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Heidi

(58,237 posts)
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:25 AM Sep 2014

He Dropped One Letter In His Name While Applying For Jobs, And The Responses Rolled In

The Huffington Post | Posted: 09/02/2014 2:43 pm EDT

His name is José Zamora, and he had a routine.

During his months-long job search, he says he logged onto his computer every morning and combed the internet for listings, applying to everything he felt qualified for. In the Buzzfeed video above, he estimates that he sent out between 50 to 100 resumes a day -- which is, in a word, impressive.

But Zamora said he wasn't getting any responses, so on a hunch, he decided to drop the "s" in his name. José Zamora became Joe Zamora, and a week later, he says his inbox was full.

As he explains in the video, "Joe" hadn't changed anything on his resume but that one letter. But what Zamora had done, effectively, was whitewash it.

Link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/02/jose-joe-job-discrimination_n_5753880.html

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He Dropped One Letter In His Name While Applying For Jobs, And The Responses Rolled In (Original Post) Heidi Sep 2014 OP
A lot of racism, much of which was probably unconscious Prophet 451 Sep 2014 #1
Conscious racism or unconscious racism, the results Heidi Sep 2014 #2
Mostly Prophet 451 Sep 2014 #3
Absolutely agree. Heidi Sep 2014 #4
Recognition of the unconscious takes time to bubble up, add more fire. lonestarnot Sep 2014 #5
Excellent point! JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #28
There may be some racism, but maybe not all, necessarily AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #14
do you have any evidence for your claim that subconscious racism is "pretty damn rare these days"? fishwax Sep 2014 #63
Free money! XemaSab Sep 2014 #84
LOL bettyellen Sep 2014 #87
The last name didn't make it clear he was Hispanic? He didn't change the last name. hughee99 Sep 2014 #66
Scary thought...were they ok with him being Hispanic... Ken Burch Sep 2014 #91
And more of it was probably conscious Vine Gatherer Sep 2014 #86
What's in a name? suffragette Sep 2014 #6
I am privileged Heidi Sep 2014 #11
"...our culture is still conferring subtle rewards to those perceived as white." suffragette Sep 2014 #13
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2014 #25
Spanish is my second language. Heidi Sep 2014 #26
Moi aussi! Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #30
Ciao, Bello! Heidi Sep 2014 #37
I won't say what I can do to Italians...oh wait...what I can SAY to Italians! Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #43
I will give "him" a hug from you! Heidi Sep 2014 #44
You do that....but you still don't my positions on Italians! Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #45
Hahahahahahaha! Heidi Sep 2014 #46
I guess I would be half-hearted in any position I took! Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #47
*snort*! Heidi Sep 2014 #48
"Spanish only?" Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #27
I've never seen it, either. Heidi Sep 2014 #29
Probably because we aren't on rainy plains. Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #32
I'm wondering too BTA JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #33
Yeah, "Spanish is a plus" is one thing. Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #42
Oh laws no! JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #52
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2014 #34
They require "Spanish only?" Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2014 #36
Sure. Behind the Aegis Sep 2014 #39
Oh, okay! Could you cite a couple of online job listings for "Spanish only"? Heidi Sep 2014 #40
It said "Spanish Only"....in English. alphafemale Sep 2014 #38
LMAO! Marrah_G Sep 2014 #51
Bwahahaha JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #53
. Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2014 #71
In Miami, 40 years ago,a sign in a store window said "Se habla ingles!" (We speak English) SharonAnn Sep 2014 #93
Anybody want to say there's no such thing as white privilege Jack Rabbit Sep 2014 #7
Right on! White privilege is like global warming--people deny it but it's there. Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #76
gracias heid lovemydog Sep 2014 #8
kneejerk response from me Voice for Peace Sep 2014 #9
That's interesting. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #15
Very telling--thanks for posting this. n/t. bvf Sep 2014 #10
I sugessted this to me wife Buddha2B Sep 2014 #12
Good for your wife! Heidi Sep 2014 #50
I am not very good at this. Kalidurga Sep 2014 #16
He dropped the "s" in Jose. (nt) Heidi Sep 2014 #17
In fairness, he also dropped the accent from the é (nt) Recursion Sep 2014 #18
Agreed. Heidi Sep 2014 #20
Yeah I got that Kalidurga Sep 2014 #19
I think 'José' implies, perhaps unconsciously, more recent immigration muriel_volestrangler Sep 2014 #49
My SO of 30 years is Hispanic from Mexico Kalidurga Sep 2014 #73
This reminds me of Pan Am founder Juan Trippe Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #21
The Wiki page doesn't say anything about that 4b5f940728b232b034e4 Sep 2014 #24
It doesn't say anything about his hotels period. Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #74
"was the driving force behind Pan Am's formation of the InterContinental hotel group." 4b5f940728b232b034e4 Sep 2014 #81
Indeed I missed that, but it says nothing of substance. Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #82
If that is, indeed, true, liberalhistorian Sep 2014 #56
It actually inspired him to cater to the Latin American market Sen. Walter Sobchak Sep 2014 #75
I disagree. Helen Borg Sep 2014 #22
As Recursion pointed out in post #18. Heidi Sep 2014 #23
bon jour! xchrom Sep 2014 #31
Buongiorno, Caro! Heidi Sep 2014 #41
Hola! Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #77
I don't know too many WASPy Zamoras though. nt whatthehey Sep 2014 #54
I believe that removing the "s" from José and the accent over the "e" Heidi Sep 2014 #55
Right. Suddenly he was not as "foreign sounding" Gormy Cuss Sep 2014 #78
I can't see the difference from here meathead Sep 2014 #57
I was raised in Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Kentucky. Heidi Sep 2014 #58
Almost the same thing happened with one of my brothers. Jamaal510 Sep 2014 #59
One of my cousins gets that with Tyrone. Xithras Sep 2014 #65
That doesn't surprise me at all. Heidi Sep 2014 #67
Not entirely on topic, but if you're applying to 50 jobs a day, you're doing it wrong. Xithras Sep 2014 #60
while you re right, why do you assume he was "doing it wrong" when that tiny change made a HUGE bettyellen Sep 2014 #88
so many years of social science has shown this phenomenon La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #61
I guess it's the "trickle down" theory at work. Heidi Sep 2014 #68
no, its straight up discrimination on race/gender/religion. La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #69
It was sarcasm. Heidi Sep 2014 #70
oh sorry. i am in the middle of 20 things and i think subtlety/sarcasm is lost on me currently La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2014 #72
K&R Crabby Appleton Sep 2014 #62
what amazes me... 0rganism Sep 2014 #64
That is amazing. Sad that Jose' Zamora had to change his name to get his resumes looked at. Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #80
This message was self-deleted by its author shanti Sep 2014 #79
no way, jose! this is total bs. you guys aren't listening. ellenfl Sep 2014 #83
This is one sick fucking excuse for a country. JEB Sep 2014 #85
I'm interested in knowing what type of job he was looking for. YOHABLO Sep 2014 #89
If he changed his name to Abudel Bin Rahim Zamora, he'd be in negative numbers!!! MADem Sep 2014 #90
Indeed. Heidi Sep 2014 #92
That Jose fella looks kinda shifty to me. Joe, on the other hand... randome Sep 2014 #94
I too suffered the slings & arrows from first name racism... GOLGO 13 Sep 2014 #95
Congratulations on your chart-topping good lucks!!! Heidi Sep 2014 #96

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
1. A lot of racism, much of which was probably unconscious
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:29 AM
Sep 2014

The people reviewing those resumes probably weren't consciously avoiding the Hispanic guy but the subconscious assumptions that come with that label, the assignment of Hispanics to a subconscious "outgroup", made them reject his application.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
2. Conscious racism or unconscious racism, the results
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:32 AM
Sep 2014

for the victims of racism are the same, are they not?

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
3. Mostly
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:34 AM
Sep 2014

The difference is in how you deal with it. Conscious racism can be challenged and legislated against. Unconscious racism takes much more effort and much longer to purge. Also, those guilty of unconscious racism will sometimes change their mind when it's pointed out to them.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
14. There may be some racism, but maybe not all, necessarily
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:23 AM
Sep 2014

Not all prejudice is necessarily racism. Just thought I'd point that out.

Although, to be honest, subconscious racism is actually pretty damn rare these days, even in the U.S.; much of the racism that did occur, sadly, was likely quite conscious indeed, even if not spoken aloud.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
66. The last name didn't make it clear he was Hispanic? He didn't change the last name.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 01:03 PM
Sep 2014

I think there's more to it than just "being Hispanic".

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
91. Scary thought...were they ok with him being Hispanic...
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 02:04 AM
Sep 2014

...as long as it looked like he accepted the idea that he should sort of try to hide it?...Equal opportunity for those presumed to be self-loathing?

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
6. What's in a name?
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:44 AM
Sep 2014

Sad truth about our society still projecting stereotypes and displaying racism.
Thanks for posting this, Heidi.
It needs to be seen to ever be changed.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
11. I am privileged
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:12 AM
Sep 2014

to have been given a distinctly "white" first name, a German maiden name and, now, an Italian married name. Like you, I know full well that our culture is still conferring subtle rewards to those perceived as white.

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
13. "...our culture is still conferring subtle rewards to those perceived as white."
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:23 AM
Sep 2014

So very true and very well said.


Response to Heidi (Reply #11)

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
26. Spanish is my second language.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:17 AM
Sep 2014

Maria is my middle name.

ETA: Where the heck did you see any such employment condition?

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
30. Moi aussi!
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:22 AM
Sep 2014

Oh wait!

Spanish is also my second language, though I never use it anymore. I have lost so much of my language abilities.

Wie gehts?

Oh crap! I did it again!

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
37. Ciao, Bello!
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:29 AM
Sep 2014

I haven't used my Spanish in more than 15 years. On the up side, I can now flirt in Italian.

Great to see you, friend.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
43. I won't say what I can do to Italians...oh wait...what I can SAY to Italians!
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:36 AM
Sep 2014

It's always a pleasure to see you! I would say give a to "him", but I haven't seen him about, so I am mad at him!

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
45. You do that....but you still don't my positions on Italians!
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:41 AM
Sep 2014


I won't share that!...unless you are Italian!

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
27. "Spanish only?"
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:19 AM
Sep 2014

I have never seen a job that only allowed someone to apply who spoke only Spanish. Where the hell did you see this?

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
33. I'm wondering too BTA
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:24 AM
Sep 2014

I've seen positions that say "Spanish is a Plus" but Spanisk speaking only? We route overflow to all call centers at my company with the exception of Global Services. Everyone is expected to speak Spanish but in border states - Spanish and French are a plus.

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
42. Yeah, "Spanish is a plus" is one thing.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:33 AM
Sep 2014

I have seen many positions which require a certain language or encourage it. Then again, this is the same poster who claims stereotypes exist because they are true.

ETA to this lovely thought:

Sybil45 (10 posts)

154. Let's be honest

This isn't really about Putin's intervention in Ukraine, which he had every right to do after the Victoria Nuland incident. All the Putin hate is really about the fact that he doesn't think homosexuality is the greatest thing ever. So what? Is that supposed to make him a bad guy or something? There are many legitimate reasons to oppose Putin, but that isn't one of them. The anti-Putin homosexual contingent needs to get over themselves. The world doesn't revolve around homosexuals.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5482349


What if they are Spanish speaking homosexuals?!

Response to Behind the Aegis (Reply #27)

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
35. They require "Spanish only?"
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:27 AM
Sep 2014

That seems odd. It is one thing to request "Bi-lingual" but not "Spanish only."

Response to Behind the Aegis (Reply #35)

Behind the Aegis

(53,959 posts)
39. Sure.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:30 AM
Sep 2014

I can't imagine how you would arrive at such a conclusion until I read:

Sybil45 (8 posts)

2. Well I'm glad we have a Western born/raised and corrupted

Asian to speak on behalf of Asian women everywhere.

Stereotypes exist for a reason - because they're true. Nobody is saying ALL Asian women are submissive, but having worked in Asia for many years, I can confirm that generally, Asian women are more feminine and submissive. Not ALL of them. That goes without saying. However, its's true in general, so the stereotype is correct.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1255&pid=50316


What is Spanish for "taco?" I am dying to know!

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
40. Oh, okay! Could you cite a couple of online job listings for "Spanish only"?
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:31 AM
Sep 2014

What I've seen are jobs asking for Spanish fluency or native Spanish speakers.

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
7. Anybody want to say there's no such thing as white privilege
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:46 AM
Sep 2014

Any one stupid to believe there's no such thing a white privilege is stupid enough to think global warming is a hoax.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
9. kneejerk response from me
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:51 AM
Sep 2014

I have no defense or explanation of this, but observed myself
having these immediate impressions:

josé zamora - mexico

joe zamora - all american, of european descent

Buddha2B

(116 posts)
12. I sugessted this to me wife
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:23 AM
Sep 2014

IT professional here in Australia. She wasn't getting responses. I suggested instead of saying Kristy, put Kris down. She didn't go for it at the time.

Good thing she found a good government job at a Uni, that has positive female employment practices, and good unions.

She's still the only woman on her whole floor though.

She makes 3 times I do.

Loving it!

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
16. I am not very good at this.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:34 AM
Sep 2014

I was trying to figure out what letter he dropped. Jose Amora nope that doesn't sound right. Jose Zamor, well that just looks weird. Okay I give up then I read the rest of the post.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
19. Yeah I got that
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:42 AM
Sep 2014

It should have been obvious to me from just reading his name though. But, I had thought the problem was with his last name obviously which I myself had no problem with by the way, I am used to seeing non-Germanic/Nordic/English names.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,320 posts)
49. I think 'José' implies, perhaps unconsciously, more recent immigration
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:04 AM
Sep 2014

while 'Joe' is very Anglicized - the informal short version of the name ("Giuseppe Verdi" is as Italian as you can get; "Joe Green" is as English as you can get), which makes them sound like someone who grew up among English speakers.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
73. My SO of 30 years is Hispanic from Mexico
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:48 PM
Sep 2014

I live in a metro area a lot of Hispanic people. Hispanic names no longer register as foriegn to me just like many names don't. I am used to seeing a variety of names. Giuseppi in this example would register as European to me, but I might miss Verdi as being Green it would just be another name to me.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
21. This reminds me of Pan Am founder Juan Trippe
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:04 AM
Sep 2014

His blood ran as blue as it came but he was kicked out of hotels he owned.

liberalhistorian

(20,818 posts)
56. If that is, indeed, true,
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 10:22 AM
Sep 2014

if I were him, I would have immensely enjoyed firing the bigoted idiots responsible for that and would have laughed while doing it.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
55. I believe that removing the "s" from José and the accent over the "e"
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 10:06 AM
Sep 2014

would make clearer that one is not a recent immigrant. Another DUer pointed this out in this thread.

ETA: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5482385

meathead

(63 posts)
57. I can't see the difference from here
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 11:56 AM
Sep 2014

Texas is a more diverse place than most of America. Juan made the top ten boy's names here back in the seventies. Houston was recently named the most diverse city in the country. Jose, Ha, Mohammed, Dinesh? There's more than one any where I've worked in the last 30 years. That's not to say there isn't prejudice, but he must not be casting those resumes very far.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
58. I was raised in Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Kentucky.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 12:07 PM
Sep 2014

The difference is clear to me and most liberals. Indeed, that you're surrounded by Latino names does not mean that your area or you personally are without bias in hiring practices. Diversity does not equal inclusiveness. As a liberal, you surely agree. (Welcome to DU, by the way.)

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
59. Almost the same thing happened with one of my brothers.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 12:28 PM
Sep 2014

He used to put his first name "Jermaine" on job applications, but had more success finding jobs coincidentally once he starting using his middle name "Thomas" instead as his first name. While mostly blacks have the name "Jermaine", "Thomas" seems to be a more racially-neutral name.
This is yet another example of something that (non-Hispanic) whites typically don't have to go through compared to other groups of people.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
65. One of my cousins gets that with Tyrone.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 12:47 PM
Sep 2014

Tyrone is actually an old Irish Gaelic name, and my cousin is about as Irish American as it gets (annoyingly so at times). His parents named him after one of his great grandparents.

In the United States, the name Tyrone is heavily identified with African Americans. It's not just a problem when applying to jobs, but for credit, when trying to get restaurant reservations, and for a number of other things. He once had a heated phone argument with a local company after a bad service call, and the owner of the company actually said that he was "just another dumb n***** looking for a free ride" when he demanded a refund. You can imagine how stunned the owner was when an angry 6'2", 240 pound redheaded Irishman showed up in his office to confront him about it and demand his money back.

To avoid the hassle he uses his middle name James for pretty much everything nowadays, and only family members call him Ty.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
67. That doesn't surprise me at all.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 01:25 PM
Sep 2014

The hoops that people of color are forced to jump through are ridiculous. Sadly, your cousin would have probably been more successful in his job search if he'd put "Jerry" on his application. All too often, I just have to shake my head.

I'm 51 years old, white, and have never had to try to "pass" in any attempt to find employment. That's privilege.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
60. Not entirely on topic, but if you're applying to 50 jobs a day, you're doing it wrong.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 12:30 PM
Sep 2014

Any modern career counselor will tell you that you should be rewriting your resume for every job you apply to nowadays. The "good old days" when you could write one resume and submit it everywhere ENDED when applications went online and automated sorting routines replaced human eyeballs when doing an initial applicant search. You should ALWAYS rewrite your resume to emphasize the specific skills that the employer is looking for, and include keywords in your resume & cover letter that match the primary skills on the job ad.

HR departments don't review every resume they receive. They use automated searches to find the submitted resumes that contain the skills they're looking for. If you don't list those specific skills, using their terms, no human being will ever even LOOK at your application.

Here's a simple (and common) example. A company posts a job ad for a "Sales executive with experience working in Venezuela and one year of practical experience selling medical devices. Spanish fluency a must."

Two people apply. Their resumes start off with these lines:

1: "I have 10 years of experience working as a lead sales manager for a hospital equipment company, selling in every nation across South and Central America. I am Hispanic, and can speak and comprehend all languages and regional dialects spoken in Latin America today."

2: "I have two years of experience working in Venezuela as an associate sales executive selling medical devices for Company X. I learned Spanish in college, and have been speaking it fluently for five years."

The second applicant gets the interview. The first does not. Why? Because the HR department is going to do a keyword search off the original ad. "Venezuela, sales executive, spanish, medical devices". Applicant #2 has the keywords in their resume. Applicant #1, in spite of having far more experience and being a native speaker, will never even be looked at.

Ergo, if you're applying to 50 jobs a day, you're doing it wrong.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
88. while you re right, why do you assume he was "doing it wrong" when that tiny change made a HUGE
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 12:34 AM
Sep 2014

difference in responses?

Obviously a lot of people though he had a kick ass resume, after they thought it came from a more Americanized applicant.
BTW, using the same method you recommend, I could shoot off a dozen resumes in less than 3 hours. Because I already had a few good templates ready to tweak. I would have done fifty but there really weren't that many good jobs in the area that suited me.

Anyway, good advice- but presumptuous assessment of the situation.

Heidi

(58,237 posts)
70. It was sarcasm.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 01:47 PM
Sep 2014

I agree that the discrimination is outright shameful and obvious. But I still wonder how much longer until the mainstream "gets it." I'd like to be hopeful. I'd like to believe it will happen in my lifetime. But I'm 51.

0rganism

(23,955 posts)
64. what amazes me...
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 12:46 PM
Sep 2014

is how many people in the huffpo comments for this article are offering apologetics for this ... phenomenon.

"just the way things are"
"assimilate if you want to eat"
"our white European ancestors had to change their names too"

and so on. how hard is it for some people to admit that name-based discrimination is just plain out&out wrong? amazing.

Response to Heidi (Original post)

ellenfl

(8,660 posts)
83. no way, jose! this is total bs. you guys aren't listening.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 09:58 PM
Sep 2014

first, there's not enough time in the day to send 50-100 resumes, every day for months. second, if there are 50-100 available jobs per day every month utilizing the same skill set, why do we have any unemployment? unless he's willing to travel the country to take a job, there's just no way he's applying for 50-100 local jobs per day. anti-immigrant bs, imo.

 

YOHABLO

(7,358 posts)
89. I'm interested in knowing what type of job he was looking for.
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 01:04 AM
Sep 2014

He looks like a pretty handsome fellow. Do people not get that this county will be very shortly, bi lingual? Spanish and English will be the most spoken languages. Perhaps we should do like Canada and make Spanish our second language, as they do French. If we could get rid of all the bigots and racist just think what a great country we could have .. well we could get rid of Republicans as well but that's just a pipe dream I suppose.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
90. If he changed his name to Abudel Bin Rahim Zamora, he'd be in negative numbers!!!
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 01:32 AM
Sep 2014

It's one of those awful truths...

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
94. That Jose fella looks kinda shifty to me. Joe, on the other hand...
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 09:23 AM
Sep 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]Treat your body like a machine. Your mind like a castle.[/center][/font][hr]

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
95. I too suffered the slings & arrows from first name racism...
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 09:35 AM
Sep 2014

My grandfather had an ethnic first, but he lived & died in his country. My father named after him came to this country and wisely took a civil service job & fortunately easily passed for white.

I was named after them and experienced racism at 4th grade. I made up a nickname for myself after that & now no one calls me by my first name; not even my wife. I too wisely took up civil service and my chart topping good looks sealed the deal.

This ethnic first name shit died with me. My son has a first world class name and both my kids will also speak our language and French. The French thing came from my days of chasing French girls at University.

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