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Which No Longer Here D.U.er do you miss the most, and why? (Original Post) warrprayer May 2014 OP
MFM CurtEastPoint May 2014 #1
+infinity NuclearDem May 2014 #5
Yes, MFM LiberalEsto May 2014 #19
Absolutely.. GentryDixon May 2014 #52
Yep. nt Demo_Chris May 2014 #83
yep, middlefingermom Liberal_in_LA May 2014 #86
I only wish I'd had more direct interactions with the guy. He was one of a kind and then some. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #94
Joining the crowd on this vote. TexasTowelie May 2014 #103
Miss the hell out of him. Still can't believe he's gone. nolabear May 2014 #151
Yes. rrneck May 2014 #168
I loved the cadence of 5 visual jokes in a row, every night. Must have taken some doing. applegrove May 2014 #157
dookus/monkey funk PeaceNikki May 2014 #2
Good old dookus... Cooley Hurd May 2014 #37
+1 ScreamingMeemie May 2014 #46
Yes! Heidi May 2014 #164
Blondeatlast. BTW, Cali posted something today. FSogol May 2014 #3
I thought I saw something from her not long ago too. Jackpine Radical May 2014 #6
Yes. Both of them are sadly missed. LeftishBrit May 2014 #136
I miss AlienGirl too. Behind the Aegis May 2014 #182
a few weeks back warrprayer May 2014 #9
Yes, Blondeatlast or else Sapphocrat. closeupready May 2014 #68
Cali started a thread 3 days ago Nye Bevan May 2014 #4
Hands down, NYer99 and an extremely close second... Cooley Hurd May 2014 #7
I was thinking about Roni recently. lpbk2713 May 2014 #13
She was ALWAYS on top of that!!! Cooley Hurd May 2014 #20
I miss her, too, still don't have as many posts as she had. Rhiannon12866 May 2014 #96
You'd be hard pressed to equal her numbers Maeve May 2014 #160
There are three I was close to, and I really can't decide ... CaliforniaPeggy May 2014 #8
I know what you mean, CaliforniaPeggy warrprayer May 2014 #21
Khash broke me xmas74 May 2014 #67
Khash told me you two were friends, and I thought that was so cool. CaliforniaPeggy May 2014 #69
He had pics of my daughter all dressed up for Halloween and xmas74 May 2014 #78
Ah, I hear ya! CaliforniaPeggy May 2014 #79
All these years later xmas74 May 2014 #81
Swamp Rat tabasco May 2014 #10
Yes!!!! Cooley Hurd May 2014 #29
Anyone know what happened to them? stevenleser May 2014 #120
Yep n/t n2doc May 2014 #121
Yes! Heidi May 2014 #166
(((Swamp Rat))) alittlelark May 2014 #178
SwampRat For One... There Is SOOOOOO Much Material For His Artworks These Days... WillyT May 2014 #11
I've seen reposts of SwampRats art warrprayer May 2014 #23
Yes It Is !!! WillyT May 2014 #39
there are so many, but certainly G_j May 2014 #73
i bow to the SwampRat spanone May 2014 #159
Come home, Swampy! Generic Other May 2014 #240
Khephra always had fascinating posts. arcane1 May 2014 #12
Yes And Yes !!! WillyT May 2014 #41
Loved Khephra kskiska May 2014 #165
Khephra was a huge loss..... alittlelark May 2014 #179
Yes, Khephra spinbaby May 2014 #216
Cali is still here. GeorgeGist May 2014 #14
thanks I edited the op warrprayer May 2014 #134
God_bush_&_cheney. Aristus May 2014 #15
I remember reading about him. warrprayer May 2014 #25
Andy... such a good dude... Cooley Hurd May 2014 #31
I was fortunate to meet him before and after his surgery. He was a very sweet man s-cubed May 2014 #61
Hey buddy! Long time no see..... bettyellen May 2014 #239
Andy. yes. n/t catrose May 2014 #64
I miss Andy, too emsimon33 May 2014 #100
Of the dear departed, MFM is still hitting me hard. Iggo May 2014 #16
Not necessarily passed away... warrprayer May 2014 #17
Nothingshocksmeanymore Texasgal May 2014 #18
Miss her, too. Got to meet her in person "back in the day." Also PurityofEssence villager May 2014 #22
sorry for your loss warrprayer May 2014 #24
There are some very good folks here villager May 2014 #26
you don't appreciate it as much warrprayer May 2014 #32
This is the first I heard of Purity...I must have been offline for awhile when it happened. blm May 2014 #85
I had the sad duty of writing up his "obit" here: villager May 2014 #88
I checked and my name IS on there - geez - I better get to a doctor. blm May 2014 #92
I think you've done him proud, if that's any consolation. merrily May 2014 #252
Thanks, merrily! Well, we met as young-wanna-be-writers in college... villager May 2014 #265
Readable yes, but it's not only your writing skills I was complimenting. merrily May 2014 #267
Well, shucks.... villager May 2014 #270
So many names on this list... Javaman May 2014 #197
One of my old pals - I truly miss NSMA... Cooley Hurd May 2014 #33
Me too.. Texasgal May 2014 #36
Me, too! salin May 2014 #191
And, let's face it, we all had little crushes on her whether we were gay or straight, male or female blm May 2014 #87
I agree. I also got to meet her in person. Cleita May 2014 #227
same here....I felt out of place in the lounge after Gbnc, 180, and kef passed on. blm May 2014 #229
MiddleFingerMom was a funny fella. Still really miss him. AverageJoe90 May 2014 #27
Definitely! n/t RKP5637 May 2014 #82
eFerrari Agony May 2014 #28
Man... this is bringing so much back... Cooley Hurd May 2014 #35
She became SF Expat, I think, but then she went away... Comrade Grumpy May 2014 #49
It was the other way around... Change has come May 2014 #98
Whatever happened to sfexpat2000 emsimon33 May 2014 #102
I am privileged to be friends with EFerrari on Facebook KamaAina May 2014 #214
That is good to hear. Agony May 2014 #217
Eloriel is the first to spring to mind. Skip Intro May 2014 #30
Missing her too!!! Cooley Hurd May 2014 #34
go over and say hello to her on Discussionist! bettyellen May 2014 #247
She posted at the Discussionist looking to find old friends. bettyellen May 2014 #238
You mean the troll who was banned several times over? CreekDog May 2014 #260
Gotta log out for now... warrprayer May 2014 #38
Random Thoughts grasswire May 2014 #48
I am due beer and travel money and many experiences.... FSogol May 2014 #76
LOL. For some reason, Random Thoughts really pissed me off -- his actual Nay May 2014 #113
I didn't think of him as mindless at all. grasswire May 2014 #115
Interesting...I'd read one of RT's posts and say to myself: "WTH was the Nay May 2014 #116
this. n/t lumberjack_jeff May 2014 #174
Random Thoughts may not have been impaired in any way agent46 May 2014 #254
I don't think he was impaired at all. grasswire May 2014 #255
oneighty Brother Buzz May 2014 #40
Kephra. latest breaking news, and other content. Turn CO Blue May 2014 #42
JeffR... SidDithers May 2014 #43
thanks for the memory Sid n/t warrprayer May 2014 #130
JeffR...definitely. Skidmore May 2014 #137
Random Thoughts corkhead May 2014 #44
ScreamingLordByron, BigMcLargeHuge Metatron May 2014 #45
you got al hedges correct PeaceNikki May 2014 #202
Oh, I like his 2nd name, too Metatron May 2014 #233
Shortly before Dookus passed away, we had a hilarious conversation PeaceNikki May 2014 #236
That sounds just like Dookus! Metatron May 2014 #237
NewYawker99. It's been a long time since she was around to greet everyone. madinmaryland May 2014 #47
Agreed. She was the first to welcome me when I got here. Adsos Letter May 2014 #53
Yes she did. A very nice touch to the earlier days of DU. madinmaryland May 2014 #54
Yes. It was a different community back then. Adsos Letter May 2014 #56
Any clue what happened to her? Hippo_Tron May 2014 #158
There were comments about her not being in good health, but I really don't know. madinmaryland May 2014 #161
My understanding is that she developed Alzheimer's symptoms Hissyspit May 2014 #262
WannaJumpMyScooter Adsos Letter May 2014 #50
Good list. Also Forrest Gump! villager May 2014 #57
Yes. I didn't land here until 2007... Adsos Letter May 2014 #58
I misss my old friend Oeditpus Rex grasswire May 2014 #51
Also (as someone above mentioned) RandomThoughts Adsos Letter May 2014 #55
Forkboy. 'Cause he was the shit. nt Guy Whitey Corngood May 2014 #59
loved me some Forkboy Skittles May 2014 #110
Just read that thread about the Godzilla movie and it reminded me of him. nt Guy Whitey Corngood May 2014 #200
Nance Egnever May 2014 #60
Nance is at another site Algernon Moncrieff May 2014 #231
I know Egnever May 2014 #232
LegendInHisOwnMindCrime MattBaggins May 2014 #62
Ulysses and Salin (though she's still a lurker) Armstead May 2014 #63
did I hear my name mentioned? ulysses May 2014 #95
Hello my friend! I have missed you! CottonBear May 2014 #107
Ya bum! Armstead May 2014 #123
I miss my old tag team partner Armstead May 2014 #124
YES!!!! Heidi May 2014 #167
Hey You!! salin May 2014 #193
It's great to see you salin! myrna minx May 2014 #198
Always great to cross paths with you myrna minx! salin May 2014 #199
looks like you called both of us out :D salin May 2014 #192
I don't post nearly as much overall -- but still keep my hand in... Armstead May 2014 #194
Did Cali leave? fadedrose May 2014 #65
No, but her posting frequency has decreased. Laelth May 2014 #209
MrCoffee Dr. Strange May 2014 #66
Seconded. flvegan May 2014 #72
+1 HuckleB May 2014 #152
SwampRat and MFM sakabatou May 2014 #70
blondeatlast, Don the union guy, I forget his screen nick. Zodiac, MedicalAdmin Starry Messenger May 2014 #71
Yes, I really miss blondeatlast LeftishBrit May 2014 #147
Catherina...nt Jesus Malverde May 2014 #74
Yes malaise May 2014 #112
Yes, I rather think you might Bosonic May 2014 #208
Thank you very much malaise May 2014 #210
......... Tommy_Carcetti May 2014 #218
........... Tommy_Carcetti May 2014 #271
Thanks!..nt Jesus Malverde May 2014 #249
+1 nt Earth_First May 2014 #114
Librarygirl Hassin Bin Sober May 2014 #75
I know what you mean, but she can be found at the new site. Autumn May 2014 #169
Farmboxer and Jiacinto DisgustipatedinCA May 2014 #77
Jiacento - yuck! Metatron May 2014 #91
Farmboxer, definitely Art_from_Ark May 2014 #108
Oh, yes, Farmboxer kskiska May 2014 #163
I miss Tangerine LaBamba malaise May 2014 #80
you said it n/t Mira May 2014 #89
Yes. Blue_In_AK May 2014 #104
Andy Stephenson. greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #84
That one one the hardest hit for me.... alittlelark May 2014 #184
Yes, they did a terrible thing to Andy. greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #196
Travner (I think I spelled it right) always had something pithy to say. n/t RKP5637 May 2014 #90
Bobbolink. She was like the Lorax for homeless people aikoaiko May 2014 #93
Arwalden and his love for Queer Duck and Marion Lorne (Aunt Clara of Bewitched) Rowdyboy May 2014 #97
arwalden is a good man. PeaceNikki May 2014 #118
I used to live for his threads when I lurked on DU at work. Autumn May 2014 #170
DS1 Adsos Letter May 2014 #99
I miss ConsAreLiars and F. Gordon Blue_In_AK May 2014 #101
Saltpoint is one of my favourites; but I actually saw a post from him recently LeftishBrit May 2014 #133
Oh, really? Blue_In_AK May 2014 #153
I miss bliss_eternal. Behind the Aegis May 2014 #105
Yeah me too ismnotwasm May 2014 #146
It used to be ductapefatwa, but now it's Grateful For Hope... Violet_Crumble May 2014 #106
oneighty Skittles May 2014 #109
ulysses, Rubyduby in GA, burythehatchet, Lurking Argyle & BOSSHOG CottonBear May 2014 #111
Midlodemocrat Tommy_Carcetti May 2014 #117
Swamp Rat Tsiyu May 2014 #119
Indeed, miss all of those posters. Skidmore May 2014 #138
TahitiNut Tierra_y_Libertad May 2014 #122
a TropiCaliFornicatedFruitcake!!! or something like that... Agony May 2014 #149
Yup. n/t lumberjack_jeff May 2014 #175
Yeah, The Nut Was One of My Pals Here ProfessorGAC May 2014 #268
Sapphire Blue, who kept us all on our toes and Wiley50... countryjake May 2014 #125
Cali left? What did I miss? Squinch May 2014 #126
she is not gone warrprayer May 2014 #129
Oh, good. I have too. Thanks for the information. Squinch May 2014 #139
A whole list of them, starting with Tangerine La Bamba Warpy May 2014 #127
all good ones n/t warrprayer May 2014 #131
Swampy and Shadow Prophet 451 May 2014 #128
thanks warrprayer May 2014 #132
Cali is still here, luckily. As regards those whom I miss... LeftishBrit May 2014 #135
I enjoy reading posts from overseas (from here) D.U.ers! warrprayer May 2014 #140
Walt Starr Blue_In_AK May 2014 #155
"Right fucking now!" :-p Guy Whitey Corngood May 2014 #201
I really liked Taxloss too. Behind the Aegis May 2014 #186
DonRedwood SixString May 2014 #141
great posts! warrprayer May 2014 #142
Grateful for hope. hrmjustin May 2014 #143
Man so many gone.... warrprayer May 2014 #144
Agreed. People care about one another here. hrmjustin May 2014 #145
That is what warrprayer May 2014 #148
Yes, her too, of course. greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #195
I don't like to think that she's gone. nt msanthrope May 2014 #220
I don't miss any of you assholes either. Sky Masterson May 2014 #150
You. mwdem May 2014 #205
Pretzelwarrior Puzzledtraveller May 2014 #154
Oh, he's been back, a couple of times. I think I know his latest incarnation, too. Electric Monk May 2014 #171
laconicsax HuckleB May 2014 #156
There are several, but I will add Time for Change to the list ... slipslidingaway May 2014 #162
Longhorn. She was so hopeful about her illness. Manifestor_of_Light May 2014 #172
Ptah is still here. nt grasswire May 2014 #180
Haven't seen grantcart in awhile, hope they're well. joshcryer May 2014 #173
Funny.. that's who I was thinking of, josh. Because he's been gone from DU Cha May 2014 #183
Me, too. Him and FrenchieCat, both. Major Hogwash May 2014 #187
+1 nt stevenleser May 2014 #226
Redstone. And DS1. MissB May 2014 #176
"I remember now...I remember how it started" hfojvt May 2014 #177
Must mention Hippywife... grasswire May 2014 #181
I also miss Xultar and cboy! Behind the Aegis May 2014 #185
xultar is all over twitter. she's a gem. PeaceNikki May 2014 #207
matcom? edbermac May 2014 #188
Yes! mwdem May 2014 #206
Taking a small but pertinent diversion defacto7 May 2014 #189
Robb Major Hogwash May 2014 #190
I guess that explains warrprayer May 2014 #212
I miss him. nt msanthrope May 2014 #222
+1 nt stevenleser May 2014 #225
TahitiNut Laelth May 2014 #203
What happened yuiyoshida May 2014 #223
You might try here.... Algernon Moncrieff May 2014 #245
I recall that name Liberal_in_LA May 2014 #242
The list is too long. obxhead May 2014 #204
didn't know he was gone... warrprayer May 2014 #211
I see some lurkers have dropped in... warrprayer May 2014 #213
She. Hissyspit May 2014 #263
Release the duck!!!! nt Tommy_Carcetti May 2014 #219
Kitchy and Midlo KamaAina May 2014 #215
Send them my regards! Tommy_Carcetti May 2014 #257
Sapphire Blue.. butterfly77 May 2014 #221
Is SoCalDem still around kwolf68 May 2014 #224
May be lurking.... warrprayer May 2014 #235
TruthIsAll, Autorank, Khepra. byronius May 2014 #228
EFerrari. Cleita May 2014 #230
I was glad to se meta go warrprayer May 2014 #234
+1 Hissyspit May 2014 #261
Redstone. crim son May 2014 #241
K&R. Beausoir May 2014 #244
(((hugs))) n/t crim son May 2014 #250
Indeed. LeftishBrit May 2014 #258
Seventhson. Arkana May 2014 #243
Opihimoimoi Art_from_Ark May 2014 #246
Nostamj - he made me laugh so hard I was crying one time . . . hatrack May 2014 #248
I miss him too thecrow May 2014 #251
This thread should have more recs! merrily May 2014 #253
I miss Sniffa! And Jonny. And Progmom, but am in touch with her. bettyellen May 2014 #256
Matcom, ZombyWoof, GOPisEvil, NothingShocksMeAnymore, MidloDemocrat, ForrestGump, Rabrrrrrr, SOteric May 2014 #259
Yes, they were great Lydia Leftcoast May 2014 #266
Swamp Rat, Seemslikeadream, Philosophorapter Beringia May 2014 #264
Jason Leopold DisgustedTX May 2014 #269

TexasTowelie

(112,210 posts)
103. Joining the crowd on this vote.
Thu May 15, 2014, 03:45 AM
May 2014

I've only been here about three years though so I missed out on a lot of the other DUers.

nolabear

(41,977 posts)
151. Miss the hell out of him. Still can't believe he's gone.
Thu May 15, 2014, 07:32 PM
May 2014

Somewhere in the pantsless section of paradise...

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
6. I thought I saw something from her not long ago too.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:27 PM
May 2014

I had been wondering what had happened.

For some reason, Tangerine LaBamba/OldLeftyLawyer (& God knows what other usernames she went through) comes to mind.

Also Aliengirl.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
182. I miss AlienGirl too.
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:18 AM
May 2014

We used to have long conversations off-DU. She talked about her kids a lot. When she passed, all I could think about were her kids and her birds (we shared birds in common).

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
68. Yes, Blondeatlast or else Sapphocrat.
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:17 PM
May 2014

Blonde, of course, passed away, but Sappho left of her own accord, and I miss her all the time.

lpbk2713

(42,757 posts)
13. I was thinking about Roni recently.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:32 PM
May 2014



Both our odometers will turn over 25,000 posts soon and without her it will just be another day.


Rhiannon12866

(205,405 posts)
96. I miss her, too, still don't have as many posts as she had.
Wed May 14, 2014, 10:41 PM
May 2014

She was my first friend on DU, welcomed me on my very first post...

Maeve

(42,282 posts)
160. You'd be hard pressed to equal her numbers
Thu May 15, 2014, 07:53 PM
May 2014

With the welcomes, the milestones and the vast number of mostly-unseen mod posts, she was a posting dynamo.
Muchly missed.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,627 posts)
8. There are three I was close to, and I really can't decide ...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:29 PM
May 2014

Redstone, Khashka and MiddleFingerMom.......all of them dear to me.

All very liberal, very smart, and so well-spoken.

All gone way way before they should have been...

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
21. I know what you mean, CaliforniaPeggy
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:37 PM
May 2014

There seems to be no end to the supply of hateful wingnuts.

Smart, liberal thinkers are in short supply and every loss is felt that much more.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
67. Khash broke me
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:16 PM
May 2014

I took a break from here not long after that. I still sometimes go back to the old DU and read some of his threads. We had some crazy late night conversations and I always swore we'd meet up someday for a visit. He liked when I'd share a few pics of my daughter with him privately, since he knew I was usually quite careful with her pictures.

I always liked Redstone. I never really knew MFM.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,627 posts)
69. Khash told me you two were friends, and I thought that was so cool.
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:19 PM
May 2014

I always thought we'd meet in person too.

Redstone was so special; I didn't talk to him very often, but we always laughed.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
78. He had pics of my daughter all dressed up for Halloween and
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:34 PM
May 2014

such that I'd pm him. He loved the one with her as Dorothy, especially with her kissing her dog. I adored him and he knew it. At one time he was going to join me, Rev_Acts and a few others in forming a commune in the Ozarks, lol. We'd joked about that on a regular basis. Oh, and only the hottest men would be allowed to join us. He was going to be the judge of who the hottest were, of course.

I miss him. There are things going on in my life right now that I'd love to talk to him about. He'd give me good advice, make me laugh and feel good about my choices. I miss him.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,627 posts)
79. Ah, I hear ya!
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:38 PM
May 2014

He loved my poetry and always encouraged me.

Damn. Too young, way too young.

I miss him too......

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
81. All these years later
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:40 PM
May 2014

and I still need a tissue just thinking about him. Or maybe it's just the perimenopausal hormone surges making me weepy. At least, he'd make some snarky comment about it if he were still here.

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
11. SwampRat For One... There Is SOOOOOO Much Material For His Artworks These Days...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:31 PM
May 2014

The are others...




kskiska

(27,045 posts)
165. Loved Khephra
Fri May 16, 2014, 12:19 AM
May 2014

He was very thoughtful and level-headed. He was very kind to me in the early days. I remember how he had all those TVs to monitor the political news. So sad when he left us.

Aristus

(66,380 posts)
15. God_bush_&_cheney.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:33 PM
May 2014

Andy Stephenson. One of the first of the long-time DU-ers to leave us. He died much too young. And a mistake in scheduling robbed me of a face-to-face meeting with him at his sandwich shop in Seattle, back when he was getting hate mail from right-wingers.

I sent him a PM to apologize for missing him. He sent me a very sweet reply which I have kept to this day.

On the fun side, I miss NewWaveChick1981, Haole Girl, and Jimmy Jazz...

s-cubed

(1,385 posts)
61. I was fortunate to meet him before and after his surgery. He was a very sweet man
Wed May 14, 2014, 08:02 PM
May 2014

who worked so hard to get the word out about voting machines.

emsimon33

(3,128 posts)
100. I miss Andy, too
Thu May 15, 2014, 03:39 AM
May 2014

We still do not have verifiable voting! I think of him every stolen election....so that would be often!

Iggo

(47,555 posts)
16. Of the dear departed, MFM is still hitting me hard.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:34 PM
May 2014

Of the voluntarily vacated, I find myself missing Forkboy recently.

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
17. Not necessarily passed away...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:34 PM
May 2014

I am also referring to D.U.ers who just stopped posting for whatever reason.

Off the top of my head, MFM of course. Others probably have better memory...

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
22. Miss her, too. Got to meet her in person "back in the day." Also PurityofEssence
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:37 PM
May 2014

...who I miss for a plethora of reasons, since he was an old college friend, and passed away suddenly last summer...

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
26. There are some very good folks here
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:41 PM
May 2014

In the hurlyburly of things, it sometimes becomes easy to forget...

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
32. you don't appreciate it as much
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:43 PM
May 2014

until you get on an unmoderated message board and do battle with some of the real wingnuts.

blm

(113,063 posts)
85. This is the first I heard of Purity...I must have been offline for awhile when it happened.
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:43 PM
May 2014

Geez - I figured the new blood and infighting chased a lot of the old-timers away. I know I was gone for awhile, but, I was also working on campaigns. Damn - my heart hurts.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
88. I had the sad duty of writing up his "obit" here:
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:46 PM
May 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023466957

Not something I ever expected to do, when he first told me about this site, years ago...

blm

(113,063 posts)
92. I checked and my name IS on there - geez - I better get to a doctor.
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:51 PM
May 2014

I've been forgetting an awful lot lately.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
265. Thanks, merrily! Well, we met as young-wanna-be-writers in college...
Tue May 20, 2014, 08:55 PM
May 2014

...so I guess there is some consolation I was able to knock nouns together in a readable way, in honor of his memory...!

merrily

(45,251 posts)
267. Readable yes, but it's not only your writing skills I was complimenting.
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:18 AM
May 2014

You are a courageous and very able poster, so you have made the most of his bringing you to DU.

If he is lurking from the wherever he is, I know he is glad that he was able to leave a legacy here beyond only his own posts, namely you and your posts.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
270. Well, shucks....
Thu May 22, 2014, 01:13 PM
May 2014

Kind words indeed, thanks.

I did make an avatar change, to keep PurityofEssence's memory alive here...

blm

(113,063 posts)
87. And, let's face it, we all had little crushes on her whether we were gay or straight, male or female
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:45 PM
May 2014

; )

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
227. I agree. I also got to meet her in person.
Mon May 19, 2014, 01:47 PM
May 2014

She's a great gal. I don't know what happened to her, but it seems some bad shit came down in the lounge. Since I'm not a lounge lizard I never knew what happened.

 

Cooley Hurd

(26,877 posts)
35. Man... this is bringing so much back...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:45 PM
May 2014

Back then, we were all friends (until the primaries, of course )

Change has come

(2,372 posts)
98. It was the other way around...
Wed May 14, 2014, 11:16 PM
May 2014

sfexpat2000-EFerrari=Beth

I remember her posting pictures when folks got together and spelled out IMPEACH on a beach in San Fransisco...I believe her mother dotted the i.

I miss SaphireBlue too. And in a strange way, I miss the bizarreness that was OMC.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
30. Eloriel is the first to spring to mind.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:43 PM
May 2014

On edit, she just left the board with the Dean exodus.

I assume she's still with us in the larger sense.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
260. You mean the troll who was banned several times over?
Tue May 20, 2014, 01:15 PM
May 2014

she was with us, and with us again, and again...

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warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
38. Gotta log out for now...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:47 PM
May 2014

will check back in tomorrow...

who was the guy who was "promised beer and travel money"?

Read reposts of some of his stuff and laughed my ass off....

Feel free to keep going, I love to come back and see everyones posts! Public computer limits my time though..

Nay

(12,051 posts)
113. LOL. For some reason, Random Thoughts really pissed me off -- his actual
Thu May 15, 2014, 07:47 AM
May 2014

"random thoughts" must have kept reminding me that there are a lot of very damaged people walking around. I have no idea whether he/she was actually mindless, but if not, he/she played it well enough to piss me off every time.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
116. Interesting...I'd read one of RT's posts and say to myself: "WTH was the
Thu May 15, 2014, 08:21 AM
May 2014

point of that? And if he says 'beer and travel money' one more time, I'm going to kill myself."

He just pressed one of my hidden buttons, I guess.

agent46

(1,262 posts)
254. Random Thoughts may not have been impaired in any way
Tue May 20, 2014, 03:18 AM
May 2014
Check this out

Random Thoughts' faux-schitzo writing style actually seemed intentional in some ways if you analyzed it over time. His frequently, seemingly random, divergences from the thread topic often changed to topics referring to organizational malfeasance and political struggle in large ideological or religious organizations. I think his posts were full of dog whistles for others using DU as an untraceable communication medium - hiding in plain site so to speak. A lot of secretive groups do this on the internet.

DU is a perfect site for this kind of cloak and dagger shit. One can get their post count up high with hundreds of short disingenuous contributions to obscure forums on DU and then burst on the scene with your agenda and a high enough post count not to be challenged.

A lot of RT's posts didn't make much sense unless you slipped them into a context where they actually could make some sense.

Also, in several of his posts, he responded to challenges by suggesting that perhaps his posts are for certain readers out there who are able to understand him. So there's that.

I miss Random Thoughts. He was funny and optimistic and I always enjoyed his seeming nonsense like a brain teaser - to make order out of chaos and meaning out of word salad.

I hope he's ok. Whatever was going on there, I'm pretty sure he was one of the good guys.

May he receive his beer and travel money that, as has been proven, is due him.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
255. I don't think he was impaired at all.
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:49 AM
May 2014

I think he was very clever and wise. And amazing. Some people got it, some didn't.

Brother Buzz

(36,439 posts)
40. oneighty
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:48 PM
May 2014

His East coast childhood anecdotes mirrored my west coast experiences despite being separated by 3000 miles and a decade in age. I could smell the salt marsh when spun his stories.

Turn CO Blue

(4,221 posts)
42. Kephra. latest breaking news, and other content.
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:51 PM
May 2014

We learned everything here first and kephra was a significant contributor of content.

SidDithers

(44,228 posts)
43. JeffR...
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:53 PM
May 2014

JeffR was the DUzys, at a time when the DU was a different place, and the DUzys were something that the community enjoyed.

Sid

Metatron

(1,258 posts)
45. ScreamingLordByron, BigMcLargeHuge
Wed May 14, 2014, 06:56 PM
May 2014

WhoIsAlHedges (I don't think that's exactly right), John Kleeb
and Dookus and Kephra - RIP to both of them

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
202. you got al hedges correct
Fri May 16, 2014, 07:50 PM
May 2014


He changed his name to Magrittes Pipe but doesn't post anymore. I know him IRL.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
236. Shortly before Dookus passed away, we had a hilarious conversation
Mon May 19, 2014, 04:40 PM
May 2014

trying to put together a meet-up of a bunch of us who've kept in touch. He wanted me to find and invite "McBiggySmalls".

I knew who he meant.

Metatron

(1,258 posts)
237. That sounds just like Dookus!
Mon May 19, 2014, 05:51 PM
May 2014

The week before he passed away, I almost posted a thread in the lounge saying how much I missed Dookus. I really loved his posts. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
53. Agreed. She was the first to welcome me when I got here.
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:10 PM
May 2014

Didn't she also do the Landmark(?) posts when DUer's reached multiples of 1,000 in their posting?

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
56. Yes. It was a different community back then.
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:15 PM
May 2014

Certainly not without contention and strenuous disagreement, but it also had a more humane element that has since faded.

Hissyspit

(45,788 posts)
262. My understanding is that she developed Alzheimer's symptoms
Tue May 20, 2014, 02:02 PM
May 2014

and is in a home. I forget where I heard this, here or Facebook, but it came from someone who said they checked up on her.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
50. WannaJumpMyScooter
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:06 PM
May 2014

He was one of the old mainstays in the Photography group. An excellent professional photographer, and always generous with help for the less experienced/skillful. Great sense of humor as well.
WJMS is doing well as far as I know, but just got fed up with some things around here.
Also miss JeffR, EFerrari, and NewYawker99.
And MonkeyFunk.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
58. Yes. I didn't land here until 2007...
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:25 PM
May 2014

...but a lot of the truly old-timers were still here. I'm horrible at remembering names, but some still come to mind.
LostInNewJersey

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
51. I misss my old friend Oeditpus Rex
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:07 PM
May 2014

We had been online friends since the early days of AOL. He came to DU after I did, and then wandered off to My Space eventually.

I also miss our Hawaiian friend opi-vowel-consonant-vowel-consonant. Can't remember how to spell his name. He was always very cheery, in an aloha way.

Lots more.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
55. Also (as someone above mentioned) RandomThoughts
Wed May 14, 2014, 07:13 PM
May 2014

I hope he finally received his beer and travel money, and has had many experiences.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
63. Ulysses and Salin (though she's still a lurker)
Wed May 14, 2014, 08:14 PM
May 2014

Ulysses -- a really good guy who I always agreed with....Which means he was also right about everything Okay just joshing about that last part. But I always appreciated his ability to have clear views and general civility mixed with good natured snarkiness and humor.


Salin, also because we thought alike, and she is so sincere and nice, and put a lot of thought into her posts. (She's still lurking, I think, but not active like in the old days.)

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
107. Hello my friend! I have missed you!
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:01 AM
May 2014

I hope you and your family have been well. I know that your baby is all grown up now! How time flies! I am sure Chris is a handsome & smart young man!

I have a 5 year old son! He is a joy! We have two more days of Pre-K to go!

I last saw you and our GA DU friends in 2008 in East Atlanta. I miss Burythehatchet, Rubyduby in GA, Lurking Argyle, Cat woman, MG Krebs, Mike and Kathy & all the rest of our GA DU friends.

I would love to meet up with everyone this summer! Please tell your wife and son hello!

CB



 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
123. Ya bum!
Thu May 15, 2014, 02:56 PM
May 2014

Thought you'd disappeared from DU. Where you been? And how did you magically find your name?

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
124. I miss my old tag team partner
Thu May 15, 2014, 03:01 PM
May 2014

I'm still here on and off. I fade out for a while , then show up again when something pisses me off.

salin

(48,955 posts)
199. Always great to cross paths with you myrna minx!
Fri May 16, 2014, 07:19 PM
May 2014

I am well - just tired (very busy time of the year for me.) I hope that you are well.

salin

(48,955 posts)
192. looks like you called both of us out :D
Fri May 16, 2014, 06:31 AM
May 2014

HI!

Yes, I still lurk. Don't have the time, or stamina to post/discuss much.

Good to see you!

(Glad to see Ulysses as well!)

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
194. I don't post nearly as much overall -- but still keep my hand in...
Fri May 16, 2014, 09:06 AM
May 2014

...especially when my "hair is on fire" about things.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
209. No, but her posting frequency has decreased.
Fri May 16, 2014, 07:55 PM
May 2014

That was by design. She wanted to take a bit of a break.

-Laelth

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
71. blondeatlast, Don the union guy, I forget his screen nick. Zodiac, MedicalAdmin
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:22 PM
May 2014

We've had lots of sad losses. blondeatlast always guts me because I was friended with her on FB and every year the notification comes up for her birthday and I see how young she was.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
108. Farmboxer, definitely
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:02 AM
May 2014

And oneighty.

And Q. He made a brief reappearance a few years ago and said that he was coming back, but I haven't seen him since.

alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
184. That one one the hardest hit for me....
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:20 AM
May 2014

...I donated almost 1K.... and the FR f*ckwads got $$ locked up before he could get treatment... it still makes me


aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
93. Bobbolink. She was like the Lorax for homeless people
Wed May 14, 2014, 09:51 PM
May 2014

I wish her wellness and peace because I think she suffered for a long time.

Autumn

(45,095 posts)
170. I used to live for his threads when I lurked on DU at work.
Fri May 16, 2014, 12:47 AM
May 2014
He is unforgettable. His confessional thread is IMO the best one ever.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
99. DS1
Wed May 14, 2014, 11:28 PM
May 2014

Didn't always agree with him, and he could be a bit rude at times; still, he was one of the stalwarts of the Photography Group, a very good photographer, and more than willing to help people learn to improve their picture takin' skills.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
101. I miss ConsAreLiars and F. Gordon
Thu May 15, 2014, 03:44 AM
May 2014

who taught me so much about photography.

I also really miss Old Crusoe/Saltpoint and Tangerine laBomba/Old Lefty Lawyer. Oh, and JeffR, although I see him on Facebook.

But that's just for starters. Many of my favorite people are no longer here.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
105. I miss bliss_eternal.
Thu May 15, 2014, 04:27 AM
May 2014

We were buddies, but she just couldn't take it here anymore.

ETA: I also miss Colorado_Blue and barb162.

ismnotwasm

(41,984 posts)
146. Yeah me too
Thu May 15, 2014, 06:11 PM
May 2014

We exchanged a lot of PM's-- one of the few I do that with, but she was through here. I really liked her

Violet_Crumble

(35,961 posts)
106. It used to be ductapefatwa, but now it's Grateful For Hope...
Thu May 15, 2014, 04:46 AM
May 2014

The reason I miss her the most is that her passing was such a shock, and she was my best friend at DU. She was a steadying influence on me coz I'm kind of temperamental, and used to have endless patience for me when I'd bounce things off her, and she always thought I was a better person than I think I am.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
111. ulysses, Rubyduby in GA, burythehatchet, Lurking Argyle & BOSSHOG
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:55 AM
May 2014

I miss my GA DU friends. I last met up with them in East Atlanta in March of 2008. ulysses' & Ruby's kids were babies then.

I have had the great pleasure of meeting many awesome, longtime DUers at our Atlanta meetings. Catwoman and Mike and Kathy Malloy are some of my favorite DU people!

BOSSHOG and I loved to discuss gardening (especially azaleas and veggies) in the southeast, SEC football, pink flamingos (as in tacky lawn ornaments),New Orleans and NOLA/Cajun/Creole cuisine.

Agony

(2,605 posts)
149. a TropiCaliFornicatedFruitcake!!! or something like that...
Thu May 15, 2014, 06:47 PM
May 2014

if memory serves me right strange, the stuff that inhabits ones memory cells, eh?

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
125. Sapphire Blue, who kept us all on our toes and Wiley50...
Thu May 15, 2014, 04:45 PM
May 2014

She worked tirelessly for the downtrodden and made sure that DUers were informed of issues that required our help.

I think she must have had a heart of gold...when I look back at some of my mail from her, our personal conversations that I'd saved from the old days, they bring me to tears, she was such a sweetie (and a true fighter). Mazel tov, my friend!

The world lost a most compassionate person when she died. Here is a link to her old Journal, if you wish to see what Sapphire Blue was about:

http://journals.democraticunderground.com/Sapphire%20Blue


I was also reminded of dear Wiley50 when I peeked into my saved email folder...we shared many similar interests (and health problems) and he will always be sorely missed at this forum. Sail away, Wiley!


For the DUer who left out of frustration and who I will always consider one of the best here, I miss EFerrari.

Please come back, Beth!


Now, the DUer who I miss the most and who I consider the one who carried this place on his shoulders, always ... that would be Khephra. Scott was "The Latest Breaking News" and he made DU the site to come to if you wanted to find out what was happening, anywhere. His efforts in building DU into what it is now will forever be remembered and appreciated. Peace, Khephra.

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
129. she is not gone
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:11 PM
May 2014

I edited the op to reflect that.

I was going by this old thread...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024781345

I'm glad she did not go. I have learned a good deal from Cali.

Warpy

(111,267 posts)
127. A whole list of them, starting with Tangerine La Bamba
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:10 PM
May 2014

who went goofy enough toward the end of her life that she was tombstoned. Redstone for his wit and ability to skewer the right so perfectly. MFM, of course, he left a big hole very recently. The pre meltdown Bobbolink, I hurt when I think of her and hope she has found the help she needs. And bringing up the rear but certainly no less important, Swamp Rat. I miss his gifs.

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
135. Cali is still here, luckily. As regards those whom I miss...
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:31 PM
May 2014

I think the two whom I personally miss most, though neither left for any tragic reason so far as I know, and I think both are still listed as members, are Taxloss and Demoleft.

Taxloss was a great UK poster, whom I 'met' in my early days of posting on that forum when it was set up in 2004, and he continued there for some years after that. A really good ally against Blairism, Toryism, Republicanism and all manner of idiocy.

Demoleft was (is) an Italian, who brought a great continental Europaean perspective to the forum.

Both great people to have around, and helped make DU do the opposite of suck!

ETA: Two other great posters, who made it on to DU3, but whom I haven't seen here in quite a while, are Salvorhardin and Varkam.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
186. I really liked Taxloss too.
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:23 AM
May 2014

I haven't seen Salvorhardin either. The old gang from that other website...remember? LOL!

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
144. Man so many gone....
Thu May 15, 2014, 05:55 PM
May 2014

One thing about D.U. that strikes me as so different than anywhere else is the level of CARING.

When someone passes, when their pet dies, when they are going through a hard time, the outpouring of genuine concern and love is OVERWHELMING.

I have never seen anything like it anywhere else.

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
154. Pretzelwarrior
Thu May 15, 2014, 07:41 PM
May 2014

GrahamForAnything as runner up, why either of them? They really knew how to agitate a thread.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
171. Oh, he's been back, a couple of times. I think I know his latest incarnation, too.
Fri May 16, 2014, 12:56 AM
May 2014

Not gonna say it here, though.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
172. Longhorn. She was so hopeful about her illness.
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:02 AM
May 2014

A fellow Texan. She was felled by cancer.

I also miss Andy Stephenson, Khephra, and of course, MFM and his wonderful silliness that so often put a smile on my face.

Is Ptah still around? Or AdsosLetter? He used to post fabulous stuff about archaeology.

Cha

(297,259 posts)
183. Funny.. that's who I was thinking of, josh. Because he's been gone from DU
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:19 AM
May 2014

the most recently and his writing is brilliant. Nice guy, too. A lot of good people are gone and not just to heaven either. Just not posting on DU anymore.

MissB

(15,808 posts)
176. Redstone. And DS1.
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:26 AM
May 2014

And MFM.

Why? They all had amazing 'voices'.

I assume DS1 is still on the interwebs somewhere.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
177. "I remember now...I remember how it started"
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:54 AM
May 2014

"I can't remember yesterday. I just remember doing what they told me... told me....told me"

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
181. Must mention Hippywife...
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:18 AM
May 2014

....the dear friend of the Cooking and Baking forum. She was driven away by the cruel stalking by Cavers.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
185. I also miss Xultar and cboy!
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:20 AM
May 2014

I the latter could be a handful, but he and I always got along really well. And Xultar, who can forget that funky pink afro?! We shared a love of Chihuahuas and New Orleans.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
189. Taking a small but pertinent diversion
Fri May 16, 2014, 02:43 AM
May 2014

there are a few posters on DU right now that I have great respect for, who write very well thought out and passionate articles. I miss being able to connect with them because it's evident I'm not considered of the same standard. Maybe rightfully so. So I just read their comments and soak in a bit of their experience. If they went away, they would certainly be on my list of missed posters.

I won't out a list.

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
213. I see some lurkers have dropped in...
Mon May 19, 2014, 12:43 PM
May 2014

to say hi to old friends, so this thread was a success!

And to all my old friends, whether I mentioned you or not...






 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
215. Kitchy and Midlo
Mon May 19, 2014, 12:44 PM
May 2014

both are staples of my FB virtual life.

Also nice to see Swampy getting some shoutouts.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
257. Send them my regards!
Tue May 20, 2014, 12:16 PM
May 2014

I'd love to see more of TZ on here as well, but I'm guessing she's stuck in a traffic circle in DC somewhere.

kwolf68

(7,365 posts)
224. Is SoCalDem still around
Mon May 19, 2014, 01:30 PM
May 2014

SoCalDem posted one of the most hilarious things I've ever read when he/she posted about the 2004 Republican convention...

highlights include

-FUDick
-Cheeses of Nazareth
-Fetus drill team
-Tommy Ridge breathing fire

It was the greatest thing ever posted.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
230. EFerrari.
Mon May 19, 2014, 03:22 PM
May 2014

One of the many now gone posters who actually contributed posts with substance and thought. It seems she was a victim of meta.

hatrack

(59,587 posts)
248. Nostamj - he made me laugh so hard I was crying one time . . .
Mon May 19, 2014, 11:18 PM
May 2014

It was right around the run-up to Operation Iraqi Liberation, and he was posting an article about the threat posed by nerve gas.

(Except that the words "nerve gas" were posted - repeatedly - in a scary, green, wavy font, and they were really big, and, y'know . . . scary!!!)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
253. This thread should have more recs!
Tue May 20, 2014, 02:49 AM
May 2014

I recognize only one name, maybe two, and from other boards. Don't know if they were the same people, though.

As to those who have gone ahead, I am sorry for the loss of all who miss them and I am sorry that I did not get to know them.

As to those who have wandered away because of disagreements, your friends miss you. Come on back and say hi. You can always ignore the ones with whom you disagree.

As to those who got banned, meet your DU friends at The Dissenter (and try to behave this time, LOL).

SOteric

(22,557 posts)
259. Matcom, ZombyWoof, GOPisEvil, NothingShocksMeAnymore, MidloDemocrat, ForrestGump, Rabrrrrrr,
Tue May 20, 2014, 12:49 PM
May 2014

DS1, Sniffa, DoloAmber, WhoisAlHedges, Ulysses, Salin...

They were bright, articulate, tremendously fun and decidedly progressive.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
266. Yes, they were great
Tue May 20, 2014, 09:11 PM
May 2014

I actually met Rabrrrrrr and spoke with Salin on the phone once and am still Facebook friends with Ulysses.

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