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There wasnt much left by the time she arrived, just a burnt-out structure and the haze of smoke that lingered around it.
The siding and gutters had melted. The roof was gone. Inside, piles of ash filled the rooms that had once bustled with the pleasant sounds of a family.
That morning last April when Melinda Coleman received word that emergency vehicles were gathering around her Maryville house, she had hoped for the best.
But if the events of the past year and a half had taught her anything, it was that when the town of Maryville was involved, that seemed unlikely.
Since the morning her daughter had been left nearly unconscious in the frost of the homes front lawn, this northwest Missouri community had come to mean little besides heartache.
Few dispute the basic facts of what happened in the early morning hours of Jan. 8, 2012: A high school senior had sex with Colemans 14-year-old daughter, another boy did the same with her daughters 13-year-old friend, and a third student video-recorded one of the bedding scenes. Interviews and evidence initially supported the felony and misdemeanor charges that followed.
Yet, two months later, the Nodaway County prosecutor dropped the felony cases against the youths, one the grandson of a longtime area political figure.
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http://m.kansascity.com/kcstar/db_41535/contentdetail.htm?contentguid=rbbyEDTJ&storycount=19&detailindex=3&pn=&ps=#
RandySF
(58,884 posts)Much of this country is seriously fucked up.
a la izquierda
(11,795 posts)And I totally agree. Get me the hell out of here.
historylovr
(1,557 posts)Such a pretty euphemism for rape. And the mother of the victim's house is the one burned down. Nice.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Are you fucking kidding me?
Bigmack
(8,020 posts)... only with a lot less romance and a lot more screaming.
cvoogt
(949 posts)doesn't make the article's writers look any smarter / moral either. Sickening. Can't believe I share a planet with people who euphemize such things, in fact revel in it. We really, really need to send some people (the bad ones!) to Mars, and soon.
roamer65
(36,745 posts)GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)Savannahmann
(3,891 posts)xmas74
(29,674 posts)I just haven't had a chance to sit down and read the paper today.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)and found out that he's attending college in my town. I looked up his FB page and just realized that I recognized him.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)And the mother who says their "boys" deserve an apology? FUCK you mom...you've done a horrible job.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)roamer65
(36,745 posts)Looks like a Steubenville, but far worse.
Hong Kong Cavalier
(4,573 posts)Shrike47
(6,913 posts)And sad.
alarimer
(16,245 posts)Why the hell can't the reporters get that straight?
No wonder people don't go to the police when they are raped, because the police don't help. In this case, they initially did the right thing, then bowed to pressure from somewhere to drop the charged.
The family was subjected to a campaign of harassment and intimidation.
This case embodies all that is wrong with small town.
"Small-town" American is an oppressive, unAmerican place, where influence rules and everyone is is everyone else's business.
Small-town people are the most hateful, the most bigoted, the most unenlightened people in this country. Small-town values are not values I admire in the least.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)For sexual assault. Because she's busy protecting the good old boys.
If a victim acts like a typical victim, she(yes, she's an elected District Attorney) won't bring it before a grand jury.
http://www.dshs.state.tx.us/mt_mtenforcement.shtm
Scroll down to "John Phillips, Massage Therapist, MT002614"
He voluntarily surrendered his license but that just means he can still sexually assault women, he just can't charge them money for it and call it a "massage".
jtuck004
(15,882 posts)there another venue?
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)gollygee
(22,336 posts)I'm horrified and at the same time not surprised.
LostOne4Ever
(9,289 posts)The family must have some recourse to get justice
xmas74
(29,674 posts)It's showing up all over FB right now and quite a few students I know are already commenting that they know the guy.
This is going to get uglier.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)This will follow this asshole for the rest of his life. Good.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)as a caution.
He might as well pack up and drop out.
mythology
(9,527 posts)It's good that this case is getting publicity. Hopefully the appropriate charges will be filed and, if convicted, sentenced to some serious jail time. I can't believe that sex with a 14 year old isn't a crime in general, much less one that's passed out and then to be left outside like that. Yeah, there's not much that qualifies as human presuming the facts are as stated.
And whatever scumbag burned the victim's family's house deserves a significant stint behind bars as well.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)I would say more, but I'm just too sickened and heartbroken to keep going. Just a little bit more faith in humanity lost.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)Here is a link from July with most of these facts. Why the fuck are we, as a nation not spreading this disgusting story like wildfire so we the people can give these fuckwads the treatment they deserve?
http://m.kcur.org/?utm_referrer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%3B_ylt%3DApvILc8xdB9Xk27YmPrYTU8zQVxH%3Ftoggle%3D1%26cop%3Dmss%26ei%3DUTF-8%26.tsrc%3Dyfp-hrmob-901%26p%3Dmaryville%2Brape#mobile/39975
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)The local DA won't prosecute, the state has concluded (per the linked article) that it doesn't have jurisdiction to review the DA's decision, and I really doubt that there's any federal crime involved -- at least not one that the U.S. Attorney would decide to prosecute.
It stinks, but I don't see any chance that any of these guys will be held criminally accountable.
Instead, the two victims and their families should pursue a civil suit. Advantages are: (1) Bringing the suit doesn't require the approval of the local authorities, who are covering up for the locals against the outsiders; and (2) The standard of proof is lower (preponderance of the evidence instead of beyond a reasonable doubt). In light of all the publicity, they should also get the case out of Maryville. I don't know Missouri venue rules, but there's a good chance they can bring the suit where they now live.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)I live in the town where he is attending college and after the KC Star article yesterday his picture is everywhere. It's all over FB and linked all over Twitter.
People in our town now know what he did in Maryville.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)needs to fill that role. otherwise too many are being taught this is acceptable. and owed an apology it appears, for fucking an unconscious girl and putting it on the net to feel like a man....
xmas74
(29,674 posts)The sororities are talking about it and banning him,girls are tweeting and sharing his picture. I even saw a sign on a pole with his picture and rapist written in red. I just received a tweet from someone local that said #justice4daisy.
He has no idea and that was before Anonymous stepped in. One girl I spoke to today said he needed to transfer out because it's over at UCM.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)a nice clear boundary of what is unacceptable.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)It makes the other men on campus realize that the women will only put up with so much before they will get together and turn on them all for improper or illegal behavior.
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)I'm sick of these small town creeps getting away with this!
xmas74
(29,674 posts)Multiple pics of him and everyone asking everyone else to share the info with their friends and family, so you can "identify the rapist running around town by sight".
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)This is fantastic.
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(108,010 posts)But then so was he.
ArcticFox
(1,249 posts)It's what a justice system it's designed to avoid. I'm so surprised we don't see these victims and their families taking the law into their own hands.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)Never mind criticizing me about this cuz I live in one of those towns. I hear all the gossip and the girls seem to be always more at fault than the boys.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)that get off filming and putting out on the nets. i want to know what a boy/man gains putting this shit on the net. fuckin unconscious girls. what is it about this act that makes a man proud, so god damn proud that he puts it out for the world to see. bottomfeeders, every one of them
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)and get away with it teaches them that there are no boundaries. Violence is fun, females aren't people. Use them to act out your chest-beating reptilian-brain urges.
I'm amazed this is only now getting exposure?? The victim's family home was BURNT DOWN??? A raped LITTLE GIRL and her family??
Is this a rural kkkristian town? Of course it is.... if the rural town I used to live in is anything similar, I'd guess at least 5 churches, at least one of them a mega-church, at least 5 bars and a good-old-boy repuke county legislature made up of the biggest CON-servative crooks in town. (My town, they got their stimulus $$$$ and used it to build a super-great town hall. These jackasses who made a little boy's secret club of the barber shop did nothing with that money for the falling apart town.)
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)It wouldn't hurt my feelings if some of the men on campus smacked him around a little. Those poor girls, and their families. I'm thankful they weren't home when the fire happened. And lovely that the mother was fired from her job.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)xmas74
(29,674 posts)and this guy is going to feel the heat on campus soon. All the girls at his college are talking about it and they are making comments about him. Someone even had a sign on a pole today with his picture and the word "Rapist" typed in red.
hatrack
(59,587 posts)Hope he enjoys the rest of his semester.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)Anonymous picked it up today.
roamer65
(36,745 posts)My prediction is he will quit and run back to live with Gramps.
DFW
(54,399 posts)L0oniX
(31,493 posts)Quantess
(27,630 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Thank technology and the intertubez that Anonymous is involved and I hope they rip not only the "young men with connections and a bright future " but also the police dept, county pols and the POS newspaper.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)roamer65
(36,745 posts)Looks like a real scumbag. The Northwest Missourian lists the arrest date as Dec 11...I assume 2011.
R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)defacto7
(13,485 posts)And let peaceful resistance and forced transparency reign. The outcome will be nothing less than justice.
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)It's not a funny situation, but sometimes it's good to mock
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)SERIOUSLY
WHAT THE FUCK
I
I DON'T UNDERSTAND
THAT'S NOT ANATOMICALLY POSSIBLE UNLESS YOU'RE PART GIRAFFE
That one made me laugh.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)at many of them. "He looks like a thumb. A giant rapey thumb".
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)I hope most reading these comments who are not aware of the situation get the gist of it. The family that owns this establishment kept their star athlete kid from facing justice after raping a fourteen year old girl.
http://www.yelp.com/biz/a-g-restaurant-
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)distributor is the son of the owners.
pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)Do you have a link for the son of the owners? I've looked can't find it.
thanks!
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)pitbullgirl1965
(564 posts)jsr
(7,712 posts)Boudica the Lyoness
(2,899 posts)and this story hit a nerve.
JanMichael
(24,890 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Or the family getting run out of town? Or the prosecutor mysteriously deciding to NOT take this case to trial?
Or the Facebook page of a university getting some verbal spanking? Or Barnett, who has admitted he did this!, getting publicly shamed since our justice system has broken down here?
Exactly which "crap" needs to stop?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)like that "crap" to stop.