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CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:15 PM Aug 2014

GOP Candidate: I Had An Affair Two Weeks Ago, Am Quitting My Campaign

New York state Senate candidate Gia Arnold, a 24-year-old Republican, halted her campaign on Wednesday because she said she had engaged in an extramarital affair within the past two weeks.

The New York Daily News reported that Arnold announced the suspension of her campaign with an email sent to supporters and the media early Wednesday morning. She spoke to the Daily News by phone and explained the "personal decision" that prompted the suspension.

"I had an affair on August 1st and four days later I left my husband," Arnold said. "I wanted to go public with the information, just because it was heavy on my conscience and I am strong for honesty and integrity and always telling the truth and I felt it was important as a public figure that the public was aware of what was going on.”


http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/gia-arnold-suspends-campaign-affair

Sounds to me like she had a one night stand...but sometimes I just don't understand people doing this kind of stupid...
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GOP Candidate: I Had An Affair Two Weeks Ago, Am Quitting My Campaign (Original Post) CTyankee Aug 2014 OP
You don't understand, because you are not that stupid or impulsive. Rex Aug 2014 #1
Weird. Agschmid Aug 2014 #2
almost can't believe a Republican would quit over something like this rurallib Aug 2014 #3
I'm thinking photos were about to go public... CTyankee Aug 2014 #13
Whatever. Your body your choice Ms. Arnold. PowerToThePeople Aug 2014 #4
Good call. bigwillq Aug 2014 #5
ITA. She needs to step back and reconsider Ilsa Aug 2014 #31
I smell BS malaise Aug 2014 #6
Yep. There has got to be more to this. nt SunSeeker Aug 2014 #9
Of course, but she sure as hell was heavy handed about it... CTyankee Aug 2014 #11
Strategic move. She keeps herself open to fight another day. immoderate Aug 2014 #7
Yeah, I'm thinking long-term affair but got *caught* on August 1st. Gidney N Cloyd Aug 2014 #8
I think you are our winner. She got caught and was threatened with exposure.....n/t monmouth3 Aug 2014 #10
Photos about to be made public? CTyankee Aug 2014 #12
Did she have an ammosexual affair? Brother Buzz Aug 2014 #14
I ws wondering what that odd looking thing was...NRA endorsement? CTyankee Aug 2014 #20
She was going to wear camo pants to seal the endorsement Brother Buzz Aug 2014 #23
Why is David Vitter still in office? IronLionZion Aug 2014 #15
That'll be the day. This is upstate NY not uptown Manhattan. CTyankee Aug 2014 #17
Ohh..I just love it when you talk dirty......ohhhhhhhhh dixiegrrrrl Aug 2014 #27
50 shades of DU... IronLionZion Aug 2014 #28
Because she apparently still has some scruples TlalocW Aug 2014 #24
might be tough to continue campaigning as a republican if the affair was with a woman.... unblock Aug 2014 #16
well, it was her phrasing that caught my eye...she made it "sound" like a one night CTyankee Aug 2014 #18
I question her knowledge of English, or her veracity. 'Affair' means more than a quick poke. Shrike47 Aug 2014 #19
probably she misspoke and meant to say "it was found out" on that date but CTyankee Aug 2014 #21
No, no, no, Gia. You are a Republican! tanyev Aug 2014 #22
I see. Chellee Aug 2014 #25
My philosophy entirely. Don't end your sex life. Just make sure you end a loveless CTyankee Aug 2014 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author CTyankee Aug 2014 #30
I believe in honesty and integrity oldandhappy Aug 2014 #29
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
1. You don't understand, because you are not that stupid or impulsive.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:17 PM
Aug 2014

Same here, makes no sense but I would never cheat on my SO.

rurallib

(62,416 posts)
3. almost can't believe a Republican would quit over something like this
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:18 PM
Aug 2014

they never have before.
Maybe it is because she's a woman.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
4. Whatever. Your body your choice Ms. Arnold.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:18 PM
Aug 2014

At least thats what the tolerant left would say.

Re-evaluate your life...

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
5. Good call.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:21 PM
Aug 2014

The affair probably would've been a distraction. This candidate needs to focus on her personal life, not politics, at the moments.


On a side note: People are human. They make mistakes. That's really all you have to understand.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
31. ITA. She needs to step back and reconsider
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 08:01 PM
Aug 2014

Her life. Divorcing during a campaign or while holding office can be detrimental to constituents. I think it's a good move on her part.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
11. Of course, but she sure as hell was heavy handed about it...
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:35 PM
Aug 2014

Her explanation made her sound just silly. She could have said she "made a mistake" in her life for which she "deeply regrets." This sounds more like "I had a roll in the hay and now it's gonna come out."

 

immoderate

(20,885 posts)
7. Strategic move. She keeps herself open to fight another day.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:24 PM
Aug 2014

This news will cost her this election no matter what. By doing the "honorable" thing, she maximizes her freedom to act in the future, after this blows over.

--imm

Brother Buzz

(36,440 posts)
23. She was going to wear camo pants to seal the endorsement
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:57 PM
Aug 2014

But she had to sent them to the cleaners to get the stain out.

IronLionZion

(45,447 posts)
15. Why is David Vitter still in office?
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:38 PM
Aug 2014




Sounds like she's heading for a divorce too. Maybe she has too much going on to focus on the campaign this close to the election.



I'm surprised she didn't try to spin this towards winning some feminist votes. After all, she's nobody's property and was just rebelling against the oppression of patriarchy.


CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
17. That'll be the day. This is upstate NY not uptown Manhattan.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:44 PM
Aug 2014

She's caught between a rock and a hard place.

TlalocW

(15,383 posts)
24. Because she apparently still has some scruples
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:58 PM
Aug 2014

That she's unwilling to take the, "God and my spouse have both forgiven me," tactic.

And, yes, I'm probably being too nice and giving her too much of the benefit of the doubt.

TlalocW

unblock

(52,243 posts)
16. might be tough to continue campaigning as a republican if the affair was with a woman....
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:42 PM
Aug 2014

not likely "just a one night stand" if she left her husband.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
18. well, it was her phrasing that caught my eye...she made it "sound" like a one night
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:45 PM
Aug 2014

stand. Which is even worse sounding. Geez. Talk about "tone."

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
19. I question her knowledge of English, or her veracity. 'Affair' means more than a quick poke.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:47 PM
Aug 2014

Did she find out the other person's name, at least?

And why so specific about the date? That's just odd.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
21. probably she misspoke and meant to say "it was found out" on that date but
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:50 PM
Aug 2014

maybe she just couldn't bring herself to say that.

"Affair" sounds so much nicer than "quick poke," but at least the latter is more entertaining...

tanyev

(42,559 posts)
22. No, no, no, Gia. You are a Republican!
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:56 PM
Aug 2014

You give a press conference, shed a few tears, say you've asked God and your husband to forgive you, and you declare that this will make you an even better candidate.

Frankly, your resignation is making me wonder what else you are hiding.

Chellee

(2,097 posts)
25. I see.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 05:58 PM
Aug 2014

The person who lied and cheated and snuck around is strong for honesty and integrity and always telling the truth.

Of course.

How hard is it to have the courage and the decency to say to your spouse, whom you purportedly loved enough at some point to marry, that you don't want to be married any more? You don't want counseling, you don't want to work on it, you just want out. THEN, go sleep with whoever you want.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
26. My philosophy entirely. Don't end your sex life. Just make sure you end a loveless
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 06:03 PM
Aug 2014

marriage first, get a separation, then go to "Parents Without Partners" and begin to find suitable individuals with whom to have a relationship. I did that when my marriage fell apart. Met my current husband at a PWP brunch!

Response to Chellee (Reply #25)

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
29. I believe in honesty and integrity
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 06:21 PM
Aug 2014


Glad you worked to hard to keep your marriage vows!! Another family values candidate.
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