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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI'm out the door to take my beloved to her mother's side at the hospital. UPDATE: See Post #64. nt
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She suffered a stroke on top of already being in ICU for other critical problems. It doesn't look good.
If you love God, please pray for them both. Otherwise, your positive vibes will surely help ease the transition, no matter the direction it takes.
I usually like to stay and participate in my OPs, but I hope you understand.
She's ready to go now. Thank you all in advance.
MineralMan
(146,325 posts)vankuria
(904 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)RKP5637
(67,112 posts)William769
(55,147 posts)villager
(26,001 posts)May the journeying ahead be as easy as it can on everyone....
sakabatou
(42,170 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)my thoughts are with you.
sorry.
Coventina
(27,161 posts)Get back to us when you can. We'll be here.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)dballance
(5,756 posts)One of the things the nurses and therapists told us when my dad was in hospice is that it is important to tell your loved one it is okay to go. That you love them, you'll always remember them and you'll be okay even after they are gone.
newcriminal
(2,190 posts)not that his mother-in-law was ready to die.
dballance
(5,756 posts)However, my advice still applies to dealing with a loved one in the last part of their life. I have that experience and wish to share it with others to help them deal with these difficult times.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)newcriminal
(2,190 posts)uppityperson
(115,678 posts)FSogol
(45,519 posts)NEOhiodemocrat
(912 posts)Hope everything goes well. Peace to your family.
MissDeeds
(7,499 posts)possible outcome. I hope your beloved and her mother are granted strength and healing throughout this painful ordeal. My thoughts are with you all.
MissDeeds
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)LoisB
(7,222 posts)hue
(4,949 posts)gademocrat7
(10,665 posts)silvershadow
(10,336 posts)Liberalynn
(7,549 posts)shenmue
(38,506 posts)PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)peace, comfort and prayers said for you all.
bluesbassman
(19,379 posts)Peacetrain
(22,878 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,681 posts)And we sure do understand...
hamsterjill
(15,223 posts)I'm so sorry...
snacker
(3,619 posts)Peace
Ecumenist
(6,086 posts)You are NOT alone, honey....
Ishoutandscream2
(6,663 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)Thinking positive thoughts.
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)woodsprite
(11,923 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)handmade34
(22,757 posts)peace13
(11,076 posts)I hold you in my heart at this time. Peace, Kim
TheBlackAdder
(28,211 posts)mia
(8,361 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)We really do not matter that much
TygrBright
(20,763 posts)Beacool
(30,250 posts)My thoughts and prayers will be with her and her mother.
The Wielding Truth
(11,415 posts)Granny M
(1,395 posts)gringo43
(16 posts)Oldtimeralso
(1,937 posts)barbtries
(28,810 posts)to you all.
Riftaxe
(2,693 posts)Best wishes, and and if need be remember there is real person in there somewhere! So worse thing you can do is treat her differently then you normally do.
best remedy!
irisblue
(33,018 posts)for her, you and her mother.
malaise
(269,157 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)JI7
(89,262 posts)Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(108,157 posts)My condolences to you and your family.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)My Mom has suffered two strokes (and an unknown number of "mini-strokes" over the past 5 years. I spent last week celebrating her 90th Birthday.
I guess that's to say ... what doesn't look good to us, there are times when the Universe has a different vision.
niyad
(113,524 posts)Rhiannon12866
(205,839 posts)I lost my mother in 2011. She fell down the stairs in the dark when Hurricane Irene caused the power to go out. She was rushed to a medical center over an hour away and I drove there to see her every day for three weeks. My thoughts and prayers are with all three of you.
Hekate
(90,773 posts)May peace be in all your hearts.
DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)Please update us on her progress!
Rider3
(919 posts)My thoughts are prayers are with you.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)My beloved's mother passed away just after 10am this morning. She was in no pain and passed peacefully.
It's been a long couple of days and nights. Just know that I appreciate each and every word every one of you took the time think about and write and the positive energy you sent through the universe to help ease her transition to the other side.
Peace and love to you all.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)Take care of yourself and your beloved at this difficult time. The loss of a dear parent is so very difficult. It is always too soon. Hugs to you both. Rest in peace, dear lady
countryjake
(8,554 posts)Peace
joshcryer
(62,276 posts)Best wishes.
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)My condolences to you and your family.