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catbyte

(34,402 posts)
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:40 AM Dec 2013

What's wrong with me? These ASPCA ads on tv are more heart wrenching than

UNICEF, etc. I just cannot stand seeing an animal suffer, as my 4 fat felines curl up sleeping next to me after feasting on tuna. I guess I figure more people will contribute to kids than animals. I remember seeing a captioned screen grab of an ASPCA ad captioned, "Hi, I'm Sarah Maclachlan and I'm about to ruin your whole fucking day."

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What's wrong with me? These ASPCA ads on tv are more heart wrenching than (Original Post) catbyte Dec 2013 OP
I have to turn the sound off during those ASPCA ads. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2013 #1
+1 n/t X_Digger Dec 2013 #15
UNICEF is asking for $15 a month while ASPCA is asking for $18 a month. Thor_MN Dec 2013 #2
$15 goes further in poor countries than does $18 in the US meow2u3 Dec 2013 #13
Good point, but I still change the channel. Thor_MN Dec 2013 #18
I cant watch them either darkangel218 Dec 2013 #3
I won't watch the ASPCA ads. I will dive for the remote. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #4
I have to switch the channel, muting is not even effective anymore... countryjake Dec 2013 #5
One with clubbing baby seals just snuck up on me... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #6
Hate em; the TV goes OFF if I can't find the remote within 1 second. eShirl Dec 2013 #7
Nothing is wrong with you at all. pecwae Dec 2013 #8
I'm reminded of a Rage Comics 'toon -- "Damn You Sarah Maclachlan" AngryOldDem Dec 2013 #9
My wife and I are serious about animal concerns. MineralMan Dec 2013 #10
Bless your hearts! I saw that video a while back where lab beagles touched grass catbyte Dec 2013 #20
Sam, our lab beagle, has been with us for a couple of MineralMan Dec 2013 #22
Wow, that takes a lot of love & patience. Have you adopted Sam or fostering? catbyte Dec 2013 #23
What is peculiar... CanSocDem Dec 2013 #11
I think they are blocks of ads.. I don't think it's specific to a show.. SomethingFishy Dec 2013 #25
I'd rather BobUp Dec 2013 #12
Gorgeous, lucky boy! catbyte Dec 2013 #21
There are some of us who cannot view Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #14
I turn off the sound and look elsewhere - LiberalElite Dec 2013 #16
Animal abuse and suffering is upsetting, but I am more disturbed by seeing human suffering. Arkansas Granny Dec 2013 #17
I change the channel or I'll cry! n/t PasadenaTrudy Dec 2013 #19
I'm with you... truebrit71 Dec 2013 #24
Me too. I've been a regular contributor to alsame Dec 2013 #26
They should run the number for the Suicide Prevention Hotline at the end of those ads. WilliamPitt Dec 2013 #27
If those bother you, don't ever look COLGATE4 Dec 2013 #28
I'm the same way. Jester Messiah Dec 2013 #29
Yep, can't watch OwnedByCats Dec 2013 #30
I empathize with you. Jazzgirl Dec 2013 #31
 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
2. UNICEF is asking for $15 a month while ASPCA is asking for $18 a month.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:57 AM
Dec 2013

Granted ASPCA is going to send you a TShirt, but I think it is tacky that both charities absolutely blast the sob story commercials this time of year and ask for more money for animals than children.

meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
13. $15 goes further in poor countries than does $18 in the US
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:10 AM
Dec 2013

Especially in New York City--Manhattan, where the ASPCA is located--where prices are sky high.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
5. I have to switch the channel, muting is not even effective anymore...
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 04:15 AM
Dec 2013

That old Sarah Mclachlan one, with the angels song, used to make me choke up before my critters began dying off, but at least I could watch it. Now, all of the new ones are just so wrenching, I can't stop looking even without the sound, and it really does impact my whole fucking day. We both grab the buttons the instant those things come on.

pecwae

(8,021 posts)
8. Nothing is wrong with you at all.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 07:13 AM
Dec 2013

You're a compassionate human who abhors animal suffering. I'm proud to be seated right beside you.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
9. I'm reminded of a Rage Comics 'toon -- "Damn You Sarah Maclachlan"
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 07:37 AM
Dec 2013
http://cheezburger.com/5174389248

(Sorry for just the link; I'm not sure how to post graphics.)

I CANNOT watch these ads, either, and I feel guilty for changing the channel. But I take comfort in the fact that my cat was once a stray, and my dog was rescued from a pet store, and both have lives that are 100,000 times better than what they could have had.

Look at it this way: If you can watch these ads and NOT be moved, THEN you've got a problem.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
10. My wife and I are serious about animal concerns.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:32 AM
Dec 2013

We have a rescue beagle/basset mix and have just taken in a beagle that was used in laboratory experiments through the Beagle Freedom project. My wife also volunteers at a local animal shelter. The ASPCA ads, however, bother me a great deal, in part for their high cost. How much of the money people donate to that organization goes to paying for their fundraising advertising costs, I wonder? How much goes into the administration costs of the ASPCA? I don't know, but they aren't getting any donation from me, I'm sure.

Here's a photo of Dude and Sam, the dogs mentioned above:

catbyte

(34,402 posts)
20. Bless your hearts! I saw that video a while back where lab beagles touched grass
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:46 PM
Dec 2013

for the first time. Totally dissolved in tears.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
22. Sam, our lab beagle, has been with us for a couple of
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:52 PM
Dec 2013

weeks now. He's less shy, more accepting of people, is making friends and playing with our other dog a little, and is improving daily. He still trembles a bit when he's in an unfamiliar setting, but we had a couple over yesterday, and he soon settled down and went to them for head scratches, etc.

We're working with him pretty much all of the time, and never walk by without getting down and encouraging him to trust us more and to accept that he won't be pulled out of a cage and have things done to him.

I expect him to be fully rehabilitated in a couple of months. He's a good doggie.

catbyte

(34,402 posts)
23. Wow, that takes a lot of love & patience. Have you adopted Sam or fostering?
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 01:58 PM
Dec 2013

Beagles are so sweet. I guess that's why they are so easy to abuse in labs. It fills me with outrage, but folks like you remind me we aren't all bad.

 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
11. What is peculiar...
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:45 AM
Dec 2013


...is why they are the primary sponsor for the Breaking Bad Marathon. Is there a connection between Drug Abuse and Animal Abuse? Why would fans of the show be sympathetic to animal abuse?


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SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
25. I think they are blocks of ads.. I don't think it's specific to a show..
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 02:02 PM
Dec 2013

and they are everywhere for the holidays. You can't turn the TV on without seeing one. AMC, USA, History, GSN, every channel my wife watches..

I hate the guilt that they hammer you with on these commercials. I would love to help every child and animal in the world but I can't do it. I already carry as many "strays" as I can. I pay my ex's mothers bills, I have a nephew who sleeps on my couch, I have 2 kids of my own and 1 I adopted, and all their friends who like to hang out here because I never tell anyone to turn the music down And we aren't rich, I am the single source of income for all these people...

BobUp

(347 posts)
12. I'd rather
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:54 AM
Dec 2013

watch Pernell Roberts saying we can feed children for ten cents a day in a third world country than watch a ASPCA clip. Around the holidays, I always block out thoughts of how people and animals suffer in the world, and give this guy a hug and be thankful we at least saved his life, one of six, all brothers, five of which aren't around anymore because of cars, coyotes, and given up to animal shelters.

Hugs n kisses every day, very often like every 15 minutes. He will be 7 years old on New Years Day.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
14. There are some of us who cannot view
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:10 AM
Dec 2013

images like that without extreme consequences. I've been harping about that lately on DU for people who paste these kinds of horrendous pictures, either in a thread or a post, without a WARNING: GRAPHIC IMAGE. Most people are cooperative but a few . . . well, assholes must be assholes.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
16. I turn off the sound and look elsewhere -
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:20 AM
Dec 2013

the ads are too upsetting. ASPCA ads are running all over my computer screen everywhere I click the last couple of days. I also get appeals by snail mail at least once a month. The ASPCA is a very rich organization. I love animals but I don't think the ASPCA needs my money. Remember that cable tv program Animal Precinct? Last August they decided to gradually disband the Humane Law Enforcement Department in 2014 and cede control to the NYPD. I could find nothing on their website indicating this.

http://www.aspca.org/

http://www.animalpeoplenews.org/anp/2013/10/24/aspca-cedes-lead-role-in-new-york-city-humane-law-enforcement-to-police/

http://pix11.com/2013/08/22/should-the-nypd-or-the-aspca-be-responding-to-calls-involving-animals/#axzz2oyGaJ0JY

Arkansas Granny

(31,518 posts)
17. Animal abuse and suffering is upsetting, but I am more disturbed by seeing human suffering.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 11:39 AM
Dec 2013

I have to tune out all of the ads showing abuse, starvation and disease. I know it takes place, but I can't bear to see the proof. Most of my charitable giving is targeted toward medical care and feeding the poor and homeless in this country and worldwide. I make smaller donations to our local Humane Society.

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
24. I'm with you...
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 02:02 PM
Dec 2013

...Maybe because the animals are truly helpless whereas, in theory, humans can do something themselves about their own misery? I can't watch either TBH I have to fight the urge to rush to my wallet and max out the cards with donations...

alsame

(7,784 posts)
26. Me too. I've been a regular contributor to
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 02:10 PM
Dec 2013

both the ASPCA and HSUS for years, but I can't watch any of their TV ads or read the literature that comes in the mail. I just can't stand seeing the images of the horrors I know exist.

COLGATE4

(14,732 posts)
28. If those bother you, don't ever look
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 02:48 PM
Dec 2013

at any ads for St. Jude's Hospital for Children. You'll see gut-wrenching pictures of cancer striken babies, toddlers, young children and adolescents as they (and their families) try to survive the cancer destroying them bit by bit.

 

Jester Messiah

(4,711 posts)
29. I'm the same way.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:06 PM
Dec 2013

I can't stand to see animals suffer. I tend to be more partial to animals than humans anyway... a tiger might eat you if he's hungry, but you never hear about them going on shooting rampages in crowded theaters.

OwnedByCats

(805 posts)
30. Yep, can't watch
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:23 PM
Dec 2013

but I appreciate what they are doing. I know it exists because I see it all the time in RL - the commercials I can turn away from. They make me incredibly sad, more so than any other. My husband and mother dive for the remote every time one comes on to spare me.

Jazzgirl

(3,744 posts)
31. I empathize with you.
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 03:50 PM
Dec 2013

I usually start checking to see what else is on. The guide on the TV covers up the ad. It is so depressing and I look at my kitty and wonder how people could treat any animal or human like that. It's sick but I don't want to look at the poor things.

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