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Phentex

(16,334 posts)
Wed May 2, 2012, 10:04 PM May 2012

Neighbors who made headlines now make peace...

Covington neighbors who made headlines now make peace

Bruno Kalonji said everyone he knew recommended that he sue his new neighbors after Robert and Branden Canoles held his parents, who they had mistaken for burglars, at gunpoint until sheriff's deputies arrived and arrested the couple.

"We don't want to take anything else away from them," said Kalonji, who initiated a meeting with the Canoleses on Sunday at their attorney's office in Covington.

Kalonji said he found Robert Canoles, 45, and his 18-year-old son -- both of whom were arrested and charged with aggravated assault, false imprisonment and criminal trespass -- sincerely apologetic about what happened to his parents, Angelica and Jean-Joseph Kolonji.

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The two families held a joint news conference Wednesday afternoon in Covington. As Channel 2 Action News’ cameras rolled, the neighbors embraced, and the Canoleses gave the Kalonjis a housewarming gift -- a cake.

more at the ajc:

http://www.ajc.com/news/covington-neighbors-who-made-1430144.html


This is an update to an earlier story posted here http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002603274


What do you think of the situation now?

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Phentex

(16,334 posts)
11. True, but it takes more than the cameras...
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:49 AM
May 2012

the new neighbors could have shut the door on this part of the story but they are choosing not to.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
2. I think it's a good thing for people to be able to learn from their mistakes, and also for people to
Wed May 2, 2012, 10:13 PM
May 2012

be able to forgive a wrong. Hopefully it is sincere and they will become good friends, that would be the best possible outcome for everyone.

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
4. I will be looking forward to a "public interest" update in
Wed May 2, 2012, 10:22 PM
May 2012
[font color="green"]a couple of years. Maybe it will be their "meet cute" story.[/font]

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
6. I don't excuse what the Canoleses did but I am not surprised that they are
Wed May 2, 2012, 10:34 PM
May 2012

so chocked full of fear that they responded in the manner that they did. From our politicians, to our news, to the dozens of cop and military police shows, we are bombarded with the message... be afraid. Be very afraid. Instead of fighting against the propaganda, we subservient to it. As my grandma used to say, "We don't know whether to shit or go blind."

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
13. Fear. It's at the root of so many issues...
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:57 AM
May 2012

I see it in my neighborhood along with the paranoia. Not everyone, of course, but there are plenty of people who are suspicious of anyone they don't know.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
14. Me too. I want to believe this is real...
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:59 AM
May 2012

and I have to think the new neighbors are the ones who bring a little feeling of hopefulness to the situation. Deep down I'd like to think the Canoles really learned something but as it's been said, only time will tell.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
9. I think americans are fucking paranoid.
Wed May 2, 2012, 11:52 PM
May 2012

Once that paranoia is exposed, they're capable of being contrite.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
10. I think it's great. And whatever the truth of the motivations of canoleses, i'd think that
Thu May 3, 2012, 03:31 AM
May 2012

being let off the hook would tend to make them feel kindly toward their new neighbors.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
12. To me this story is really about the new neighbors...
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:54 AM
May 2012

I'm a bit skeptical about the motivations of the paranoid neighbors but it's really amazing to see how the new neighbors seem sincere about wanting to get along with them.

I have neighbors who haven't spoken in 6 years over something stupid that happened during the construction of a house. Nothing nearly as major as having a gun at your head and yet they still snarl. I don't get it.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
15. that's the beauty of the new neighbors having the whip hand -- and refusing to use it.
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:10 AM
May 2012

if their neighbors don't feel kindly toward them after that, they are too dumb to live.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
16. Makes you wonder what the police will end up doing...
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:35 AM
May 2012

I still think the Canoles need to be fined at least.

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