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(46,340 posts)
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 02:14 PM Feb 2015

Any women here work outside the home? You're a blasphemer!

Well, this "good Christian" says so...

Pastor’s Wife, a Homemaker, Says Moms Who Work Are Blasphemers and Sinners

February 6, 2015 by Terry Firma 255 Comments

Hannah Colley Giselbach is a 25-year-old preacher’s wife from Kentucky who is also a stay-at-home mom. Nothing wrong with that. I respect her choice, just as I respect the choice of parents (not just moms) who have a full-time job. (Someone‘s got to ensure the family is kitted out with diapers, baby formula, and healthcare coverage.)

Giselbach, though, doesn’t share my thumbs-up to either option, she writes on her blog. Only stay-at-home moms have picked the correct path. Married women who work? They’re just cursing God’s word.

"If I’m unloving, indiscreet, unchaste, disobedient to my husband… and if I’m not a homemaker, I, by my own actions, may cause the Word to be blasphemed. Directly or indirectly, I partake in this sad and sinful scenario."

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2015/02/06/pastors-wife-a-homemaker-says-moms-who-work-are-blasphemers-and-sinners/

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Any women here work outside the home? You're a blasphemer! (Original Post) Archae Feb 2015 OP
battered women's shelters are full of gals like this one Skittles Feb 2015 #1
Blasphemer hobbit709 Feb 2015 #2
LOL! I love that scene. smirkymonkey Feb 2015 #18
news flash pastor's wife. You are a sinner too! notadmblnd Feb 2015 #3
I had a male coworker tell me this in the 1980's, I was a divorced single mom. No child support. peacebird Feb 2015 #4
hey, twitwit, nobody gives a fig what you think. niyad Feb 2015 #5
She's 25. What does she know? Warpy Feb 2015 #6
Don't hold back, Warpy -- Brigid Feb 2015 #10
so what happens if you are not irisblue Feb 2015 #7
The fundie answers would be LeftyMom Feb 2015 #15
well.. irisblue Feb 2015 #17
2 more.... irisblue Feb 2015 #16
I'm an at-home mom Bettie Feb 2015 #8
Does this only apply to working mothers? Coventina Feb 2015 #9
Same place I do? JustAnotherGen Feb 2015 #13
It won't be hell with you there! Coventina Feb 2015 #14
She's a twit, but she's correct about the New Testament's instructions to women which most folks Bluenorthwest Feb 2015 #11
I'm totally judging her! JustAnotherGen Feb 2015 #12
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
18. LOL! I love that scene.
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 06:13 PM
Feb 2015

Seriously though, this is some really f***ed up stuff. Does it ever occur to these people that people work out of necessity?

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
3. news flash pastor's wife. You are a sinner too!
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 02:29 PM
Feb 2015

WTF is your point? That you were lucky enough to find a man that was willing and able to $upport your self righteous ass? That it was much easier to be sub servient to your prize of man than going out and making your own way? What?

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
4. I had a male coworker tell me this in the 1980's, I was a divorced single mom. No child support.
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 02:38 PM
Feb 2015

I said, so you're saying I should stay home & collect welfare or starve?

Warpy

(111,327 posts)
6. She's 25. What does she know?
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 02:58 PM
Feb 2015

Talk to her in about 20 years. If she isn't alone and struggling to feed and educate the clutch of kids she's been saddled with, she will know plenty of "good" women who are, nice Christian stay at home doormats who were left with nothing but a mob of hungry kids to feed when hubby followed his dick elsewhere else.

It would be great if being a SAHM brought in a paycheck and had retirement benefits. That way, it could be freely chosen as a career path. Unfortunately, too many are left holding the bag with no way to educate themselves into jobs that pay the bills.

irisblue

(33,018 posts)
7. so what happens if you are not
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 03:51 PM
Feb 2015

1- married?
1a-opposite sex married?
1b-unwilling to have children?
1c-unable to have children
1d-your partner becomes unable to financially support a family, for any reason?

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
15. The fundie answers would be
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 05:30 PM
Feb 2015

Sin
Sin
Sin
God's punishing your sins
Maybe the church will help you, if you followed all the rules

irisblue

(33,018 posts)
17. well..
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 05:52 PM
Feb 2015

Thanks for the clarification LeftyMom, I am too unchurched. Wait until I mention the Wicca.....heads will explode.

irisblue

(33,018 posts)
16. 2 more....
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 05:49 PM
Feb 2015

occurred to me.... 1-does a heterosexually married woman have to stay at home when(if?) your kids leave home? 1a-Will this womans' deity provide you with a career in your late 40s to mid 50s with no/ or distant work experience? 1c- If one of your children returns home, say at their age of 25, does/should this woman quit her job to return to stay at home mom status? 2- What if an elderly family member needs care?
so many flaws in this ideal... I did go to read her blog, and she seems so young, entitled and with limited in her awareness of how life can change.
BTW Matthew 7:1-3 apparently does not apply here.

Bettie

(16,120 posts)
8. I'm an at-home mom
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 03:56 PM
Feb 2015

And they (right wing "Christians&quot find other reasons to call me a blasphemer and sinner.

People choose their own paths and what is right for my family isn't right for others. For example: I choose to raise my kids to be decent human beings while she's choosing judgmental douchewad as the example she wants to set.

Coventina

(27,160 posts)
9. Does this only apply to working mothers?
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 03:57 PM
Feb 2015

Because I'm married, but unable to have children.

Where do I fit in her cosmology?

JustAnotherGen

(31,860 posts)
13. Same place I do?
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 04:15 PM
Feb 2015

I bet you and I get to hang out with ohhhhhhhhhh - Edith Piaf, Marilyn Monroe, Billie Holliday and a whole bunch of other cool women in hell!

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
11. She's a twit, but she's correct about the New Testament's instructions to women which most folks
Sat Feb 7, 2015, 04:03 PM
Feb 2015

magically edit out or explain away while the anti gay verses, part and parcel of the same sections of the NT are quoted constantly, stridently, often by women. It's maddening. 'The parts that say women must never speak in public are just dated historical materials that no longer apply, but that part about you is the Word of God Eternal'.
It also says 'slaves obey your masters with a full heart'. People pretend that says 'do a good job at work' but it says slaves and masters and obey.
Christians who do not like those rules should probably consider dropping the attacks on LGBT people, because the Book they quote when doing so favors slavery and says women are subservient to men always, submissive to husbands, subservient to the rest of us. If that's not how you think or live, but you endorse clergy that quotes that Book against others, you are a hypocrite.

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