A long time ago, there was this girl...
She and I were in our early twenties, and it was a happy time for me, as I went through all 12 grades without a girlfriend, and here we were parked in a car at night at a city park, nobody was around to bother us, and we were making out the way that young lovers are often inclined to do.
Janie (not her real name) paused our smooching a couple of times to catch her breath, but she seemed eager to return to the nookie session. Her lips were soft, her breath and skin so warm and inviting, and I loved her occasional sighs of pleasure.
As my lips found her neck, she clutched the back of my head. My right hand traced its way down to her stomach, which was now exposed just a little bit, and started fondling her skin gently. Her hand seemed to push down on my head, and I was now kissing her exposed tummy. Not only was her stomach open to exploration, but also her breasts, and...and...
And as I looked up, I learned that Janie had somehow managed to fall asleep in the middle of our makeout session. She was totally lost in slumber.
What could I do? I certainly couldn't hold it against her. All of us in our circle of friends lived busy lives either working or going to college or whatever. And me, I had recently fallen asleep on the telephone while talking with a friend of mine. These things happen.
So I gazed upon Janie's face as she slept and kept her in my arms. No fondling, no groping, no nothin'.
And when she woke up, Janie apologized for falling asleep. To which I responded, "It's okay. I'll take you home."
Janie and I went our separate ways later on down the line. Looking back, I still had some growing up to do of my own, and she probably wouldn't have been an ideal life match for me anyway. But I wish her well wherever she is today.
But when we were parked in my car that night, the last thing - the very last thing on my mind - was to take advantage of her in any way that would cause her pain and distress. I will never be accused of rape. I've seen what it can do to men and women alike, and I'll have no tolerance for it.
So that's my story.
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If my wife or girlfriend wanted to share a picture of us kissing, we could talk about that. But otherwise, I generally consider that to be our private time. In other words, you kids better get off my lawn. 
There are guys out there who act all charming and smooth until they wind up in a relationship, and then they get abusive and monstrous.
But if you consider me a gentleman, I'll take the compliment.
The men who would take advantage of a woman who is sleeping and/or otherwise indisposed are still dividing females into "Good girls" and "Bad Girls". In their mind, no "Good Girl" would allow herself to be in a vulnerable position, therefore any woman who is vulnerable is a "bad Girl" and therefore anything done to/with such Bad Girl is OK. 
Pity the "Good Girl" a sleaze like this chooses to marry - she deals with him for years!