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jaysunb

(11,856 posts)
Wed Sep 10, 2014, 11:33 PM Sep 2014

The new, tiresome culture of outrage

But when so many people are so busy looking for ways to be offended, reasonable questions aren't only pointless, they are threatening. The very act of questioning someone's outrage is often taken as act of aggression, one that just leads to further outrage. But whether we are talking about businessmen who don't exercise adequate diplomacy in (private, by the way) emails or abrasive comedians who have made an art of insulting people, the truth is that all of us have a little bit of Joan Rivers in us as well as a little bit of humorless Wisconsinite. We're all capable of offending as well as being offended. The key lies in knowing when to shut up.
http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-daum-column-rivers-levenson-20140911-column.html
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The new, tiresome culture of outrage (Original Post) jaysunb Sep 2014 OP
i don't think "so many people are so busy looking for ways to be offended". Adam051188 Sep 2014 #1
Agree! n/t RKP5637 Sep 2014 #3
I'm not so sure I can agree with that. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Sep 2014 #2
The snap judgment part is key, and pretty its bad on DU, actually. Silent3 Sep 2014 #6
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Guilty as charged. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2014 #8
Mob mentality kcjohn1 Sep 2014 #4
you're seriously defending Ray Rice? nt alp227 Sep 2014 #11
Indeed. I cry for Ray Rice and his lack of opportunity to be rehabilitated. Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author A-Schwarzenegger Sep 2014 #5
In other words, sit down, shut up, and clap louder, dammit!!! blkmusclmachine Sep 2014 #9
If you seem to be in the midst of an epidemic of offense, perhaps the common denominator is you? nt LeftyMom Sep 2014 #10
"oh please, you are so stupid" Enrique Sep 2014 #12
The old tiresome culture of marginalizing human beings who have a legitimate beef. Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #13
Is this part II of your "What, exactly is the pupose of the Ray Rice saturated coverage?" thread? freeplessinseattle Sep 2014 #15
That's what it sounds like to me, too. Sheldon Cooper Sep 2014 #17
Hey, now, those poor souls subjected to all these bummer stories are freeplessinseattle Sep 2014 #20
Twitter / Social Justice Warriorism is the cause. chrisa Sep 2014 #18
When someone has a legitimate issue and you address it as 'outrage' you are characterizing their Bluenorthwest Sep 2014 #19
 

Adam051188

(711 posts)
1. i don't think "so many people are so busy looking for ways to be offended".
Wed Sep 10, 2014, 11:36 PM
Sep 2014

i think things are absolutely at the point of outright absurdity in the united states right now. it's embarrassing.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
16. I'm not so sure I can agree with that.
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 05:08 AM
Sep 2014

This is primarily a RW problem, and has been for a long while now(I could honestly go on almost without end on that subject!), but our side isn't totally immune, either.

Response to jaysunb (Original post)

Silent3

(15,257 posts)
6. The snap judgment part is key, and pretty its bad on DU, actually.
Wed Sep 10, 2014, 11:54 PM
Sep 2014

Last edited Sat Sep 13, 2014, 10:05 AM - Edit history (2)

There seem to be a lot of people who think that it's vitally important that they recognize and attack the "enemy" as quickly as possible -- skim posts quickly, look for offending key words, ignore any attempts at qualification, disclaimers, or nuance (these can be offhandedly dismissed as "weasel words&quot , and then pounce!

You must do so as dismissively, derisively, and impatiently as possible. It's important, you know, to make sure that the enemy isn't slipping any of their shit by you, nosiree, show 'em you've got them pegged!

Response to Silent3 (Reply #6)

kcjohn1

(751 posts)
4. Mob mentality
Wed Sep 10, 2014, 11:45 PM
Sep 2014

That is all this is. The case of Rice could be a teaching moment but all you here is the pitch forks and how we should throw the book at people. The outrage is all's at 10 instead of appropriate level. Rice was wrong and should be punished but all you hear is basically banishing him outside of society with no discussion on rehabilitation.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
14. Indeed. I cry for Ray Rice and his lack of opportunity to be rehabilitated.
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 03:11 AM
Sep 2014

Feminists and their pitchforks suck.

Response to jaysunb (Original post)

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
12. "oh please, you are so stupid"
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 02:47 AM
Sep 2014

god she was funny

"Let me tell you what comedy is about," she continues. "Oh, please. You are so stupid! Comedy is to make everybody laugh at everything and deal with things!"


Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
17. That's what it sounds like to me, too.
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 08:17 AM
Sep 2014

Comes across as someone who is tired of hearing oppressed people talk about their experiences. It's all so dreary, don't you know?

freeplessinseattle

(3,508 posts)
20. Hey, now, those poor souls subjected to all these bummer stories are
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 11:17 AM
Sep 2014

suffering, too, if not more, by the fearsome, yet silly, "shiny objects"

chrisa

(4,524 posts)
18. Twitter / Social Justice Warriorism is the cause.
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 08:22 AM
Sep 2014

They're real activists! No need to volunteer at shelters or food pantries. Everyone knows posting comments of raving offense on Twitter has the same effect!

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
19. When someone has a legitimate issue and you address it as 'outrage' you are characterizing their
Thu Sep 11, 2014, 09:10 AM
Sep 2014

feelings, not questioning them. This author sounds like every last homophobe I have ever heard complain about being called out as a bigot. This claim that apathy and hatred for others is the only true way to be, emotionless and without any passion or concern for progress, this is poisonous thinking which I see as far right wing.

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