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phantom power

(25,966 posts)
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 02:29 PM Mar 2015

Racist frat boys demand "privacy" and "time to heal"

In a time-honored tradition handed down from generation to generation of white men who come from affluent families with the means to make “indiscretions go away,” the two young men, both of whom are old enough to enlist in the military and serve their country, have manned up and apologized.

And by “manned up and apologized” I mean they have issued — or had issued for them — artisanal hand-crafted statements lovingly and carefully composed by family attorneys and “crisis managers.”


...

And if the mention of the “diverse, close-knit group of friends” didn’t make you roll your eyes so hard you detached a retina, well, there is this:

We ask that the media and public please respect our family’s privacy as we come together to heal and determine next steps.


Victims of sexual assault need time to “heal.” Soldiers who served multiple tours of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan and suffer from PTSD need time to “heal” — if that is even possible. Families of unarmed African-American teenagers who are gunned down in the street by trigger-happy cops who know there will be no repercussions in a country where black lives don’t matter – they need time to “heal” although that pain will never ever go away.

But the families of privileged young men who think it perfectly fine to lead drunken sing-alongs to songs about lynching “niggers” on a party bus?

They don’t get to plead for time to “heal” while at the same time explaining that their son is actually a swell kid of sound character who deep deep down has a really good heart
… just like we raised him. Hooray for us.

He’s a racist, and racism begins at home.

Heal that, then get back to us…

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2015/03/its-not-a-horrible-mistake-to-sing-a-racist-song-its-horrible-that-youre-a-racist/
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Racist frat boys demand "privacy" and "time to heal" (Original Post) phantom power Mar 2015 OP
in a word, no Romeo.lima333 Mar 2015 #1
I think work would be good for them - TBF Mar 2015 #3
It's not my place to forgive these wretched souls, Jackpine Radical Mar 2015 #5
my guess is all they learned was to be careful in public Romeo.lima333 Mar 2015 #45
Shit, the Repukes will recruit them for elective hifiguy Mar 2015 #12
I sure hope cwydro Mar 2015 #2
I hope they don't get into any college meow2u3 Mar 2015 #41
Guess they need time to prepare for the forthcoming lawsuit against OU. Liberal Lantern Mar 2015 #4
I'd imagine the last thing they'll do is sue. LanternWaste Mar 2015 #8
Wrong. Suit for violating 1st Amendment rights might follow. Hoppy Mar 2015 #38
WTF! HappyMe Mar 2015 #6
That pic of him with the Mercedes cwydro Mar 2015 #19
Yeah. HappyMe Mar 2015 #21
Do we know their identities yet? Tarheel_Dem Mar 2015 #7
Here's a photo of the other Preppy D-Bag involved. . . DinahMoeHum Mar 2015 #10
You know as well as I that he worked really hard for that Mercedes tenderfoot Mar 2015 #14
Bwahahahaa!! Yeah, right. DinahMoeHum Mar 2015 #15
Yuck! I heard a report on NPR yesterday that SAE was a pipeline to Wall St for rich, well connected Tarheel_Dem Mar 2015 #22
Got the transcript here, if anybody's interested. . . DinahMoeHum Mar 2015 #25
It is called institutional racism NoJusticeNoPeace Mar 2015 #28
I used to think "Animal House" DonCoquixote Mar 2015 #24
You privileged racist FUCK NoJusticeNoPeace Mar 2015 #26
He stand there with a silver Mercedes in expensive clothes Brigid Mar 2015 #39
His clothes Jamaal510 Mar 2015 #42
Hell Yeah! flygal Mar 2015 #9
What are they complaining about? They can still breathe. tenderfoot Mar 2015 #11
Sorry douchebags, you brought your karma upon yourselves. hifiguy Mar 2015 #13
Shed not ONE tear for him, he will live a life of privilege, he wont work for it NoJusticeNoPeace Mar 2015 #29
The next move will be.... dawnie51 Mar 2015 #16
Racially motivated murder by hanging, Alkene Mar 2015 #17
You deserve no such thing, bigot frat boys, you know nothing of healing or compassion. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2015 #18
Heal? From what? Embarrassment at having been caught? Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2015 #20
Exactly! AwakeAtLast Mar 2015 #36
The sad thing is DonCoquixote Mar 2015 #23
Screw them. They should have been tarred-and-feathered before being run out of school. Hoyt Mar 2015 #27
poor widdle babies olddots Mar 2015 #30
A time to heal and privacy......my ass. dinger130 Mar 2015 #31
"He’s a racist, and racism begins at home." Dawson Leery Mar 2015 #32
Those plantation owners (and their enablers) are sure a sensitive bunch. n/t jtuck004 Mar 2015 #33
I understand the outrage but marle35 Mar 2015 #34
Defending their kids with the help of highly-paid attorneys and crisis managers. bullwinkle428 Mar 2015 #46
They've had 150 years. Pick up the pace, boys. n/t Orsino Mar 2015 #35
nah, we ain't doing that frylock Mar 2015 #37
f*** them and the Mercedes they rode in on Skittles Mar 2015 #40
Lol their names d_b Mar 2015 #43
They are only upset that they were filmed & outed SoCalDem Mar 2015 #44
If they're looking for sympathy, they can find it between shit and syphilis in the dictionary. hobbit709 Mar 2015 #47

TBF

(32,067 posts)
3. I think work would be good for them -
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 02:45 PM
Mar 2015

rather than playing in Bermuda for the next few months (or wherever it is their families have taken them) they should be doing community service. Maybe they could work in a soup kitchen or deliver meals on wheels. Maybe they could drive a bus rather than riding - perhaps driving low-income seniors to programs at the community center. And I don't think this should be taking place in Highland Park. They need to be removed from their cocoon of privilege and given work in places they wouldn't normally frequent. Maybe they will learn something.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
5. It's not my place to forgive these wretched souls,
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 02:55 PM
Mar 2015

except insofar as I'm a member of the same species, and what they did diminishes all of humanity.

I do, however, sincerely hope that at least some of them might develop an awareness of the enormity of what they did, do some act of public restitution, and sincerely and humbly repent. We know it's possible, and has happened many times.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
12. Shit, the Repukes will recruit them for elective
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 03:20 PM
Mar 2015

office as soon as they're old enough. They won't want for opportunities.

meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
41. I hope they don't get into any college
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 11:43 PM
Mar 2015

Racists should forfeit their right to an education and instead go into training to become a fundie preacher or ISIS. They're better suited for that.

Liberal Lantern

(22 posts)
4. Guess they need time to prepare for the forthcoming lawsuit against OU.
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 02:50 PM
Mar 2015

Imagine, odds are they are going to sue OKLAHOMA U, for expulsion, because they got caught being quite racist.

Actually, one of the students involved "withdrew."

Tarheel_Dem

(31,235 posts)
7. Do we know their identities yet?
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 03:03 PM
Mar 2015


Update: I just got my answer from NPR. The ringleader's name is Parker Rice.

DinahMoeHum

(21,794 posts)
10. Here's a photo of the other Preppy D-Bag involved. . .
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 03:16 PM
Mar 2015

His name is: Levi Pettit





Sheesh: "Parker Rice" "Levi Pettit"
Two Preppy names, if ever I heard them.

Wonder if there is a "III" or "IV" after their names?

tenderfoot

(8,437 posts)
14. You know as well as I that he worked really hard for that Mercedes
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 03:26 PM
Mar 2015

His parents bought for him. Why be jealous of success?

Tarheel_Dem

(31,235 posts)
22. Yuck! I heard a report on NPR yesterday that SAE was a pipeline to Wall St for rich, well connected
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:26 PM
Mar 2015

a**hole white guys. Their level of privelege & sense of entitlement is both baffling & vomit inducing.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
24. I used to think "Animal House"
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:33 PM
Mar 2015

was an exaggeration, but here we are, a real life example of the privledge snots that used to beat up Delta House. Sad thing is, these folks get a leg up in our boardrooms, and become people like W. Bush.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
39. He stand there with a silver Mercedes in expensive clothes
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 05:38 PM
Mar 2015

And he needs " time to heal"? Yeah, my retinas are detaching, all right.

NoJusticeNoPeace

(5,018 posts)
29. Shed not ONE tear for him, he will live a life of privilege, he wont work for it
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:44 PM
Mar 2015

and he will have the last laugh on his yacht

pitchforks please

dawnie51

(959 posts)
16. The next move will be....
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 03:36 PM
Mar 2015

these families trying to pull something out of the pile of shit their sons have created. They will be attempting to formulate a plan so these two can finish their educations, and find excellent employment, and their privileged lives can continue as planned. Again, good luck with that. From the moment the bow tie guy stood up in that bus, and the kid with the phone turned to toward him, it was done. It's a new day, and these folks still have figured it out; everything you do is out there now. You can't hide this kind of crap forever.

Alkene

(752 posts)
17. Racially motivated murder by hanging,
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:08 PM
Mar 2015

and having fun singing songs about it, seems to be orders of magnitude worse than "being a racist": a racist insouciant about conceptions of violent depravity amounting to psychopathy.

I'm not sure that any treatment can be possible once one reaches that level, let alone "heal."

But maybe: http://www.realclearscience.com/blog/2014/07/can_psychopaths_be_cured.html

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
18. You deserve no such thing, bigot frat boys, you know nothing of healing or compassion.
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:09 PM
Mar 2015

You promote hate and that is all you will ever be in your arrogant wrongness. No blinding conversion on the road to Damascus will ever befall any of you because you are bereft of curative transformation.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
23. The sad thing is
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:31 PM
Mar 2015

For many people, this is not a sacharrine attempt to use guile to ameliorate the situation, but what they actually, truly believe. When people speak of the horror that "tradition" is attacked, they forget one of the uses of tradition, to enable cruelty.

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
32. "He’s a racist, and racism begins at home."
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:49 PM
Mar 2015

I know these kind of little bastards(who should have never been born).
These little privileged errors are the ones who justify every shooting of minorities by the police.

marle35

(172 posts)
34. I understand the outrage but
Wed Mar 11, 2015, 04:59 PM
Mar 2015

parents defend their children. It doesn't surprise me that they make statements like that.

They are condemning his actions. Maybe not in strong enough language. But I don't expect them to say their kid can go to Hell.

 

d_b

(7,463 posts)
43. Lol their names
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 03:00 AM
Mar 2015

Could they be anymore...cliche? It's like those assholes stepped off the pages of some shitty 80s screenplay. They also have that Tucker Carlson thing going on that makes me want to take a shit in their mouth.

All kidding aside, those are two punks have never had their asses kicked, and that's precisely what they need -- to be stomped the fuck out.

Let's hope thats their next video.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
44. They are only upset that they were filmed & outed
Thu Mar 12, 2015, 06:47 AM
Mar 2015

During the "age of Obama" it has become "normal" for racist behavior to be "right out there and in your face"..

Political leaders and pretend newsfolks do it every day...so it must have come as a real shock to these young cretins to realize that their schtick is in fact, obnoxious and worthy of public scorn..

These people need to legally adopt new names and go to a low profile school if they want an education..or perhaps Daddy can hook them up with a job.. This will stick to them like..well ..we all know the answer to that one, don't we

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