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We often talk about the importance of having the Obamas in the White House for reasons that go beyond just the political. Many tend to forget how recently systems like slavery and segregation were in place in this country. Just fifty years ago, our First Lady would not have been allowed to use the same bathroom as the woman she is facing.
When people talk about the impact of just the visual of the Obamassimply seeing them occupy spaces that no other people of color, black or otherwise have ever been in in America, they're talking about images like this.
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Cha
(297,275 posts)come so far on our impossibly long journey and still there's more to travel.
Flippancy
(3 posts)I was transferring from Ft Monmouth NJ to Redstone Arsenal AL. Because it was the labor day weekend the Huntsville airport was closed and we landed in Chattanooga and took a bus from there to Huntsville. At the rest stop they had the white and colored restrooms and no "colored " were allowed into the restaurant. All they could access was the colored water fountain. I asked whether anyone wanted food or a drink and took orders and bought the stuff for them. I guess it may have been the fact that I grew up in a co-ed integrated boarding school which was like Boy's Town, but predated Boy's Town by a dozen years, but it never occurred to me that there was any reason for the segregation. It wasn't until some time later that it occurred to me that perhaps I shouldn't have done that because it supported the racist scumbags, or that it was a sad commentary on how the poor Southern blacks were treated that it didn't occur to them not to order anything.
A few months later I went to Birmingham with a black friend and getting on the city bus was a real eye opener. I was called everything except a white man and if we hadn't been in uniform I'm convinced to this day that we would have been murdered right there on that bus. About 6 years later, Rosa Parks came along and thank God for her.
Now we have a possible GOP presidential candidate who longs for a return to that day and people are taking Rand Paul seriously. My God, America, or at least half of it has gone insane.
toby jo
(1,269 posts)Yeah, it seems like the world has those of us who just do the right thing because it is there to be done and then these other folks, unfortunately, too. Well, they're missing the ride.
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Boomerproud
(7,954 posts)There was nothing flippant in your story or your sentiments. Welcome.
calimary
(81,304 posts)Glad you're here. Stunning story. Thank you for posting it here. I just don't understand it, myself. It just doesn't compute. What also doesn't compute is the HORRID disrespect our First Lady and her husband - um - THE PRESIDENT - repeat, THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES AND DULY-ELECTED COMMANDER-IN-CHIEF OF ALL THE U.S. ARMED FORCES ACROSS THE PLANET - have to endure.
I wish we could scoop 'em all up and relocate them to Somalia. All the anarchy you can eat over there! No government! Every man for himself! And I said it that way deliberately - you think women have any rights over there? Nope, they're simply there to clean, scrub, cook, fuck, knock-up, and then discard - and the color of their skin makes no difference whatsoever. But there are all the guns and ammo you can eat, too, and pirates and warlords running amok! Laws? Screw that! Regulations? You kidding me? But there ARE lots of poor disenfranchised dark-skinned people just waiting to be exploited further! Must be a teabagger's idea of heaven. So I think we should send them there! And since there's no coverage of the plight of Somalians or anyone else in Africa, we won't have to hear about THEM anymore, either!
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)one_voice
(20,043 posts)I think you did the right thing. You thought about other people and that's always the right thing.
My dad is from Alabama. When he and my mom were married it was years before my mom went with my dad to visit his family. He wouldn't risk anything happening to my mom and my mom him. An interracial couple was definitely not welcomed. Hell, their marriage was still illegal in some states.
Glad there are people like you.
Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)!!
El Shaman
(583 posts)I wee weed In 'Colored' and dumped in 'whites' Un Hispanico De Tejas.
appal_jack
(3,813 posts)Welcome to DU, Flippancy!
Sharing food with comrades is always the right thing to do. Even if a racist business got a few bucks out of you, the more important thing is that you all got to break bread together.
-app
LittleGirl
(8,287 posts)Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Nice to see you here, Flippancy.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)and thank you for you actions.
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)I remember a black soldier returning from WWII; he was burned alive in one of the Deep South states.
Thanks for your post.
Tarheel_Dem
(31,234 posts)Spazito
(50,349 posts)It is both moving and powerful in it's impact.
Welcome to DU!
sarge43
(28,941 posts)Least we forget.
samsingh
(17,599 posts)FailureToCommunicate
(14,014 posts)one_voice
(20,043 posts)You just gotta let it sink in...wow..
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)FailureToCommunicate
(14,014 posts)Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)when I was in high school I did a book report in English class on "My Life with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr." by Coretta Scott King.
Dr. King had been assassinated the year before, 1968, and it was an interesting, topical and newsworthy book.
As I went to my seat, some little bastard called me a "Nigger lover".
So what. My parents raised me not to hate black people even though we lived in an all-white town that had redlined the black people out. My cool 12th grade Government teacher explained this to us. He also had a poster on his classroom door of American Gothic with Shirley Chisholm(first black woman elected to Congress) and George Wallace!!!
The only black people I had contact with before I went to college were my mother's maids. She told me how great Ralph Bunche was, often.
catbyte
(34,393 posts)There, it wasn't African Americans being segregated, it was Indians. My mom never knew where she should go because she was adopted by a white family. And baggers like Rand Paul would have us go back there because the government shouldn't tell Almighty Business what to do.
Welcome to DU!
Stellar
(5,644 posts)..as this post from another site can attest to just before Senator Robert Byrd died.
I am a middle aged African American Muslim male. As a child I experienced the Watts Riots, the chaos after the assassination of MLK. I remember experiencing racisim for the first time as a child born in the west and transplanted to New Orleans during the erosion of overt segregation in the south. I also remember of all people, George Wallace ,apologizing for his racist past. I remember that Chief Justice Brennan, also a former Klan member , was responsible for some of the most far reaching opinions in favor of social justice and civil rights. For all what we imagine separates whites and blacks in this country in particular, there are ties and bonds unseen that keep us together.Senator Robert Byrd has seen it all in his 90 years. As my grandma used to say.." What he has forgotten you could make a whole other world with". The capacity for someone raised in the times and environment he was is truly remarkable and testament to his great character and courage. I have ENORMOUS respect for the senior senator from West Virginia . May God bless him and give him long life as well as give him peace here and hereafter.
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)Something for all of us to keep in mind. Thanks.
grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)SpankMe
(2,957 posts)Our lady is pretty awesome.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)just the political."
Something President Obama's supporters are hopefully aware of, and that his critics should keep in mind. I don't necessarily fit very neatly into either camp myself - I voted for the guy twice but have had numerous policy disagreements with his administration.
RainDog
(28,784 posts)I'm glad he won for the victory for people of color and every child - of any color - to see the most powerful person in the U.S. is a man who has defied the racists.
I don't agree with everything - but the reality is that there is no one, ever, who will ever be president of this nation with whom I will agree on every issue.
It's childish, imo, to think total agreement would ever be the case with anyone in political office.
Spazito
(50,349 posts)It brings what was past into the present. The attacks on the President and the First Lady are, all too often, based on this 'past'. The past is, indeed, prologue.