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sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 08:34 PM Nov 2013

This made me cry...and cry again.

On Veterans Day I posted a picture of my dad on his way to the Veterans Day parade. A social worker took several of the veterans. I had an appointment that day and was unable to be there. My sister snapped the first picture at the nursing home. I linked it below.

My dad is 91 years old and suffers from Alzheimer. He was the youngest of four captains on a mine sweeper in WWII.

The picture was taken by a Boston Globe photographer during the parade. A young Vet honored my dad that day. The social worker is the one that is standing behind with her hand over her mouth. Tears~



This is my Dad at Veterans Day parade, huddled in his wheel chair.... Vet took off his coat and put it around his shoulders..It was cold and he stood there with short sleeves....Just an random act of kindness...



http://mickeymac.smugmug.com/DisneyDestinations/Veterans-Day-2013/i-TjXRhxT

Earlier picture and post.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024017236

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This made me cry...and cry again. (Original Post) sheshe2 Nov 2013 OP
That's very touching. Thanks for sharing. n/t Laelth Nov 2013 #1
Thank you, Laelth. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #6
Lovely gesture. Beacool Nov 2013 #2
Very powerful, sheshe2, very touching. TheCowsCameHome Nov 2013 #3
Brought tears to my eyes, too. Sweet gesture. n/t UtahLib Nov 2013 #4
K&R Blue Owl Nov 2013 #5
Thank you, we need all the stories about decent people we can get. LoisB Nov 2013 #7
My Dad was in the Navy in WW2, he past away in 2010. texanwitch Nov 2013 #8
Sorry for your loss, texanwitch. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #9
Thank you. texanwitch Nov 2013 #12
I will hug him for you texanwitch, on Monday when I see him. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #13
Bless you, texanwitch, and a big Thank You to your Dad japple Nov 2013 #39
It does seem strange when it happens, our parents, aunts and uncles die. texanwitch Nov 2013 #41
All my family members from WWII are gone. William769 Nov 2013 #10
Oh, William~ sheshe2 Nov 2013 #11
Two special vets in that picture! brer cat Nov 2013 #14
Such a sweet thing to say, sheshe2 Nov 2013 #18
your sweet dad. I could hug him. It would be like hugging mine. Treasure him. I do mine. roguevalley Nov 2013 #15
Thank you roguevalley. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #37
is your dad ok now? I hate to think of him being cold. ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #16
So did that Vet, ZRT. Sweet was it not? sheshe2 Nov 2013 #33
Touching, but beautiful. No Vested Interest Nov 2013 #17
Made me cry, too lillypaddle Nov 2013 #19
Nobody's left behind. Once in the warrior fraternity always in for each other nt riderinthestorm Nov 2013 #20
They have each others backs, riderinthestorm. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #21
Bless you and yours sheshe. lumpy Nov 2013 #22
Thanks for sharing it She!! flamingdem Nov 2013 #23
flamingdem, sheshe2 Nov 2013 #24
Oh, darn raining inside again. I wrote about my Dad on another thread. WW2 Seabee. freshwest Nov 2013 #25
Tears, I know freshwest. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Nov 2013 #35
Bless your Dad's heart, she Cha Nov 2013 #26
Random acts Cha, sheshe2 Nov 2013 #29
my Dad riverwalker Nov 2013 #28
Okay, riverwalker. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #30
Sad, yes; but inspiring. IrishAyes Nov 2013 #31
Sweet dreams, Irish~ sheshe2 Nov 2013 #32
k&r Liberal_in_LA Nov 2013 #34
Such gentle men still blue14u Nov 2013 #36
Well said, blue14u. sheshe2 Nov 2013 #38
Wow! malaise Nov 2013 #40
Thank you, sheshe2. Aristus Nov 2013 #42
Wow... NYC_SKP Nov 2013 #43
My Daddy would be 96. Are_grits_groceries Nov 2013 #44
If there's a God... bluedeathray Nov 2013 #45
Thank you. Made my weekend. Tarheel_Dem Nov 2013 #46
Great photo, sheshe! pinboy3niner Nov 2013 #47
Thanks for the picture. anniebelle Nov 2013 #48
Beautiful, JimboBillyBubbaBob Nov 2013 #49
Beautiful. tblue Nov 2013 #50
k&r polichick Nov 2013 #51
The 1% will never understand the kindness shown there. rhett o rick Nov 2013 #52
Thank you, sheshe, for sharing this at DU. It is a beautiful, japple Nov 2013 #53
One of my great uncles died in WWII. But another one lived to write about it..... AverageJoe90 Nov 2013 #54
K & R Scurrilous Nov 2013 #55
K&R treestar Nov 2013 #56

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
8. My Dad was in the Navy in WW2, he past away in 2010.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 09:19 PM
Nov 2013

He was 87.

Seeing your Dad made me think of my Dad.

So many of that generation are passing away.

Thank your Dad for me.

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
12. Thank you.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 09:28 PM
Nov 2013

My Dad died on Nov. 18, the day before my birthday.

Hug your Dad for me.

I gave him the military funeral he wanted so badly.

Our fathers were brave men.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
13. I will hug him for you texanwitch, on Monday when I see him.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 09:40 PM
Nov 2013

November must be a difficult month for you. Kudos to you for sending him off in the tradition that he so wished. A tear and a smile.

Happy belated birthday to you~

japple

(9,828 posts)
39. Bless you, texanwitch, and a big Thank You to your Dad
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 01:29 AM
Nov 2013

for what he did for our country. My Dad (a fellow Texan, born in Bexar Co. in 1920) also fought in WWII as part of the First Special Service Force. He, along with 2 brothers and 2 sisters, together with their spouses and family were part of the war effort in South Central Texas during WWII. All of my Dad's generation have gone; most of them passed away in the past few years. We feel so alone without those strong ones who were always there.

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
41. It does seem strange when it happens, our parents, aunts and uncles die.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 02:12 AM
Nov 2013

They were always there and now gone.

I have one aunt and uncle still alive.

My aunt is my father's baby sister and my uncle is my mother's brother.

After that me, my brothers and sister, and cousins are the older generation.

I was looking at old family photo's,mostly holiday pictures.

Doesn't seem that long ago.

Won't be long before that whole generation is gone.

Not just the war vets, but people who worked in other ways to win the war.

My father made liberty ships before he went into the service.

He was replaced by women, who did work nobody thought they could do.

You didn't need to wear a uniform to help win the war.

They all did their part.

Thank you for your family work in winning the war.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
15. your sweet dad. I could hug him. It would be like hugging mine. Treasure him. I do mine.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 09:55 PM
Nov 2013

thank you for the lovely picture and the lovely act of kindness someone made

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
33. So did that Vet, ZRT. Sweet was it not?
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 12:15 AM
Nov 2013

Thank you he got warmed back up when he returned to the nursing home.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
25. Oh, darn raining inside again. I wrote about my Dad on another thread. WW2 Seabee.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 10:53 PM
Nov 2013

Last edited Sun Nov 24, 2013, 01:06 AM - Edit history (1)

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
27. Tears, I know freshwest.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:08 PM
Nov 2013

Would you link me to that thread please. I would love to read it.

A Seabee too~

Hugs

Response to sheshe2 (Reply #27)

Cha

(297,275 posts)
26. Bless your Dad's heart, she
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:00 PM
Nov 2013

He wanted to get out there and be with his fellow Veterans.

Very kind and caring of the younger Vet to make your Dad more comfortable.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
29. Random acts Cha,
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:12 PM
Nov 2013

of kindness and respect.

As someone said up thread, they stand for each other.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
28. my Dad
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:09 PM
Nov 2013

had "ex=p.o.w." license plates. One day he went to the store and when he came out to his car, there was a note on his windshield, it said "Thank you for your service God Bless you". Until the day he died, he kept that note taped to his refrigerator. Such a little thing meant so much to him.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
30. Okay, riverwalker.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:18 PM
Nov 2013

You have me tearing up again.

Bless your dad. A small act of kindness that meant so much to your dear father.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
31. Sad, yes; but inspiring.
Sat Nov 23, 2013, 11:49 PM
Nov 2013

A fitting close to my DU reading today, some of it wasted with asshats. At least I'll go to sleep with better images in my mind and heart.

blue14u

(575 posts)
36. Such gentle men still
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 01:10 AM
Nov 2013

caring for one another. A perfect example

of why we need to support our veterans. They support

each other and stand as one.

Thank you for sharing sheshe2.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
44. My Daddy would be 96.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 04:44 AM
Nov 2013

He fought from '41-'45. Your Dad is a kindred spirit.
A big salute to him and to the younger veteran who gave up his coat.

Never forget!

bluedeathray

(511 posts)
45. If there's a God...
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 06:18 AM
Nov 2013

May It watch over all humans who fight for ideas they believe in.

May we watch over them in their infirmities, and remember them after they're gone.

May we be faithful to our ideas. Be willing to fight when necessary to destroy the evils that would consume us.

And live our lives completely, as brilliant beings. Aware, empathetic, and as people of action.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
47. Great photo, sheshe!
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 06:38 AM
Nov 2013

It must be a comfort to know that your dad will be looked after, even when you can't be there.

Did the Globe identify the vet in short sleeves or provide any info about him? The flash on his beret looks like it could represent one of the 325th Airborne Infantry battalions of the 82nd Airborne Division, but it's hard to tell for sure.


Flash, 1st Battalion, 325th Airborne Infantry Regiment

anniebelle

(899 posts)
48. Thanks for the picture.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 07:27 AM
Nov 2013

I lost my father in WWII when I was 4 months old. Never got to see him. He was killed April 3, 1945 in bad Sudan, Germany by a sniper's bullet. He was 28 years old. I'm glad your father has so many that love him and take care of him.

JimboBillyBubbaBob

(1,389 posts)
49. Beautiful,
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 10:24 AM
Nov 2013

it shows the one-to-one connection that Vets share regardless of their time of service. That's what it is all about.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
50. Beautiful.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 01:02 PM
Nov 2013

What a lovely and touching gesture by that veteran. That's how we all should be. Hugs to you and your dad.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
52. The 1% will never understand the kindness shown there.
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 05:24 PM
Nov 2013

They dont necessarily wish us to die, they are just ambivalent about it.

japple

(9,828 posts)
53. Thank you, sheshe, for sharing this at DU. It is a beautiful,
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 07:47 PM
Nov 2013

intimate connection between two veterans. God bless both of them. And God bless you too.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
54. One of my great uncles died in WWII. But another one lived to write about it.....
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 02:52 AM
Nov 2013

He was the only one in my immediate family that didn't make it, though, as far as I know.

This is probably him:
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=Ladd&GSfn=Bernard&GSbyrel=all&GSdyrel=all&GScntry=4&GSob=n&GRid=56113695&df=all&

On my grandma's side of the paternal family, one of her brothers later authored a book on his experiences. He died in Calif. in 2011, in Feb.:

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=Powell&GSfn=Ralph&GSbyrel=all&GSdyrel=all&GScntry=4&GSob=n&GSsr=41&GRid=70046594&df=all&



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