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Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 08:38 PM Dec 2014

Kind of a distressing thing told to me today...

I ran into a family friend earlier today and she told me that people had better believe the stories about cops targeting African Americans because it happened to her son.
A little background here. This couple, who have been married to each other for over 50 years are both retired and living fairly comfortably in a "nice" neighborhood( predominately white). They worked hard in two high paying UNION shops and managed to have nice savings and pensions, so they sold their old house at a nice profit and moved into this other neighborhood. They drive decent vehicles, nothing fancy, a Chrysler and BG (not his real name) drives a Ford pickup because he has decided that he needs to stay busy and is mowing lawns.
Anyway, their son and Daughter in law came to visit over the Thanksgiving holiday and apparently just left yesterday to go back home, to Kansas City. They pulled out of the driveway, into the street and BOOM! the cops were there almost immediately. I guess the thought of having still more African Americans in the neighborhood, even for a brief visit must have bothered someone because apparently someone called and said there was "loud music" coming from the car. Except there wasn't, according to mother, father, son, next door neighbor, and some guy walking down the sidewalk. I guess the cop actually wanted to search the car and the owner refused and told the cop that he was a lawyer, which he is. The cop supposedly then apologized and told him to be on his way.
The moral of the story is, don't be black and successful or you will be targeted. For that matter, don't be black and poor or you will be targeted.

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Kind of a distressing thing told to me today... (Original Post) Bluzmann57 Dec 2014 OP
Kick for reading when I get back.. thank you, Bluzmann Cha Dec 2014 #1
This kind of story happens all the time. I am not sure why it is so shocking for some to believe. SweetieD Dec 2014 #2
We aren't addressing how many of these police incidents start when some "citizen" calls the police okaawhatever Dec 2014 #3
And this, IMO, is a HUGE problem. AverageJoe90 Dec 2014 #7
perhaps cops could stop marym625 Dec 2014 #14
What is the potential liability though if the police start cstanleytech Dec 2014 #18
Then they need to stop everyone that walks down the street marym625 Dec 2014 #19
It's 1955 in San Diego I'm 15 years old and the cop stops me WHEN CRABS ROAR Dec 2014 #32
I'm sorry that happened marym625 Dec 2014 #34
this is a good point NJCher Dec 2014 #20
They need to do away with reasonable suspicion stops. ncjustice80 Dec 2014 #31
Zero liability. ncjustice80 Dec 2014 #30
Wow that is just messed up. I mean if they know there is a problem cstanleytech Dec 2014 #41
Cops have no liability, so the question is illegitimate cpamomfromtexas Dec 2014 #39
Police routinely ignore calls. Stonepounder Dec 2014 #40
that's what in the fuck is bothering heaven05 Dec 2014 #17
Oh I agree there is alot of that and it goes against the reality which is cstanleytech Dec 2014 #21
So because of the "asshats" that are using guns, heaven05 Dec 2014 #24
Nope I am agreeing in my own (very) awkward way sorry if its rough though as cstanleytech Dec 2014 #27
I am still honing my heaven05 Dec 2014 #36
But doesn't your quoted statistic mean that whites were dispropotionately underrepresented kelly1mm Dec 2014 #28
Even if true, that doesn't justify treating every black person as a potential violent criminal. nomorenomore08 Dec 2014 #48
Sure, I agree with that. But I don't understand what the point of the post was as it kelly1mm Dec 2014 #49
kick Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #4
I am so sorry your friend had to experience that. AverageJoe90 Dec 2014 #5
witnessed same Friday handmade34 Dec 2014 #6
I never thought about that myself, until talking to a black friend's brother one time bhikkhu Dec 2014 #8
truth be told, thats the "initiation" a lot of black folks go through Quayblue Dec 2014 #9
+1 uponit7771 Dec 2014 #45
moral is ellennelle Dec 2014 #10
I took that as the moral of the story also. n/t truedelphi Dec 2014 #42
+1 uponit7771 Dec 2014 #46
And unions helped them become middle class Omaha Steve Dec 2014 #11
How do we get them to stop? marym625 Dec 2014 #12
consciousness raising NJCher Dec 2014 #22
yep. I remember marym625 Dec 2014 #33
reminds me of that young black man who LiberalElite Dec 2014 #13
A camera on every cop safeinOhio Dec 2014 #15
this would go a long way NJCher Dec 2014 #23
The moral is don't be black and alone. n/t jtuck004 Dec 2014 #16
Or, be Black in a group ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2014 #29
Yes - we live in the same town, and I've lost count of all of the "DWB" bullwinkle428 Dec 2014 #25
This doesn't surprise me NJCher Dec 2014 #26
Anyone who doesn't believe the stories by now is just being willfully ignorant... Blue_Tires Dec 2014 #35
Completely agree. Pacifist Patriot Dec 2014 #37
I'd love to hear what was said, neighbor to neighbor? leanforward Dec 2014 #47
Another moral to your story randr Dec 2014 #38
Post removed Post removed Dec 2014 #43
On reporting suspicious behavior blues lover Dec 2014 #44
... nomorenomore08 Dec 2014 #50

okaawhatever

(9,462 posts)
3. We aren't addressing how many of these police incidents start when some "citizen" calls the police
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 09:26 PM
Dec 2014

on a suspicious person of color. The Wal Mart shooting, the kid on the playground and many others started because someone called the police to report a dangerous person, and by dangerous I mean minority. Something to think about.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
7. And this, IMO, is a HUGE problem.
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 09:46 PM
Dec 2014

Now, granted, there are some truly rotten cops who do this shit on their own prerogative. But what to do when a cop is just doing his/her job, but, unbeknownst to them, that the report was filed falsely, especially if it was with malicious intent? That does seem to happen rather a good bit more than many of us actually realize.....

marym625

(17,997 posts)
14. perhaps cops could stop
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 10:26 PM
Dec 2014

Stopping people because of nuisance calls. I am not suggesting that a call about someone "pointing a gun at kids" should be ignored. But things like this and WWB with hands in pocket, either get better information on what is suspicious, or when they get there and see that some dude is just out for a stroll, then be on your merry way.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
18. What is the potential liability though if the police start
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:08 PM
Dec 2014

deciding to ignore a call or investigate? I mean take the guy with the hands in his pocket it seems innocuous enough and you would think no big deal I will just let them go and not even stop them but then what if it turns out the guy had a handgun on him and used it to murder someone 3 houses down after the cop decided not to stop them? I am pretty sure the family of the person who was killed might very well try to sue the police for failing to check it out.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
19. Then they need to stop everyone that walks down the street
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:16 PM
Dec 2014

There's a line. Just walking down the street is not suspicious. There is no reasonable cause to stop.

And people who make these nuisance calls need to be charged with something. I am not saying jail time but minimally a ticket. Calling on someone for WWB is bullshit.

WHEN CRABS ROAR

(3,813 posts)
32. It's 1955 in San Diego I'm 15 years old and the cop stops me
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 12:27 AM
Dec 2014

walking down the street by the beach, he asks me my name, age, where I live, what I'm doing, where i'm going, and have I ever been arrested, he enters all this information on his field interrogation report form, all this takes about 15 minutes.

Flash forward to 1985 in San Diego, my 15 year old son is sitting on our front lawn by the beach and the cop pulls up and yells out his car window, "hey asshole get over here".

Sadly this is a true story.

BTW not that it makes any difference. were white

And the police wonder why they aren't respected.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
34. I'm sorry that happened
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 01:41 AM
Dec 2014

To both you and your son.

There's no doubt many cops treat everyone they see, that does not fit their idea of a respectable person, like shit. But the difference between what people of color and white people put up with is incomparable. Mentally challenged people, I believe, are second in receiving horrible treatment from cops.

The day will come it's all poor people that are abused on the daily.

Cops and those that control cops have to change. We have to change them. I just don't have a clue how.

I hope your son didn't have to put up with much more than that. No excuse

NJCher

(35,688 posts)
20. this is a good point
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:19 PM
Dec 2014

One would like to think that cops could employ some common sense, or even intuition...but then there are situations like what you describe.

I wish I had an answer.


Cher

ncjustice80

(948 posts)
31. They need to do away with reasonable suspicion stops.
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 12:18 AM
Dec 2014

Cops should be forbade from so called "consentual encounters" with the public. Of annofficer sees someone walking down street, they should need proof of a crime to speak with them.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
41. Wow that is just messed up. I mean if they know there is a problem
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 04:15 PM
Dec 2014

and they choose not to do anything they should be held liable as it sounds like they are becoming an accomplice to the act.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
40. Police routinely ignore calls.
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 01:48 PM
Dec 2014

I've had a couple of calls to police ignored. Our house backs onto a densely wooded steep hill. I don't know who actually owns the land, but the hill is so steep that nothing is ever going to be built on it. The first couple of we lived here, the woods behind our house was a favorite gathering place for drug deals. I called the cops and even went to the station to report it. Nobody ever came to talk to me and no cops ever showed up to investigate. Another time, after a long, hot, dry summer, someone was setting fireworks off in the woods. I was concerned about the fire risk and again called the police to report it. Again no one ever came.

So, I suspect there is minimal to no liability when police decide to ignore calls.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
17. that's what in the fuck is bothering
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 10:54 PM
Dec 2014

me. All these people who are terrified by the "demon" black people. It's hateful and calculated to bring harm on those uppity n......!!!! Amerikkka is really beginning to stink to high heaven with hate.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
21. Oh I agree there is alot of that and it goes against the reality which is
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:24 PM
Dec 2014

that there are asshats both white and black who use a gun to commit violence and the numbers are actually pretty even or atleast for 2011 they were

http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/2011/crime-in-the-u.s.-2011/offenses-known-to-law-enforcement/expanded/expanded-homicide-data

"Of the offenders for whom race was known, 52.4 percent were black, 45.2 percent were white, and 2.4 percent were of other races. The race was unknown for 4,077 offenders. (Based on Expanded Homicide Data Table 3.)"

And the real kicker is that most (if not all) of the mass shooters are white!!!!

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
24. So because of the "asshats" that are using guns,
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:45 PM
Dec 2014

and those "asshats", of which 52+ percent were black, necessitates calling the police when one might be walking in a lily white area where everyone knows that uppity n..... doesn't belong. It does not happen in black areas where the cops roll up fast, with guns drawn on white people who may be not a resident of that part of town. Did I get your response straight. And yes I know an overwhelming percentage of mass shooters are white. If I didn't get the thrust/gist/purpose of your response, let me know.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
27. Nope I am agreeing in my own (very) awkward way sorry if its rough though as
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 12:00 AM
Dec 2014

my writing isnt the best as school was a few decades ago and writing was one of my weakest areas back then and D was my usual grade
Oddly enough though in reading I did far better

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
36. I am still honing my
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 09:12 AM
Dec 2014

skills here at 66, I considered being a writer, didn't work out. You have no problems with me. We're on the same page.

kelly1mm

(4,733 posts)
28. But doesn't your quoted statistic mean that whites were dispropotionately underrepresented
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 12:06 AM
Dec 2014

in gun crimes while blacks were disproportionately overrepresented in gun crimes? If blacks are 13% of the US population and commit 52.4% of the gun crimes isn't that a problem? Shouldn't they be around 13%?

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
48. Even if true, that doesn't justify treating every black person as a potential violent criminal.
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 08:11 PM
Dec 2014

But of course, that's exactly how many white Americans tend to behave.

kelly1mm

(4,733 posts)
49. Sure, I agree with that. But I don't understand what the point of the post was as it
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 08:15 PM
Dec 2014

seems in opposition to the point he was trying to make.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
5. I am so sorry your friend had to experience that.
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 09:43 PM
Dec 2014

Yes, even black folks who live in really nice neighborhoods, drive nice cars, etc. aren't totally immune from being wrongly accused of trivial B.S., and bothered by the cops.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
6. witnessed same Friday
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 09:44 PM
Dec 2014

I was out working last Friday (in Charlotte, NC: I have to drive through many different neighborhoods - mapping and determining changing demographics in neighborhoods)... I have become very sensitive to diverse populations and neighborhoods and how people live...

...as I drove up a street in a "white, solid middle income" neighborhood (w/"neighborhood watch" signs), I saw 2 police cars and officers in the middle of the street talking to 2 young AA men... as I approached I noted that none of them looked too happy... it seemed more than obvious that a resident in one of the houses called the police because of "suspicious" black men walking in this nice neighborhood...

seems you can't even walk through a "nice" neighborhood if you are a young black man who doesn't live there...

bhikkhu

(10,718 posts)
8. I never thought about that myself, until talking to a black friend's brother one time
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 09:53 PM
Dec 2014

He had a nice motorcycle and I talked about how I used to have a bike but I never got my motorcycle endorsement and worried about getting pulled over. He said I'd probably be fine, but he was pulled over all the time - for being black on a motorcycle. Our town is mostly white and not many people ride, so he said he stuck out like a sore thumb. Pulled over three times in one week once, for nothing. After awhile he knew all the cops and they left him alone, but every time a new guy came in he'd get pulled over again...its hard to imagine really. He's a really nice guy with a decent job in town, and wasn't really complaining, just saying he basically lives in a different reality from "the rest of us", meaning white people. In spite of being a decent guy, good family, hard-working, polite, church-going, all the things an officially "good" person is supposed to be.

Quayblue

(1,045 posts)
9. truth be told, thats the "initiation" a lot of black folks go through
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 10:16 PM
Dec 2014

when we move into neighborhoods that are predominantly white. Instead of a plate of cookies to welcome us to the neighborhood, we get pulled over a few times until we are deemed safe enough.

We were a military family and moved quite a bit, and it happened every single time we relocated.

NJCher

(35,688 posts)
22. consciousness raising
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:40 PM
Dec 2014

Remember (or maybe you don't, depending on your age), but back in the late 70s and 80s, there were consciousness-raising sessions that showed women how to be assertive. Not aggressive: assertive.

These types of sessions could be done at police departments, if they were willing, but who is going to pay for the facilitators? Who is going to organize this effort and administer it?


Cher

marym625

(17,997 posts)
33. yep. I remember
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 01:21 AM
Dec 2014

That's a good idea but as you said, who will pay for it? You know the powers that be won't.

It is something that has to happen everywhere, with everyone. Children have to stop being taught hate. Children have to stop living in fear.

I am just sad at the moment. Feeling hopeless

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
13. reminds me of that young black man who
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 10:22 PM
Dec 2014

was suspected of not belonging in a house because his adoptive parents were white. I think he was also suspected of robbing the house for that reason.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
29. Or, be Black in a group ...
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 12:13 AM
Dec 2014

unless one of the other people in the group is a white male, preferably, a clean cut white male. (Having a white female, in the company of Black males can be equally hazardous, as being alone.)

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
25. Yes - we live in the same town, and I've lost count of all of the "DWB"
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:49 PM
Dec 2014

stops I've witnessed throughout the eastern part (allegedly more "liberal&quot of Iowa since I moved here in 1987.

NJCher

(35,688 posts)
26. This doesn't surprise me
Mon Dec 1, 2014, 11:50 PM
Dec 2014

My young African-American students (college-level) tell me stories....oh, the stories.

Hispanics, too. Don't think they are immune.

What amazes me is how philosophical they are about it. Maybe I would be that way, too, if it happened to me on a routine basis. When I hear the stories, however, it makes me angry, even at the ripe old age of a baby boomer.



Cher

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
37. Completely agree.
Tue Dec 2, 2014, 09:49 AM
Dec 2014

My 18 year old son's best friend is African American. We let the two of them invite a few more friends over for video games and leftovers at our house on Friday while my husband and I were at a soccer tournament with one of our other kids. The neighbor across the street called to tell me she had been approached by another one of our neighbors who was concerned with "all those black kids" going in and out of my house and wanted to know if they should call the police. Fortunately my awesome neighbor put the nosy racist one in her place.

I shudder to think what would have happened if the cops had been dispatched to my house to find seven teenage boys (17-19 years of age, four of them non-white, all well over 6' tall) without parental supervision.

And this wouldn't be on the cops, it's on a neighbor who got nervous seeing "all those black kids" without considering they had every freakin' right to be there. I have easily as much disgust for the people who call in complaints as I do with cops who escalate situations needlessly.

Anyone who doesn't believe these stories is not just willfully ignorant, they also probably don't have a very diverse range of friends and acquaintances.

leanforward

(1,076 posts)
47. I'd love to hear what was said, neighbor to neighbor?
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 07:46 PM
Dec 2014

As we are finding out, that is as bad as "fire" in a theater.

Response to Bluzmann57 (Original post)

blues lover

(13 posts)
44. On reporting suspicious behavior
Wed Dec 3, 2014, 01:17 PM
Dec 2014

I think it might just be a good thing to start calling the police on white guys wearing suits. Just call and report them for being in the neighborhood looking suspicious and trying to steal houses and pensions....

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