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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Thu Mar 15, 2012, 11:37 PM Mar 2012

Women to go on Sex Strike in Response to Brownback’s Bill

Women in Kansas and around the nation will be holding a sex strike from April 28-May 5, 2012. Governor Sam Brownback has declared himself the master of women’s reproductive systems, with a proposed bill that would allow doctors to withhold information that could threaten the lives of pregnant mothers.

In modern times, sex strikes have been used by women in Colombia, Liberia, Kenya and the Philippines to gain freedom or achieve peace. The Greek anti-war comedy Lysistrata, which was originally performed in Athens, in 411 BC, featured women using sex strikes to end war.

Women who wish to participate in the strike should simply inform their partners that they will not be having any sexual relations until the strike ends. If a partner has any question or complaint, they should call Governor Brownback’s office.

Considering Brownback’s deep involvement in women’s reproductive health, his staff should be very fluent in the language regarding women’s health and should be able to alleviate any concerns that deprived spouses and partners may have.

more . . . http://occupyintel.net/2012/03/15/women-to-go-on-sex-strike-in-response-to-brownbacks-bill/

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Women to go on Sex Strike in Response to Brownback’s Bill (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 OP
Threatening a patient's health is a violation of the medical oath all physicians take Warpy Mar 2012 #1
I'm not touching this topic with a 10' pole. n/t flvegan Mar 2012 #2
Your 10' pole won't be wanted for a few days in April and May... Crunchy Frog Mar 2012 #3
Interesting response. flvegan Mar 2012 #4
As intersting as your claim to have a 10' pole pinboy3niner Mar 2012 #6
DUzy! proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 #25
A whole week? ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #5
Those who "don't believe in" masturbation will suffer the most. eShirl Mar 2012 #8
And those that do are person killers....n/t Jello Biafra Mar 2012 #9
LOL SammyWinstonJack Mar 2012 #13
I am at the age where I might not notice just a week quaker bill Mar 2012 #41
Really stand up! Bohunk68 Mar 2012 #7
A good strategy for women who don't enjoy sex, Nye Bevan Mar 2012 #10
oh, please. women can and do get vibrators for use when their partners are out of town or CTyankee Mar 2012 #12
Some women don't even like vibrators and prefer their hands. I hate this whole SWTORFanatic Mar 2012 #22
I should have been more inclusive of hands and other sex toys. CTyankee Mar 2012 #43
Well, aren't the stores or mail order places HappyMe Mar 2012 #23
of course it is no substitute for the real deal, esp. if you have a truly loving and generous CTyankee Mar 2012 #44
I didn't say masturbation was demeaning. HappyMe Mar 2012 #46
I guess I'm not understanding what is supposed to be demeaning about a woman buying a sex CTyankee Mar 2012 #48
A poor substitute for a considerate man who knows what he is doing (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2012 #24
A loving and giving partner is wonderful, you are right. CTyankee Mar 2012 #45
This truly is a foolish idea. HappyMe Mar 2012 #11
She can't just cut me off... guitar man Mar 2012 #14
Worked for Lysistrata... Skidmore Mar 2012 #15
Lysistrata was a play written by Aristophanes in 411BC. HappyMe Mar 2012 #21
No kidding. Skidmore Mar 2012 #27
Ah! I guess maybe you should have. HappyMe Mar 2012 #31
What? My wife is going to KEEP not having sex with me? joeglow3 Mar 2012 #16
LOL Mr Dixon Mar 2012 #28
I thought that started years ago... bluedigger Mar 2012 #17
ROFL Mr Dixon Mar 2012 #29
This helps categorize women as primarily sex machines. randome Mar 2012 #18
Not long enough pipi_k Mar 2012 #19
We will? Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2012 #20
Where was the memo on this? AsahinaKimi Mar 2012 #26
How about...voting the bastards out this fall? n2doc Mar 2012 #30
Three cheers for the perpetuation of childish stereotypes, I guess. nt Codeine Mar 2012 #32
women only have sex with men as a gift to them, you see! Not for their own pleasure. Warren DeMontague Mar 2012 #35
This is why I finish quickly. Codeine Mar 2012 #37
How would this - in any way - punish those responsible for this bill? NeedleCast Mar 2012 #33
"Yes. To strike back at people who tell total strangers not to have sex, we are telling total Warren DeMontague Mar 2012 #34
I predict total failure for this. MineralMan Mar 2012 #36
I hear the men once tried a similar tactic Nuclear Unicorn Mar 2012 #38
No doubt...LOL MineralMan Mar 2012 #42
It will make no difference to me at all. mysuzuki2 Mar 2012 #39
Well, now I can't wait for my HappyMe Mar 2012 #40
all this talk seabeyond Mar 2012 #47
It really depends on what the definition of sex is MikeOlsen Mar 2012 #49
Punishment for both myself and my boyfriend who is as angry as I am about this shit? Matariki Mar 2012 #50

Warpy

(111,359 posts)
1. Threatening a patient's health is a violation of the medical oath all physicians take
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:02 AM
Mar 2012

and any doctor who does this will be sued into wearing a barrel, this law notwithstanding.

Bohunk68

(1,364 posts)
7. Really stand up!
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 04:15 AM
Mar 2012

Pun unintended. But go for a whole month, that'll bring attention! I mean, c'mon, a week, what's so unusual about that? At least, that's what my non-gay brothers tell me.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
12. oh, please. women can and do get vibrators for use when their partners are out of town or
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 09:18 AM
Mar 2012

hospitalized or otherwise not sexually active for a time.

SWTORFanatic

(385 posts)
22. Some women don't even like vibrators and prefer their hands. I hate this whole
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 09:54 AM
Mar 2012

vibrator kick. I don't like vibrators at all and get annoyed that people assume I use them.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
43. I should have been more inclusive of hands and other sex toys.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 02:03 PM
Mar 2012

It is truly a matter of personal preference, of course...

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
23. Well, aren't the stores or mail order places
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 10:03 AM
Mar 2012

one would have to get a vibrator from considered 'demeaning' to women.

Sorry, a cold piece of plastic is no substitute for my man's arms around me and his kisses.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
44. of course it is no substitute for the real deal, esp. if you have a truly loving and generous
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 02:08 PM
Mar 2012

partner.

There is nothing demeaning about masturbation. It is normal and healthy.

When I worked for Planned Parenthood of CT I used to discuss sex education with the Education dept. and we had some marvelous conversations about all different outlets for healthy, happy sex. So I was used to being quite open and frank about such things. My husband thought that was a GOOD thing!

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
46. I didn't say masturbation was demeaning.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 02:42 PM
Mar 2012

A vibrator is a sex toy. Wouldn't it have to be bought in a sex toy shop, or ordered from one? I thought those shops were considered demeaning to women.


I am not at all in favor of the sex strike. Withholding expression of love and physical desire is just plain wrong. It plays right into a very negative stereotype of women.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
48. I guess I'm not understanding what is supposed to be demeaning about a woman buying a sex
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 04:06 PM
Mar 2012

toy in a store or online. How else would a woman buy one?

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
11. This truly is a foolish idea.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 08:46 AM
Mar 2012

Last edited Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:42 PM - Edit history (1)

Assumes that women don't enjoy sex.
I'm waiting for May 6, when they will report that 'millions' participated.




HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
31. Ah! I guess maybe you should have.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 10:52 AM
Mar 2012

Sometimes it's hard to tell if people are being sarcastic, funny, angry....


Carry on.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
18. This helps categorize women as primarily sex machines.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 09:45 AM
Mar 2012

I'm not a woman but, for what it's worth, I think there are better ways to fight political wars in the 21st century.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
19. Not long enough
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 09:46 AM
Mar 2012

That's what she said... ha ha


No, seriously...a week? That's it?

Make it a month...two months...

The ladies can She-bop all they want to without consequence.

The guys...well...spilled seed and all...



n2doc

(47,953 posts)
30. How about...voting the bastards out this fall?
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 10:50 AM
Mar 2012

Seriously, all these things will do nothing but appear on the weird news section of the TV, or humor sections. If women want this crap to stop, vote Democrat this fall. If most (and I mean >70%) women did this the repubs would be swept from office.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
35. women only have sex with men as a gift to them, you see! Not for their own pleasure.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:40 PM
Mar 2012

They close their eyes and endure. endure. endure.


For England!

NeedleCast

(8,827 posts)
33. How would this - in any way - punish those responsible for this bill?
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:19 PM
Mar 2012

And, presumably, the men (and women) who support it?

I mean, you wouldn't expect Brownback's wife to participate - or any other fundamentalist, anti-abortion republican woman - to participate, right?

So essentially the only people who would be punished are the men who would typically be against a bill such as this one, and the women who love them.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
34. "Yes. To strike back at people who tell total strangers not to have sex, we are telling total
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:39 PM
Mar 2012

strangers not to have sex!"


...???

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
36. I predict total failure for this.
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 12:42 PM
Mar 2012

Women will decide for themselves, on whatever basis they wish. And that's how it should be.

Some women might do this strike, but it will be a tiny, tiny fraction of women.

 

MikeOlsen

(62 posts)
49. It really depends on what the definition of sex is
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 05:07 PM
Mar 2012

Doesn't it?


I did not have sexual relations with that woman

Even Pat Robertson has endorsed it.


Pat Robertson Says Oral Sex Is Fine If You're Married

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
50. Punishment for both myself and my boyfriend who is as angry as I am about this shit?
Fri Mar 16, 2012, 08:36 PM
Mar 2012

Doesn't really make sense.

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