General Discussion
Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsGOP Candidate: I Had An Affair Two Weeks Ago, Am Quitting My Campaign
The New York Daily News reported that Arnold announced the suspension of her campaign with an email sent to supporters and the media early Wednesday morning. She spoke to the Daily News by phone and explained the "personal decision" that prompted the suspension.
"I had an affair on August 1st and four days later I left my husband," Arnold said. "I wanted to go public with the information, just because it was heavy on my conscience and I am strong for honesty and integrity and always telling the truth and I felt it was important as a public figure that the public was aware of what was going on.
http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/gia-arnold-suspends-campaign-affair
Sounds to me like she had a one night stand...but sometimes I just don't understand people doing this kind of stupid...
Rex
(65,616 posts)Same here, makes no sense but I would never cheat on my SO.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)rurallib
(62,416 posts)they never have before.
Maybe it is because she's a woman.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)At least thats what the tolerant left would say.
Re-evaluate your life...
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)The affair probably would've been a distraction. This candidate needs to focus on her personal life, not politics, at the moments.
On a side note: People are human. They make mistakes. That's really all you have to understand.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Her life. Divorcing during a campaign or while holding office can be detrimental to constituents. I think it's a good move on her part.
malaise
(269,022 posts)It was probably about to go public
SunSeeker
(51,559 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Her explanation made her sound just silly. She could have said she "made a mistake" in her life for which she "deeply regrets." This sounds more like "I had a roll in the hay and now it's gonna come out."
immoderate
(20,885 posts)This news will cost her this election no matter what. By doing the "honorable" thing, she maximizes her freedom to act in the future, after this blows over.
--imm
Gidney N Cloyd
(19,838 posts)monmouth3
(3,871 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Brother Buzz
(36,440 posts)Tell me that is not an ammunition magazine hanging from her neck
http://a1.img.talkingpointsmemo.com/image/upload/c_fill,fl_keep_iptc,g_faces,h_365,w_652/ud7bywxgcrpxlgy9nwjq.jpg
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Brother Buzz
(36,440 posts)But she had to sent them to the cleaners to get the stain out.
IronLionZion
(45,447 posts)Sounds like she's heading for a divorce too. Maybe she has too much going on to focus on the campaign this close to the election.
I'm surprised she didn't try to spin this towards winning some feminist votes. After all, she's nobody's property and was just rebelling against the oppression of patriarchy.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)She's caught between a rock and a hard place.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)IronLionZion
(45,447 posts)TlalocW
(15,383 posts)That she's unwilling to take the, "God and my spouse have both forgiven me," tactic.
And, yes, I'm probably being too nice and giving her too much of the benefit of the doubt.
TlalocW
unblock
(52,243 posts)not likely "just a one night stand" if she left her husband.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)stand. Which is even worse sounding. Geez. Talk about "tone."
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)Did she find out the other person's name, at least?
And why so specific about the date? That's just odd.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)maybe she just couldn't bring herself to say that.
"Affair" sounds so much nicer than "quick poke," but at least the latter is more entertaining...
tanyev
(42,559 posts)You give a press conference, shed a few tears, say you've asked God and your husband to forgive you, and you declare that this will make you an even better candidate.
Frankly, your resignation is making me wonder what else you are hiding.
Chellee
(2,097 posts)The person who lied and cheated and snuck around is strong for honesty and integrity and always telling the truth.
Of course.
How hard is it to have the courage and the decency to say to your spouse, whom you purportedly loved enough at some point to marry, that you don't want to be married any more? You don't want counseling, you don't want to work on it, you just want out. THEN, go sleep with whoever you want.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)marriage first, get a separation, then go to "Parents Without Partners" and begin to find suitable individuals with whom to have a relationship. I did that when my marriage fell apart. Met my current husband at a PWP brunch!
Response to Chellee (Reply #25)
CTyankee This message was self-deleted by its author.
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Glad you worked to hard to keep your marriage vows!! Another family values candidate.