up.. girl gone mad Mar 2012 #11
She's 18, so nothing can be done. HappyMe Mar 2012 #12
Name? bongbong Mar 2012 #13
He's 41 and she's 18 and my guess is that one day she will tire of him WI_DEM Mar 2012 #14
There's a chance his kids may end up hating him- LeftinOH Mar 2012 #15

shanti

(21,675 posts)
7. she wasn't 18 when
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:10 PM
Mar 2012

the affair started, most likely. i had a hs girlfriend who did this too, he left his wife for her. she kept her lip zipped about it, because i didn't even know about it until almost graduation. they are still married 40 years later and very rightwing xtians.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
8. so unless law enforcement can find or prove something it's a non-case
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:19 PM
Mar 2012

If it was my daughter I would be like, bad choice, you are going to fuck up your life ( or at least part of it )...
I saved all this money for you to go to college and now I guess we'll just have to buy a boat with it or something

This girls mom appears to have gone apeshit over the news though LOL. I wonder what Thanksgiving will be like

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
6. Unfortunately there is nothing the mother can do
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:07 PM
Mar 2012

I know her pain. The best thing she can do is stop fighting it and just wait. Either the two will live happily ever after, or the daughter will come home when it falls apart.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
9. The teacher's a creep.
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:20 PM
Mar 2012

It may not be illegal, and there may be no punishment, but he's a creep, nevertheless. Most male high school teachers deal with student crushes on them from time to time. The only proper response is a gentle, but firm rejection of any relationship beyond the teacher-student relationship. In my opinion, the same applies to college students and professors or instructors. It's ethically inappropriate. Period.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
10. Didn't Newt do this?
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:29 PM
Mar 2012

with his female teacher? You cannot say it is wrong for one gender but not the other. It has to be wrong for BOTH genders.

girl gone mad

(20,634 posts)
11. One of these days she will wake up..
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:37 PM
Mar 2012

look at the rapidly aging man in bed next to her and realize she could do a lot better. It isn't like the relationship was built on mutual love and respect.

WI_DEM

(33,497 posts)
14. He's 41 and she's 18 and my guess is that one day she will tire of him
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 04:03 PM
Mar 2012

and move on. And he'll be alone for the time being having left his wife and family to move in with her. That is until he can find, maybe, another student to move in with him.

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