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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsShocking photoshop of NFL CoverGirl model with black eye is sweeping across Twitter
A new hashtag has taken over Twitter: #GoodellMustGo.
Saturday, it was accompanied by an image from CoverGirls NFL makeup line which has the slogan, Get Your Game Face On! but was photoshopped to look like the woman had a black eye.
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The photo has taken off and is being shared all over the Internet. People are tweeting it and the hashtags page is full of people calling for embattled NFL commissioner Roger Goodell to be fired.
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Additionally, Ultraviolet, a womens advocacy organization, will fly planes with #GoodellMustGo banners over several NFL stadiums on Sunday, according to Bloomberg. Planes are scheduled to fly above stadiums in New York, Cleveland, San Francisco and Indianapolis.
More:http://ftw.usatoday.com/2014/09/photoshop-nfl-covergirl-model-black-eye-twitter
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)I don't know if they were going for the subliminal message with purple and gold to tie in Adrian Peterson or not. If they were going for that it's effective. If not what a strange coincidence in colors.
BillZBubb
(10,650 posts)The connection is to ex-Raven Rice and his wife.
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)Not a big football fan though.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)joeglow3
(6,228 posts)And I am embarrassed to say I am part of the problem. I LOVE football and just don't see enough people boycotting to make a difference.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)It is an all American sport always has been.
Yet there has been a lot of issues with abuse and cover ups in sports. That is not a sport but a crime.
We can have the sport with out the violence against women. Yes we can have both.
This picture of Janay, breaks my heart. Yes, I know she is defending him. Yet as a woman who has known violence, it is telling. I have to say to you that is the face of a battered woman, her face is down turned, her eyes cast down and her shoulders appear to be slumped. Her expression, wow that is a hard one to describe, I would say defeated. To me, her face shows her pain and subjugation.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)her strength. Breaks my heart.
Go Vols
(5,902 posts)because his net worth is $14 million.
http://www.celebritynetworth.com/richest-athletes/nfl/ray-rice-net-worth/
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)even a large amount of money quickly. Gambling, the ponies, etc. I guess there are still cretins who might hire him. And this type doesn't allow support system/relationships with their wives. They are prisoners in their own home.
Edit...spelling
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)I have not heard anyone say they "LOVE" Goodell and "just don't see" him resigning. Have you?
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)This picture pains me.
I explained above.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025536831#post7
It makes me cry.
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)I can't imagine someone I loved and looked up to treating me that way--and everyone seeing it on video. She looks devastated, humiliated and embarrassed.
It is this horror and embarrassment that keep the victims quiet and enable the abuser. The victims often blame themselves, like Janay did, actually apologizing for "her role" in the attack at that press conference.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)We should make a thread together.
I did not know that she was 16 when they met. Damn, that makes this all so much worse and explains her face in that picture and also her blind devotion, she was still a child, she was. Plenty of time for Rice to manipulate her and control her.
Screw him, I hope she and her daughter survives.
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)This one.
By the way, here's the link for when they met. You can see how she idolized him from day 1:
http://fabwags.com/janay-palmer-ray-rices-girlfriend-fiancee/
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)And guess what?
I don't think there are very many men who are LITERATE in the facial expressions of women who are scared to DEATH of the man she sleeps with, who could easily break her in half.
That face probably says NOTHING to a scarily large proportion of men; men in the general population, but also HERE.
Because they don't see it, too many refuse to listen to us because our reality is something they can't fathom.
Crazy, isn't it? (Not funny-crazy, either.)
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)That face probably says NOTHING to a scarily large proportion of men; men in the general population, but also HERE.
Because they don't see it, too many refuse to listen to us because our reality is something they can't fathom. "
It's obvious they don't see her face for what it is and what it means, they have never been there. The comments here are another fist raised back and slamming into our faces. It's like they are saying, honey you never felt that first punch, here is another to your gut. Oh and she is in it for the money! She could leave if she really wanted too! Everyone has a choice. Well she was stupid enough to marry him. SunSeeker told me she was 16 when she met him. The mind control is in full force. He owns her.
My gut, it tells me that woman is abused physically mentally verbally. That picture tells me she has lost hope.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)They could be discussing what to do with a room service tray sitting half way out of the elevator.
Oh, I went on at length a little lower down the thread.
That girl breaks my heart. I KNOW how hard it is to deal with the whole insanity, and the pain of breaking away, if you can. ..someone you are emotionally bonded to, raging one minute, contrite the next, and. ..so many other emotional hooks, lies, dreams and illusions.
Sigh
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)If it wasn't us battered, it was our mom, our friend, our sister...or all of the above. None of our lives have gone untouched by this violence. None of us can say we never knew the fear of being alone with a man who is twice our size and strength, and none of our self control.
Oktober
(1,488 posts)... And also offensive.
Any other groups get to use battered women (real or photoshopped) to advertise their cause?
toby jo
(1,269 posts)The ad cracked me up - it's a smear on the 'get your game face on' with just the model. Truth hits home. I like it.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)Ray Rice pulled his fist back and cold cocked his fiance. She smashed her head against the rail and blacked out. Her compassionate fiance dragged her out of the elevator and dropped her on her face. Did you see the video, I did and it hurt like hell to watch.
So you know what I think is dumb? The NFL and Goodell hushed it up. They enabled a man that battered his fiance and they did it for money. It was not only dumb, it was a blatant attempt to hush up a criminal act. That was assault.
Kudos to...
for putting a face to Violence against women.
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)Last edited Mon Sep 15, 2014, 02:26 AM - Edit history (1)
I am really saddened by how many here on DU downplay what happened to Janay.
Janay was out cold, which means at a minimum she suffered some sort of head injury. People die from these type of punches all the time, mostly from their head hitting an object or the floor when they fall unconscious.
Rice showed absolutely no concern for her--didn't even checked her pulse. He just dragged her out of the elevator like a sack of garbage. He KICKED her legs out of the elevator doors, not wanting to be bothered to bend down to move them.
Oh, and just so I don't get alerted on again (like happened in another thread), by someone who claims Ray Rice didn't kick Janay, here's the video. He kicks her right leg with his left foot at 0.13, the way you would kick a piece of trash out of the way. My husband was the one who actually noticed that and pointed it out to me. He was struck by what disdain Rice showed for his fiancee and little Rayven's mother.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)He carried her out like a piece of meat and dropped her on her face. Yes, he did kick her legs out of the way.
Also in the elevator, when she fell to the floor, looks like he did an oh shit jump. Like oh shit, I just screwed up again. Frick him and his defenders.
I know she is staying and I know she is defending him, yet I fear for her and Rayven. Defending him does not make him innocent nor does it make her less battered. Did you see the pictures I posted of the press conference. They were telling.
Thnk you for your response SunSeeker. Sorry about the alert, I get a lot of them too for telling the truth!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)NO ONE MADE A MOVE TO HELP HER.
Until much later in the vid, where someone who was much smaller than all the others, went to her.
Fucking hell, that person propped her up, and I realized I'd seen that kind of pose before. ....it was a pose I've seen in pictures ......
PICTURES OF MALE SOLDIERS ON THE BATTLEFIELD. But that's different . They're heroes. THEIR SUFFERING MATTERS. Guys identify with it, and so, they can FEEL it.
But women? Women are too much unlike them. They can't relate, so too many don't even expend the energy to TRY.
The battlefield that women have to LIVE IN...without weapons, protective armor, battle training....well, don't shed a tear for them, dude-bros, it's not the same. No medals and 21 gun salutes.
tblue37
(65,403 posts)that several men show up), he is totally unconcerned with covering her up to save her embarrassment. Now, they didn't know the whole world would see her, but *he* knew she would not want to be exposed to a bunch of other men. I bet being uncovered the way she is in the video is an added source of humiliation for her.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Have a wonderful day.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)progressoid
(49,991 posts)Oktober's stay here will be over by October.
joshcryer
(62,276 posts)But it's well needed in the debate. The NBA is much better in this respect. The NFL just doesn't give a shit because it's the most profitable sport in the US.
Flatpicker
(894 posts)on organized pro/semi pro sports a few years ago.
The NFL isn't the only league where bad behavior is considered ok. They all cover up in the name of the almighty dollar.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)Body language, she is turned away from him.
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They don't walk together, why is it that she trails behind him.
I pasted this above. This is the face of a battered woman.
brer cat
(24,575 posts)The last picture especially is the face of a defeated woman. She is lost...I can only pray she can pull out before it is too late.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)She is defeated, she is a battered woman. In that picture his head is held high. He is the alpha male and he is making sure his mate sees it.
I too hope Jayan and her daughter can escape before it is to late. My fear is the timeline is short. He has been kicked off the team. His rage, where do you think it will be directed. Yup, you guessed right. It will be his wife that pays.
Tears
Mr.Bill
(24,300 posts)and they start bailing out, Goodell will be gone. Money talks.
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)They're a great activist group fighting for women's human rights.
SunSeeker
(51,571 posts)WheelWalker
(8,955 posts)thank you
Purveyor
(29,876 posts)It doesn't remind me of a cigarette commercial. Unfricking believable that you would post that crap here. Your post is beneath contempt. You ridicule women and make VAWA a joke. It's not.
This is a fact
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http://www.acmenovelties.net/writing/voted_against_AWA.html
The War on Women in America is Alive and Well
The war on women in America is real. Its insidious. Its commanders are men who are highly regarded due to political positions or celebrities. Women who are used and abused are often minimized. Their credibility is attacked as if the abuse makes them less believable. Crimes against women involving rape, sexual molestation, and domestic violence are minimized, suggesting that they somehow deserve the violence inflicted upon them. The insidious part of this war is that some of the warriors promoting this violence against women, are men like Todd Palin, who is repeatedly hailed as a champion of family values.
They are men like the Secret Service agents in Colombia. They are men like O.J. Simpson and Scott Peterson. They are politicians like Senator Mendez. They are members of the military fighting next to women who are risking their lives to fight the enemy. Male soldiers frequently abuse and rape the very women who are fighting for America. Fox News has now hired Herman Cain as a commentator. Cain is best known for his unfaithfulness to his wife, and the sexual harassment of multiple women. What does it say about our country when the most popular news show in the country, hires a commentator who is best known for his history of sexual harassment.
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7. For Super Bowl 2010 an estimated 10,000 prostitutes were brought into Miami and slept with 25-60 men each day.
8. 207,754 women are raped or sexually assaulted every year. That means that every two minutes a woman in America is being assaulted or raped.
9. Estimates are that between 600,000 to 6 million women are the victims of domestic violence every year.
Read more here, though I know you won't. You think this is a joke!
http://malialitman.wordpress.com/2013/02/28/the-war-on-women-in-america-is-alive-and-well/
Cha
(297,289 posts)get it.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)sheshe2
(83,787 posts)I finally had to go to sleep. I couldn't take it anymore!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)There should be a "tearing your hair out" emotie.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)Not quite there, yet this works..
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)He's babelicious. Swoooon.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)It is life and it can impact every woman in your life. Your wife mom sister aunt cousin daughter niece grandmother coworker sister in law friend. It's not a joke Purveyor. VAWA is a reality. You may not think it exists, yet it does and the joke is on you, you may never know it because it is a silent problem that many of us never talk about. We are silent.
So have your fun and your jokes if that is what makes you happy and fulfills your life. Yet know for a fact that someone you know has been abused.
Oktober
(1,488 posts)Last edited Mon Sep 15, 2014, 09:00 PM - Edit history (1)
It is the literal definition of marketing to gain support for an idea, organization, brand or product.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)The photoshop was about violence against women! Janay to be exact!
You said...
"It is the literal definition of marketing to gain support for an idea, organization, brand of product."
What brand are you thinking is being sold here? Is violence against women okay?
Oktober
(1,488 posts)It's making direct use of social media complete with a message and a desired outcome.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)sheshe2
6. I will tell you what I find offensive.
Ray Rice pulled his fist back and cold cocked his fiance. She smashed her head against the rail and blacked out. Her compassionate fiance dragged her out of the elevator and dropped her on her face. Did you see the video, I did and it hurt like hell to watch.
So you know what I think is dumb? The NFL and Goodell hushed it up. They enabled a man that battered his fiance and they did it for money. It was not only dumb, it was a blatant attempt to hush up a criminal act. That was assault.
Kudos to...
Ultraviolet, a womens advocacy organization, will fly planes with #GoodellMustGo banners over several NFL stadiums on Sunday, according to Bloomberg. Planes are scheduled to fly above stadiums in New York, Cleveland, San Francisco and Indianapolis.
for putting a face to Violence against women.
Don't make this about Cover Girl. Though I admit we women need make up to cover the bruises, at least those that show. It will never cover the trauma we endure. We are hurt and bruised and our souls ache. Make this about the WOMAN!
Oktober
(1,488 posts)You're kind of all over the place...
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)And thanks, you just answered my question.
Oktober
(1,488 posts)Cha
(297,289 posts)not in the NFL.. not anywhere.
http://www.sileigh.co.uk/Pages/International.aspx
Thank you for your OP.
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)For all of us...
Cha
(297,289 posts)longship
(40,416 posts)I am happy to support it.
There is no excuse for spousal abuse. None!
R&K
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)You stand for women and I thank you.
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intaglio
(8,170 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 16, 2014, 12:07 AM - Edit history (1)
sheshe2
(83,787 posts)That is awesome pinboy3niner ! I hate CNN but I love them for this!
napkinz
(17,199 posts)good grief!
Condoleezza Rice for NFL commissioner?
by Alicia Maule
09/13/14
This was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad week for NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell. In light of the scandals plaguing the league, few people at this point would likely call his position a dream job. Just so happens, former secretary of state Condoleezza Rice has long been on the record saying that very thing.
Now, many from Hollywood actor Rob Lowe to Arizona Sen. John McCain are looking at Rice to rescue the main organization behind Americas beloved pastime. It is widely known that the former top official for the George W. Bush administration has a deep affinity for football and that she described serving as NFL commissioner as a dream job.
Thats absolutely right, she told Mike Freeman of The New York TImes in a 2002 interview, though not immediately and not before Paul Tagliabue is ready to step down.
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Condoleezza Rice would be a good person for (Goodell) to call and have a discussion with him. I think she can help him, Arizona Sen. John McCain told TMZ.
http://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/condi-nfl-commissioner
I agree with your comment.