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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsGarth Brooks gives away guitar to fan with cancer during concert
A concert with thousands of fans turned into an intimate moment between Garth Brooks and one woman with cancer.
While singing his song "The Dance" Friday night in Minneapolis, the country star noticed a fan with a very touching sign. It read, "Chemo this morning. Garth tonight. Enjoying 'The Dance'."
Brooks decided he wanted to keep the sign, so--after serenading the fan--he made a trade.
http://abc7.com/health/garth-brooks-gives-away-guitar-to-fan-with-cancer/388303/
I'm not into Garth's music, but I'm into his empathy for his ailing fan.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)I saw it on video. Also not a fan of his music but this was classy squared.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)that Brooks mother and sister both died from cancer.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)If your family hasn't been touched by this hideous disease, you're very lucky.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)My mother died of sepsis at the age of 73 due to liver cancer with complications of Myasthenia Gravis in 1999. I then lost my oldest brother in 2006 from Pancreatic Cancer at the age of 56.
What is myasthenia gravis?
Myasthenia gravis is a chronic autoimmune neuromuscular disease characterized by varying degrees of weakness of the skeletal (voluntary) muscles of the body. The name myasthenia gravis, which is Latin and Greek in origin, literally means "grave muscle weakness." With current therapies, however, most cases of myasthenia gravis are not as "grave" as the name implies. In fact, most individuals with myasthenia gravis have a normal life expectancy.
The hallmark of myasthenia gravis is muscle weakness that increases during periods of activity and improves after periods of rest. Certain muscles such as those that control eye and eyelid movement, facial expression, chewing, talking, and swallowing are often, but not always, involved in the disorder. The muscles that control breathing and neck and limb movements may also be affected.
Myasthenia gravis is caused by a defect in the transmission of nerve impulses to muscles. It occurs when normal communication between the nerve and muscle is interrupted at the neuromuscular junctionthe place where nerve cells connect with the muscles they control. Normally when impulses travel down the nerve, the nerve endings release a neurotransmitter substance called acetylcholine. Acetylcholine travels from the neuromuscular junction and binds to acetylcholine receptors which are activated and generate a muscle contraction.
In myasthenia gravis, antibodies block, alter, or destroy the receptors for acetylcholine at the neuromuscular junction, which prevents the muscle contraction from occurring. These antibodies are produced by the body's own immune system. Myasthenia gravis is an autoimmune disease because the immune systemwhich normally protects the body from foreign organismsmistakenly attacks itself.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)My dad was a victim of pancreatic cancer also and also had MS which complicated a lot of things - he was 75.
I had never heard of Myasthenia Gravis before. Is it something that is diagnosed in the young?
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)case. She became very unsteady and her one eye started to droop in 1992 that's when she was diagnosed with MG. She went into remission and was fine for a few years.
Then she tripped and fell down in our yard in 1998 while hanging out laundry. While at the emergency room waiting for x-rays to be done for her hip they gave her a Flu shot and the Myasthenia Gravis returned with a vengeance.
She was placed in the hospital and then we found out about the cancer. She was never able to leave. She died on 1/26/99 after 56 days in the hospital. My first born Samantha Arija, (Arija was my mother's first name) was born in July of that same year. Strange thing about it is that my daughter's life long friend was born in the same hospital on the day my mother died.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)It took 8 months for my dad to die from pancreatic cancer. Thankfully, he wasn't in really bad shape until the last month or so. We had a last Passover with many of our family flying in (it was early April) and he was gone on May 5th.
This is funny (in a melancholy way). It was dad who was really a political animal and it rubbed off on both me and my sister. Election nights saw dozens of calls flying back and forth. This past election night I picked up the phone and dialed his number (he died 2-1/2 years ago and mom moved over a year ago and changed her number). I got to the last number before it hit me. The only other time that's happened was when the Rangers were in the Stanley Cup finals (yes, he also cursed me by making me a sport's fan). I miss him every single day.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)I hope you, your sister and especially your mother are doing ok, I wish had something better to say but I'm at a lost for words right now. All I can offer is a peck on the cheek and a hug. Hang in there and keep up the good fight, I imagine your Dad is watching over you.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)and a peck on the cheek is always met with a smile. Mom is doing good - she just went on a 3 week trip to Europe (her first European trip without dad) - I know that was hard for her but she met some very nice people on the tour and got to see countries dad had no desire to visit (Poland, Germany, Austria) so moving on is happening slowly but surely. Sister is my twin and we're very close so we hold eachother up well. My best friend lost his dad when he was only 26 (he's 53 now) and I asked him when it finally didn't hurt so much - he said he'd let me know when that happened. I don't think any of us who have good relationships with our parents are ever prepared to lose them. And yes, I'm sure dad is still around looking out for us - especially on election nights and when the Rangers/Giants/Knicks/Mets need our help.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)your mom is getting along well and you have twin to help you cope. I had feeling your Dad was a great man, Rangers, Knicks and my Giants!!!! Sorry but I'm a Yankee fan. But when Donnie baseball retired I started to lose interest. He was my man I felt bad that they went on to win without him.
I lost my father at 21 and my mother at 34. It does not help that my wife bought the home from my siblings. I wanted to move on into the woods upstate but money trumps all. At least we have our children to make new memories here where I grew up.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)Frankly, baseball is my least favorite sport and I will root for the Yankees except for when they play the Mets. I know dad was sitting on my shoulder when our beloved Rangers were playing for the cup. I still remember the phone calls during game 7 in 1994 - do you remember one of the signs at the Garden saying "now I can die in peace". That could have been my dad.
I'm so sorry you lost both your parents so young - that had to have been awful. I think making the new memories with your children is awesome although I know you must get misty eyed remembering your parents raising you in the same house. It's been lovely chatting with you today - even if we were sharing sad stories. Now my company is having a press party to introduce them to some of our new stuff (I work in soft home goods) so I have to take the sneakers off and put some makeup on (yuck) so I have to run. Have a wonderful weekend and I hope to see you around these parts again really soon. Hugs again to my new friend.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)I just got overwhelmed when I read your reply and thought about my own loses.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)he's awesome on stage.
LP2K12
(885 posts)I've enjoyed Garth's music since I was a child. Kudos Garth. Here's to hoping that woman wins her battle.
onenote
(42,714 posts)spanone
(135,844 posts)mr blur
(7,753 posts)the horrendous suckiness of his appalling new "Mom" song?