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President Obama, after nominating Jim Yong Kim to the World Bank on Friday, addressed the ongoing investigation into the shooting of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin. "I can only imagine what these parents are going through," Obama said. "If I had a son, he'd look like Trayvon."
Obama said it is "absolutely imperative" to investigate every aspect of the case. "All of us have to do some soul searching to figure out how something like this happened," Obama added.
Watch Obama's remarks:
http://livewire.talkingpointsmemo.com/entries/obama-if-i-had-son-he-would-look
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)Little Star
(17,055 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)the shooter.
BumRushDaShow
(129,137 posts)and he was so filled up. He is in such a difficult position because the RW lunatic fringe and their media are waiting to pounce on whatever he says or does. And his being part of my own generation, we can't help but be so filled up to see this sortof case continue to happen year after year, decade after decade, and know that is all a relic of what had happened century after century here in the U.S.
I hope that Trayvon's parents understand his message loud and clear.
Old and In the Way
(37,540 posts)until Zimmermann is indicted, PBO really cannot weigh in on the case. He has to remain on the sidelines and not prejudice Zimmermann's case in the court of public opinion. I'm sure he'd really like to say what he thinks, but has a greater responsibility to the concept of justice for all.
BumRushDaShow
(129,137 posts)and as a Constitutional lawyer himself, he knows. In a way, it's good that he was a trained attorney because he understands the ramifications.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)Old and In the Way
(37,540 posts)I agree, he's not condemning the guy...nor should he. President Obama is responding appropriately. He most certainly wants a thorough investigation and he clearly wants to revisit the law that is made this shooting and non-arrest possible. At this point, he's not going to weigh in on which party is guilty. My point is, the general public has already formed that opinion...but he should not.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)Last edited Fri Mar 23, 2012, 02:45 PM - Edit history (1)
Public opinion seems to be on both sides of this issue. Also, the press has been hounding the president on this issue for the last several days. I see nothing wrong with the president stating his opinion, which is that there should be a thorough investigation.
We disagree as to whether or not the president should have even suggested anything of the sort and that's fine. You see a harm. I don't.
ETA: Santorum, Romney, and Gingrich all made statements that there should be a complete and thorough investigation. For once, I agree with them and I'm happy that they made this statement, just as Obama should have done.
Old and In the Way
(37,540 posts)was clear that the whole SYG legislation needs to come under critical review.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)eShirl
(18,494 posts)of the President that someone had found
edit to add: it was the photo of Trayvon in the red "Hollister" shirt
when i first saw it i went "oh what old shit are they dragging up now,he has library fines from 7th grade or something" and after i read the story i wished he had stiffed em in 7th grade
nowhere near as sad as this whole friggin mess
Pisces
(5,599 posts)Tarheel_Dem
(31,235 posts)Greybnk48
(10,168 posts)yardwork
(61,661 posts)FSogol
(45,491 posts)Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)but this part of his statement 'If I Had A Son, He Would Look Like Trayvon' is just not appropriate and is a little disingenuous IMO.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,184 posts)Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)and that young Black men are frequently targets of violence?
And maybe he feels some genuine emotion over this issue. I don't see a problem.
Swede
(33,258 posts)I think it is quite apt.
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)Disingenuous? How so? Obama's son would like much like Trayvon - black. It was a statement that was honest, and was intended to let the family know that he understands. Inappropriate? Not in any way was that statement inappropriate.
When it comes to this case there is a whole lot of inappropriate and disingenuous statements being made by certainly not by President Obama.
malaise
(269,065 posts)NOLALady
(4,003 posts)the kid does have something in common with the President.
He's a skinny little kid.
DonCoquixote
(13,616 posts)Was this sort of cheap shot necessary? The president is not a skinny little kid. (eyeroll).
NOLALady
(4,003 posts)Let me try this again.
The President was a skinny little kid. If he had a son, he would probably be a skinny little kid, just like his Dad. Just didn't think the sarcasm tag was necessary.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)while the President is a man who is on the slender side, as a kid he was quite thick, if you look at the pictures.
NOLALady
(4,003 posts)when he was Trayvon's age. I have seen pictures of his youth.
Trayvon was probably a thick toddler also.
TNLib
(1,819 posts)It shows it's personal and this situation will be taken seriously and not swept under the carpet!
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)who looks a lot like Trayvon. I appreciate the truth of this statement. It hits home without commenting on the legalities of a potential case and we all do need to have a serious discussion about why some people are targeted more than others. I suggest you find a wayt to become less puzzled.
Bluerthanblue
(13,669 posts)making this statement. That he did so, without taking sides, but encourageing everyone to do some soul-searching, was perfect imo.
I've had 'the talk' with my son. What happened to Trayvon is something that haunted me since my son was born. My heart breaks for Trayvons parents and family, and I'm in awe of how civil and strong they are remaining throughout this terrible mess.
onpatrol98
(1,989 posts)We've had the talk, also. Well, correction...there are soooo many talks.
urgk
(1,043 posts)It's a completely new concept to me. And to think that such a large segment of the US population hears a talk that the rest of us have never even heard of...and that the purpose of the talk is to make them less likely to be victims of systemic injustice....is just shameful. I think the idea of that talk, especially as a rite of passage, solidifies an idea that is otherwise hard for those of us on the outside to visualize.
As much as I wish we lived in the "post-racial" society I keep hearing about, I think this proves, yet again, that we still have a long way to go.
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)He's saying, "I understood the extensive lessons about being black I would have had to give a son when I decided to have children."
I think the meaning of "I can't imagine what you feel now, but I know how you once felt and I see what came of it" says something very genuine about the strength of his sympathy.
Awareness of the fact that black parents have to teach their children different "rules" from white parents with the goal of simply keeping them alive is something so far beyond the scope of white America.
I did not know until I was in my 30s and a mother explained it to me. Everyone should know and try to comprehend this. I don't know how to make it happen, though.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)that the same awareness applies to peoples of various mixed backgrounds who are subject to similar treatment. His understanding of being "the other" is on target.
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)I think it is more accurate to say people of color? Being brown and looking like you might be from South America or any Middle Eastern country comes with equal and other dangers.
karynnj
(59,504 posts)Martin was a good looking kid - and Obama is correct to say that had he had a son, he would look something like him. The relevance is that he was shot because of how he looked - or more explicitly because he was black.
The fact is that if Martin were white, he very likely would be alive. Even by Zimmerman's account, there was NOTHING that really should have made him suspicious.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)....
can't say what I'm thinking. but you should get the drift.
what a horrible thing to say to try to get 'advantage' from a tradegy like this. advantage of slamming Obama no matter what the circumstance.
I am thoroughly disgusted, once again
disingenuous - look up the fucking word and what it means.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)randomly?
fishwax
(29,149 posts)Or on what grounds you're speculating that it is disingenuous ...
Rex
(65,616 posts)Puts things into perspective and some are not comfortable with that. Whatever.
wiggs
(7,814 posts)and Fox News all weekend: 'President imposes power of the WH in local case because he's black. Another example of arrogance and federal over-reach and reverse racism.'
Plays into false memes they've cultivated since day one, PLUS it's a distraction from having to talk about gun issues.
Watch for it.
klook
(12,158 posts)The truth is, any empathetic person feels absolutely heart-sick about the young man getting gunned down. So that obviously leaves out Faux and Brownshirt Radio.
William Seger
(10,779 posts)Subtle, huh.
NAO
(3,425 posts)believe me, THAT is how they are going to spin this.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)Fuck 'em. >> The NRA and RW wackos.
This kid could have been president of the US one day, and now, because of the NRA and RW wackos, that is not possible.
I suggest nobody go around peeing their pants over what the NRA and RW wackos might say or do. Stand up and demand nothing but the truth!
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)The NRA can shove it. To hell with them. Forever and ever.
Bodhi BloodWave
(2,346 posts)Duer: Why Doesn't Obama speak up on 'topic'
Obama speaks on topic
Same Duer: Words are cheap, what we need is actions/Why is he talking about this, the right wing will just spin it/He is only saying this to placate us and hope that it will shut us up, but that won't work
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)wherein one side is either up or down a few points at any given time, is probably not good for the soul. Or the brain.
(Either that or the person is a concern troll.)
sarge43
(28,941 posts)Our president made this personal. Good.
FirstLight
(13,360 posts)I can tell he's upset... as a parent and a black man... and all I can think about is that bitch Coulter's remarks the other day to target his kids...
I am glad he said something to this and I am glad he is taking it to the personal level too
TNLib
(1,819 posts)nt
horseshoecrab
(944 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)He was able to convey a personal sense of the matter, speak to the pain of the family, while at the same time not playing the Judge/Jury/Executioner. Very skillful, and very sincere as well.
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Whisp
(24,096 posts)for being a good and honest man.
we love you.
Yerkov Markakis
(6 posts)If this were a white Republican president who spoke symbolically about this kid looking like his son, he'd be branded a racist. This is a nice double standard that the cult of victimology as perpetuated by political race hustlers has created.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"If this were a white Republican president who spoke symbolically about this kid looking like his son, he'd be branded a racist. This is a nice double standard that the cult of victimology as perpetuated by political race hustlers has created."
...if you're lurking: "White Republican" Presidential candidates are also making statements. In fact, one of them has already determined that "Martin's shooter" should be arrested.
In a statement, Romney said: "What happened to Trayvon Martin is a tragedy. There needs to be a thorough investigation that reassures the public that justice is carried out with impartiality and integrity.
Asked by a reporter about the shooting, Santorum went further, condemning local law enforcement for dragging its feet in arresting Martin's shooter.
"It's a horrible case, and it's chilling to hear what happened," Santorum said. "And of course the fact that law enforcement didn't immediately go after and prosecute this case is another chilling example of horrible decisions made by people in this process."
http://www.buzzfeed.com/mckaycoppins/romney-santorum-comment-on-trayvon-martin
I'm sure this will make a few racists' heads explode.
Bluerthanblue
(13,669 posts)very well said ProSense.
thank you.
Number23
(24,544 posts)MelissaB
(16,420 posts)Nice!
MADem
(135,425 posts)It's apparent today that I am being targeted by newcomer(s). Probably just one newcomer, but this isn't the first jerk who has responded to one of my posts with the very same dogwhistling "tone."
Major Hogwash
(17,656 posts)He didn't care, besides he was too busy indiscriminately killing people in 2 other countries.
Old Man Bush never spoke out about any murders happening while he was President, either.
He only mentioned murders of black people during election season when he was campaigning.
Number23
(24,544 posts)Which is to say bigoted, clueless idiots.
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)Enjoy your limited stay.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)Go back to FR...your statement is so full of holes it is leaking failuresauce all over the room! CLEAN IT UP TROLL.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I've only read the transcript of his remarks, but they seem heart-felt. I think he was really smart to not go over the line and give defense lawyers a foothold. Still, as they say, haters do have that tendency to hate, and I've seen comments sections of national news sites with mouthbreathers accusing the President of making this a political issue, even though the question was asked of him.
madokie
(51,076 posts)Actually thats more like one of the many reasons that I did and will.
got root
(425 posts)I do have a son of similar age, who is also in the minority, and I am very distraught about the lack of arrest in this horrible situation.
Thank you Mr. President!
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)But I don't think there is any parent or grandparent in the country, regardless of race, who would disagree with the President on his statement.
Any one of us could have been Trayvon's parent or grandparent.
Rabid shooters can pick on any child who is not doing just what they want. How about kids who aren't quite the right shade of Christianity?
How about kids who show the wrong gang signs or show up in the wrong neighborhood.
Racism played a major role in Trayvon's shooting, and I do not want to distract from that ugly fact, but bullying is bullying.
A bully can easily find some excuse for his bullying and hate -- racism, someone carrying a violin, someone walking in the wrong neighborhood or even an argument about a fence.
We have to do something to calm down these bullies, let them know that they do not run this country.
TBF
(32,068 posts)this can happen when any type of prejudice/bullying occurs and it can happen towards anyone. I really liked his statement - and I like your last sentence.
TBF
(32,068 posts)Ichingcarpenter
(36,988 posts)Get fricking Holder that piece of shit to act.
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GiveMeFreedom
(976 posts)Your insinuation is insensitive to the President, the OP, and Trayvon Martins' death. Only a freeper would "chuckle:" at something like this. NRA much?
scarletwoman
(31,893 posts)where she said "Bo is my son." http://www.politico.com/politico44/2012/03/michelle-obama-bo-is-my-son-117968.html
You might have asked the poster to explain his comment rather than going straight to the alert button.
I wish people weren't so quick to assume ill intent.
Rosa Luxemburg
(28,627 posts)Notice how the republicans are jumping on the bandwagon!
Scurrilous
(38,687 posts)ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)don't intend to do anything and they're done investigating? Is that true? (I don't watch TV)
CakeGrrl
(10,611 posts)ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)That's what she watches most.
EDIT: Rachel was on when I was talking to her but that's not necessarily who said it. Not sure.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)I think justice will eventually be served.
fightforfreedom123
(87 posts)People are assaulted and killed in America because of the colour of their skin, their language, their religion, their sexual orientation, their gender, their politics, their monetary value and their disability.
Enough is enough!
Investigate, repeal stand your ground laws and pass gun control.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Telling it like it is! Zimmerman ever going to be charged with a crime? Will it take the FBI?